How over is it? We've been together for almost 5 years and essentially the entire time she has been violently against any kind of "diet" or "exercise" to the point of considering anyone who partakes in these things mentally ill verging on being some kind of hate criminal. Now that's obviously cope on her part but here's the thing - the past couple weeks she's started eating better and devotedly exercising every day, I mean it's pointless fat girl shit that will never change anything, but the effort is obvious and the contrast stark. I imagine she will give up in a couple weeks, but what's the anon analysis on this turn of events? Also, I'm king of the architects and would personally never want her to lose weight. I'm being tentatively supportive under the stated assumption she will give up shortly.
>>82926640you could try just enabling her bad habits. keep junk food in the house, balk at doing things involving exercise with her, etc. Usually they revert to form after a few weeks
>>82926640Keep feeding her over maintenance calories so she gains muscle and keeps her fat. Protein shakes and other high-calorie pseudo-healthy things.
>>82926660Yeah this is the plan. Just wondering why the sudden shift, even if she goes back to normal before long. I'm leaving her ass if she gets on the fucking Ozempic though.>>82926670This is not my fetish, but I respect it
You dummy, She's doing it because you stopped chasing her.ALL WOMEN WANT TO BE CHASED (metaphorically - cherished, wanted, desired, etc)Start treating her how you'd treat the woman of your dreams, or expect the relationship to end.
>>82926640Ask her abou it. Maybe she just wants to feel a bit better and weight loss is secondary? I've seen some fat chicks do this with the intent of being able to gain more and still be self-sufficient.
>>82926704If anything I chase her too much. I can't stomach the simping I see myself doing sometimes. I need to be getting more cold and distant.>>82926709I asked her and she gave me extremely vague and unsatisfying "health" type justifications. Should have cared 200lb ago if that was the real reason. Not to mention the years of consistently seething about anyone who cares about their health. Her failure to explain is why I turn to you guys.
>>82926727Could she have gotten talked to? A bad health diagnosis that scared her? She's probably being vague because she's worried you'll judge her or something. Being a bad influence and sabotaging her would only make things worse in that case
>>82926709Well OP, if you want me to tell you "She heckin found Chad at the gym, so she wants to slim down to cheat on you! Heckin run!", there you go.You know her better than I'll ever know she. She might be the biggest bitch or a saint, I will never know. You've been with her for a while now. Can you trust this is all with good intentions, or will you let paranoia win and break up before she gets a chance to cheat?
>>82926640>suddenly gives a shit about her bodyshe met chad and is trying to level up to eventually impress him
>>82926805This is actually possible, along with everything else she is also a doctor hater but she might have gotten a proper scare due to something she just hasn't told me about. Reasonable perspective.>>82926879I don't really trust her in the first place, but infidelity isn't even at issue here honestly. Women can find somebody to fuck them no matter what. Losing weight and taking your health seriously is a years-long prospect so I'm expecting some kind of long game angle.>>82926912If this is true she is retarded to think a couple weeks or months of 'effort' is going to undo 25 years of bombing herself straight to the top of the BMI chart, but she is a woman so I shouldn't rule anything out.
It is over. She already cheated and knows exactly who she'll cheat with in the interim before she gets to look thinner. Leave the hoe, all women are whores and chad only
why do you want to kill her
>>82926640maybe she realized she should know how to cook and exercisewhat exercise is she doing? is she just trying to run or
>>82926640its overmy gf left me as soon as she got skinny. as in, within 3 weeks of hitting her target weight. not even monkeybranching, just vanished
>>82927387Extremely long list of reasons, but the tldr is "she's a woman">>82927407Meme shit, playing along to cardio youtubes or going on walks. like I said in the OP, "pointless fat girl shit">>82927850If this bitch hits anything that looks like a "target weight" she's going to look like a deflated water balloon so I'm excited to see how this goes for her at any rate
>>82926640Based off your post you've already drawn your own conclusions and you just want me to validate them.
>>82927986On some emotional level that is what I want, but I tried not to explicitly give away my perspective in the post and I do actually value the outside perspectives. I'm aware that I'm a psycho woman hating freak and that my view may not necessarily be objective or correct. You guys are reasonable, clear-headed thinkers with a good understanding of human behavior and not also psycho woman hating freaks right?
>>82926640So she's not hot anymore is what you're saying.I am so sorry
>>82928310Relax it's been like 2 weeks of snacking on tomatoes instead of oreos and taking walks, she's still fat as fuck. We're not into panic territory where I have to start actively sabotaging her with mass gainer or whatever yet
>>82926640The last girl I saw trying to get fit lost the weight she had in the relationship then monkeybranched, shes got a plan
It's a lose-lose situation for an architect, really. Objectively being healthier is better long-term, there's no real arguing that she shouldn't be at least trying. If she suddenly sees being fat as a bad thing, you become the bad guy if you're trying to maintain her fatness. But of course, should she lose the weight, she objectively becomes less attractive.
Fat people die earlier, have less quality of life, blah blah. She probably had a scary thought, or is trying to fix / not get PCOS or something.
>>82928008No I'm not psycho that would be silly
>>82926640She's cheating on you and getting fit for chad
