if she came back I would be the happiest anon in this board again
>>82999210I know this feel, but I don't know your curse, anon. Mine left years ago, probably for a better life.
>>82999223mine left 7 months ago, I know she will never come back and doesn't even think about me but part of me (a very stupid part of me) still believes she will come back
Iol nope
iktf too anonsEvery day I miss her. I can't even imagine giving myself to anyone else.
if he came back, id be the happiest girl in the world again... i miss him so much. too much to bear
>>82999286how long ago did you lose him?
>>82999311its been almost 2 months, 1 full month completely no contact. but it was minimal for the month before that... i hope he comes back. i miss him
>>82999325nta but what happened? sounds like theres a story here
>>82999210>If she came backPic related.
>>82999333nice trips.ive posted it so many times before. he told me sometimes he felt asocial and can go a while without talking. i said id wait for him and could handle it. it finally happened. but even tho i said i would wait and could handle it, i cant. and im scared ive been ghosted forever. normal internet stuff ig. but i love him, so im sad
>>82999210I don't miss her anymore, she ruined me for any other girlI just miss her voice, calling me handsomeI miss the way she looked at me, the way she held my bicep in the theater, like she would fly away if she let goI miss the excitment and nervous energy being soothed by every moment just coming naturally
>>82999370thank you, they are nice trips. almost 2 months no contact sounds like bad news, i hate to say it. you should love me instead, ill be here for you every day! disc negativetangelo
>>82999486i said i could wait so ill continue to wait, even if it hurts.anon... im not gonna love you or add you on discord
>>82999509i feel like after 2 months... i mean, who can go 2 months without someone they love? thats all ill say.you dont know that you couldnt love me, you dont even know me. youre meant to get to know me first, then you can decide that.
>>82999570i can wait a long time. my love is very strong. and hes the first person ive ever talked to that i actually enjoyed talking to, that i actually felt giddy about, that ive loved and lusted over. idk its hard for me to trust people but especially men, but he was so good. so perfect. so intelligent. i refuse to let it go
>>82999370Asocial behavior shouldn't be tolerated anonetteIts okay to sometimes be introverted and need to recharge, but a genuine desire to be away from any social interaction is not a sign of a healthy mental scape. Also, stop e-dating, meet them online sure, but quickly move forward and figure out if its worth pursuing. Can't get married and start a family over Discord.God bless
>>82999616love is always a two way relatinoship. i wish you the best but i still implore you to at least become an acquaintance, i cant help but feel someone that goes no contact for 2 months isnt all that great. explore your options
>>82999625>>82999630Anonette,Do not relentNever entertain fags like this, regardless of their stated intentions, they only seek to exploit your sexuality for their perverse satisfaction, something you were not designed for. Remember, it is not something for you to wantonly give away, it belongs to your future husband, you neccessarily steal it from him when you give into creatons like this.God bless
I want to forget her, and I want her to forget about me. That's really stupid. It sounds like she cares, but no, I just want her to forget about the fucking loser she dated. I don't want her to compare me to her new boyfriends or to bring me up to her current boyfriend and talk about how shitty her high school boyfriend was. All because I broke up with her too, since I was too stubborn to admit that I actually cared, that I actually loved her. I was too stupid to focus on anyone else but myself. If there were a way to make my relationship with her never have existed, that would be great, but no, that's not possible. I just have to live with this stupid fucking retarded decision I made until I kill myself one day
>>82999683feel like youre talking about yourself more than anything in this post. i just want someone for cute good morning + good night messages desu
>>82999625but i do the same stuff, and im very asocial myself, its not something i particularly mind, but i worry.>Also, stop e-dating, meet them online sure, but quickly move forward and figure out if its worth pursuingi wasnt dating him. if he wanted to be with me, wanted to be together, id have him over here within about 3 months. or id be at his>>82999630love can be unrequited, love can be a crush. not always 2 ways.>i cant help but feel someone that goes no contact for 2 months isnt all that greathe hasnt been no contacr for 2 months, he was minimal contact for 1 and has been no contact for one.its hard to keep explaining things over and over again to every anon when i bring him up, even tho i love talking about him.>explore your optionsi spent my entire young years looking for someone who understood me or was similar to me in any way. probably talked to a hundred people. i didnt really feel love for any of them. i tried e-dating twice and it was miserable. this guy... he was a diamond to me. something i spent so long trying to find. ive never been so happy talking to someone. itll probably take me another 7-8 years to find someone like that again
>>82999728unrequited love is not love, a crush is not love. those are precursors to love if anything.i felt the same way after ending things with people i loved. you begin to realise there are people out there, theyll never be the same person, but therell be new things you love about new people, youll learn things about yourself. youll learn to love new things because you love this person... i feel like this is nonsensical enough but i hope you understand what i mean.
>>82999728>>love can be unrequitedThat is obsession, lust or even innocent curiosity but not loveLove is mutual, kind and patientGod bless
>>82999752>unrequited love is not love, a crush is not love. those are precursors to love if anythingi can somewhat agree on that. too tired to explain further.i feel like you didnt read or understand much of what i said. i have talked to so many people over the years and not one have i truly enjoyed talking to. once you talk to so many people, you realise that so many are the exact same as other people youve talked to before, or are amalgamations of others. idk. i struggle with talking to people a lot. i dont really enjoy it. i dont really like people, after talking to so many. but i loved him, and it took me so long to find someone like him. someone i could talk to so easily, someone i didnt feel like shit talking to. someone i really love. for the first time.im really tired so maybe im not conveying myself correctly, but i hope you understand>>82999814a crush isn't an obsession - how do you think relationships start? people fall in love with someone, ask them out, get rejected or accepted
>>82999705God did not lovingly design >>82999728 to satisfy your want for >>cute good morning + good night messagesNor did He design you to solicit them from random e-girlsMore is meant for you brotato, don't degrade yourself to this, and especially don't try to drag others into itGod bless
>>82999210mine won't, it's been 6 months, i told her i really liked when we got drunk, we cuddled, i was laying on her lap and when it was time to go home i asked what she thinks about what i feel she told me she isn't ready for a relationship, it was really awkward to talk again after that and we don't text each other anymore, after some time i asked her friend what was she talking about me to her and it turned out she was talking to another guy at the time ;_;
>>82999848i read and understood what you said. you spent a long time looking for someone, you finally found someone you thought was your perfect match. ive experienced the same thing, ive spoken to hundreds of women, had... 3 relationships, and 1 of them i was too inexperienced to realise she didnt love me. after the second i never thought id find love again, or anyone i understood the way i understood her, or her understanding me. someone that would accept my not so attractive traits, i could go on but you get it. i did find that third one and things went badly. there'll be more people that you understand and love to that degree, but it is just a matter of finding them.>>82999874god designed me as i am to do what i do. thats why he designed me as i am.
>>82999848Relationships start with mutual attraction and curiosityThis is not love, beyond the love for humanity as a whole, to which we are calledThe certain kind of love you're talking about is not the same as a crush or an unrequited loveI understand what you are saying and still believe you are mistaken in your terminologyGod bless
>>82999923No, you do as you do because you are guided by desires not of God, but of flesh and sin. We all are, this is human natureHis design is unknowable, one cannot intuit it, nor understand it, because it involves all things and was set in place when time beganWe can only try to align ourselves with how He has told, and showed us to live
>>82999929Sorry anon but this is dumb. You can definitely be in love unrequitedly. Even by your logic you can, what if for example there is a spark, or there is a relationship where one person falls out of love and leaves?
>>82999923>but it is just a matter of finding themyes anon, thats part of the point im trying to make. i have tried. ive tried so many years. and out of that many years, my entire teenage years and now im 20, i only find this one guy. if i wanted to find someone else like that, itd take years. if another person like that exists.ill wait for him. as long as it takes>>82999929anon.he was attracted to me and expressed interest in dating. he had me as his phone wallpaper. there was something there.my love cannot be chalked down to something as mere and stupid such as obsession because you dont know the full picture. i genuinely love this person. i will always be patient for and have hope in him
>>82999970Unrequited love is a term developed to make those in its midst feel as noble and tragic figures, not the obsessive kind they are. It is not love, because love is a feeling between people which cannot be summed in its entirety in a single wordA spark is mutual curiosity and a willinginess to engage it, not loveFalling out love and leaving is just that, there is only one eternal love, the one from who all loves flows and shines upon usIts important to temper such a discussion that I'm a retard trying his best. This is a very big discussion and being maximally truth seeking is difficult when discussing such a topic
>>82999210Ok cuck Assuming you're talking about some e whore. She's sucking chads cock right now while you yearn over her. Are you not ashamed?
>>82999998so close to digits.id say only 100 people for your entire young years is pretty low. when i was actively looking id probably interact with about... id say at least 100 a month. but maybe its different as a man. mind you the vast, vast majority of those interactions lead nowhere. so i get the struggle. the struggle is really hitting me. i can get waiting. but i cant get over the whole being without someone you love for that long. maybe there really is something with your bf being antisocial or whatever. regardless i still think its time to begin looking into things at least.how long are you truly willing to wait? you say you will always be patient. i feel like at a certain point you want more than hope of love and begin to want love again.
>>82999998That is love, I did not mean to diagnose your relationship and am sorry you saw it as such. I only meant to dispute unrequited love for a crush. When it is for someone you deeply know, that is love. Not mutually romantic, but certainly love in one of its many forms. I hope you find each other again, or you grow into someone newGod bless
>>82999998Still in the thread? Don't let jannies archive yet pls, I like this thread
oh wow my thread is still up!
>>83001422Bump to keep it so
