>Be a good listener, ask questions, convincingly feign interest, put in effort to make them feel good>It's my turn to talk>They're clearly bored out of their minds and can only muster a "...yeh" after I talk about something I'm passionate about>Ruins it for me and I just stop talking When will it be MY turn?
>>83277248>It's my turn to talk>When will it be MY turn?anon are you retarded
>>83277248I really hate talking to people about things I enjoy because they aren't into them so even if they feign interest it all feels like a massive waste of time and energy. I prefer silence
>>83277248>convincingly feign interestThis is the problem, you don't share interests so once you talk the illusion from the feigned interest is broken.
you'd want the play-pretend curiosity you gave them?
>>83277248>>Be a good listener,Try being a good talker too
>>83277248Most people do this. I have a friend that gives me a detailed report of his work during the week every time we meet.Luckily enough we always hang out aht the pub so I just drink while ignoring everything he says.
>>83277248it's your demeanor and overall aura study batman or andrew tate
i've done the math and most people don't want to talk to me
>>83277264that's a dark souls meme
>>83277248I'm in a gayass relationship now with an anon. He reflexively shits on anything I talk about until I stop talking. I feel alone around him.
>>83277248Yeah bro. Nobody cares about you except your grandma. And she only cares about you because she doesnt want you to cremate her.
>>83277248Why would you feign interest and want it feigned back at you? Have you tried finding legitimate common ground?
