>>82959671
Women, and people in general, like and respect assertive people who know what they want and do what they want. Nobody wants to "belong" to somebody they don't respect.
You come off as a sore edgy loser.

>>82959671
When you meet enough narcissists women's patterns start to make a lot more sense. And it's not because the majority of women are necessarily narcissists or behave like them, it's because their attraction/desires mirror the dynamics narcissists create.
>guy treats them like shit
They start to wonder what's wrong with themselves, and seek validation to disprove those feelings of inadequacy, "why doesn't HE like ME!" (assuming of course the 'he' is attractive)
>guy treats them with respect and kindness
They have no reason or impulse to reciprocate. They also see it as a weakness to be exploited (learned behavior)

>>82959671
It's well known now that they get soaked for abuse Chad 'caveman' types.
Despite generations of feminist brainwashing, strength, low-inhib, and excessive masculinity STILL always get them.

>>82959671
Women just care about power
Bullying = power
Height = power
Money = Power
Looks = Power
Confidence = Power
Serial Killer = Power
Rockstar = Power

>>82959755
That's the problem with it, innit. Women think they're drawn to "assertive people", when what they're really drawn to is someone who has power or control over them and their self-perception. You do realize you can be an assertive person and not treat people like garbage, right?

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>>82959671
That image gave me a good laugh. Just from this thread I can tell you don't see women as people and were a suffocating retard as a partner. Your "kindness" sits on top of resentment, neediness, and control, which bled through into your relationship and gave her the ICK
Pic related is eternally (You) until you touch grass, get therapy, and stop blaming women for your own lack of emotional skill

>>82959864
>Women think they're drawn to "assertive people", when what they're really drawn to is someone who has power or control over them and their self-perception. You do realize you can be an assertive person and not treat people like garbage, right?
Women can't discern between either usually. If some guy acts like a bigshot but is constantly wrong, the girl will still be there.

>>82959755
>>82959869
Normie retards. Just leave, every other platform has been conformed for you

>>82959869
You're basically just reinforcing the point. Kindness is "suffocating". You're projecting "control" as well. If anyone needs therapy it's you, palooka

>>82959671
Because being aggressive, violent and belittling/showcasing dominance over other people is incredibly attractive to them.
So if you want to be successful you would have to, on top of being attractive and rich, have to bully people, get into fights and find some weak guy to beat up/throw around.

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>>82959906
He says right before staying miserable forever

>>82959967
Nah, I'm saying fake kindness that hides resentment is suffocating. Reading comprehension might help you more than therapy would help me

>>82959978
I am the OP of the post and in my experience this has been true. About the second girl I didn't really act very aggressive or assertive but there would be sudden bursts of anger and uncontrollable wrath

And this one time we were sitting down together at the park and then this beggar guy comes along and asks for some change and I tell him I don't got change on me. He keeps insisting, I get up and tell him to fuck off to his face

Then my girl was like and I kid you not "That was weirdly attractive"

There were other instances like this

This one time this guy in the street was giving out cards and he kind of shoved it in my face and I took it and threw it away and she was again telling me how hot that was. What the fuck man?

>>82959671
Why do bullies like to bully themselves?
Because many people like to debase, humiliate and torture other people. Women going for bullies do it by proxy (women are weak so they often opt to do things by proxy men).

>>82960003
>And this one time we were sitting down together at the park and then this beggar guy comes along and asks for some change and I tell him I don't got change on me. He keeps insisting, I get up and tell him to fuck off to his face
>Then my girl was like and I kid you not "That was weirdly attractive"
>There were other instances like this
>This one time this guy in the street was giving out cards and he kind of shoved it in my face and I took it and threw it away and she was again telling me how hot that was. What the fuck man?
yeah its just a waste of time interacting with women its just an animal display they respond to, like anything else in the animal kingdom.

>>82959671
Being nice and a good person is boring. Bitches need drama and uncertainty in their life to make it not boring and interesting, no matter how bad they will get treated.
If you don't want to get women, just be nice to them.

>>82960038
Yeah and guess what? She was the total feminist and low-key man hater too. I can't even make this shit up. Her dad though, as most people blame it on daddy issues, was probably one of the nicest and caring fathers I have ever seen. Like the kindest fucking guy you can imagine, some middle aged wholesome guy and her mom was also very caring even if kind of anxiously attached to her. She even had a brother too. It's not like they didn't love her anything. So what the fuck is wrong with her and why does she only like me when i act like this.

She used to tell me she doesn't like PDA but I would insist on slapping her butt even out in public or public transport and she would respond positively to it, kind of in a red cheeked smile that girls make when they're horny

>>82960054
>t's not like they didn't love her anything. So what the fuck is wrong with her and why does she only like me when i act like this.
>She used to tell me she doesn't like PDA but I would insist on slapping her butt even out in public or public transport and she would respond positively to it, kind of in a red cheeked smile that girls make when they're horny
Its just female lizard brain responding to power. That's all that matters. Like if you flapped your arms chased off the male peacock, then the other female peacocks flock to you because power.

>>82960075
One thing about me they seem to like is how sexual I am? Like 1 week in we were already having conversations regarding my fantasies of having sex with her. And she was entertaining the idea even though as I mentioned we never did vaginal intercourse. She was a virgin by the way (as far as I know) kind of has been sheltered by her parents but not in a suffocating way.

She slowly began losing interest in me as I became more and more emotionally invested in her and more affectionate with her. It almost felt like the more I was opening up to her the more and more she started resenting me and closing herself off to me. I think looking at that it was only inevitable what was going to happen. There's no doubt in my head that if I treated her remotely like the other girl I would've probably fucked her multiple times by now and she would be the one begging but instead I fell for the feminist lie and got cheated on, amazing, guess I'll just have to take notes for the next ones, I've been doing well so far, with these casual encounters. Treating them as disposable and somehow they like the freaky side so I guess I'll just comply to this type of living now

>>82960123
>Treating them as disposable and somehow they like the freaky side
Women seem to like confidence, not knowing what the guy is thinking, pressuring her to try new things, it's exciting to her. Just think of it as the younger version of 50 shades of Grey. As soon as shes bored? Shes gone, or cheating. Have to dangle keys in front of baby.

>>82960165
I tried seeing them as human beings capable of depth and emotion but every single time reality slapped me right back in the face and woke me up. Every single one of them is the same, they are literally braindead

>>82960213
>I tried seeing them as human beings capable of depth and emotion but every single time reality slapped me right back in the face and woke me up. Every single one of them is the same, they are literally braindead
It's why I don't get involved with them anymore. It's like I'm a pedophile really. Like think of the stereotypical Dad driving his daughter home from school while she recounts her day to him. It's essentially the same thing. You are virtually fucking a child.

>>82959833
yes this. its just about power and smv. thats it
bullies have more power and higher on the totem pole and have more smv
they win you lose
its all just power

>>82960251
That's so true..I can't stand that fucking childish voice they do when they want to get you to think that they are cute. SPOILER ALERT it is not fucking cute at all, at least not to me, it is incredibly cringe

There's a cute girl at my cafe who's studying to be a teacher. She told me a nice experience the other day and I thought she was pretty lovely.

>>82960296
>A nice experience

Care to elaborate?

>>82959988
Yes because bullies are the kind people JFL

>>82960281
>That's so true..I can't stand that fucking childish voice they do when they want to get you to think that they are cute. SPOILER ALERT it is not fucking cute at all, at least not to me, it is incredibly cringe
Well I think the feminists had it right when they said all men are pedophiles, because women don't change mentally since they were 12.

>>82959791
I've been practicing this on this young girl at my job that obviously flirts with me from time to time

When I'm nice to her, she gets cold and unresponsive, when I'm a dick towards her, I can literally see the tingles

It's honestly pathetic, she ruined her life with stupid ass decisions and literally won't listen to anyone but it's fun proving my point that all women are the same and can be easily manipulated

>>82960310
I asked her what she was studying just to kill time waiting for my coffee, and she said that she's studying to be a teacher...they don't have exams apparently. Anyway, she wasn't too sure if she did go to the right profession, but then when she was reading a book about pets and animals, they started being blase and saying their dog died and other brutual realities.She was internally freaking out but she was able to lead them towards a healthy dialogue and discuss how to feel and handle grief. I said that moments like that are impactful, especially towards kids as well because they need a framework to emulate from..since i'm a sperg myself and struggled until I had something to learn from.anyway, her sense of compassion made her rather attractive to me.

>>82960333
No wonder why pisslam thinks it was okay for muhammad to be a pedophile

>>82960342
Brutal dogpill, it's over

>>82960335
Why is that so many guys are going through this universal experience yet women are the first ones to so blatantly deny it? They would literally kill you for saying this out loud on some normie forum

>>82960365
>Why is that so many guys are going through this universal experience yet women are the first ones to so blatantly deny it? They would literally kill you for saying this out loud on some normie forum
You are blasted as a young boy that women are exactly the same as men, and yet when you do or say the same stuff you do to the other guys they just crumble. I think it's why guys have so much trouble with women these days. Guys are talking to a girl who is a child raised by what the phone told her. It doesn't matter if it makes logical sense, it's just what the phone told her. Married women are better to get along with since they get their opinions from their husbands, but still it just makes them look like empty headed children that need to be told stuff, whether it's true or not, they just memorize it.

>>82960424
I literally had my ex girlfriend send me some Instagram reel on how guys that have a distant relationship with their moms make bad boyfriends, she unironically sent that shit to me and I was obviously like wtf? That's why I regret ever opening up about anything

>>82960424
Every woman I've been with has had zero personality and hobbies, and just absorb mine while doing it terribly.

My current "gf" (I broke up with her but she refuses to accept it so I'm entertaining it for awhile because it's nice having a woman beg to stay with you) was so interesting so nice and great at first, now that we've been together. All of her personality is just gone.

I really thought I had finally found my goldilocks but whatever, I conquered my urge to fuck, so now I just totally ignore women

>>82960457
>I literally had my ex girlfriend send me some Instagram reel on how guys that have a distant relationship with their moms make bad boyfriends, she unironically sent that shit to me and I was obviously like wtf? That's why I regret ever opening up about anything
It was her avoiding accountability. Think of the kid with cookie crumbs all over his face saying he didn't eat the cookies from the cookie jar. Women HATE HATE HATE accountability. She is not responsible for anything shes done, it was you. Blaming oneself would require reflection, and that turns women into suicidal mode.

>>82960495
>Every woman I've been with has had zero personality and hobbies, and just absorb mine while doing it terribly.
It's crazy when you look up your ex and in her playlist is the songs you used to play all the time. When she had literally no interest in that before.... im like wtf

>>82960051
I love how women always deny this lmao.

Bitch, if being a good person would get you pussy, everyone would be a good person lol. Instead we have laws to oblige people to be good.

>>82959755
Women aren't people. Good of you to differentiate between the two.

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>>82959869
>Just from this thread I can tell you don't see women as people
They really aren't. They're parasitic leeches that only get attached when they have something to gain.

Cause woman have a savior complex, same reason guys like crazy girls, yanderes or foids.
They'll like you and only you and that makes them feel special
Someone who is rude feels more vulnerable and genuine
Life is mundane and its nice to be someones hero or be needed
Nice guys are already healthy and fixed

>>82959671
there might be a reverse survivorship bias here towards women that aren't happily married because of course then they will be out of your dating pool
that being said this is still evidence that there's a lot of work to be done in overcoming the many toxic patriarchal norms embedded in our culture

>>82959671
>The moment I stopped doing that one girl was sexually interested in me and not because I cared about her, I genuinely saw her as a disposable being and looked down on her. I even degraded her and insulted her father while she was having sex with me and I slapped her and left bite marks on her neck. But somehow after I ghosted her she tried really hard to get back with me.
>I hate this world, I hate that I had to do that and I hate that this is the kind of world we live in
This is why I'm choosing to be gay; I don't have time to cause endless drama for the sole purpose of entertaining some stupid whore. I have hobbies and interests to attend to.

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>>82959671
I'm becoming psychopathic and women like me as a result. I think it's because being emotionless is seen as masculine, just my working theory

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>>82960123
I can usually dismiss these threads as just nonsense and it being a case of the individual in question only interacting with normgroids, but this thread in particular is making too much sense. I've lived all those things you've described. It's true. Opening up is the worst thing you could do.
And these things that get women going are nothing a man like me could ever succeed at. I don't get why it all ended up like this. It's not just something to blame the jews on, and, it's not like I suck at anything that even matters. It makes no sense.

>>82963062
>This is why I'm choosing to be gay
what happened to the "we're born this way"