I had girls approach me in the past, and I had rejected women in the past. Yet I can't approach a woman without her rejection shattering my whole psyche? Why does this happen?
>>83269497Did your mom beat you as a child, was she verbally abusive, or neglectful?I have a working theory on this.
>>83269497You lack healthy levels of cocaine in your body. Snort a line before you do it.
>>83269510no, it was the opposite. She'd tell me I'm the most perfect boy in the world and that she is pround I grew up to be a beautiful looking man. LMAO
It's normal. Every girl I got with in my life rejected or dismissed me in some fashion. You have to keep trying within reason. When you give up, recognise there's many others to try with and if there aren't, move to a city
>>83269567>.Every girl I got with in my life rejected or dismissed me in some fashion.was this rejection before you "got her", but kept chasing?
>>83269644Yes, many all of them. Usually stuff like I suggest things and they say no. When they say no or push you away, try again later. 2 steps forward one back. It's not a great way to do it because the girl is sort of giving into you rather than her actually liking you and trying to get you herself but we're on this site right
>>83269809I should add this really works in real life when she's with you. Doing this on a fucking phone or texting will probably not work because she will play with you until you're sick of giving her attention weeks later for nothing
>>83269497OP here's the trick. You have to be outcome independent. The most common way to do this is to get rejected a lot, while still having some great successes.I'll give you an example. You just got a job selling solar panels door to door for Mr. Shekelstein. Eight out of ten people will immediately say "no thanks", two will say "ok tell me about it" and then one will say "deal." When those nine people reject you, it hurts at first, but then you get completely used to it. When they reject you, just say "ok, no worries!"That's it. That's the trick. Say "ok, no worries, no big deal." Because it's genuinely no big deal. It's a massive number's game for average men. For above-average men it's slightly less of a numbers game, but unless you're turbochad you still have to run the numbers.OP, run the numbers. It's a numbers game. They reject you, say "ok no worries." Just like if you were to offer your bro a snack, and he's like "nah I'm good", then what would you say? You'd say "ok no problem." That's it.No big deal. Rejection? No big deal.
>>83269931This but instead of ten people required for one success it's asking hundreds of people out and still not getting one 'yes'.
>>83269931If you don't care about rejection you don't care about acceptance either. If rejection doesn't hurt you, acceptance won't satisfy you.
>>83269497are there any drugs that lower inhibition when it comes to thins without making you drunk?
>>83269537samemade me care about looking good to womenbig improvement was when i stopped caring and just did what i want, im beautiful regardless
>>83270554how did you do with women? When I was 14 girls would catcall me, or send their friends to do the bidding, once out of the school system I became turbo incel shut in . I have no idea how to find a gf if I'm not literally sat next to them 8 hours a day.
>>83270581ha, i had rhis experiencei just met all my partners through work so far, coworkers, interns etcfew times a friend if a friend has hit on me blatantly enough for me to pick up on iti like to fish, i just flirt with everyone who is willing to flirt back and eventually someone comes on to me, maybe 1x a year, if i really grind the apps ill get dates more. but i like to make them come to me
Op what is your sexuality As in, are you a whore, sex after marriage, occasional sex, no sex at all What
>>83270634I want a serious gf, but would be ok if I had friends with benefits with cute women, can be older.
