Why are a lot of guys scared of girls?
>>82947003People are inherently nervous. That's why alcohol is so popular at parties.
Because women are evil cunts that will ruin your life for no reason. If I could strangle you to death with my bare hands legally, I would.
>>82947003uhh cause GIRLS have COOTIES duh!!fear of rejection
I don't remember why women made me nervous and I don't remember why it stopped.
Because they are scary.
>>82947003>coworker can tell I like her>she hates me and acts like a bitch from then on
>>82947003Dunno, I'm even afraid to talk to women I'm not attracted to
That feel when a girl says "my friend likes you" and they start giggling and you can tell they're making fun of you.
>>82947003I've noticed I'm only really nervous around the girls that I'm super super intoEveryone else, I'm goodAnd I haven't felt nervous around anyone in like 15+ years man....
>>82947003I am not scared of women, just done with trying to interact with them. I don't hate women either just living a life without them.I can do whatever I want or have fun without them.It's the same reason why I gave up alcohol and been sober for over a year now. Sure it makes you feel good at first then you wake up in both pain and feel like you or ask yourself "why did I do that?"
>>82947027>don't hit on my crush because I think she will hate me for it>she actually liked me>start hitting on girls>most of them hate me for it>the ones who don't are slutsLife sucks.
>>82947003because they are evil and seek to destroy peace.
>>82947003i think i'm gonna get betrayed and hurt by them. i'd rather be alone
>>82947003I don't know. I like girls a lot more than guys. I exclusively talk to girls at this point, I don't think guys have anything to actually offer me in a friendship.
women are always evil
>>82947233They only want sex or money, but never love.
>>82947003i've been rejected a few times and it's been honestly so devastating every time that i'd rather not try anymore. idk why it's so bad, i have low self esteem i guess so when i get rejected it just makes me feel like a total failure.
>>82947003Because I have low self esteem
>>82947003I am not scared anymore. I just hate them.
>>82947003I homeschooled so I am just naturally uncomfortable around them. I have a decent amount of friends who are women but being around them schizes me the fuck out
>>82947003a lack of interaction with similarly aged girls for a good portion of your kid/teen yearsit's something i've noticed! you don't tend to be scared of girls if you had plenty of encounters to overcome it
>>82947401Your fetish is men who are scared of girls and lock you up in their basement but are too afraid of you so you just become the monster haunting their house and eventually break loose and turn the tables on them BUT you fall in love with your captor and spend all your time trying to make them fall in love with you
I fear anything in the real world. Nothing good can happen in reality. Anything that seems good on the outside is always hiding something terrible under the surface.
Because they usually look at me like I'm scary/weird/bothering them and I don't wanna cause problems for other people
>>82947445i had to reread this 3 times so finally get what that meantthat is extremely specific!!!!!!!!
Because they'll make me end up in the jail just for existing
>>82947459Sorry it was stream of consciousness instead of a planned out post, those tend to be hard to read. ...you didn't deny it being your fetish
>>82947466it is not!! but you're hitting the nail unintentionally againhohohohoho
>>82947474...do you just want to get locked up by some freaky incel?Wait, give me a hint, are you more subby or dommy?
>>82947499oh umwhy do you ask.,,.
>>82947516Total sub behavior, a dom woulda owned it. You definitely want to be locked up and too lewd for you by an incel.
>>82947536speak to my fucking lawyer you fiendi plead the fifth
>>82947543I think I hit the nail on the head! I think I guessed it! You wanna get bondaged, you wanna get locked up n locked down, you dirty thing you! So lewd, I am SHOCKED.
>>82947573Errhhmmm Ackktuallyyidgaf really i've said before that i think incels are very cuteas for the rest uhmmm i'm innocent until proven guilty
>>82947225Are you fembrained
>>82947791what does that mean?>>82947762Serious question: what do you like about incels?
>>82947850tldr; that they hate women so much yet would crumble at the slightest suggestion of positive female attentionit's very cute!!
>>82947867Grr women so ebil I hate dem bad bad womenI guess I can see how it's cute but they weird me out. They are really easy though, I'm surprised fembots don't mess with them more often. Aren't you worried an incel would hurt you though? A lot of them seem legit unbalanced.
>>82947878they are weird, don't get me wrong. i just think the pathetic obsession with women while denying that they're at the forefront of their minds at all times is sweet!! in a strange way idk>Aren't you worried an incel would hurt you though?i don't want to fuck anybody!! all of this is purely hypothetical :p
>>82947878I'm afraid of the girl cashier at the ice cream shop near my home, i'm not gonna hurt anybody..
>>82947003Cuz if you like a girl then you don't want to fumble the chance to get a gf. You don't even want to know what she actually thinks of you (fear of rejection) It fucking hurts, like really bad when you realize a girl doesn't think highly of you. Imagine a girl telling her friends "ewwww ew ew ew I cant believe anon likes me thats so gross" female rejection is fucking BRUTAL
>>82947014no they're fucking not, retard. i hate you incels on here so much with your awful takes. it's just you fucking retards that are inherently nervous because you've put forth zero effort into your own fucking mind
>>82947900shut the fuck up, zoomer. just shut. the. fuck. up. you only approach anyway if you get signals, how fucking dense are you
>>82947898Not talking about you then, some of the incels here seem to really want to hurt people tho. Girls won't hurt you though man, they're very nice most of the time. Nothing to be afraid of.>>82947897Oh man, you want to be the one locking them up huh? But ok, I get it. I see what you're seeing. >i don't want toIf you say so......
>>82947003Because they're evil and they hate us
>>82947900if a woman acts like that after you ask her out then you dodged a major bullet!!!i don't make fun of the dudes who ask me out (lest they be creepy/old dudes)
>>82947931only you ugly turds
>>82947970No, they hate all men. They just have sex with the ones who make their pussies tingle, but they don't love those guys.
>>82947003they're not afraid of them but they avoid them because not only are women unbelievably boring and insufferable but in this day and age they're actually a liability and can get an entire crowd of simps to attack you by lying about being touched unsolicited if they don't like the look of your face
Because society works incorrectly. Men and women need be with one another much more skillfully than they normally are now. And that requires everyone to become better educated about how to even do that. But society's response has been to just punish mistakes and let men figure it out as they go. The legal system has raised the stakes of making mistakes with women. She can take half your resources on a whim and if you disagree, the government will garnish your wages and if you don't comply, armed men with a thirst for violence trained in combat will aprehend you.It's like having to solve an equation but you don't get to see the whole equation and you are left to just guess or stay single. If you guess wrong, you lose big.
>>82947970and here comes the resident pussy whisperer larper faggot of the thread to claim he's actually above the rest of /r9k/ and totally gets laid all the time, bro. no one cares. you're here speaking into the void, no one believes you, you sound like you're trying to convince yourself not us.
>>82947930>Girls won't hurt you though manthey already have anon, people have tried to kill me before and it wasn't as scary or painful as what women can do
>>82948037That's so different from my experience. Not saying you're wrong but it's just crazy to me. Girls have always been so nice.
>>82947003Some were butchered by women
>>82947915>i'm old and still on /r9k/not the own you think it is, dipshit
>>82948046I don't think they mean to do it most of the time, but the few times i considered killing myself was girl related
>>82947003I hit on over 1000+ girls in person. Got rejected over 1000+ times also by women I didnt even hit on they think cause I looked at them I want to date them0 matches or likes on all major dating apps.yeah Im just gonna beat off till I rope
>>82948066Are you just really sensitive to what they're saying?
>>82948087I don't really care what they or anyone says, i care about what they do, in my experience they'll just use you for stuff while playing along with the illusion of a relationship then leave you high and dry wondering what the fuck went wrong, found out a girl i was seeing, buying gifts and whatever was sleeping with a classmate while lying to me, started helping a girl move closer to me so we could have a family and she ghosted me on the last few steps, planned a trip to the eu so i could see another girl then she ghosted me, they're just fickle and lie a lot
>>82948103Oh, I don't know. Shit happens, I just drop them and move on. Doesn't really matter to me. Lots of fickle liars in both genders, I don't really expect much good from humans. I thought you were just trying to have fun not tie yourself down to a person, whatever I was saying doesn't apply at all. I have no idea about any of that.
>>82948129Fair enough, i was just sold a very different idea of women growing up through media i consumed i guess, i still try but i'm getting tired, maybe something is wrong with me and that's why no one stays? no idea
>>82947907Well then why is alcohol so popular?
>>82947003Because women are at war with men and men are still too conditioned to respect and honor them.
>>82948142I think you're probably attracting, or are attracted to, the wrong kind of girl. I don't know you or the people you've dated but I think the problem is just who you're picking. Kind of like how girls that get abused will seek out abusers because they have this weird desire to get abused again. You have to break the cycle somehow. Maybe try dating without being serious about it? Just have fun for a bit to recalibrate and then go back to serious dating.
>>82948201I've tried girls my age, working 29 year olds, mentally ill girls, weird girls, apparently serious girls, no idea, maybe it's bad luck maybe it isn't
>>82947003Because when girls are cruel to me I don't ever forget it.
>>82947003i am not i love them but i am scared to get hurt and i dont know where i can find someone ok with me being a loser
>>82947003It's actually smart to be wary of women you just don't show it. You kind of treat them the same way you would a dangerous wild animal
>>82947003they get mad and try to prosecute me when i rape them :(
Lemme give you my comprehensive list.>women are far too emotional>women are far too expressive>women are far too demanding>women care about socializing>women care about life events>women seem incapable of being sexually satisfied>i cum in like 3 minutes or less>i dont really enjoy 95% of sex and only like to cum>i like isolative hobbies>i prefer extremely minimalistic living>i refuse to change for a woman>i refuse to feel special or make her feel specialI could go on and on, but tl:dr I am just not made for this world. Everything feels vain and I am disinterested in playing along. The only things that seem remotely nice to me would be like working charity, but most people aren't deserving of charity and are entirely self serving. Women seem especially so self serving and egocentric. Most people in general seem also incredibly dull and if you say anything that makes them FEEL BAD then whatever you said IS BAD and then they turn what you say against you. The average person who tries to tell me life is great with all these things are just prettying up hedonism. They feel something therefore they are.
>>82947003I am not, but I am wary around other men. That's what growing up listening to your dad beat the shit out of your mother will do. Both dead now. All alone.
Actual answer: there is a potential future outcome between the man and the woman (them being sexually involved) which the man finds desirable but which he understands hasn't had its ambiguity resolved into certainty yet. By which I mean, each interaction with a new woman who the man finds attractive could potentially lead to sex if the conditions are right, the man says the right things, the woman is receptive in the right ways at the right times etc. Of course there are many cases where the ambiguity is resolved instantly by pre-determined factors e.g the woman is already in relationship, the woman doesn't find him attractive etc. But prior to actually engaging with the woman, these things cannot be known (in most cases).For all the talk of "just talk to her like one of the guys dude", the man knows in his mind that he wants to have sex with this woman. He wants his future timeline to be him saying the correct things, in the correct order, to make her laugh, make her warm to him, make her find him attractive, and ultimately lead to him offering herself to him for sex. And these things play upon his mind prior to and during the interaction with each new woman, taking the form of anxiety, fear and nerves as he strives to avoid the unfavourable outcome (her not being receptive) and steer toward the favourable one (having sex with the woman).Note that in cases where the man doesn't find the woman sexually attractive (old, fat, ugly etc) he will not feel nerves because no preferred outcome hangs in the balance i.e her opinion of him doesn't matter.
>>82947003 I talk to them but they never talk to me again
>>82949551Oh ya forgot to add, my interest declines HARSHLY as I get older. If there was ever a chance, it was when I was younger and hornier. By younger, I mean like... 13-16? NOW? I could care less about winning some arbitrary sex war that most of these people are failing because they keep breeding niggercattle. These men who prioritize sex and relationships are breeding slave minded animal children that are illiterate and stupid.
>>82947003Because they usually don't like me and it makes me feel bad
>>82947003>Talk to woman>lose your job, friends, social standing>Dont talk to woman>do risk any of that.HMmm geee I wonder
>>82947003I AM NOT FUCKING SCARED OF WOMEN THEY SIMPLY REJECT ME OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN SO I GET NERVOUS ABOUT BEING REJECTED IF I SEE A GIRL I WOULD LIKE A LOT NOTHING ELSE. WOMEN ARE NOT SCARY BEING REJECTED AND MAKING A CLOWN OUT OF YOURSELF IS.
