is anyone afraid to have a son because how bad of a parent your father was? mine was brutal, when im old now im scared id repeat the cycle
I refuse to pull someone out of the void of existence and placing them into a dying world.
My father was a good man until recently. I wouldn't want any child since I view it as unethical since it would sentence them to a life with a lot of suffering.
>>83276228My father was a gokd man. Thats why I'm not a whore at 32 or prior. But raising a son. I do fear without a string father
>>83276228My father was mostly absent when I was young and totally absent from ages 10 onward. If I ever have a kid I'll just adopt. No need to pluck more souls from the void.
>>83276228Afraid, yeah. Because it took me a while to understand how Human my father was and it'll probably take my child the same amount of time to understand that about me. I'm gonna fuck up, but that baby is mine and it will have a father
>>83276228nah it's over for me i don't even think of having a son or any child
my realization was that all children are actual subhumans and i deserved everything that happened
>>83276228I feel the opposite, I'd be a better father than my own because I can see his flaws and mistakes but don't have the ego or feel the entitlement required to repeat them.
>>83276228Of course. I always said I wouldn't have a kid exactly because of this. Now I'm mid 30s with time ticking fast, and my wife thinks I would make a great father. Those are two hard contrasting ideas to reconcile in your head. I'm aware of my flaws and I know how badly it can go if you aren't able to tame them.
>>83276228No, I'll put the fear of god in my son. I was afraid of my father, and by god, my sons will be afraid of me. It's how it has to go. One day you psychologically overcome and kill your father, and that's the day you finally start to be a man. A father's job is to be his son's oppressor until his son overthrows him. On that day, you know you've raised a self-determining son.
>>83276228I'm afraid to have a son because seeing a better version of myself would be the tipping point for me.
>>83276228I am an inferior being look at everything around you, it was made by turbo smart sex havers who were NOT incels. I life a life of such low quality it's not even funny at this point.
