the 4chan egirl ghosted me after i asked her to be my gf its time to kms
>>83269144Yup you're rightYou won't do shit doe
>>83269144Which egirl? Euro or USA?
>>83269179USA i desperately need a gf in my state that will go on dates with me so I limited myself to cali girls.
>>83269186cali girl? Ok I know who you're talking about, she ghosts everyone
>>83269202its not chickn
>>83269144Beta emotional tampon overstepped his boundary, tsk tsk
>>83269204I know it isnt, if she's aged 19-21 I know who it is
>>83269212can you tell me who it is and if you're right can you tell me how to date her? i really thought she'd be the one...
>>83269216She doesn't want to date any loser from here, trust me. I live in LA near her and she rejected me too.
>>83269276so why is she here??
>>83269144honestly is your fault for getting attached I don't mean to say you deserve it but you can't control other people, you can only control yourself and thinking some egirl would like you to not right All the want to superficial attention, if they wanted a bf that'd hop on tinder for 10 minutes they'd have a whole line to choose fromI feel that in a way you are too hopeful
>>83269285>I feel that in a way you are too hopefulI think so. I can't help being an idealist though. If someone is kind to me I fall in love with them only to be disappointed after being rejected. How do you stop this cycle?
>>83269281can you confirm we're talking about the same girl. If we are, she just gets bored and talks to losers like us sometimes. she might even meet up with you, she said to me that she would meet me but bailed. but she will absolutely not date you or do anything with you.
>>83269304we aren't my girl doesn't live in LA but I figure your reasoning is correct. she lives in the bay area. probably has her pick of tech chuds so the thought of some NEET incel winning her heart was probably hopeless from the start.
>>83269296by offering something that makes them not want to reject you. aka be chad
>>83269317what does that mean in physical terms? i can offer a lot of things but it's impossible to know what someone values until it's too late.
>>83269310>probably has her pick of tech chudsexactly bro. living in these places requires an income in the high 6 figures for any quality of life. no girl with any options is going to take a neet.
>>83269320tall, white, social groups, good job
>>83269310did she used to post in soc?
>>83269479yeah, doesn't every 4chan egirl?
>>83269485probably. If it is the one I talked to, I miss her. She ghosted me while still posting on soc
if you think any asian girl on 4chan doesn't already have a boyfriend you are retarded
>>83269533did she live in LA? I met the girl I mentioned above on soc.
>>83269642no, bay area
>>83269540asian girls are nicer to you the less close you are so i'm always chasing the high of a new asian girl in my life after the old ones get sick of me.my holy grail is an asian girl that doesnt turn evil after the first 3 months but i've yet to meet one.
>>83269144>asking a girl to be your gf when you haven't even met her IRLYou guys are absolutely retarded.
so glad u got what u deserved. i loved u and u still told me about the other girls u talked to. u wont ever find anyone as long as u keep treating girls so poorly.
>>83269779u didn't love me you're just gaslighting me so i'll feel bad. well u got what u wanted.
>>83269779actually you know what i'll just say it since you're not gonnaof the like 6 girls ive talked to from this site:>one has a boyfriend and refuses to break up with him even though hes kind of a dick>one ghosted me because she needs a "4chan detox" and i understand so i'll respect her wishes>one unfriended me even though i really liked her and tried talking to her a lot and was waiting for things to go back to normal but they never did>one ghosted me even though i really liked her and tried to be patient with her ghosting she just never came back>one lost her virginity to some guy that called her a fat smelly cow inbetween our convos and im guessing shes pregnant with his baby or something now>one broke up with me after a month to date men that have girlfriends because "they're more interesting"at no point did I ever hurt any of these women or do anything to indicate I would betray them. I don't know which one you are but I'm sorry if you felt hurt by my actions.
you dodged a bullet anyway, most 4chan girls are mentally ill beyond salvation
>>83269903it sounds like you're trying to use 4chan as a dating app, it's not gonna end up well for you bud
>>83269144Been there. Girls just want to toy with boys' hearts because it makes them feel good to know that they can, and this is especially pronounced on a site full of desperate boys and social reject girls.
>>832699144chan is basically my only form of socialization so it's my only option for dating. I don't care if it doesn't end well I just want to move on from this phase of my life man.
Mine was 5,000 miles away and she disappeared, idk what the deal was maybe it's a joke on me. I wish I could have gotten to know her better, I don't know why people treat me like that.
>>83269925>4chan is basically my only form of socialization so it's my only option for dating.this is a choice. you're getting what you're looking for.
>>83270144name 3 places to meet women in this day and age who aren't normies. if you say outside your opinion is instantly invalidated, these people aren't outside.
>>83269925>I don't care if it doesn't end well>Whines when it doesn't end well
>>83269144All vtubers are whores
>>83270144i'll be honest i've approached this problem dozens of times and can't figure out any way to encounter non-normie women without 4chan. every option i've come up with just turns into "just get lucky out in the wild" but i'm not really the kinda person to rely on luck. 4chan is the only place that consistently gets you non-normie women, but with the catch that many of them are very selfish. but i'd rather take my chances dealing with selfish abnormal women for the tiny chance of an actual good abnormal person than trying to groom a normie into an abnormie. it just seems logical when you have so few options to stick to the one with the highest chance of success rather than spreading yourself thin.I've also basically outgrown all the mental games of dating and just go 100% for sincerity in my actions so I'm hopeful that at least filters out the women just looking to play with my feelings since they'll get bored soon enough, as evident by this thread.>>83270238by "doesnt end well" i mean having my heart broken after a meaningful relationship and spending a while learning and growing together. i wouldn't even call getting ghosted an ending since it never even began.>>83270285my oshi would never
>>83270295>my oshi would neverHaving an "oshi" is only setting yourself up for massive disappointment.
>>83270318I think Mint is the ideal oshi for someone like me because she is not perfect and that has its own appeal if you're a saviorfag type. Or just the type to wanna be flawed together rather than seeking perfection.
There is a 4chan egirl from the sf bay area? Probably a horrible person. Any asian female that posts here is worthless. Please dont tell me its the dumb bitch studying compsci at Stanford.
>>83270342Lame boring generic corporate trashed voiced by a whore for pedophilic losers who want a parasocial relationship with a soulless consoomer product.
>>83270382she's an indie thoughbeit and her voice is just her normal voice as a 30 year old woman she doesn't even try to be anything else.>>83270362theres a few in the bay area but bay area asian girls are like a forbidden fruit they are so hot but also will ruin your life through their materialistic lifestyle.
>>83270391asian girls are the most desirable on the planet you are competing with 10/10 chads who have yellow fever and tech chuds making 500k/y
>>83270400from my knowledge chads dont usually go for asian girls they usually prefer aryan goddesses. you're mostly just competing with tech chuds and at that point it's just a matter of who has more money. obviously as a neet i'm the loser in that case but i'm hoping if i try enough times i might land one that isn't a capitalist. or a non-asian girl that just likes japan/china. thats fine too.
>>83270391>heres a few in the bay area but bay area asian girls are like a forbidden fruit they are so hot but also will ruin your life through their materialistic lifestyle.Your fetish draws you to the undesirable ones. Get a grip. They're all bad people especially the ones born here.
>>83270400>asian girls are the most desirable on the planetlol no they aren't you retarded faggots. second class brads end up with asian stacies.
>>83270422you are so out of touch if you think asians aren't desired by chads now too ever since anime went mainstream lmao. all asians are materialistic its in their culture
>>83270448nah unironically chads arent really interested in asian women at least not traditional chads. like how many hollywood actors are dating asian women? how many big musicians? or male models?it's usually dopey tech chuds and trust fund kids chasing asian girls
>>83270462every single good looking and successful white guy i know irl is dating an asian. try look at more than just your tv and capeshit
>>83270422Listen here you retard, Mint is MINE go find your own waifu before I cut your nuts off faggot. You don't love mint, I do.
So who is this bay area asian girl? I am a bay area tech bro.
>>83270491nice mint pic, would be a shame if i stole it and used it for my future threads
>>83270491Nice try but Minty is mine, and no amount of seething will change that. Now go curse and make impotent threats like a fool.
>>83270208exactly, mentally ill girls are non normies. he's getting the mentally ill girls, what's the big fuss about>if you say outside your opinion is instantly invalidatedcan't be bothered to address your strawhat man>>83270295>can't figure out any way to encounter non-normie women without 4chanand i'll be honest with you, you won't find a decent girlfriend anywhere if you approach women with the intention of having a relationship right away. get to know them, you'll realize a lot of women give you clear signs of being mentally ill way before you get into a relationship. trying to get "non normie" women doesn't mean you have to deal with that bullshit.
>>83270522>>83270529You little fagging weasel fuck. Ever heard of voodoo or Santeria? I'll send dark energy right up your fucking ass.
>>83270562>I'll send dark energy right up your fucking ass.jokes on you i'm into being pegged by ghosts
>>83270400lmaoholy fuck this was funny
>>83270567MINT IS MINE TOU FAGGOT I'll stick baseball bat up your ass and turn you into a popsicle you POS
>>83270589i literally paid her $100 to tell me she loves me in the lazulight custom voicepacks we're literally married. Jealous fag?
>>83270589Nta, why are you so mad? Mint Fantome is a vtuber not your literal wife.
>>83270617Do you know where you are, boomer election tourist?
>>83270569reality that funny to you huh
cham if u see this thread i miss u
>>83270599>>83270617>>83270653I'll hang you from a tree bktch, You think your something special? I'm coming for you, I'll cut you the fuck up. I'll rip your throat out. You know who your fucking with. Sleep with one eye open
>>83270648there's nothing realistic about your stupid fetish fantasy. asian women are the runner up prize of women, always have been and always will be.
>>83270682seething fat whale of a white woman detected
>>83270702ching chong bing bong asian woman numba one
god i hate the "peopl" who use this board as a dating site. death to normalniggers, death to fem""""bots"""". remigrate all fembots
>>83270342Just don't be that surprised or upset when she announces she's getting married
>>83271084>gettinguh oh...
>>83271084I don't want to marry her or feel possessive towards her desu. She's just a content creator I like to watch. She isn't my wife.If I had a girlfriend I would be completely devoted to her and may even abandon Mint if things get serious enough. She just fills that hole in my life until I find the person I am destined to be with. If that ever happens.
>>83270653HAI! A friend sent me this >_< i miss you too! hope youre doing well. hang in there, now comes good sailing.
>>83271263whyd u unfriend me i thought we were pals ueeehhh T_Tdid I do something wrong or did you just get bored?in any case I hope you're doing well!
>>83269144knowing you doofuses you probably engaged in boring small talk with her before asking
>>83271365are you not supposed to do that? i'm really bad at flirting i think i don't know when to move from being nice to flirting and i think it becomes weird.
>>83271337>i thought we were pals>>83269144>i asked her to be my gfOdd. Also if you're white and got ghosted by an asian femanon then something must be really wrong with you. They worship you guys. They would eat your shit if you told them to.
>>83271337Not bored. I got a boyfriend and I feel that it would be unfair to you, and most importantly to my partner, to keep in contact. just trying to do things the right way. im very sorry.
>>83271382ofc you have a boyfriend. fucking whore
>>83271337W*sp, I'm going to have to put you down.
>>83271378is that odd? i think befriending girls before you try to date them is normal. maybe you dont end up dating but thats fine.>>83271382OHthat thought crossed my mind, and I was kinda hoping that was the case and it wasn't something bad I did. I totally understand in that case, makes sense. I'm glad something nice came out of this thread and I finally got closure on that since i was really bummed about it for a while. thats so cute desu hope things go well for you.
>>83271373yeah, small talk is fine to start but don't do it so much the initial meeting, you should have learned enough about them on the first day to start interesting conversations about hobbies etc. if you are going to engage in small talk at least use lots of dopamine producing questions like "up to anything exciting today?" instead of some shit like "hOw ArE YoU dOinG". small talk offers no reward or tension and sends the brain into autopilot mode so switch from it to something interesting asap. know when to flirt by watching her vibes, if she's replying fast, using emojis, asking you questions back, copying any quirks in your texting style, or laughing at your dumb jokes, that's the green light. that's psychology 101, reciprocity and mirroring show interest and comfortabilityto flirt right, i've found what works best with most people is degrees of silliness, romanticism, sexual innuendoes ("egirl: i'm so hungry, i need my stomach filled you: i'll fill your stomach"), playfulness, and teasing lightly about something they said without being mean, and sharing a bit of vulnerability/self-deprecation to build connection. don't jump to gf ask too soon, escalate slow or you'll creep her outgood luck faggot
>>83271382if only all egirls were as nice as you with giving closure. i orbit the wrong ones
>>83271486to be fair i spent like 2 months thinking she hated me and only got closure just now...but she was extremely cool and i respect her reason after hearing it. usually girls that leave a lasting impression like that are way above the typical egirl in both kindness and coolness. but it gives you a bit of hope that you can find another one if you keep trying if you found one in the first place. it makes it all the harder to abandon this shithole when you know good people DO exist on here.
>>83271550why didnt you just ask if she had a bf before you got into your feelings retard
>>83271564thats not the girl that ghosted me in the OP it was a different girl. i just felt like crying out to the universe and by some miracle this person from the past responded.cham-chama didn't have a boyfriend when we started talking. she was upfront that she didn't wanna date so i didn't try. you don't have to date every girl you encounter, sometimes you just become friends and they might help you develop as a person through friendship instead.>>83271456desu I think the way I engage in smalltalk is really boring because I ask too many leading questions. people don't like to feel like they're being interrogated or forced to talk if they don't want to. but if you don't get them to open up they'll just never try and eventually the convo dies. so it feels like there's this pressure on you to move the conversation and all i can do is ask questions that often seem annoying i guess. pretty sad to think about how hard socializing can be.
>>83271610Bro you said something completely different in your original post >>83269144
>>83271678i said THAT ISN'T WHO THE OP IS ABOUT i never asked cham to be my gf
>>83271707So youre sitting here whining about an egirl while you go and simp for any egirl? Why the fuck do foids here talk to guys like you? I always hear about how they ghost fags like you who simp too hard but then get mad at guys like me for being romantically unavailable.
>>83271730you're asking why girls prefer talking to someone that gives them attention instead of someone that doesn't give them attention?do you really not talk to any girls at all? because i don't really get the argument that a guy can't be on friendly terms with multiple women at once. if i got a girlfriend i would do the same as that girl and probably cut contact with all the girls that i was romantically interested in. but i don't have one so what's the harm in at least trying to get closer to multiple women until one of them reciprocates?
>>83271760you're arguing with a zero social/emotional intelligence bitter incel. don't botherthis isn't something somebody with their programming will ever grasp
