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experience was horrible?
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>>83174518
yes, ive had more success on /soc/, that should be saying alot
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>>83174518
I made a friend on Duolicious but she's fucked up mentally so I stopped talking to her
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>>83174518

Speaking as someone that has gotten a lot of matches, the experience was indeed horrible, although not for the reason you might think.

It's an addictive process to always get notifications that someone liked you, or messaged you.
Instead of eating a full meal, it felt like eating a bowl of candy for dinner - it hit all the right dopamine receptors, but when you are finished you don't feel full, you just feel sick.
Having the choice between many different girls who are all attractive paradoxically makes you just enjoy each of them even less, because you are always wondering what the others are like.

>pick a one girl
you will regret it
>pick another girl
you will regret it
>pick no girls
you will regret it
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>>83174518
I personally have never tried to use it, dont think i ever will
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>>83174518
Duolicious is niggerlicious--both in concept, and in its implementation.

Every user got doxxed a year ago, and it was shown that a significant portion of its user base were bots.

There's also that thing about it supposedly being part of a research study, but I don't think that was entirely true--at least, not how it was presented.
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>>83174518
I tried it but these apps aren't for me. I'm not one to approach after all.
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>>83174518
i do and the experience is indeed horrible
but sometimes it works out
i had one gf from there and multiple dates but most of the time it's like 0.5 likes a month
matched with a girl on tinder a few days ago and she seems really sweet, we have a date lined up for next week
wish me luck frens, she could be it
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>>83174518
For a decade now, and despite getting some matches, I have still never been laid from one.
Closest one was in June with a 52yo and she noped out of my home in 30 seconds. FML.
Three or four others claimed to be DTF this summer and they still ghosted me before a meet.
Now I'm looking for a fem-fag to be my oral slave.
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>>83174518
It's useless. Every guy on dating apps is
- More successful than me
- Better looking than me
- Has cool hobbies or some gay shit
- Doesn't look like an incel at all

The real redpill is not the matches you don't get, it's your competition.
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>>83174518
I hate the idea of duolicious.
It's actually worse for incels and the like that might have had a chance to get a gf from here from normal human interaction but now because of duolicious they have watered down the dating experience from here to a regular dating app experience where less attractive men are going to get filtered out.

We should be protesting this app!
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Yeah. Around 100 girls fucked off Tinder. Average time from match to fuck is around 24 hours. Never pay for anything. Set age range to 18-22, go in a <5km radius and just swipe on the baddies. After you match, just say they're hot and that you wanna meet up. Usually I ask em to come over because it's easier and cheaper for me. They can bring their own drinks.
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>"don't use dating apps bro, they suck"

>my friend group is extremely small and insular, it's also pretty much men as far as the eye can see
>I don't like bars and clubs
>don't really leave the house for any reason other than working and shopping
>coworkers are all already taken or too old

what other fucking option do I have? am I just supposed to wait for a girl to knock on my door?
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Should I try duolicious? Everyone in my area is super normie and normal people scare me :p
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>>83174518
zero matcheds
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>>83174518

I do. It can be annoying, but you get used to the bullshit. I am an average guy, 5'8", nothing special, so it's hard. But after going on a few dates, you find a normal girl who is not fucked up in the head. It's comfy to have someone you can trust and spend your time with, as opposed to complaining on 4chan all day.

Just kidding, 0 matches. What did you fucking expect. Real life is not much better, but if you use dating apps as an unattractive guy you'll probably end up killing yourself.
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>>83176305
There is a weird troll on here for the past couple of days that is saying that dating apps are bad and that real life meeting in person is better. Just ignore them
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>>83174518
no i cant compete with the chads there anyways. and i want a femcel gf anyways, i have nothing in common with normie scum
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>>83174518
Yeah, barely get replies. Didn't try that one, since I wouldn't find many women from my country on there anyway.
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>>83174518
Between the ages of 25-30 I got a good number of matches every month but few dates. Out of maybe 100 matches I'd go on 5 dates or so.
Now at 35 I get almost no matches (1-2 per month) which rarely if ever materialize into dates.
Dating apps are horrible if you're not chad but everyone already knows that. The women all think they're fucking Marilyn Monroe and as an average looking man you have to constantly perform and entertain them like some court jester in order to sustain their attention. Dating apps are pretty dystopian if you really think about it
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i didn't get a lot of matches and the conversation when i did get matches was bad. it's so much better to just add a girl to your friend group and flirt with her. she won't be as stuck up
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It's degrading for man to put himself on the dating app.
You cannot express your full personality, but only some superficial and physical characteristics. And that is supposed to be you? I think that every girl from that site must see those men as miserable and desperate.
>t 29y khhv
I will never go for dating sites and fuck you all normalfags who do.
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>>83176563
based

they must think the men in it are so fucking pathetic

i once saw a group chat of foids laugh at an ugly (actually avg) guy one of them matched with, they all said he was so ugly, including the girl who matched with him, but she still kept him in there as a jester bc chads never responded

those are most of the guys telling you tinder works and they slay
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>>83176387
>past couple days
Years, you mean.
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>>83176563
you're right but if the choice is a between humiliation ritual and being alone forever i'll choose former
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>>83176305
Similar situation but my workplace is 100% all boomer men and my friends are all in different countries now. Not confident enough to walk into a bar/nightclub alone and clubs for my hobbies all are full of men or taken women. I've been on the dating app grind for the past two months but all the women who I ended up actually managing to speak to either just stopped responding (they were pretty obviously talking to multiple men at the same time) or revealed themselves to be insane in the head. It's extremely draining having to go through the whole getting to know someone phase a million times.
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>>83176387

It's basic psychology you fucking retard. There's one man for each woman, and most people are in relationships, even ugly and short guys sometimes. So it can't be htat hard, and the fact that it's so bad for men on tinder should already tell you there's something wrong with tinder.
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I don't see a point considering I'm an ugly bald neet with no car.
Don't see any reason why a woman would be attracted ro me
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>>83176602
>There's one man for each woman
No?
In the younger age groups men outnumber women. Theres somewhere around 104 to 107 boys born for every 100 girls
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I only got replies from african women that were looking for an easy way to go to Europe.
Dating apps are shit if you're an old man who is a 5.
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>>83174518
Made a meme account back in 2014 with some bullshit in bio about looking for a sugar mommy giving me money and sex, pfp was me making stupid faces.
sat there for 30 minutes and liked everybody.
Deleted the app after 3 days cuz got tiered or match notifications from fat ugly ogres
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>>83174518
No. I'm not ok with my data being harvested (don't have social media for this reason as well) and I don't like the idea of "shopping" for a partner like you shop for an appliance. And I'm introverted enough that I don't care if I die a virgin.
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>>83176805
Linux user detected.
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>>83176713

That's essentially one man for each woman.

There's people who are randomly not in the dating market for various reasons, such as being depressed, all the time in their computer, just out of a relationship, got abused .... That randomness alone way outweights the tiny difference you're talking about.
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>>83176814
Not quite. Linux is still too crippled and cumbersome for some of the computing tasks I do. I run Windows 10 IoT Enterprise LTSC, with some privacy tweaks and an open-source firewall making sure the OS can't go online. I also try to use FOSS apps whenever possible. And my phones are all de-Googled running LineageOS with mostly FOSS apps. And I use custom ad-blocking DNS servers and my home router runs OpenWRT.
I want to switch to Linux in the future and I'm already dual-booting Bazzite for Steam games. But things like video editing and playing old pirated vidya are still a pain in the arse on Linux.
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I'm able to get dates and even the occasional hookup when I use dating apps, but the entire process feels like a humiliation ritual even as a tall decent looking white dude.

Just sitting there swiping and texting trying to compete with a thousand other guys. You have to be a virtual dancing monkey to keep a woman's attention long enough for them to POSSIBLY agree to a date. Not to mention these apps constantly try to sell you boosts and other "premium" bullshit.

And when I do get dates, these women are a chore to interact with. But I will admit this is mostly due to my mindset and expectations. In the past 5 years, I've been on an IRL date with just one girl who was actually interesting and easy to talk to. And she was just in town visiting for the weekend.
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>>83174518
I tried Duolicious once. Almost no responses, kept getting ghosted.
Then again I didn't post any pictures of myself so maybe I'm to blame.
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>>83176305
Hey lil bro I'm this guy >>83176129
Tinder works very well. Girls come to you. Obviously you still gotta be a fun guy to be around, but that's irrespective of how you meet peeps.
Just go for it. You should be getting around 2-5 prospects daily, if you put into like 10 min/day.
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>>83176956
Don't worry I have good pictures of myself and get matches on normal apps but duo I had nothing. The female population is dead on it.
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>>83176834
>There's people who are randomly not in the dating market for various reasons, such as being depressed, all the time in their computer, just out of a relationship, got abused ....

Where do you think we are, normgroid?
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>>83176956
isn't that the app where all the users' information got leaked and they all got doxxed or something? or am i thinking of a different one
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>>83176987
Yeah isn't the radio of men to women on there like 10:1
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>>83177017
You might be thinking of Tea
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>>83174518
I met my gf on tinder, the other apps didn't have enough cute girls for me.
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>tfw dating apps are the optimal solution for guys without social lives (we don't meet people so we have to resort to apps), but they are probably populated by girls who have active social lives and would be turned off by a guy who didn't go out or have a lot of friends

can I have any success on the apps if I'm basically a hikki? my only saving graces are that i'm in decent shape and 6'2
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>>83177055
>i'm in decent shape and 6'2
Yep, no probs. If you're in an urban area, it should be easy. Just remember to be a fun guy to be around. Also never keep the conversation online. Get it off tinder asaply. I tend to limit conversations to under 10 messages.
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>>83176834
Multiple women share the same man you retard
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>>83177055
If you're 6'2" you still have a fighting chance. Get out there and lock one in before hoeflation makes the minimum 6'4"
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>>83177154
And vice versa. Unless you're married, most people stay in steady contact with around 5-10 ppl at all times for casual relations obviously
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>>83177193
Height isn't that important, though. I'm 5'8 and have been with over a hundred girls. No one really cares, y'know.



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