I work as an administrative assistant at an office where most of the employees are male, so I am friendly to all of them in order to not be alone. Maybe some of them think this is flirtation.A guy just said he would like to get dinner with me sometime and I said "Why not" because I don't want to be mean but I would only do it if it is a friendly thing, not a date. I should have clarified that. The other guy is also always doing gentleman things for me like bringing me coffee, holding the door, carrying my stuff and it is making me feel overwhelmed.I really do like them as coworkers and we see each other every day, I don't want our relationship in the office to get awkward by rejecting them but I also don't want to date them. What should I do so no one's upset? I don't want any drama.
>>83170185what's that game anonina?
>>83170185>What should I do so no one's upsetYou can't this is the nature of the sexes just tell them you have a chad bf and that they are subhumans who make your pussy dry out.
>>83170185Of course they think it's flirting, and you like like them. Dem niggaz gon' be pissed that you just being a tease.
>>83170211this. but be very explicit about their flaws, tell them they're short or ugly and bald. and explain how repulsed you are by it. "Eww negative canthal tilt, we cant date"
>>83170203The picture? It's a wojak...>>83170211That is not good for the working environment, we have to see each other every day
>>83170185Nice AI post, really gonna get r9k riled up
>>83170185Advice from a woman, on the offchance that you're not larping:Be a bitch to them. Stop smiling to them, stop joking around with them. Be curt in your responses. If they overstay their welcome at your desk, say you're busy.I once reported a guy to HR and he never spoke to me again. I don't even know what they said to him.That other guy isn't a gentleman, they're both pigs.
>>83170185Try and fake having a boyfriend. Casually tell some anecdote about him. Most guys will stop once they know you're already claimed. Now if one of them is really really obsessed this may make him think you're a challenge (I would know considering girls have cheated on their bf for me) and will require a sterner response. Oh and the dinner thing is a horrible idea you need to invite at least a 3rd body or lie your way out. No man goes on a "friends" dinner date with a woman alone.
>>83170185>because I don't want to be mean but I would only do it if it is a friendly thing, not a date. I should have clarified that.Yeah, you shoyld have. Now he thinks that he has a chance with you. So, there's two things you can do, foid. 1. Cancel at the last minute, make up some bullshit excuse to why you can't go.2. Take the dinner with him, let him have a good time then tell him after via text that this was purely platonic. It'll sting because he paid for your dinner, but he'll have no choice but to comply. Being that you're a woman, he can't crash out about this at work because he knows you can just report him to HR for sexual harassment. Make your choice.
>>83170185Well done, rejecting your nature to virtue signal by being nice will make bluepilled subhumans pounce at you like vultures, hope this troubles you more.
>>83170248Literally no one was riled up and it was not my intention whatsoever. Are you retarded?>>83170253I am too scared to ever be a bitch to anyone but especially not at work.>>83170257Yeah, these are good ideas in my opinion.>>83170272Maybe 1.>>83170276Virtue signalling? More like being a normal person.
>>83170185> I didn't want to be mean so I just let him have his way with my pussy and I didn't even protest when he bit my inner pussy lips and Drew blood.My God you're a fucking idiot. Girls like you deserve to be raped, hung, and Ashes scattered to the wind
>>83170185>I would only do it if it is a friendly thing, not a dateLmao
>>83170314Why are you comparing having dinner to getting raped? I have eaten so many meals with coworkers. It's normal. Were you not aware of this because you are jobless?
>>83170309>I am too scared to ever be a bitch to anyone but especially not at work.Is it bitchy for a man to tell another man "hey I'm kinda busy rn"? No? Or if they say no to a man asking them out to dinner lmao. Then why is it bitchy when you do it?I'd suggest against spending one-on-one time with male coworkers at all costs. I won't even entertain water cooler chats with men if there's no women around to act as buffer.
>>83170367Yeah, I guess the most harmless way is to keep it super professional and distant.
>>83170309>More like being a normal person.Normal people have boundaries, if they they thought they could flirt and hit on you, is because you allowed it by acting and responding in ways that implied they could, like who the fuck accepts a dinner for two without thinking anything about it, just to be nice? You deadass think who invited will think the same without you asking about and making it clear its not like that? What gullible naive socially virgin mindset is that?
>>83170419men are rapists. if she seemed like she's not into them, it would make them want her more.
>>83170419Just because someone is nice to you doesn't mean they are flirting. What gullible naive socially virgin mindset is that?
>>83170389That's not harmless, that's the only professional thing to do in this situation if you don't want to date them. This is basic adult behavior to be capable of saying no, you obviously recognize their intentions.
>>83170428Nah shes, just a goodie two shoes nice backboneless Redditor, my coworkers are arch bitches and know their stuff, shes even afraid of using the Hr to fuck them up in their ass, the most basic foid perk which is totally biased towards foids. In unisex work environments foids have all the power.
>>83170419Her ass is dead?
>>83170454Common bluepilled Men dont think like that retard, if you didnt have a gullible naive socially virgin mindset, you would know.
>>83170530I don't want to fire them, I just don't want things to be awkward retard.
>>83170537Im gonna crashout nigga, how dare you not know the zoomer sacred dialect.
>>83170560So just shut up and endure the harassment like a good girl retard.
>>83170560>I don't want to fire themYou do realize you're the only one seriously at risk of getting fired here, right? How do you think they'll handle being rejected after you led them on for so long that you even went to dinner with them? They'll retaliate by sabotaging you at work.The sooner you greyrock, the better things will be for you. You're worried about the wrong person's employment here.
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>>83170572Fuck off.>>83170576Why would I get fired? You are being too dramatic
>>83170607That anon is right, you really are naive and gullible. You've been warned, anything else that happens from this point onwards will be entirely self-inflicted. But hey, at least you didn't "make things awkward"!
Just start talking about your "boyfriend", and they get the hint easily. I had to do that at one time at another job. I got so tired of it I even wore a fake engagement ring.
>>83170662Seriously considering this route
>>83170185Try to hook them up with each other.
>>83170185No, anonette, dinnerguy thinks it's a date. Look, you've not made it awkward, you didn't initiate.People have to live and work with people who have turned them down. I've tried to sleep with most of my coworkers. I've hit on many managers. That's life. They don't care, I don't care. Shoot them down a bs move on
>>83170185>What should I do so no one's upset?Just be honest. "Hey, I appreciate you as a coworker and a friend, but I'm not interested in dating."Wham, bam, done.
>>83170662I worked with a lassie that did this. She told me she wore it so that creeps wouldn't hit on her. I guess she never got creep vibes from me. I fully intended to hit on her, she was beautiful and intelligent and I hoped to get to know her more.
>>83170185Date me you fucking bot nigger
