Thread for discussions about selfharm and mutual supportfriday, the last stretch before the weekend hey>How are you doing today?>Any plans for today?>When was the last time you hurt yourself?>Why did you hurt yourself?>Is there anything bothering you right now?
hiiiHere's a bunch of helpful links> long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7> first aid post cuting:https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/>a wound care guide:https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic> bpd workbook:https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read> bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60c>a bdbt (dialectical behavioral therapy)workbook is intended for BPD but can work for anyone:https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdfPlease don't post any drastic images and if you have to, spoiler them
>>83243401Whats the craziest drama from this thread
Morning /cat/. First btw>>83243393>>How are you doing today?Alright. Had a weird dream but nothing else of note.>>Any plans for today?Attending class and working out when I'm home. Might watch a movie too.>>When was the last time you hurt yourself?November of last year.>>Why did you hurt yourself?Frustration with my lack of direction.>>Is there anything bothering you right now?Finals all of the next 2 weeks are kinda worrying....
>>83243407there's really hasn't been any drama, just a couple of suicide attempts but there's because of things outside of the thread, this is a pretty chill place >>83243482Hello :>>First btw\o/>Had a weird dream but nothing else of note.wanna say what it was about?>Attending class and working out when I'm home. best of luck o7>Might watch a movie too.what movie do you think you might watch?>Finals all of the next 2 weeks*gulp* how many exams are you going to have?
>>83243892>wanna say what it was about?I'm cashing out a 50 dollar e-giftcard at a loblaws (which for some reason now doubles as a gun store). This later cuts to me jumping between lanes to avoid getting hit by cars, and whenever I get hit my body ragdols like gmod. Getting hit incapacitates me like l4d2 so I need help making it to the end of the road. There was other stuff but it's dragged out and boring, those are the funny parts.>what movie do you think you might watch?Dog days afternoon, casting looks interesting and I haven't much mafia stuff beyond Sopranos and half of The Godfather.>how many exams are you going to have?7, all multiple choice. I'm stressed about 2 of them but the rest are fairly straightforward. I also have 2 final assignments which I'll work on during the weekend. How have you been /cat/?
>>83243393/cutters/ femboy fucking general. Why haven't you found a husband yet /cat/ femboy?
>>83244037>those are the funny parts.sounds pretty fun and a bit like the amalgamation of stuff we were talking about fairly recently, l4d, commuting, working >Dog days afternoonI've never heard of it but hope you have fun >Sopranos and half of The Godfather.I haven't even watched those movies >about 2 ofat least it's only two, best of luck on those!! and on the rest as well ^^>How have you been /cat/?yesterday tired me out so I woke up late, at like 1pmand since then I just been chilling, watched some videos about very old computers and ate tomato soup for dinner and now I'll probably play some sm64>>83244054hey, I have been wondering were you went how's it going?and I'm going to ignore the wired things you say
how over is it if i still cut names as a man in his 30s?
>>83243401>> bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)>https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60cHave you read it? Just checking in
Hello gamers.My cold seems to be on the way out now. I got an email to say I wasn't selected for the conference, but they've put me on the waitlist in case anyone drops out. It's a bit of a downer but I'm not too sad, and I'll probably still try to attend. So that's two Christmas miracles I'm hoping for now.>>83243482>Finals all of the next 2 weeks are kinda worrying....Good luck with your exams. I have to proctor some next month and I'm not looking forward to it, but it beats doing them.
>>83244114>hope you have funThanks. How were the movies you've been watching recently been? You never give us reviews...>sounds pretty fun and a bit like the amalgamation of stuff we were talking about fairly recentlyMy dreams are usually like that yeah, this one's a lot more on the nose with it. My dream last time referenced a random moment from a year ago so the connection wasn't obvious.>Haven't watchedI've barely finished either of them, I got 2-3 episodes into the sopranos and fell asleep when I watched the Godfather.>just been chilling... very old computers... ate tomato soup... sm64Thought you'd be done by playing now, I find older games to be pretty short unless you're going for 100%. Tomato soup sounds tasty but I've never had it, comfy day.Hallo discanon>>83244182>I got an email to say I wasn't selected for the conference, but they've put me on the waitlistDamn rip, here's to hoping you get that spot.>Good luck with your examsThanks.>I have to proctor some examsSeems pretty light from looking it up, don't you just walk around a room to make sure people don't cheat? Or am I missing something?
>>83244238>here's to hoping you get that spot.Thanks, I need all the luck I can get.>don't you just walk around a room to make sure people don't cheat?Pretty much, and helping when the exam software breaks. It wouldn't be so bad if not for the fact that the exams are 2-3 hours long. Despite not doing anything, it's somehow exhausting.
>>83244139whu do you cut names? that's a bit unusual >>83244164hello>Have you read it?read it a little bit but I feel I'm a bit too stupid to really understand it >>83244182Heya >cold seems to be on the way outlooks like the soup worked :D>conferenceow :cwell maybe you'll get lucky>not too sad, and I'll probably still try to attendI'm glad you're not too bothered >So that's two Christmas miracles I'm hoping for now.what's the first one?>>83244238>How were the movies you've been watching recently been?well I enjoy most movies and don't have many thoughts about them though when watch jurassic park I had a lot of fun and I decided to check out what we're peoples reaction to that movie in 1993 and old trailers and suchAnd when it comes to stuff I didn't like, the ring sucked, it was okay enough but it disappointed me a little, I'm not sure what I expected but I just didn't enjoy it much, I liked the grudge a lot more because at least it had a nice setting >dreams are usually like thatI think it like that for most people really, you get dreams about the stuff you think about while sleeping and the stuff you think about it usually things that happened recently >from a year ago so I had something similar a couple of times but I don't know if those things actually happened or maybe they're just false memories I made up while dreaming >fell asleep when I watched the Godfather.was it boring and you just were sleepy?>Thought you'd be done by playing nownah I like to take things slow>Tomato soup sounds tastyyep :D>never had itthat's pretty normal lolI'm just from poland and we have a lot of soups here
hey, everyone! :> how's it going? any plans for the weekend?
>>83244968>looks like the soup worked :DSeems like it. That or the C.C. Lemon.>well maybe you'll get luckyWe'll see. My luck stat isn't too awful. >I'm glad you're not too botheredIf it doesn't pan out, I can always try again next year. I'm patient enough.>what's the first one?A visit from a certain someone...>>83245153Hi Yuanon>any plans for the weekend?Catching up on work that sorely needs doing.
>>83245153Heyyo ^____^>how's it going? going well just surfing da friggin interwebs it's fun >any plans for the weekend?not really what about you?
>>83244437>2-3 hours long. Despite not doing anything, it's somehow exhaustingYeah I see how it can get annoyed fast.>>83244968>I liked the grudge a lotI heard of this I think, had a friend super into Japanese horror recommend it to me.>I don't know if those things actually happened or maybe they're just false memories I made upI get this sometimes completely separate from my dreams. Trauma response probably.>just were sleepy?Just sleepy.>I'm just from poland and we have a lot of soupsWhat's poland like? I've heard little of it in the news or internet. Haven't had any soup besides chicken soup.Hallo yuanon >>83245153>hey, everyone! :> how's it going? any plans for the weekend?Going good, just finished class early so I'm heading home. Gonna spend the weekend job hunting and doing my homework, fun.>>83245300>A visit from a certain someoneSanta.
>>83245300>Catching up on work that sorely needs doing.good luck with that. what's been piling up?>>83245306>just surfing da friggin interwebs it's funit's nice that you found a way to spend the evening. :> what are you looking for? i'm just farming a certain recipe for my wow-char. hope it drops tonight.>what about you?heading to my brother with the rest of my family to visit the christmas market in the city where he lives. that's about it.>>83245352>Going good, just finished class early so I'm heading home.hope there won't be any hiccups during transit.>Gonna spend the weekend job hunting and doing my homework, fun.at least you're productive, so good job in advance. looking for anything specific?
>>83245300>That or the C.C. Lemon.maybe bothwhat matters is your getting better ^^>My luck stat isn't too awful.oo that's good >can always try again next year. I'm patient enough.that's pretty patient what kind of conference is it btw?>from a certain someone...ia that someone who I think it is?>>83245352>super into Japanese horror recommend it to me.have you seen it?>Trauma response probablyhm for me it's just bad memory and wild imagination >What's poland like? I'm not really sure what to say, it's, like.. normal at least from my perspective, obviously but from talking too other people I can say that my life here is not really much different from life anywhere else We have lots of soups though Oh annd there are some issues that piss me off though it's not really just poland orientated it mostly with people in general >I've heard little of it in the news or internetoo I wonder what have you heard?>Haven't had any soup besides chicken soup.wat?oh my we have, chicken soup and cucumber soup and spinach soup and mushroom soup and beetroot soup and....>>83245496>what are you looking for?nothing in particular basically I was bored so I decided to look up the first picture posted on gelbooru and it's was some cosplayer from 2007 so I looked her up and it led me to an old interview on someone's blog and there someone advertised their anime blog and it just keeps going and going it's fun though sometimes I have to use wayback machine because many old websites don't exist anymore >christmas market in the citywooao :osounds nice but also isn't it a little too early for christmas market?
>>83245352>Yeah I see how it can get annoyed fast.Less annoying more than it is just mind numbingly boring. The highlight of my day is when a student has to pee and I get to leave the room for a bit.>>83245496>what's been piling up?My doctoral thesis>>83245855>what matters is your getting better ^^Yeah, I think I should be alright come tomorrow.>what kind of conference is it btw?An academic conference. But a pretty laid-back one.>ia that someone who I think it is?Probably ;_;
>>83245855>it's fun though sometimes I have to use wayback machine because many old websites don't exist anymoregoing full internet archeologist there, aren't you? (^-^) well, have a good time going down that rabbit hole. and do tell if you find anything particularly interesting.>sounds nice but also isn't it a little too early for christmas market?it's more of a seasonal thing and they do have to make a lot of money to be able to afford the booths in the first place. would also be quite crowded if they'd only open them shortly before christmas.>>83246081>My doctoral thesisi see. especially good luck with that one, then. what's it about?
goin to sleep last thread lasted 6 days btw, wow>>83246081>should be alright come tomorrowhopefully you don't catch anything again >But a pretty laid-back onestill, it sounds stressful >ProbablyD:the easter bunny? on christmas!!?>>83246177>well, have a good time going down that rabbit hole.it was fun >find anything particularly interesting.found quite a bunch of stuff like cool images >more of a seasonal thingwell hopefully you have a great time and but some nice things
>>83245855>have you seen it?Nope, dubs btw>mostly with people in generalWhat kinda problems? For me it's people loudly chastising service/government workers for just doing their job. Was on the bus and some guy next to me was snarling about the bus driver. Wasn't his fault the bus broke down...>wonder what have you heard?Nothing really, just scattered complaints. Everyone has those about their own counties.>soup soup soup soup soupSoup overkill>>83245496>hope there won't be any hiccups during transitBus took a while but it was fine outside that.>looking for anything specific?I'll take anythi but I'm hoping for warehouse work. I'm normally pretty social but I'd get irritated doing retail I feel like.>>83246796Night.
>>83243393>How are you doing today?Terribly, 0/10.>Any plans for today?Cut myself some more, maybe kill myself if I get worse.>When was the last time you hurt yourself?20 minutes ago>Why did you hurt yourself?I miss my boyfriend, whenever I'm in physical pain the emotional pain isn't as bad, but it's getting worse so I have to hurt myself worse>Is there anything bothering you right now?I miss my boyfriend, I miss him, I can't live without him, he was my whole world
>>83246796>hopefully you don't catch anything againMy immune system should be in order again. At least I hope it is.>it sounds stressfulI guess but it's not like I'll lose my job if I mess up.>the easter bunny? on christmas!!?Y-yeah. Haha...>>83246896Sorry to hear that, anon. Please try to stay safe.Why aren't you together anymore, if I may ask? I miss my girlfriend a lot and I feel pretty similar.
>>83247249He passed away, we didn't break up.
>>83247361I'm very sorry to hear that. My close friend passed a few years ago and it was very difficult to process. Bereavement counselling seemed to help, so I'd recommend doing that if you can.
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good mornighow's it going?
>>83248443>>83249466Who are you, mystery bumper?
>>83249860the second bump is actually me when I woke up to check if the threads upand the first one, is a mystery :o
Responding back after a few days away from Thanksgiving>>83232915>EVs look stupidI agree. I don't mind EV's conceptually, though I don't want one because it's impractical if you go on roadtrips like I do, but they just look bad.>only drive it on weekends?yeah, that seems pointlessly strict. Sure there's a rational behind it they think it reasonable, but unless it's so old it doesn't meet any modern safety standards (which I doubt what you described is so bad) then why not? think govs just likes to over legislate> leave out montanaapparently there were a few historic ships that got renamed later and a montana class ship that got scrapped due to lack on interest in battle ships past a point in ww2, so go figure>>83234813>don't have a running listi used to read straight down a list, but too rigid, especially when it comes to classics and history where it gets old reading nothing but the same style for too many works in a row>martial artsI wanted to do this as a kid but my dad wouldn't let me because it's too girly he said and never got to. Too late for me this point in life, but I picked up skateboarding a year back so at least I got to do some of the things I couldn't as a kid>>83235227>some funky side dishesi didn't cook at all, so at the mercy of what was brough. I ate a ton of plain turkey just because when its front of me i just go straight for the meat>oblivion remakedoesn't actually fix anything. End of day, really just a remaster, but still might get it some point just because I really like the world. If I see it on sale, since already sick of starfield again
>>83235859Missed you last thread, hopefully you pop in>how have you been doing lately?been all right. Just holiday season in the states now Thanksgiving is over. Hoping things are more relaxed even still have workhow are you though?>>83237224>Maybe my immune system just sucks.well, getting sick should help improve it as you fight it off, so hopefully third time will be better!>I don't want toend of day, being able to do stuff you don't want, but know you should is a very important quality to have>>83237499i missed this when you posted since Thanksgiving day was busy but thank you!!>ever seen idocracy?bits and pieces yeah lol definitely some pertinent in there. I like the mega Costco sprawl scene (hate that store and warehouse stores in general but everyone loves them)>reminds me of my own family gatheringswasn't too bad this time, but mostly screaming children acting as a distraction
Christmas has started, it is on>>83243393
>>83250043Christmas music I meant to post. I can't type this morning or got too excited
>>83249849Morning /cat/.My cold seems to be on the way out but I'm blowing my nose constantly.>>83250023>hopefully third time will be better!I guess, but I'd rather not get it a third time.>being able to do stuff you don't want, but know you should is a very important quality to haveIndeed. I'd like to have it one day.
happy caturday everybody >>83250043heyit's not even december :o>>83250554hello>on the way out but I'm blowing my nose constantly.that's good how do your cold usually look like? for me it's usually first two days are annoying because my throat is sore after that then I just gotta blow my nose a couple of times a day and that's it
>>83250752>for me it's usually first two days are annoying because my throat is sore after that then I just gotta blow my nose a couple of times a day and that's itThat's usually how it goes for me, except I have to blow my nose every few minutes
>>83250554hi discanon, how's your weekend going?>but I'd rather not get it a third time.definitely understandable and hope you don't either> I'd like to have it one day.I think all things considered you seem to have the right attitude towards a lot of things and at least know what you have to do.>>83250752happy caturday cat, any weekend plans ahead?>it's not even decembermall santas are out, Macy's is decorated, the lights are up around the neighborhood, and christmas songs are on the radio. I'm sorry cat, but it's upon us and there's nothing you or anyone else can do to stop it
hey everyone, hope you're all well. I went to get my piercings downsized today but they told me to wait another month. other than that imma order some pizza and continue watching the shows i was watching
just a wittle bump c:
Just got back from the mall, gonna have a snack and doe house work. >>83251312hey chev, whatcha watching?
Slashed open my arm with the intention of bleeding out, but passed out before I got deep enough to reach the vein. I hate this miserable "life". I can't even leave it when I want.
i dont want a tattoo but im sick of keeping my arms covered. is there any way to know how well a tattoo might work at covering scars up? might the artists be able to give an opinion if i go along, or would they think that;s weird?
>>83243393>How are you doing today?Lazy>Any plans for today?I got my brother's cats dewormed after they both ran to opposite ends of the house. Spent the morning trying to get them back to where they need to be.>Is there anything bothering you right now?Just money constraints. I'm debating on making extra money by selling my laptop while the market is up, but I don't think I'm ready to part with my baby.>>83252120hi anon>but passed out before I got deep enough to reach the veinthat's not your fault. It's a natural reaction to blood loss.> hate this miserable "life". I can't even leave it when I want.I'm glad you're here. I'm happy you have another chance.>>83252378hi anon>i dont want a tattoo but im sick of keeping my arms covered.Why don't you want a tattoo? >might the artists be able to give an opinion if i go along, or would they think that;s weird?tattoo artist with the ability to coverup scars love posting about them to drive up business. They would absolutely talk to you about it. I'm working on a redesign of an old tat right now. It's a challenge finding an artist with coverup talent, but even the ones who don't do it have been helpful in our emails back and forth.>>83251312hi chev>but they told me to wait another month. other than that imma order some pizza and continue watching the shows i was watchingat least you'll get to it eventually.>continue watching the shows i was watchingwhat shows?I've been watch dungeon meshi and I'm almost out of epiosdes.>>83250752hi cat, how was your day?
>>83250986>hi discanon, how's your weekend going?I'm slightly out of it on account of illness but I'd say it's going okay. Although the urge to contact her is growing again.>all things considered you seem to have the right attitude towards a lot of things and at least know what you have to do.Besides the autism I think my life is pretty much where I'd want it to be. I can say pretty confidently that I've not failed upwards. I've just stumbled very hard recently.>>83252378I think there are cosmetic surgeries that can remove scars. Might be worth looking into.
>>83250978>have to blow my nose every few minutesthat sucks and how's is your day going other than that?>>83250986>any weekend plans ahead?hm nopenot really wbu?>it's upon us and there's nothing you or anyone else can do to stop itD;and yeah they put up lights on light poles here too >>83251312hello>hope you're all well.I'm alright, thank you hope you are as well>another month.that's okay right?> other than that imma order some pizza and continue watching the shows isounds like a very fun time :D>>83252096what snack did ya had?>>83252120hey anonbleeding out is probably one of those more difficult ways of ending itAnd now that is hasn't worked, what are your plans?>>83252684heya>Lazythat's okay >Spent the morning trying to get them back to where they need to be.heh funny cats>selling my laptopdo you still need it or use it?>how was your day?chilled, played game and went on a little walk not long ago it's dark and gloomy outside, pretty cool
anyone wants to slit for me? >.<
>>83253597nogo back to wherever you crawled out of
>>83252684>>83252964> I'm happy you have another chance>And now that is hasn't worked, what are your plansI dont fucking know. Back to depression. Wishing I was dead. Hoping I will die in my sleep. Drinking.
>>83249902>and the first oneWas me.>>83249986>it gets old reading nothing but the same style for too many works in a rowTrue, as well when reading theres complimentary stuff you'd miss out on if you just read down a list.>it's too girly he said and never got toThat's such a strange thing to classify as feminine, normally it's said to be the opposite.>Too late for me this point in lifeEhhh is it really? If you're physically fit thats all that really matters, only reservations I'd have would be training alongside teenagers which isn't even embarrassing.
>>83252684hey cynic, hope you're having a good weekend>Spent the morning trying to get them back to where they need to be.I like cats, but hate to have to get them to do aanything. Been scratched bad way too many times>Just money constraints.i hear you. Trying to buckle down and save more while I have money coming in >don't think I'm ready to part do you have another one you can use? kinda important to have something to use>>83252895>slightly out of it on account of illness it happens. Just hope it clears soon. I'm in constant state of brain fog from needing more sleep and that's my thing>growing again.do what you can to say no, but if she's replying I don't think it's end of the world. Just as always, focusing on other things is good if you can>Besides thesorry if this is a dumb question, but you mean in literal sense or sense most on 4chan use? A lot of people misuse that word but know a lot of people who struggle with that also do find it easier to talk online like this, so just making sure >I've just stumbled very hard recently.I have in more than a few ways myself too I don't post much about. As long as you're content, that's the best you can hope for some times. Puts it to perspective in my case since i know a lot of people have it way worse around me right now, but no wrong in complaining when things are rough even if they could be worse>>83252964>wbu?eh not really either. I did some work, studying, house work, and went to mall again. Can't complain. Will be more same tomorrow.>yeah they put up lights on light poles here tooofficially December on Monday after all. No harm in starting a few days earlier>what snack did ya had?I had a protein shake, but by now I also had dinner which was a chicken stir fry again.
>>83253808hi anon, hope you're having a good weekend>complimentary stuff you'd miss outthis is precisely my problem with history and older works. I go down a rabbit hole where I'm reading everything. Not an inherently bad thing and I enjoy getting really into a time period, but also know there's others I want to get too eventually so it's always a decision to make there when enough is enough.>normally it's said to be the opposite.my dad is just has a problem with it because nobody did it when he was a kid. Men aren't supposed to kick, punches only. He also just seems to have an issue with people spending time with anything associated with other cultures. I got a bunch of crap for like anime as a kid because "the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor" so liking DBZ and Yugioh was bad. >Ehhh is it really? Fair point on all accounts. Suppose a lot of the stuff I've done is actually arguably worse to start as an adult than that would be and sure there's a place that's more focused on attracting adult students if I looked around enough. Add it to the list I guess.
>>83254260man today went by so fastsorry for not saying much I'll go sleep >>83253681how does your life look like anon? what's bothering you?what did you do with your big cut wound?
>>83254694all good. I wasn't super active and out most of the day either way.Goodnight and see you later
Disappeared for a while to handle other things.Finished my tattoo design.>>83252964>do you still need it or use it?I think for 5 more months, give or take. But it's also just been my successful project for so long that I have a skin over it and never had intention of selling it until the price went up on everything tech wise.>chilled, played game and went on a little walk not long ago Cool, walks are nice. They really clear your head.>>83254694goodnight cat.>>83253681>Back to depression. Wishing I was dead.That happens. Just know that we will still be here to talk.>DrinkingGet home safe if you're going out.>>83254138Hi Office anon, how is work now that the hoildays are here?>do you have another one you can use? I got an ipad that's doing most of my work.I got a steam deck recently and that could serve for everything else.I got some discarded thinkpads I found and could restore.It's really just that I'm never beating the modularlity of a framework.The only reason to sell is that huge tech price hike.> like cats, but hate to have to get them to do aanythingThese things are actually feral kittens. they straight up came for outside a music stadium.
