cant untangle the knots no matter which string i tug or pull at..
Are these actual knots of metaphorical knots? You can use a Swiss army knife for the first one.
https://youtu.be/MisLXxaagnM?si=BlZyo6RHNNFJF1U3>You're pulling my threads apart>I'm pulling on one real hard>unravel my whole left arm
>>83167958the methaphorical knots deep in your chest that make your whole body feel heavy and anxiety riddle through you in unspoken words
>>83168037What's causing the knots? Or is this a vagueposting thread?
>>83168066holding in all the things i want to say, to everybody. wanting to be heard. complex thoughts and feelings.. and i can't find words for any of them.i bury all of it because i hope i can just continue to have warm things on cold days...
>>83168260maybe you can't do it alone and you need your person to be a helper
>>83168312i definitely can't, but it's unfair to lean on others. people already do more for me than i'm entitled to, more than i deserve.
I feel like I burned too many bridges and I don't have anybody anymore. I don't enjoy the company of other people, yet I yearn for it. Does that make sense?
>>83168454I think I feel the same thing desu
>>83167467Don't pull at strings, find loops and push them out of other loops. A knot looks like a structure of strings, but it's actually a structure of loops.
>>83168454yeah, i think that makes sense. i feel similarly. i don't enjoy the company of others; i yearn for the company of a specific few. i've burned a lot of bridges along the way so i'm trying to be really careful with the ones i have left. do you know what might make you happy right now?>>83168467a hug for you too, nonny. i think most of us outcasts end up here, at this nexus, feeling the same way despite all the different ways we got here.
>>83168474it's really hard to undo your own knots.. especially when you slip and the knot tightens as a result. what makes it easy though.. is you reach over to your belayer.. and you use the carabiner for their grigri.. and you go pop! you have your partner bite into your knot and then it unfurls really naturally.. easily. others make things so much nicer.. and make a lot of things possible.i think we are all just missing that someone to help us with it, in the end.
>>83168478>do you know what might make you happy right now?I think making some new friends would make me feel better, but at this point i don't know anymore.
>>83167467it's difficult to untie knots you make yourself. sometimes we tie them up so hard that they remain stuck in that way until the rope itself starts to break. but before that happens, you should rely on others to help you untie your knots. and in return, you'll help them untie theirs.
>>83169217how do I find a person to untangle my countless knots?
>>83170426sometimes you meet very nice people. but most people seem to either not want to be bothered, or they have ulterior motives.i'd like to talk to people like you and i have done so before. but i have my own issues that make it very difficult. so just know that you are seen anon
>>83167467untangle deez nuts
>>83170917>so just know that you are seen anonI don't feel seen
>>83170426I don't know, anon. it's mostly a matter of luck and perseverance, really. join communities you like, seek out other people, dont give up if something doesn't work, and keep trying. i cant guarantee that you'll ever find that someone, but i hope you do. and i hope i do too.
>>83171303good luck to the both of us
