Do moms feel bad about their sons being single adult virgins?
>>82943219told my mom about it, she told me if I feel horny I should fast for 3 dayswhat the fuck, ma?
>>82943219This will be more of a issue to zoomer and millenial mothers, everyone knows all zoomers and millenial foids are turbowhores, imagine the terror of knowing their sons cock isnt being sucked at the same amount they were sucking when young
>>82943237being hungry just makes me more horny
immediately derailed by an autistic faggot>>82943243 (You)
>>82943219yes they do all moms want their sons to bbe happy
>>82943219Why don't you just say "retarded"? That's the real issue. You're not making it to adulthood as a virgin unless you have severe brain damage.
>>82943219I know mine does. She watched me go from a hopeful romantic to a bitter, woman hating man and it makes her depressed cause she wanted me to be happily married with children
>>82943219>Do moms feel bad about their sons being single adult virgins?mine does, she knows i really want love from a girl and wants to try and help me find someone, she tried to hook me up with a girl at work once but i panicked and declined, trying to have her help me more since im so bad at it
>>82943219no, at my last birthday my mom started asking our entire extended family whether they thought i was a virgin and she thought it was the most hilarious thing ,
>>82943392im a hopeless romantic too, could try with me?>>82943402anon that sounds horrible, im sorry that ur mom mocks you sometimes
>>82943243they will hate their offspring for not being Chad
>>82943415>could try with me?Obviously not, I'm volcel now and you're just words on my screen
>>82943415can I try with you fembot
>>82943402that's a level of cruelty I find hard to believe happenedI would have beat her for that offense later that day
>>82943219My mom didn't seem to care about my issues at all when I was a teenager and neglected me so I turned out an incel who doesn't trust anything a woman says. She's trying to be a good mom now but I'm too old and the damage has already been done
>>82943402Your mom doesnt like you, anon, youre not the favorite
mom doesnt carei had a gf when i was a teen so she probably doesnt think im a virgin anyways
Women actively despise having an incel son.I've even known some women that took their owns sons virginities just to stop the embarassment.People will say I'm lying but its true, the world is more fucked up than we like to think.I've heard horrible things in my life that parents do to their children, its gross and sad.Mothers shouldn't care about their son's sex life or penis. They should just love.
>>82943402How old are you anon? Did others find it funny too?
>>82943439everyone else was nice and didnt even believe it so it was more her being silly>>82943456i know>>82943476no one else found it funny
>>82943429>I'm volcel nowi dont think u should be allowed to call urself a hopeless romantic, then nonny, sorry>82943438anon i aint no fembot, i was trying to hit on one who was
>>82943438--->>82943566messed up my reply
>>82943566>i dont think u should be allowed to call urself a hopeless romantic, then nonny, sorryAnon I'm male, and what I said was that I went from hopeful romantic to a bitter loner. The version of me that believed in a relationship no longer exists
>>82943598ah sorry for the misunderstanding anone, my times get better 4 u
>>82943637Thank you friend, you too. I hope you manage to find someone who's a good partner to you
>>82943219> Have dinner with my mother for her birthday> We talk about life and whatever> She bothers me again about "How's your love life?"> Tell her I have none, and that none of the women that I know make me want to become a better person that is worthy of love> She says most modern women are whores (she is a uni teacher) and that she now understands my perspectiveWe used to fight about this stuff, but it feels nice to know that she finally understands that gender relationships are not the same as when she was young.
>>82943219She cares enough to get upset when I say I'm never getting married or having kids but doesn't care enough to ever really talk about it or put any kind of pressure on me
>>82943687Did she actually use those words and call them whores?
>>82943722A more polite version of that: "they jump from relationship to relationship, they don't know what they want and they are always demanding freedom and distance from their partners" (telling me the example of one of her young colleagues, that got in a fight with her boyfriend because he wasn't happ
>>82943474>I've even known some women that took their owns sons virginities just to stop the embarassment. tell us the story
>>82943769Ups! My bad: anyway, her colleague flirted with a guy while drunk at a nightclub with her friends, the boyfriend found out (thanks to one of said friends), and she got mad in return.From her perspective, she doesn't understand why they need a relationship, while at the same time, do anything in their power to make said relationship meaningless (aka: acting like sluts).It's not that she is a misogynist or whatever, but she finally understands that there's very little appeal in modern women, at least for guys like me.
>>82943687>>82943769Old women tend to understand men because their hormones calm down and they become logical. The truth is that your mom was probably just as fickle as those young girls when she was their age
>>82943243Gen X and Boomer foids were gigawhores too, you know. They just became prudes when they got old and their sex drive died down.
>>82943474White women love having incel sons. They like nothing more than having a eunuch to act son husband to boss around all day. As long as one of their offspring reproduces, the rest may as well be castrated.
>>82943219my mom and dad were worried about this and kept having conversations with me about how to bag until i told them i got laid finally, even a robot can game the system if you are programmed correctly, my parents really gave me some crazy game
>>82943219My mom would be devastated, but she passed away a few years back, before I got to an age where it would really start to hit her. I think it was surreal for her to watch me go through the entirety of K-12 education and not bring a single girl home. From what I overheard from her conversations with other people, she became convinced that young women are pretty awful these days. I still have my dad, but he's kinda weird and he thinks that it's a good thing to not commit too early. He doesn't know that I've never had anything happen with any girl. He'd probably view it differently, if he knew.
>>82943219Mine was a crazy man-hating religious nut who taught me that being male was bad and made sure that purity culture was the only form of sex ed I gotI think this was what she wanted
>>82943769>>82943800I see. Where are you from by the way? I don't think there must be many women like your mother in anglo countries...
>>82943219they feel super bad overall if you're not out of their house and are unmarried. going against societal norms is incomprehensible to them.
>>82943219i don't really talk to my parents after i moved out. my older sister is super close with them and is convinced i have secret gf. honestly makes my life seem even more pathetic.
>>82943219I think my mom feels pretty bad about it, even if she never really mentions it. I feel so mad at my mom sometimes and women in general. I fucking hate this
>>82944881how much money do you make to have moved out?
>>82943219She thinks it's a good thing
>>82944920~25k at the time, the miltary pays for 80% of your needs but i hate it and can't wait to be done.
>>82943219I am the oldest of 6 siblings and I'm also the only virgin and the only one to have never had a girlfriend.
>>82944994all male siblings btw
I have pretty bad acne scars. I remember I once brought a girl over, we were just hanging out after high school and my mom started talking to her while I went to get something, and apparently my mom told her that I was shy and had really low self esteem because of my acne scars. How the fuck do these whores think this will help their sons get laid? how stupid are these whores really?
>>82943219Females can't imagine circumstances they aren't currently experiencing. They can have sex whenever they want to with just about whoever they want. If a female is a virgin, it would be because she is a failure on a human level. The idea that men have a completely different experience is inconceivable to them. Virgin=Failure=Disgust. The fact that the female in question is your mother only changes how she expresses her disgust, not whether or not she is disgusted.
>>82943219Mine doesn't seem to care, she doesn't bring up the topic anymore and completely avoids the subject now.She was 5 years younger than I am now when she had me and my father was 4 years younger.Rest of my family and some of my friends still bother me about it. Been thinking about going full incel on them saying that women are whores and all that, just so that they'd stop.
>>82943219I'm pretty sure mine does but she doesn't explicitly say it. I plan to live and die as a virgin though so it's a bit unfortunate.
no but I wouldn't care if she did anyway
>>82945010Absolutely brvtal sabotage. From your own flesh and blood no less.
I'm not a virgin but I had lunch with my mom and her friend, and her friend asked if I wanted kids. I admitted I wanted tons, like ten, and my mom looked totally shocked.Your mom only cares about you being a virgin because she wants you to be happy and have a good life.
I don't talk to any of my extended family, honestly. I see them at Thanksgiving and Christmas, and an annual charity we run for in memory of my cousin. I don't ever discuss myself. I'm sure my mom flinches whenever anyone asks about me.
>>82943474That's wack but it wasn't uncommon for fathers to take their sons to a prostitute.
>get rid of the dad>feed the kids 1000 kc a day of the shitty """"health"""" food you like>mock and berate the sons while putting the daughter on a pedestal>both sons marry asian girls>cry at the second wedding and refuse to leave your room afterwardfuck you bitch mom
>>82943219No, they just call you a faggot and then act shocked when you say do not want children.
>>82945419>>cry at the second wedding and refuse to leave your room afterwardwhy'd she do that?
>>82943243then why are so many zoomer guys still virgins or barely fucking?
>>82945444Things my mom believed:- Systematically emasculating her sons would make them 'respect women' which in turn would make them more attractive. Yes, her own chosen mate my father was a raging misogynist.- Sending us to bed hungry every night was actually good for us because what little food we did eat was 'healthy' and therefore good for you. When we didn't hit puberty until leaving for college that was because we were late bloomers who cared more about study than sports.- When we grew up and got high-paying jobs we'd be mature enough to choose a white feminist cunt just like her who of course would also want us due to said high-paying jobs. Literally pic related was her dream for her own sons.I would never admit it off of this website but I hate my mother more than anything on earth. One of my most treasured memories is my little brother's wedding to the exact same breed of Asian I picked. When our mom was growing up only losers dated Asians. I'm a loser but my brother is absurdly successful. It was pretty funny watching her realize the expat English teacher and superstar doctor both went for the exact same thing, which is the opposite of her. Yeah she spent the weekend crying in her room. Now she comes to visit me in Vietnam every year and goes home also crying when she realizes the damage she did was permanent-- As a baby the only word I knew was her name and I literally sucked her feminist titties to sustain myself. But she was such a fucking cunt that she turned that into patiently waiting for her to go home and eventually die so I can get what's left of the money she stole from my dad.
>>82943219he looks like turkey tom kek
women don't care about anything but themselves and how they feel. Its why all single mothers raise dysfunctional children: they always put THEMSELVES first.
>>82943219Mother cannot comprehend their role in letting their sons become single adult virgins. It's the son's fault, it simply must be all his fault.
my mom thinks I'm a chad volcel
Not only did she not care, she had sex with my school friends and left me suicidal, we don't talk anymore. It wasn't made public though so not the worst situation, though some people became aware due to the fall out.
>>82943442>She's trying to be a good mom now but I'm too old and the damage has already been doneAre you me?
>>82943219No because my mom knows she fucked up me and my sister mentally. So she is fine with it, well, more understanding I guess. I had the, "just so you know I never wanted any children, it was your father." Type of mother.
According to my siblings my parents will say they failed me when I am not around. I'm fine being forever alone since I've been on my own for most of my life but the fact they feel like failures bums me out.
>>82943219Seems like its not her main interest but i can subtly feel it's a bit worrisom for my parents. Almost all of my cousins have bfs/gfs and some are now about to marry, or at least they used to have lovers. Literally only me and my younger brother are the only ones who've never ever had any gfs in our entire family. I guess thats why she's telling me i should go to church with her, maybe she's thinking i could get some more chance by going to church jfl
>>82943219absolutely not, they use it to their advantage in multiple ways. Either with:>"my son is waiting for that special someone!"which, implies they don't want him to date or find a partner and make every attempt to keep him single by any and all meansor>They lie to anyone who asks about their childs social status and milestonesWhich usually includes tons of nagging and ridicule behind closed doors to said single son.
>>82943219I don't know, and don't really care. But I'm sure she realized that she wasn't having grandkids at some point. Imagine having 3 sons and they all become autistic permavirgins
Safe to say 95% of incels are created by really really shit moms.
>>82943219>women>giving a shit about any manlmao
>>82947904My mom just didn't teach me much about the world beyond sex bad if not between married people and jerking off is bad, does that classify as a bad mom? the rest i had to figure it out as i went
>>82947963relax ugly incel, of course they don't give a fuck about you
>>82947981Here's a twist, I don't give a shit what foids like you think either.
>>82943219Do they feel bad? Let me put it this way: they feel bad about it to the extent that it affects their life. Like, if the neighbors catch wind of it and judge her fitness as a mother, she MIGHT feel embarrassed. But actual empathy for a struggling young man that is her own flesh and blood, her legacy? No.
>>82943219No. Women have "halo" effect regarding their kids, similar to "halo" effect surrounding attractive people. They have perception bias of their kids actions, always thinking everything is good. It takes extreme failures for women to start noticing.
>>82947904I think it's more the absence of a good dad. Or at least an older brother, uncle, some male figure to explain to you what life for men actually is like.
>>82948059no one explained me shit, are parents supposed to do that? mine just pointed me to a goal post and let me be if i achieved it and behaved well, i had to raise myself, they just kept me fed and clothed
>>82943219My parents are crazy delusionalThey thought I was hiding girls or a gf. Then I blackpilled them and they still think Im going to get married and have kidsLmaoo at them. Im nearly 30 never had a gf. And I trieddd hard as fuk for 15+ years
>>82943219Why doesn't the guy just stab the man and kidnap the woman?
>>82945518>He doesn't know the 80/20 rule
>>82943219My mom doesn't care although I'm only 18. Then again, I think it's visible that I gave up on life, considering I don't care about my part time job and I'm not even making an attempt on getting my driver's license, although my family often asks me when I'll get that done. I occasionally bring up black-pills to my mom, nothing too chuddy obviously, just basic stuff like the economy and political relations with men and women. And one time, she asked me if I was ever planning to get married, which I stated "we'll see how the future dictates", not in those words, rather in Russian. She just laughed (not mockingly). I don't know what my family thinks, but I'm sure they recognize that I'm going to end up as either a leach, or a homeless deadbeat.
>>82948432The only one in my family that I genuinely feel shame with, is my grandmother on my dad's side. She's a very innocent and meek woman from Ukraine, she still lives there while I live in America. I also occasionally talk to her about the economy and such, although she just nods because she doesn't really understand it, again, because she lives in Ukraine, not America. She does often talk to me about what I'm planning to do in the future, and how I always wanted to be a doctor as a kid, which wasn't true lol, I just said whatever sounded the best when they asked me about my future as a kid, very autistic, I know. I always wanted to be a computer programmer since I was obsessed with computers as a kid, particularly because of video games lol. But recently with the drivers license thing, she is beginning to notice that I'm no longer trying in anything, and she does ask why I'm not trying anymore. Once they were asking me to read the Bible and tell them about what I read in Acts, and I just nod, and whenever they call me back, they ask if I read it, which I respond with no. Although the last time, about two weeks ago, they were doing the whole thing again, about my future, why I'm not getting my driver's license, and everything else. They also notice that my hair is getting longer, that I'm not bothering to take care of myself, that my eyes have gradually sunken deeply (I look like a decomposing corpse at this point lol), and as they were asking me about me reading Acts, I stared at my camera since we were face timing, and I felt disgust at myself. I couldn't keep going so I abruptly ended the call. She's now wondering why I'm not bothering to call her anymore, and she's really a good woman, obviously a product of her time, and it hurts me, but I can't bring myself to do anything anymore.
>>82945656Absolutely based. Hopefully she dies alone and miserable, and you tell her you hate her just before her last breath, that feminism is the biggest joke the world has ever seen.Women deserve no less, as feminist queens.
>>82943219Some do. Others despise them for not making the grade of Chad.Thankfully, my mother was the former, and was very based about my escortceling.She later said she considered getting me a whore for my 16th birthday. If only!
>>82947904No, just moms really. Without a father present to be precise
>>82948436Damn anon, i feel you.Please call her bro, she sounds wonderful. Foe your own sake and hers.
>>82943219They only ever "feel bad" because it makes them look bad. That, and even if they do "care" it's only to serve as a way to further gaslight you and to shelter you from reality. Usually a masculine father would be present to teach his son how to get women, but nowadays all fathers are either spineless beta simps or not even present in their son's life at all.
I started crying a few times at 27yo complaining that I was lonely and cannot find anyone. She hugged me and told me it's ok. I kinda cringe at myself for doing that, but I can only be stoic for so long.
>>82948075Sounds exactly like me. They offered little help too then get mad when I didn't meet their exact expectations of me.
>>82943219as a 21 year old virgin can say they dont give a solitary fuck
>>82945864you forgot to mention that if the son does become successful its also her achievement because of muh sacrifices
>>82943456>>82943509brother CHADSON is mom's favorite
My mom died 10 years ago (from cancer ; I was 20) and I still hate her to this day. So many unresolved issues.The funny thing is, approximately one month after she passed, I met a girl and finally lost my virginity. I was so ashamed with my virginity and this was a huge relief. I'm absolutely convinced my mother was keeping me "hostage" mentally. Good riddance bitch. "Protection" is not an excuse. There's no excuse really. I should have killed myself while she was still battling cancer so I could have hurt her even more.
>>82949960Wouldn't surprise me 1 bit if some mothers are using black magic on their own children.
>>82949960Kek imagine birthing a son and he blames you for not being able to score
>>82949980Some of them definitely manipulate their children for their own interests.
>>82943219She doesn't know but I once slept in a hotel and my dad checks my bank account.He confronted me and asked of i hired a prostitute and said he'd understand and be fine with it.I was like no I wouldn't want to that
I really fear having an incel son I don't know how I could even help him
>>82950601for me if I have two sons as long as one of them is doing ok I dont really have to worry. yeah i'll still pity my incel son but my priority would be getting the better son further. idc if that would make me a bad mother
>>82943402Damn, why does your mom hate you so much?
>>82950658It would make me feel better if one was doing okay but I'd still cry over the one who can't find anyone. I'd probably try arrange a date for him if I knew anyone with daughters his age. I'd love both sons equally I'm sure. They don't have to be equally successful as long as they're both happy
>>82943219No, only in that they may feel guilty about turning their son into a loser. They only feel that way momentarily when they compare you to other people your age and fee embarrassed they can't show you off to the other mothers like that bitch nancy and her doctor son. Interestingly I think I just realized mothers take credit for all of their sons achievements.
My mom complained about not having grandkids and I explained that her being emotionally abusive when I was younger made me avoidant and unable to socialize with people so she only has herself to blame. Now she's upset and doesn't want to talk to me (she still thinks the same abuse tactic of being quiet and passive aggressive until I cave and admit fault will work but I don't care anymore). Get fucked bitch.
>>82950601Don't be neglectful, don't be abusive, don't be a cunt>>82950658>>82950691If your son is an incel who can't get a woman that means you are a trash woman and failed as a mother. Not being able to love your own kid is a biological failure
>>82943871This is literally me holy fuck.
>>82950749>Don't be neglectful, don't be abusive, don't be a cuntThere's a lot more I could do wrong than that, I could be very loving and nurturing and he might still struggle. I've met very sweet boys who struggle with women.
>>82950762Nah, it is as simple as that. If you behave like a feminine and loving mother, then your son is going to grow up with the idea that women are warm and kind, and want to find one like you for himself. If you treat your son with disdain and make them feel like they don't exist, they are going to be distrustful of you and going to perceive every woman to be an uncaring bitch who only cares about herself
>>82950804I hope you're right, anon, I will love all my sons
>>82950762>sweet boysGee I wonder why they struggle with women. They appear sweet to you because their mother abused them into not having a backbone for themselves. Its not sweet, its just cowardice and brainwashing.
>>82950829I think that's a very uncharitable read of sweet people, I think a lot of guys are just sweet because they're more effeminate which shouldn't be a bad thing
>>82950849>more effeminateAKA spineless, cowardly, feminine, weak ect ect. You know its true. Hence they get no pussy. Women aren't attracted to nice guys. They like them in the same way they like pets.
>>82950906Well this is what I fear really because I would love my son no matter how sweet and effeminate he is and it would break my heart if girls don't like him. I couldn't teach a boy to be masculine that would he his fathers job, it's out of my control
>>82950849>>82950940>>82950940Would you actually want to fuck and date one of those effeminate guys?
>>82950956I'm dating an effeminate guy like this but I know I'm in the minority and he didn't have much luck with women before me
>>82950658brvtal chadsonpill
If I ever have a son Ill do whatever it takes to save him from inceldom My genetics arent even bad apart from slightly below average height due to malnutrition Im just retarded and awkward due to my upbringing so he could have potential
It's all so much more complicated than that.
>>82943219I think my mom knows I'm virgin since I have no friends and she's never seen me hang out with a girl since I was like 11 or 12. But it's not something she or my dad has ever asked about. They have also never asked about when I'm going to get a gf or grandchildren or the like. I think they know it's over for me since I'm a 23 year old virgin that's diagnosed with schizophrenia. But my brother has kids so I guess they are ok with giving up on getting grandchildren from me.
>>82943219Caring about what women think about you is severely retarded.It's ever changing arbitrary standards.They fuck literal borderline retards and you are sitting around pondering on what's wrong with you.
My mom literally considers me a top 1% intellect and I can say stuff like "women my age are too immature" and she accepts it without thinking.She doesn't understand why I haven't written a book or run for congress yet literally
>>82945137you should lurk on wizchan
>>82951242Kek this so much
>>82952249I actually already do this. I'm not 30+ though and have never posted.
