Would having a girlfriend change your life ?
>>83265271Potentially so but not necessarily I guess
>>83265271yeah. But I would probably still be mad about not having her during HS and the fact that shes used now. Or maybe not. Who knows. I also think I would beat her sooner or later.Or maybe I would treat her like a princess. I honestly dont know
obviously, yes. though i might miss being a solitary person. relationships are complicated.
>>83265271not really, i dont want to change my life. a gf would change my feelings since i would be happy and optimistic about the future but thats it. i dont want friends, i dont want a job or go out and party, im happy to be a neet shut in, i just want a similar gf
>>83265271Not really honestlyNot sure how it would
>>83265271A reaility where a female would find me acceptable would be a reality where I look objectively above average, and your life is mostly affected by your looks, so yes, my life would be proven rationally and logically to be better.
I need a girlfriend who is also a father figure and will tell me to walk straight and encourage me
>>83265271It would make my life considerably worse, but the silver lining is that it would reaffirm all my preexisting beliefs.
>>83265467I had a gf like that beforeIm pretty sure having a gf would make me feel better on the insideI would go out places more too
>>83265271Yes, depending on if she's abusive towards me or not. Just having someone interested in being with me would make my life much better.
>>83265271Yes. It wouldn't be a night and day transformation unless she was a completely different kind of woman.
>>83265271I have a girlfriend right now and honestly she creates more problems than she solves. Gen Z women are kind of fucking clueless on what they actually want out of life so they become these vapid consumerist clones of one another. I'm dumping half my paycheck into retirement funds while my gf goes to concerts or buys stuff she doesn't need. I miss when I was still an undergraduate because STEM girls have a brain with thoughts and ambitions. Maybe they get less retarded in their 30s idk?
having a partner would dramatically improve my life.. someone to motivate me to do better, to have goals to work towards, to have things to plan for in the future... but as mentally broke and shattered as i am now, i don't see any way i let anyone in again.
>>83265271ofc, what a dumb question. whether the change is a positive one idk
>>83266395>Gen Z women are kind of fucking clueless on what they actually want out of life so they become these vapid consumerist clones of one another.I have noticed this with my gf. we were both essentially neeted when we met then started jobs around the same time, by coincidence getting paid almost exactly the same. in the ~year and a half since then I fucking BANKED my income since I was still living with family, same as her, and I had enough to put a down payment on a house. She appears to not have anything substantial saved at all. She doesn't go anywhere or buy anything ridiculously extravagant, besides some clothes and makeup stuff which is a scam but I buy vidya and booze and I also drive while she doesn't so I'm pouring money into several black holes of my own. Where does it all go?
>>83265271PotentiallyMaybe she would make me feel more confident and lead me to do new things together
It would just make everything more annoying than it already is.
Wouldn't definitely make me want more out of life. For now I just gymcel and consoom. It makes me content.Having a gf would make me want to go outside, probably.
it would be nice to cuddle someone from time to time
>>83267127hahhh it really would be..
>>83265271I fell for this meme. Got a gf and it made my life more difficult than it had to be. I duped myself into believing the normalfag tenets of>past doesn't matter bro>teenage love doesn't matter bro>just keep improoving broAnd so I started a relationship with some non-virgin filth. She was entitled, attempted to be controlling, spiteful and an overall bore. She acted all caring only when I made my discontent clear, going back to bitching as soon as possible. I came to my senses and broke up with her, and since she has>stalked me at work>reached out to my small friend group unsolicited asking specific questions about me>made a whole tumblr-tier comic about me, which I have not read It's all such a bother and for what? Mediocre pp touch time? Loaded "love?" Nah. If you're reading this and are under 20, I do encourage you to find someone. But I was 25 when I did this shit. It was too late. No teenage love mutual virgin miracle was possible for me. You may as well be the age 33 rich muscular improover wojak as long as you firmly and regularly remind yourself that women will give you nothing but grief.
>>83266395>I'm dumping half my paycheck into retirement fundsThis is retarded. If you die tomorrow what was it all for? I'm not saying be irresponsible, but live a little
>>83265271Yeah for the worse lol
It actually did, like other said she was stupid consoomeristic zoomerette, and having other rely on your attention is annoying sometimes.>BUTDon't let these sex havers gaslight you into believing its not good. Doing gay couple shit like walking in the park together and holding her, or her being happy over a shitty gift is the most validating experience that i had as 28 y/o. The best part is now "the itch" and perma thoughts about having a gf is gone i can move on and if it happens again it happens, but i am not bitter about it anymore.
>>83267205Thats great but goddamn 28 i am not looking forward to waiting that long man, and does it really cure your "i missed out earlier" feeling?
>>83268040To me it did, i can see others sharing that they don't feel that way. Probably depends on the quality of the relationship and your own mental. Maybe i was lucky that the relationship i had was kinda dreamy for the first year. We lost our virginities to each other and felt special and untainted by expectations of past relationships. Though i later found out that blowjobs, hand jobs and kissing arent included in her definition of virgin, while my most sexual experience was feeling boobs through a hug with a girl. Yet beggars cant be choosers i guess. Was good while it lasted.
>>83265271Only if I could have sex with her when I want to and she actually enjoys my company and isnt embarrassed by me, otherwise id just use my hand
Only you can change your life, ONLY YOU. But having relationships with the opposite sex builds intelligence in intimacy and shapes character
>>83267205>Don't let these sex havers gaslight you into believing its not good.Sex isn't why you get a companion, mongrel.
>>83265271no. for a few weeks it felt like it had, but then it became normal and i was still the same inside. after a few months i just resented her presence
>>83269272sex is why i want a gf
A girlfriend requires effort. I think a lot of people who want a gf don't realize that it's not just going to be some convenient source of affection and sex on demand: they're going to have their own needs and wants. They might bother you when you don't want to be bothered, or get onto you about how you left the toilet seat up once 6 months ago. I'm not at a place where a girlfriend would be beneficial to me.
>>83269299Then you are a jackass and it is obvious your relationship was shit. If you just want pussy, get fuck buddies.
>>83269272???All the things i mentioned about the relationship were not sex related.
>>83265271You lose all your spare time and you're spending money on shit you don't really want tot. wizard who went normalfag
>>83265271It would improve my mood and outlook on life substantially which would in turn make me want to better my life, so yes, it'd change my life.I'm talking about a genuine loving gf, not just a normalfag relationshit where we're settling for each other out of sheer desperation.
>>83265271If someone would love me at my lowest I owe them my highest.
>>83269483Poetry, women hate this though.
>>83269427I never said they were. I said that sex was not a reason, hence sex havers is an irrelevant term.
>>83269354i don't see the point in fuck buddies because i don't really believe in second class citizens
>>83269508That's what your girlfriend would be if you are getting her for sex. Only difference is she is much more expensive and draining.
>>83265271If i got access to pussy i would probably get a massive self confidence boost which would help me achieve successes at work, further fueling my self confidence and my expensive addiction.
>>83265271I don't want a girlfriend. I want a mommy.
>>83269488It is unfortunate isn't it but thank you. Nice dubs btw. At least I am content alone haha.
i had a gf and honestly the main difference is everything becomes less boring
>>83272380>less boringunironically being constantly stressed and paranoid about what she's doing, where she is, etc etc is extremely engaging
>>83266870How did you even meet each other if you were both neets
>>83272776Tinder, are you retarded or what?
>>83266870probs to her other bf
>>83272885Could be I guess, would make about as much sense as anything else and I always make her pay for our dinners and stuff so I know she's down for that kind of life
>>83265271Probably, but I might get sick of it. After not getting any game in high school and university, I just kind of embraced my solitude and feel annoyed by any kind of interruption. I spend so much time thinking to myself that having to care for someone else would feel aggravating. And that's not even getting into whatever quirks my hypothetical GF would have or if I would just bore her to death.
>>83272885Bruh, women with "other bfs" don't spend that money on their "other bfs". They have multiple guys so they never have to spend their money.
>>83265271For the worse, sure. I am a recluse. I am simply not compatible with others like that. If I cannot control my environment it will spiral out of control and we'll all be fucked. Happens with my family all the time. They don't listen, they fuck themselves. Repeatedly. I am CEO of "I told you so" ltd and people resent me for being right and continuing to not listen to me.
>>83265271only if she was hot and white
>>83268423i had that but she wasn't that attractive so i broke up with her. this is only life changing if you are also very ugly and have no other redeemable qualities. i only got with her to save money and get sex. sex is a biological need for a man so it's humane
>>83268410>she had some other guys tongue down her throat and swallowed his semenAnd that doesn't infuriate you?
>>83272984maybe it's like those japanese bitches who whore themselves out to fat old men for money to give to their favorite host
>>83265271>Would having a girlfriend change your life ?Too late for that
>>83265271Money would change my life
>>83265271It does make you a normie and a sex haver though. No more incelism.
>>83275385Youre not supposed to like being an incel retard what is with you guys? This shit is a curse not an awakening
>>83275407I never said that. Getting a gf cures you from incelism for good and finally you ascend into normiehood. The spark of chadness has been lit. You have finally succeeded in life as you have been rewarded sex for your hard effort.
being year and a half sober and getting a job finally. no. i think my problems are more deep rooted. i am fucked up beyond repair
>>83265271Yes. Especially if another guy steals her from you.I stole someone else's girlfriend, then got her pregnant
>>83267183>made a mediocre Tumblr comic about me I need to see this shit. Link asap
But what if the only problem was female?
>>83276324Or is it just males only?
