Do humans really lose interest in people quickly and get bored of their partners? It's human nature to pursue new experiences with intense emotional sensations. Most people seem to move on so quickly after a breakup>Men love bomb and get bored of their wives>Men get tired of their wife being a ball and chain and cheat>Women have a honeymoon phase and get bored of their husbands>Women grow to hate their husbands and see them as providers
I noticed most people are like this, npc vibes in my opinion, meanwhile for me it takes years to cope that a relationship is over.
Yes, it's evolutionary psychology. Men exist to spray their seed as far and wide as possible. Women are more choose to ensure they can pick the best men, but that doesn't mean they don't enjoy fucking around too, and competing for hypergamy. Men literally needed to establish patriarchy to ensure that women didn't just get passed around by Chad harems. It's not NATURAL for men OR women to be loyal in the long term. The man wants to fuck around as much as possible, and many men are loyal just because that's all they can get. Women want to trade their man for a better man, and only stay loyal die to social or legal pressure Remember humans are just apes
>>83274480I guess I'm the weirdo, every girlfriend I've been with cheated on me. I never even flirted with a girl while in a relationship. I guess the fact they are not scared they might lose me makes the spark for them disappear, they need the DRAMA, they need to be the protagonist in that romance thriller
Look at "the 7 year itch".Humans are not meant to be in life long relationships.
>>83274503You're picking bad women. There are women that don't cheat, despite popular belief to the contrary. The one I got that doesn't cheat is extremely sensitive and very very very moralistic. If I do something rude or insensitive it's like the world is coming to an end. Righteous fury. But she is insanely and aggressively loyal. Or find a cool chill chick who isn't like that and fucks her ex once in a while nbd
>>83274531>Look at "the 7 year itch".>Humans are not meant to be in life long relationships.I'm pretty sure the 7 year itch is more like a year itch and the cause is SHE ISN'T PREGNANT.. Animal brains conclude that one of you is infertile and you should separate. Literally just have a fucking baby and you'll be too tired to fuck each other, much less have an affair. She'll be stuck to you like glue because having a baby makes them fear abandonment on a deep instinctual level. Just get her pregnant and be a reliable, stable personality and she's yours
>>83274544Holy shit bro she is getting absolutely railed by chad while you're at work.Women are an amplified opposite of what they claim to be.
>>83274561That does not work when daddy government, child support and alimony is there to swoop in and save her.She will get an itch in her pussy for the next chad no matter what.
>>83274582Yes you are no longer Daddy, Government is Daddy. They want the flagpole of the political building to impregnant them so they can sue the government for all the money.
>>83274562Brother, you can heal from the damage. They aren't all cheaters>>83274582Same answer
>>83274480You've actually described the tradlarp pretty realistically, but now all we have is the bad parts for men and none of the good one's that incentivized women not to act badly. You faggots need to just accept its over and work towards dismantling the bad parts because the fairytale we've been sold isn't coming back.
>>83274503>I guess I'm the weirdo, every girlfriend I've been with cheated on meNot a weirdo. We no longer live under patriarchy so women aren't forced to stay loyal. You are simply seeing the end result of that
>>83274561Bro if you typed this cringe shit out without even batting an eye you need to get off this website and work on your porn addiction psychosis asap
>>83274421There are plenty of couples that stay together for 40 or 50 years I've been with my wife for 16 years
>>83274503>they are not scared they might lose me makes the spark for them disappear, they need the DRAMA, they need to be the protagonist in that romance thrillerI very much believe that it all comes down to the origins of the relationship and how it started, people of no chemistry get together out of convenience or because their instinct is telling them to get a partner, they get it way easily especially for the average woman, it's all meaningless.Not leaving someone or being left by them relies on how irreplaceable you become or how uniquely special you are to them
Modern society killed romance for good, it is what it is
>>83275700I tend to think women have some imagined image of me based on my looks. Once the veil is shattered for them you are just another incel who needs to kill himself.
>>83275811Modern society created romance actually. Marriage used to be much more...transactional I guess you'd say. Marriage benefited both men and women and their town and their state so it was beneficial but the whole modern idea of love was very foreign to them...because as everyone notes itt it's fleeting.
>>83274561>"Just get her pregnant">She kills the baby with drugsOk now what
>>83274726>who hurt youfuck off foid.
>>83274531Well, they are, but the reality is that 'life long' in the modern era means a very different thing than what it meant to prehistoric man.
>>83275846Whenever a girl takes a fancy to me I try to recall where and in what context she noticed me. Usually it's where I'm alouf and distant, like walking past her in a hallway and just saying "hi" as we pass. From here the bitches create a Mystery Man persona for me which I can only really bring down, degrade and destroy as we grow closer. This is the plight of being almost 2 meters tall, they really just want me to pseudo-rape them, they do not get off to me fondling their tits, thighs and ass for hours on the sofa while I lowkey force them to play retro PS1 games with me while I feed them jellyworms.
Monogamy is a mistake. Men are made for spreading their seed everywhere while women were made to give birth to children all from different fathers to have genetic variation. It's our nature. Embrace the slutty nature.
>>83276194That honestly sounds perfect how were they not smitten?
>>83274421I would honor kill a woman if I was dating her and she made a video like this
>>83274421people dont realise that the true endgame of a relationship is being content together, usually after having kids. It's not whirlwind romance and endless passion, it's sharing your life with someone you genuinely enjoy being around, with maybe some occasional sex. The problem is that people think the relationship is failing as soon as the puppy love phase is over and you're starting to slip into a comfortable normal. True happiness is not endless excitement, it's being content with what you have. True love is true happiness with someone else
I had my fun I know what is out there and I already enjoyed it. My bf well he had 4 gfs before me and squandered his cute years. He is still cute but in a mid 30's way. I feel we are a well balanced pair and don't yearn for more.
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>>83274421Honestly if I were that guy and saw my girl posted this shit I would break up with her immediately.
>>83274421I think on average that might be true, however I can only speak from my personal experience here. I have been now 10 years with the same man and I only feel more attached to him as time goes by. In these 10 years, I have never lusted or desired anyone else. Not once. And through my work I was surrounded by men from all over the world, some rich, trying to get into my pants. Sometimes I would get irritated or bored, but I was bored of EVERYTHING then. It was never "I am bored, someone else is better than him!" because I know there is no one. I am deeply bonded to him. Perhaps it is also our circumstances. When we met, we were both kissless virgins and made all experiences together. We also spend a lot of time together (pretty much every day at least 8+ hours) because he works from home. So, looking at my own relationship I know it's possible to never get bored and only grow more obsessed.I remember this quote and it went kind of like:>time is to love like wind is to fire>it snuffs out the small ones but oh how it inflames the big fires
