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>>83269564Get a better fetish, you gay retard.
>>83269564I have lost any and all attraction to this kink whatsoever. You need to realise that in a female dominated relationship all roads lead to findom and cuckoldry. The vast majority of "domme" women do not want a cute submissive guy they can cuddle and peg. Most of them want a pay piggy cuckhold they can cheat on. Stay safe anons.
>>83269564This fetish seems frustrating at first because few women are immediately into it, but it's pretty easy to get girls to dom you when dating. I've gotten femdom from all the girls I've dated. In fact I find that the outspoken dommes tend to be the worst, few of them are genuinely into it, lots are either abusers or into findom.
>>83269605I love cuckoldry and findom though. I need a woman who can drain my wallet while riding chad cock.
>>83269605Of course female led relationships are a meme retard, just get her to Dom you in the bedroom and if she oversteps your boundries outside just put her back in her place
>>83269623Then you have nothing to worry about I guess. But for people who want a real none exploitative relationship, they need to be very careful.
>>83269637Yeah, but the women that ate into that are a tiny minority, in a dating pool full of women that say they want a submissive male, but actually don't or are acting preformative.
>>83269564is this a common fetish among guys? And to what extent should a girl dom? I feel like I could do it sometimes, but i don't want to be the only dominant one.
>>83269677Most guys into it are preformative. The odds of you getting into a relationship with somone into this type of thing are low.
>>83269677less common than they say - most "subs" are just looking for a novel masturbation session. Only some subs are actually invested in letting themselves be dominated and allowing themselves the vulnerability and surrender necessary to accomplish this.
>>83269677>is this a common fetish among guys?More common than you'd think, but not too common.>to what extent should a girl dom?To the extent that both parties are comfortable.>I feel like I could do it sometimes, but i don't want to be the only dominant one.Most guys can switch. I like switching personally, I get enjoyment out of watching my partner being happy from the same kind of degradation that I like, it's a vicarious experience.
I'm not really submissive in the way I see most guys on porn sites are, like cuckoldry/chastity/piss/humiliation/findomme, my fetish is rooted in old world traditional chivalry, I got into this fetish after I read the three musketeers as a kid. I just want to worship and pedestalize her like a goddess and kill anyone who tries to dishonor her, and I'm not against dicking her down or dominating her in bed from time to time even though I'm still into the more hardcore femdom stuff like whipping, pet play, wax play etc. I really like the idea of being a super manly, masculine submissive to a short weak small woman, I essentially want to play the role of a big protective guard dog for a dainty little damsel, I'd still be totally dominant outside the bedroom because I just can't handle not having control, and I'm tall, attractive and darktriadmaxxed so I'm not worried about her getting the ick, my main issue is I hardly ever feel like I'm into a girl, and even when one of them catches my fancy, the spark fizzles out and fades really fast, moreover I'm very emotionally unstable, distant and prone to experiencing severe mood swings, I could be affectionate one minute and cold the next, I kind of feel disgusted with myself when I try being affectionate because I was neglected as a child and my family constantly made fun of me if I ever showed any feelings specially positive ones, and now I don't think I'm capable of having a fulfilling long term relationship the way I want to.
>>83269564does anyone want to train me? I'm a 22 year old who's so inexperienced with sex. Does anyone want to colonize my virgin island?
What are you menat to do in this situation?
>>83269726>>83269690I do feel like most people that say they are into femdom only want it due to pornography. they don't want actual femdom (usually)
>>83269871Man I want to be tickle tortured by a woman really badly.
>>83269880They wouldn't be watching femdom porn if they weren't into femdom mate.
>>83269899It's just kinda mind boggling tbdesu. It's bizarre to me but good sex is usually bizarre
>>83269880>>83269899Yeah, there's a certain amount of attraction to being sexually played with but there's a reason subs and dommes both don't like table turning. The guy above put it into very clear differences - he can't give up control during his day to day. Most dommes I know are similar, the abhor the idea of not being the one in control.
>>83269564my gf calls me puppy :3
>>83269677Common among porn-addicted zoomers. I'm into it (gentle stuff) because I grew up with a devouring single mother though.
>>83269924>femdom boggles the mindits really crazy that a guy would want a woman thats into him and is playful and reciprocative and banterish than just a pillow princess who sits there and gets fucked and just says nothing except "mmhmmm feels good"
>>83270014Well i was lead to believe that guys wanted women who were submissive.>a woman that's into him and is playful and reciprocative and banterishyou don't have to be dom to be any of these things, neither do you have to be a pillow princess.
>>83270014This is why I'm into femdom. A pillow princess would bore me silly. I'm a switch but I can appreciate if my partner can take a dominant role. I feel you can sense more of the passion by taking the sub role. The thrill of being humiliated, degraded, and owned by someone you find attractive is intoxicating. I love that.
>>83270014Different strokes - I personally want a pillow princess who is supremely selfish and mostly wants me around for company. I love pet play and codependency.
>>83269564I've paid SO much money to be humiliated by attractive women it's unreal
>>83269623youre the equivlent of someone who refuses vacation because youre a 'hard worker'fuck you youre ruining it for the rest of us
>>83269564The girl that I'm going on a date with is unironically a mean sadistic bitch and I love it. She constantly plays and toys with my emotions and make me feel bad for even the slightest mistakes.
>>83270468That's not femdom, that's abuse.
>>83270507Call it what you will. She excites me.
>>83269677Don't know about most guys but I like the idea of switching. Sometimes I'd grt to tell her what to do, sometimes she'd get to tell me what to do, you know?Of course I'd also just like the lovey-dovey shit too. I actually have zero interest unless I'm going to hear "I love you, anon" at some point during the act.
I'm sad I can never experience this
>>83269623Get out and kys>>83269985GIWTWM
>>83269605tsmt. I wish I was able to rid myself of this fetish because I know its inevitable conclusion and it brings me so much anxiety because femdom is the only thing I can get off to and I don't want to become a cuckold or a sissy faggot
>>83269564Unfortunately most femdom (and bdsm in general) today is performative. Both from the side of supposed 'Dommes' who are usually just entitled brats and 'subs' who are just lazy guys look to try another porn category. Imo, the ideal Dommes and subs are ones that don't even label themselves as such. For example, as sub, I'd want my ideal partner to just be assertive and like teasing in like 'affectionate bully' kind of way, not be some latex-clad bitch with a 20'' dildo. Similarly, I am not into all the chastity, petplay & pegging stuff that commonly thought of when femdom is mentioned. I just want to make my partner happy and be devoted to them, maybe occasionally do some light kinky stuff in bed, but otherwise have a normal loving relationship.
>>83272366>Unfortunately most femdom (and bdsm in general) today is performative.i mean thats the point, fun roleplay for nerds
>>83272376I don't mean in it in that way. I meant how most 'bdsm' communities are just full of people who are either insufferable or don't know the first thing about what it means to trust someone enough to submit to or dom someone and just are there because they saw it on Pornhub.
>>83269605>Most of them want a pay piggy cuckhold they can cheat on. Because 99% of women aren't aroused by femdom. They just go along with the kink because it benefits them financially. But for some weird reasons a lot of subs are turned on by this performative act for money.
>>83272586>But for some weird reasons a lot of subs are turned on by this performative act for money.I think it's just a displaced and warped expression of trying to be a provider which is the role society conditions men to take on.
>>83272586Yup had this happen with guys adding me on discord or tumblr and wanted to get insulted, "cucked" and suchAnd I did cause they send money or gift cards, like I just played a role I guess I even googled what to say, it was like clocking into a job, but I felt absolutely nothing while doing it maybe some slight boredom, irritation, pity and just thought about the next $$$lowkey that turns them probably on if they knew though
>>83272586>Because 99% of women aren't aroused by femdom.Which sucks because it's such a hot dynamicFemdom is awesome. Watch this and tell me this isn't the hottest shit everhttps://www.xmegadrive.com/videos/mistress-sacred-slave-serving-by-licking-ass-and-sucking-cock/
>>83272658I don't find that hot at all. I'd rather have a man pin me against a wall and kiss my neck forcefully. This stuff in your video is bizarre to me.
>>83272671nta and that's NOT hot.buthow do you end up in a femdom thread if you don't like femdom anyways
>>83272671Yeah cuz you want the man (read: chad) to do allll the work>*yawn*Male sexuality is attacked again while female sexuality is promoted
>>83272694Women always show up where they're not wanted to offer their opinions.They can't handle the idea that a space isn't for them or that something isn't made to cater to them.
>>83272709>Women always show up where they're not wantedit's a FEMdom thread by definition it needs women, idiot retard.
>>83272658As someone who is into femdom, I always found stuff like this very meh.Why can't it just be cuddling with your partner while she occasionally teases you and whispers affectionate insults into your ear and how you are hers. Not this dominatrix stuff.
>>83272720It doesn't need women who aren't into femdom, idiot retard.You can also discuss a fetish without everyone involved present, idiot retard.
>>83272728cause that's not femdom that's just a rude gf
>>83272728Some of that is too extreme I must admit, but the ass worshiping part is hot. I want to feel owned and wanted. That boss bitch attitude and degradation is my weakness. But it's different from the bitchy attitude regular foids have. It's a hard to explain difference.
>>83272743eh I didn't mean insults in like a rude way. Just teasing.
>>83272706and you want the woman (read: Stacy) to do all the work.zzzzzzzzz
>>83272671>This stuff in your video is bizarre to me.Femdom is a masculine-minded interest. You wouldn't get it unless you have a very male mind.>>83272743>just a rude gfI like how she called him a rag, foot brush, and a dog. That degradation is so hot.
>>83272759>(read: Stacy)the avg couple into that shit looks like picrel (or often they are a bit older)
>>83272752Dw I get the difference what you mean.Personally, I do also want to fell owned and wanted, but I suppose not via my partner having that kind of attitude. The whole being dressed as a gimp and doing stuff never really appealed that much to me irl (it can be hot in certain fantasy contexts).I just want someone who'll like come home and pin me to the wall and give me neck bites because she missed me. Then I can go make dinner for us while she relaxes, maybe give her a foot massage while she playfully insults me how I am a perv for liking her feet. And we cuddle after or have sex with her calling the shots, but once again it being fairly vanilla otherwise, not some hardcore gimp stuff.
>>83272694I am interested in the arguments and how much truth or cope is in the threads. I don't need to enjoy a fetish to learn or argue about it.
>>83272759Maledom involves the woman just taking it all. Seldom she might give a blowjob but even that can just turn into rough facefucking.Femdom at least the man still has to perform. It's more reciprocal which is why men are leaning towards femdom. She spits and pisses into his mouth, sits on his face, while he has to swallow it all, lick it up, worship her. It's so much better balanced in terms of effort on each side. Femdom is the real maledom. Those that know, know. Foids have gaslighted men into believing "maledom" is "maledom.">Yes chad, you're so dominant pursuing me and serving meMen are seeing through the charade now.
As a woman I'm not really into femdom but there is one part that turns me off even more. A lot of femdom seems to have the man's obedience, affection and drive tied to not having post-nut clarity. I've read many posts of dominant women complaining that their male sub is only eager or good if he is horny and with post-nut clarity he is kind of out of it. Female subs don't really do this. In fact, a lot of female subs become even MORE needy after sex and want to cuddle and still fully embody that energy. Female subs (generally speaking) don't need be horny to be truly submissive and not just drop you and lose all their energy.
>ywn get to experience this
>>83272826>I just want someone who'll like come home and pin me to the wall and give me neck bites because she missed me. Then I can go make dinner for us while she relaxes, maybe give her a foot massage while she playfully insults me how I am a perv for liking her feet. And we cuddle after or have sex with her calling the shots,I would like that too.But for me, degradation and humiliation adds to the domination experience of femdom which makes it more potent. If she's degrading you and humiliating you, depending on the way, it adds to the power imbalance and I think that's why I like it. I want to be forced to call her a goddess or queen I have to worship while she calls me a rag, a dog, her slave, worm, toilet paper, and other demeaning words. The tone of that woman in the video is spot on. Commanding, dominant, harsh in a sexy way. But knowing she's getting off to it as hard as I am from the power play so it's not truly malicious. Deep down you know it's from a place of mutual desire.
>>83272854yes but how is that...not well known? It's the same for any type of sex. males have a refractory period.He should still be obedient even when he's not horny though, that's key. if he's NOT obedient when he's not horny, then he's still in charge you know!
>>83272854I mean if I masturbate by myself, I almost always get hit with post-nut clarity and find the stuff I jerked off to, but also sex in general, a bit repulsive.However, when I had a domme for a while (it was long-distance sadly), after a few months, whenever I'd cum under her orders or such, I wouldn't feel that way. Instead, I'd feel more vulnerable and just had this lovey-dovey feeling and empty mind and wanted to cuddle with her and make her happy and whatnot.I think it largely depends on the trust and how deep the dynamic is.
>>83272902It's just really lame and gay. It ruins this idea of submission and eagerness, just makes it obvious that it's "ME MALE ME WANT TO NUT!!!" so that ultimately the whole thing is just his dick talking and not his heart.If a maledom loses interest when he cooms, it still at least fits into this idea of sadistic person who uses you. But your SUB being like this? Ew.
>>83272910That seems a lot more based. But I don't think it's the norm, I see a lot of complaints from dommes that their subs only behave or are loving/eager when horny.
>>83272916>But your SUB being like this? Ew.Shouldn't that make you like the sub more if you are interested in a maledom to begin with?
>>83272916>It's just really lame and gayit's just biology. and yes it's lame and gay when you want to keep going and he can't but that's true for normal sex too.>It ruins this idea of submission and eagernessI disagree. he'll lose his sexual interest when he cooms but they always do, in EVERY type of relationship. if he's truly submissive and a good boy, he'll obey when he's not horny and when he's horny.
>>83272922Absolutely not. I wouldn't be really interested in a careless dominant man either (and I don't have to) but in a submissive who tells you that you are his master, that he lives to worship you, just to get that image shattered after he got his nut is more offending to me.
>>83272910>just had this lovey-dovey feeling and empty mindThis lol. After fapping to femdom, it's more like I get more mentally pliant and vulnerable because it's like I just had a mind-blowing orgasm that I have to recover from. Being ruined by a domme that bad floods the brain with oxytocin. It's like "yeah, damn bitch. you own me lol"The post-nut clarity thing is weird in general. I obviously get refractory periods, like any male because that's just biology, your body has to recover all the semen you just lost and neurotransmitter changes, but the post-nut clarity I haven't really experienced. I guess it's because I'm not that desperate? Or don't feel desperate so it never occurs to me.
>>83272854>Female subs (generally speaking) don't need be horny to be truly submissive and not just drop you and lose all their energy.>>83272916>It ruins this idea of submission and eagernessWhy don't you go lesbian? That might be more your thing
>>83272981She sounds like a virgin maybe. she has some stuff to learn
>>83272854That problem is solved with prostate orgasms. They don't have the same kind of chemical dropoff as penis orgasms. There's no point in a woman ever letting her man cum from penile stimulation, they're both better off if he doesn't and prostate orgasms feel better anyway.
>>83273018You are especially better off when you have to start wearing diapers eventually... don't go putting stuff where it wasn't intended.
ive had only one discord finsub and it was pure luck. how do i get more. ;-;
>>83272821How do brits have that distinct look
>>83273070Because like 1/4 of all Brits have fetal alcohol syndrome.
>>83273074But the ones in he pic just look funny not retarded
>>83272998>>83272981>"submissive" men are entitled and rude Yep no good boys to be found just male coomers wanting to push their nut fetish.
>>83273409>Subs can't be brattyBrats act that way so they can be put in their place fyi. I don't think you're capable of doing that though lol>nut fetish>having an orgasm is a fetishkek
I want to lick a girl's ass for hours
>>83269605>I wanna be dominated and humiliated by a woman!>Oh good I found some women who are into that!>What the fuck, why do they keep trying to humiliate and dominate me in ways I hate, to flex their sadistic control over me?!Hahaha.Mommydom thread is down the hall, anon. Otherwise you're not understanding the psychological reality here.
>>83273514Can you escort me to the mommydom thread?
>>83273514>What the fuck, why do they keep trying to humiliate and dominate me in ways I hate, to flex their sadistic control over me?!That's not why they do it though. These women don't get off on being sadistic and having a little small dick cuck. They just want the money. They pretend and roleplay.
>>83273514Except the fact that 98% of women who are doing findom and such are not into femdom or being dommy, they just are in it to earn money. If anything, most of the have their entire shtick about how they have an alpha bf or whatever that fucks them while you pay them.Mommy stuff is cringe too, though.
Still waiting for a foid who wants to keep a moidpet like this
>>83273893you'll be waiting 5eva that's longer then 4eva
>>83273070generations upon generations of inbreeding
>>83272671>femdom thread >"Um I'm a woman and I want to get dominated by a man"Are you retarded? Genuinely
