Child support just took 40% of my pension.Whatever you do, do not under any circumstances have children, don't fall for the family meme and end up like me
>>82970141Thank god I don't have children. I don't feel sorry for you oofy doofy you faggots believe women's lies and get easily fooled.
Why don't you just get back together
>>82970179No, i dont expect anything positive from people. People take pleasure in other people suffering>>82970197Not possible.
>>82970141What happened that split you up? If you're okay with telling the story for us
>>82970362why are women like this so often
>>82970353How did she convince the courts to let her keep your kid away from you? Did you do something? Did she frame you in a bad light?
>>82970286She cheated and said i would never see the kid again. Went to family court twice, they said i cant have any contact with the kid outside sending a letter once a month, one way.I didn't do anything wrong, never hurt the child or his mom. Been 9 years since i saw him. And now 40% of my pension has gone so im basically dead soon. No good.And not one person on earth gives a fuck, so I'll probably just end it soon. Dont have kids, dont end up like me. Dont ever have kids, under any circumstances
>>82970381>How did she convince the courts to let her keep your kid away from you?by being female>Did she frame you in a bad light?Does she have to? No fault divorce and all that. She can say what she wants and get it no questions asked.
>>82970381The courts said if i was involved in my sons life it would "disrupt the dynamic of the new relationship".He was self harming at age 11 and tried to attack his siblings with a hammer. I suspect he is being abused or at least neglected. Ive raised this as a serious concern several times, they said because i have no parental responsibility that my concerns were invalid.It doesnt help that my family are on her side.
>>82970423>It doesnt help that my family are on her side.ok ok you had to do something for your own family to side with her insteadnah man they wouldn't just backstab you like that
>>82970435My mom said "your dad never paid me child maintenance" She sides with her because "being a single mother is tough" despite the fact she is in a new relationship. My sister is also a hardcore feminist.I havent done any harm to that child or his mom. My family are not kind people, they say things like "well thats the law".
>>82970475Anonymously send child protective services to her place every other week or months. Your kid was probably being abused and the blame was put on you.
>>82970507I'll look into it, i have no idea where he lives or a contact number.The whole situation is horrible
>>82970393Yeah, my dad is going through the same thing. Great father, awesome dad, does everything for me and my little bro, never told us anything bad or forced drugs and liquor on us, just a great dude overall. But the stupid bitch still put him on child support. For no reason I may add. My brother is living with his moms and I haven't seen him in over a year because she doesn't allow us to come by. Modern women are evil, that's just it. They don't want families, they don't want a stable relationship, none of that shit. They want to keep jumping on Chad's cock.
>>82970423>she cheated>judge gave her ownership of the kids>your own family sides with her and the judgeyou are obviously leaving out critical info. you abused her and/or the kids, very clearly, or otherwise did something extremely bad. the cheating is completely irrelevant. you absolutely deserve to never see the child again and hopefully the child won't have to deal with you in the future
>>82970475maybe you never physically abused them but you definitely did something bad, else the judge wouldn't have given full custody with absolutely no contact from you, and your family wouldn't all be siding with her. you're leaving out critical details
>>82970898OP's ex probably caught them jerking off to hentai or some shit
>>82970141That's your own fault for having children at a shitty country. I have 22 kids and pay nothing.8 kids are in thailand, 11 are in philipines and 3 are in colombia.
>>82970810Its shit, the entire system is against us.Your dad sounds like a good man, he's going through hell, just recognise that and be there for him, even just a phone call saying hi can help him get through it.What people dont understand is that child support isnt just another outgoing, it isn't like, I'm paying tax, pension, student loan, and child support is additional to that.Its that they take so much. 40% of gross income is no joke, im in so much debt. I havent been able to see my son, but you can still be there for your dad, let him know you appreciate him, it will help a lot>>82970898>>82970888Just fuck off bro
>>82970141>pensionOk boomer
>I need muh zogbot neetbuxGet a fucking job
>>82970393that's absolutely hilarious. imagine even saying that anonymously. turn in your man card if you got fucking cheated on, retard. you're either small cocked or ugly or both, which is it? spill the beans, tard
r9k poster, its absoutely related to CP
>>82971025Don't listen to the nokidz inceltards, the system is absolutely fucked but you fucked up by being a bluepilltard and not moving away as soon as she started cheating because this is literally what every woman does everytime, they have no morals and the system doesn't give a shit. I don't pay any child support and was never married and my cheating ex can seethe about it all day while I do hookers and blow in cali
