>>82959453
You're supposed to offer him free sex

>>82959453
im just never gonna date because if my bf thought about another woman sexually id kill myself

thats the only solution. not dating

You're not the most beautiful woman on this planet. There will always be a competition, even when you secure a moid.

>>82959453
If your bf has the urge, the time, and the energy to masturbate you're a bad gf.
To be clear, I'm not saying give him a chorelist, I'm saying you need to fuck him more.

>>82959453
Then state during the dating process that you don't want a boyfriend who masturbates to other women. If the guy is on board with that, great, if not, find somebody else. It's that simple.

Just make porn for him, or tell him you'll sex him whenever he's horny if he doesn't look at porn.

>>82959453
Women really lack actual empathy or basic care for anyone other than themselves.

I can genuinely see your thought process. "Why am I not the center of the world?" But the same time, you do absolutely nothing to warrant a position at the center.

Porn women are nothing more than a tool, you are someone he presumably loves, but you do not meet all of his sexual requirements. Just do better, instead of complaining

>>82959459
>>82959494
>>82960492
These. Keep my balls empty and I will never look at porn or think of other women

>>82959453
youre supposed to cheat on him
how do you not know this, this is basic woman behavior 101

>>82959453
But not having ridiculous fantasies and unrealistic expectations about someone magically becoming attracted ONLY to you and no one else like they could flip a switch. The fact that your partner still entertains occasional thoughts of other people should actually make his actions weigh even more if he remains loyal and doesn't act on it by actually chasing other women. Stop making perfect the enemy of good.

>>82959453
EVERY man will masturbate to other women no matter what you do. Masturbation is a daily urge and men crave novelty, so they will seek porn of girls that specifically don't look like you and there's nothing you can do about it. You should only concern yourself about this if the only thing keeping you together is sex, but any deeper relationships should have nothing to worry about.

>>82959549
You'll just get a liar if you do that.

women will post stuff like this but put in 0 effort into pleasing him. not even saying you have to fuck him at his beck and call, literally just randomly send him nudes without him asking for it. its not hard, you are walking eye candy. imagine being this retarded. its like being a walking friend chicken and saying "my boyfriend keeps eating other food?

>>82960567
>You'll just get a liar if you do that.
Not necessarily. And if you catch him doing that, then you have a stronger case for being upset, demanding change in his behavior, or breaking things off, since then it's not only you being upset about the activity itself, but also being upset over being lied to and violating a relationship agreement. It's definitely much harder to argue you're being unreasonable, when it's something the guy knew and agreed to.

>>82960604
But why would you want to pick up that fight? Just let him know that he can jerk to porn sometimes and you won't force him to break your trust unnecessarily. If you want to have trust in a relationship you have to be reasonable about it.

>>82960644
I'm not here to police people's values, rather to meet them where they're at.

>>82959453
you fucked chad, you probably still do behind his back

you could try not getting fat too, feminists screech at this of course, but, it's bad for your health and, if you love a man, you want to be attractive for him, don't you? you don't because you are a horrible person