why is it so impossible to find anyone who cares about me>me, ugly slightly retarded incel>girl sits next to me in class, compliments my hair>we have similarish interests in old nintendo shit >she constantly messages me and invites me over>follows me to lunch and sits with me (unasked for)>makes me walk her to her car>mentions having broken up with her bf, how she likes making out in cars, and brings up sucking dickwhy cant foids be normal. i get shamed enough for being a fucking loser but now i have her telling me how pathetic i am since im a khhv. i fucking hate being alive.i want her to leave me alone so bad i keep telling her im busy when she asks me to come over after classes.im tired of being the rebound friend thats just used for attention
>>82928953damn my nigga im that nigga i be eating the ass of cheese on a tuesday my nigga kill yourself my nigga lmao rawr XD
>>82928960im too afraid to kill myself sorry
>>82928953>now i have her telling me how pathetic i am since im a khhv. I'm confused, did she say this herself, or are you inferring it from context? Because from my perspective, she's probably making it clear she's open to and interested in you dicking her down. Especially when she's asking to come over more than once. If you feel it's holding you back, well, there you go. Then if she gives you shit, you can more directly tell her to fuck off.
>>82928994thats me inferring it. i doubt she is sexually interested in me because i am very ugly in my opinion
>>82929000I realize that the perception of physical attractiveness is very personal and subjective. Moreover, I don't wish to just invalidate your feelings. With that in mind, I'll tell you that, as someone with a history of body dysmorphia (I was a gym rat) and low self-esteem, it's often not easy for people like us to see aspects of our own attractiveness. Moreover, there are things we may not care for or accept that others may like and value. Our perception really does shape our reality, huh?I recognize that it's hard to see how others may like you in some way when you don't like yourself, but just how I am validating you in feeling how you do about yourself now, I think you should be open to acknowledging that others (like this girl) may not see you how you do. It's a form of kindness and understanding that everyone deserves, including you.Well, that's how I see it anyway. Ultimately, how you proceed is up to you, but chew on this thought for a while. Maybe you get laid and have a good time, maybe you ger her off your back. Either way, I think it'd turn out well for you.
>>82928953>woman cares about you>EW NOT LIKE THATyou're a stupid little fuck that's self-imposing your own misery, grow up
>>82928953Ask yourself why anyone should care about you. You're just 1 out of 8 billion. You are worthless and so am I and replaceable and forgettable. Never forget that
>>82929085Bucket crab-ass post.
>>82929074i try to see myself how others see me but i always look so horrid and ugly
>>82929083she doesnt fucking care about me its obvious
>>82928953>why is it so impossible to find anyone who cares about me>be ugly retarded incelgee i wonder why anon
>>82929085no one should care about me.
>>82929125No, you just have a terminal victim complex. Are you just mad because you're not wanted by an untouched virgin? Women have previous partners, if you can't deal with that then... suck it up and opt out of dating.
>>82929135its not like i chose to be like this
>>82929139no i just want to be wanted by anyone. she obviously doesnt want me.
>>82929119Not saying you have to force some fake optimistic bullshit about yourself. That's bullshit normalfag advice in my opinion. Just consider openly that, since perception of others is subjective and personal, her personal, subjective view of you may not be how you view yourself. That's not even an esteem thing, that's just acknowledging that you're not the protagonist in everyone else's lives, and that they shape their own reality and perceptions of good and bad.Here's a challenge from an anonymous dude on a Mongolian basket weaving forum: take her up on it and see what happens. That's it, that's all you have to do, and you win the challenge. You just say 'yes' to the opportunity and play it out.
>>82929145you are oblivious. everything she was doing was interest. jesus christ, no wonder you losers can't score. does she have to shove her clit in your face for you to believe she's interested?
>>82929140its over for you, take comfort in thatalso try boning the slut, i think that you've got a real shot. go to her next time she invites you over for something and just grab her tit and see what happens from there
>>82929156i guess I could try but i get so anxious when going to someones house
>>82929159how is she interested?? i though it was obvious shes just talking to me as a rebound
>>82928953>how she likes making out in cars, and brings up sucking dickHolt shit, I'm so lucky that I don't leave my house. If this happened to me, I wouldn't be able to cope anymore and I'd lose all hope.
>>82929170im already enough of a loser i dont need a sexual harrassment charge
>>82929183Ignore him, he's obviously trolling you. Any sane person that hasn't been broken would get envious and disinterested. Believe it or not, men are naturally attracted to virgins. Why do you think we love slim waists?
>>82929187its miserable i hate it. who the fuck just brings that up in a conversation??
>>82929195maybe grab her by the other tit if tit number 1 looks angry then
>>82929199i mean her talking about being fucked and making out weirded me out, like why brag about that ???
>>82929178I recognize that may be how you feel, and it's completely okay and natural to feel that way. Personally, I think you have an opportunity here, and it may be a good one for you; who knows? It's up to you to decide if you will accept and win this challenge I've offered you, anon. All you have to do is say 'yes' to opportunity. Good luck, brother.
>>82929183again, so we're just circling back to women not being allowed to have previous partners. people break up, suck it up and deal with the fact you will have a partner with history. "rebounding" is made up incel horseshit.
>>82929219thank you. ill think about it
>>82929223no its true lol. she just wants attention and chose me because im a loser. i have no spine so i always reply to her to be nice
>>82928953Is this post bait or are people here this autistic? Thank God I was born with high verbal IQ 'tism
>>82928953>how she likes making out in cars, and brings up sucking dickThis is how women flirt anon. Hilarious that you're missing the most obvious signs. Do me a favour and never call yourself an incel ever again. You are a volcel.
>>82929233im autistic and it isnt bait idk what u mean
>>82929235how is it flirting ?? it seems like shes just making fun of me cuz im ugly or somethjing. i dont get it
>>82929241If any anon here in this thread that read your post didn't immediately come to the conclusion that girl wants your body naked they will ngmi
>>82929235The retards on this board are mind numbing. They sabotage themselves at every turn.
>>82929230Then tell us what YOU consider flirting?
>>82929255how does she want my body naked if she hasnt even seen it? i wear baggy clkothes
>>82929275no one would flirt with me cuz im ugly
>>82929265how is it sabotaging if i dont even like her
>>82929304well dude, if you're just going to hand wave away genuine flirting and interest because you insist on being a self-loathing sad sad, then i don't know what to tell you. women won't make it any more obvious than what she did.
>>82929309because she has an ex? you can't be a choosing beggar. people break up and date again, that's life. (unless she's just not hot enough for you, which makes you willingly an incel)
>>82929325i dont understand though. how is her telling me that she loves sucking other dudes tongue and dick flirting with me???
>>82929330no because i genuinely do not care about her. i dont know why usually i fall head over heels for any girl who is nice to me. it's not really beacuse of her past and she isnt ugly
>>82928953>why is it so impossible to find anyone who cares about me>>me, uglyWell there's your answer. The only justice in this world is attractiveness. You are ugly because you are evil inside and deserve it.
>>82928953The next time she hurts you let it all out. Let the tears well up in your eyes so she sees your pain. Shout at her if you need to. Push her down. Ask her as clearly as you can>do you know what I could do to you right now?She'll get the hint never to fuck with you on that level again. The point of letting your emotions out is both to make her pause and show what's she's saying is hurting you. If she really cares about you like these anons posit, she'll apologize and continue to hang out with you under better terms. If not, she's going to do what she inevitably will if you do nothing, which is fuck off and tell people you're an ugly loser incel.
I really don't know what OP wants to hear. What women DO you want approaching you? What is it about this woman that doesn't interest you?
Don't listen to the retards in this thread, anon. Sometimes women just like to "befriend" safe uglies so they can get attention for a bit. Once went to a woman's house not expecting anything but friendship and movies, and she bragged about her Chad ex-boyfriends then ghosted me later on.
