I want genuine opinions and discussions please so try to engage honestly and fullywhich is the worse outcome for a man who was an incel(/volcel) for his 20s:>utterly giving up at 35, getting what little social stimulation he needs from the internet but otherwise merely existing and indulging in consumption of media and/or alcohol to cope until he diesOR>finally giving into a succubus of some description in his 30s and either having his heart and soul ripped to shreds due to lack of experience/awarenesd AND/OR becoming a lifelong slave to her i.e. getting divorce raped or otherwise just being her walletthere's no third option in this hypothetical so please DON'T try to dodge around it or come up with alternative situations/solutions, please just consider the two options and weigh in on which you think does more damage to the soulALSO in either case please assume suicide is not a viable option, survival instinct and/or fear of death is so high that it just can't happen
the first does way more damage to the soul. citation: i have been in both outcomes. i would willingly throw myself at the second forever, because no amount of media or alcohol replaces the feeling of being near other people.
>>83273458What is your thoughts OP? What do you think is worse, and why?
Why are you under the impression women need to be a specific age to rip your heart anf soul outYour entire framework is a wash doesnt matter if shes 14-65 its the same there is no magical age where women are not women
>>83274428you read it wrong. OP is proposing that the male in his 30s gets shredded by a woman of indeterminate age due to his own inexperience
>>83274445I know im saying that happens regardless of either parties sexual experience It doesn't matter if she's a virgin or a blown out whore they will judge your inexperience under the same framework
>>83274428>>83274445Falling off your skateboard at 16 is different than when you're 32. It hurts more, the pain lasts longer, you're more likely to scar than scab, and you have a lot less ability to bounce back and recover.Men who got destroyed in their teenage years are far more likely to learn, grow, mature from it and end up ultimately in a better position.>>83274410Read above.In my 30s I had my 1/3rd life crisis and got into an ill advised relationship with a BPDemon that only lasted a year and many years later I'm still recovering with no light visible at the end of the tunnel.I thought I was lonely and misanthropic beforehand but I was naive and inexperienced, now I have a much more advanced and well-informed misanthropy and all of it hurts quite badly.
