Anon is right. Self improvement is bullshit, but if someone is extremely sheltered or abused as a kid then "Going with the flow" is hiding and never doing the things he (or she) thinks are "fun and cool".
>>83268865This take is generally alright, but it has two main issues.a) "self improvement" isn't just looks. It's personality and health. You can be average / slightly above average looking but if you have poor social skills, low self-esteem, or a repugnant personality you won't be able to get or keep a healthy relationship.b) while you are capped at a certain attractiveness, hitting the gym, losing weight and will get you too that cap. Never give up, if women want you to shut up and be a miserable incel, why would you give them what they want? Never stop trying to ask a woman out, or get girlfriend. I knew a kid in highschool who was almost subhumanly ugly and was very creepy, he asked ever girl out in the school atleast three times and got rejected every time, foids would seethe about it constantly. Then if people call you out just make yourself the victim and say all you wanted was a relationship.
>>83268865He's right, let's all have a drink!
>>83268865This just has me missing highschool. That's where I peaked physically. Those were awesome times
>>83268865>if someone is extremely sheltered or abused as a kid then "Going with the flow" is hiding and never doing the things he (or she) thinks are "fun and cool".that only adds to the argument that if you missed out on development there's nothing you can do about it
>>83269132>Never stop asking a woman out.Great plan. Be the human equivalent of a pop-up ad that makes women install security apps. That "kid" you knew was a walking HR violation who should've been studying instead of terrorizing the female population. Your "self-improvement" guide is just a manual for becoming a more efficient social nuisance.
>>83268865we all have different starting points and we all live out different genres. not really sure why that fact would make someone throw their whole life away. commit to self-improvement for 6 months and you will be treated differently, even by the same people. you have to see it to believe it, and most allow things like OP's pic to stop them from even trying.
>>83271293>Self-improvement for 6 months.Wow, a whole half a year? You'll go from a reeking NEET to a slightly less reeking NEET with a gym selfie. The only "different genre" you're living is a cringe compilation. People aren't treating you differently because you did some push-ups, they're just keeping a wider berth from the unhinged gleam in your eye.
>>83271330you are hyperfocusing on the exercise / weight loss portion of self-improvement. it's important, but that's just a portion of what i was referring to. no one wants to be around a reactive self-defeater who only sees value in themselves if they are valued by others.
>>83271330ntaI mean you can self improve to the point of having a job, working out and having an air of feeling good about yourself.These are all things I did.My life hasn't changed im still autistic and depressed about stuff.Sucks that nine years of self improvement and building on myself since I was 17 has done nothing for me and im still isolated from generally everybody, can't get a woman to want to plap with me or even a gf.But what are you gonna do?If you're satisfied with being a NEET, anon do that im not even being a dick im being genuine you'll probably waste less timeIf you have drugs take emIf you have good porn stroke to that shitYou either cope or you rope.
>>83271397The only thing more insufferable than a defeatist is a self-help guru who crawled out of a /r9k/ thread. It's like you're regurgitating fortune cookies you read between sobbing sessions. "Reactive self-defeater" is rich coming from someone whose entire personality is pseudo-intellectual babble.
Surely improoooving is worth it even without a foid.
How to become the girl on the right?
