how do i get my motivation backit all came tumbling down in july
>>83168424What I do is always move forward one step at a time, are you at zero? then take baby steps, but take one NOW then you already started and tomorrow just take an extra step, that's how I stay motivated, just a dumb little thing and I can gaslight myself that I already did something
>>83168424Have you tried going to church?drinking coffee?getting back into an old hobby?
80mg adderall
>>83168606>are you at 0im at 0.15i've applied to hundreds of jobs and only had 3 in-person interviews, all unsuccessfuli tried to pass the theory test for my driving license- failurei tried to exercise regularly, couldn't even commit to lifting a few crummy dumbbellsi tried to quit smoking, sunk back into the habit>>83169261>Have you tried going to Churchno i was raised muslim and i still live with my muslim family, idk what they'd do if they found out i'd done something like that. i'm agnostic/spiritual only anyway >drinking coffeecoffee makes my tummy hurt and tastes bad>getting back into an old hobbytried to, felt like i was wasting my time>>83169288idk if i could afford that
>>83169624It sounds like you are giving up a lotI wonder if military service might make sense in your case. With the caveat being if you drop out of the military you can still take advantage of the discipline you might have gained and the physical fitness you gained.Like it seems your internal motivation isn't enough, and you need external motivation. It is easy to give up after applying for hundreds of jobs and not getting what you wanted
>>83169677i actually did think about joining the military, more specifically the air force but they require a fitness test, and that goes back to me lacking the motivation to exercise
>>83170215So don't do it as a self motivated thing.Hire a personal trainer who helps people pass the physical fitness test to enlist in the militaryThat does a couple things.1. Social pressure to work out.2. Sunken costs. You are going to try and get your moneys worth. So you won't miss appointments. And you will try to turn that increased fitness into something. A job in the airforce. Working towards a short term goal. You could get fit enough within 1 year
>>83170438>hire a personal traineri only make 400$ a month from welfare and i live with my parents i couldnt possibly afford that
>>83171393With all due respect, is there something like YMCA in your area? Is there an ability to access one of these athletic services at a discounted rate because you are on welfare?In my area YMCA costs $19 if you're a youth or on welfare, $50 for an adult, $80 for a household.In the US there are only classifieds like craiglist. You could post on a classifieds site that you are looking to work out with a veteran, you would like to get ready for military service and they would like to maintain their physique after finishing their military services.I know what I am describing sounds like work with the chance of failure and an opportunity to give up. I would still like to say it
>>83168424I suggest getting a job in the adult film industry
