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What's stopping you from cold approaching?
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>>83270270
I'm not approaching that. Cold or otherwise
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>>83270270
The cold, it makes me uncomfortable. I'm tall and skinny so I don't do well on low temperatures.
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>>83270270
I'm deathly afraid of women, I'm also a NEET shut-in loser so I couldn't do anything with her anyway since I have no money.
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>>83270270
Im 5'4 and no woman on earth wants a man my height cold approaching them. I have had my share of gfs and hookups but always through mutual friends or coworkers etc. Cold approach doesn't work for everyone
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>>83270270
>What's stopping you from cold approaching?
Mostly I guess the looks of disgust on the faces of the 1/100 of strangers on the street I see who also happen to be attractive women.
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>>83270270
there isnt a point to jester moding for sex. better to do 2-3 routine social activities and establish myself there. women will fling onto you as iron filings to a magnet if you comport yourself correctly. auramax
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>>83270270
I'm too damn hot to cold approach.
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>>83270270
A wedding ring
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>>83270270
No woman has ever given me that look, every woman immediately shows disinterest when our eyes meet, whats the point of cold approaching if you know shes not interested?
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>>83270320
Also I've never seen it work in my entire 3 decades of life, but I have seen guys brutally fail it. Women always meet through friends one way or another, otherwise they are just loose whores on a string of one night stands.
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Places to hot approach? A speed dating?
I do not have friends to mingle with.
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>>83270270
who is this Dublin beauty?
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>>83270327
Doesn't mean anything these days, what's timmy gon' do?
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>>83270270
>pic
wtf is that
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>>83270270
Sexual harassment laws.
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>>83270270
>What's stopping you from cold approaching?
dignity
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>>83270270
I never go outside because people shit on me just for being near them. this would be the ultimate humiliation.
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Nothing, I actually started doing it last year. Yes it was awkward as shit, but I did get a single coffee date.
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>>83270647
Good for you man cingrats
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>>83270647
How man? I'm so incredibly terrified of rejection. And beyond that, I'm ugly as hell and have no friends + work minimum wage dead end job so there's no way anyone would respond positively anyway.
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>>83270676
made a thread about it a few days ago
>>83215299
and one about the date itself
>>83197295

Hope it helps man, I'm no model, I'm short, and so socially awkward I can't walk in public without being so painfully self aware I never know where to look, how to stand, how to move my arms etc.
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>>83270676
Extreme luck or he's lying. Almost no relationships start via "cold approaching", even when people meet at work/school/bars they usually share a social circle or friend group, women very rarely stray from the herd and when they do they usually lead horrible lives, like an aids whore shaking their ass on the street for money.

In general if you've interacted with a female stranger (and you aren't chad) most act like frightened children being preyed on if you even get near them.
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The woman I'm dating approached me first
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I'm in love with her ing
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>>83270531
I'm sure its not that bad. We tend to create our worst nightmares.
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>>83271682
nah, I do have it that bad. you'd understand if you knew me.
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>>83271699
Are you physically healthy? Got weird skin conditions etc?
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im too shy to do things like that
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>>83270270
Women told me that cold approaching is creep behavior.
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A few youtube channels that do cold approach:

https://www.youtube.com/@DinZul
https://www.youtube.com/@Hey_excusee_mee
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>>83270270
I look like a schizophrenic hobo. Nobody wants some random person like that to talk to them. It just gives them fight/flight responses and ruins my day.
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>>83270270
Cold approaching is like the most retarded thing to do. Happy and lasting relationships are not formed by approaching a random stranger. They grow out of pre-existing relationships, mutual interests, overlapping social circles etc. The best result you might get from a cold approach is a one-night stand. However, the worst is getting laughed at and considered weird.



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