Why do men here get so mad when you tell them you want a boyfriend who treats you like a cute child, takes care of you and is a father figure? Even if you are both the same age or just a few years younger. Just the dynamic.Are you guys just jealous and wish to be women? That's the spiritually right way of things.
>>83277590that's cool lil bro
probably jealous. I want a gf to treat like a child and take care of
>men wanna fuck kids>women want to be the kidno, i find it hilarious as fuck that natural selection has led to this point (idk what natural selection means so dont bully me for it if i got it wrong)
>>83277590Why are you into DDLG? It's a weird fetish.
>>83277615The "kid" is a grown, adult woman though. Aside from the spiritual vibe and being playful there is no actually pedo shit involved at all. >>83277611Based.
>>83277611Me too, anon, so long as she actually takes some responsibility like chores. I want kids too, though
>>83277633I would give her an allowance for doing chores. I also want to buy her clothes I want her to wear
>>83277590I'm in this dynamic but I'm tall and a hag T-T he doesn't seem to mind though at least
>>83277590You want all the rights and privileges of an adult with responsibilities and accountability of a child
>>83277590What the fuck. No one says that, only you
>>83277590>Are you guys just jealous and wish to be women?Personally yes I'm unironically jealous. Being a woman seems easy and comfy. And I'm also seething that there are so many women, especially feminists, who lied to me about what they want just because they can't handle telling the truth about their own desires.
>>83277590What's wrong with that, it sounds lovely. Too bad I'm invisible
>>83277590idk, why do women here get mad when I tell them I want to sexually dominate them and fuck their ass sometimes? I like that dynamicAre you girls just jealous and wish to be men? That's the spiritually right way of things
>>83277644When she's bigger/older than you, the petplay dynamic is superior. I love my big cuddly catto.
Women are pedophiles. That's it. They just want men taller than them simply to feel like a kid again.
>>83277590Why do people say that?This is the only health dynamic that is at all possible in a relationship because it represents objective reality.Good for you, OP.Also get rid of those losers who say this kind of stuff, they are just trying to drag you down. Probably they are communists or something and are just saying this out of resentment
>>83277818That makes me happy T-T
Foid OP unironically wants a groomer boomer
>>83277590>Are you guys just jealous and wish to be women?I get jealous but not of women, that would be ridiculous.
>foids are literal manchildren losers who refuse to grow up, yet they expect you to respect themFoids shouldn't be allowed to vote.
>>83277924>yet expect you to respect themThere are varying levels of respect but it's all respect. I respect animals, property, and people but I'm not going to apologize to a wall if I walk into it.
>>83277924I don't want to vote and I don't care about politics.Politics is moid brained stuff anyway.
I don't want to be treated like a child but I sure want to see at least one man in my life that would feel fatherly and like he could be trusted with children. So far all men I have ever seen were children themselves or at right psychos who just see kids as assets
>>83277590marx said that w*men actually wanted equal relationships with men btw, yet another example of that kike being wrong
>>83277985Everything Marx said was a lie that was spread in order to destroy society.Actually it wasnt even marx who lied.Marx was a Satanist so he just wrote what the Devil told him to write.
>>83278026i disagree, he was a jew who hated the middle class and wanted to return us to aristocracy
>>83277590i think i wouldnt mind it, but im not currently put together or competent enough to treat someone like that. if i had my shit together maybe. but i cant even support myself yet.
>>83277590Daddy issues are pathetic.
>>83277590I had a gf who claimed she wanted a "father figure" bf but got pissy when I told her to be responsible and think of her future. Funny.
>>83278147I actually don't have daddy issues because my Dad is a good man and married to my Mom and treats me well.
>>83278151Because when they mean father figure foids mean just someone who will never call them out on shitty behavior or expect them to take responsibility for anything, he's literally supposed to just provide them with a cushy life and enable all their uselessness.
>>83278185Damn and here I was thinking that one of the things I missed out on due to growing up without a father was having someone who could have provided me with support while guiding me to become more independent and forward thinking.
>>83277590Are you guys just jealous AH FUCK OFF.
>>83277590It's pretty simple if you think about it. You're more than likely a run through whore who got dicked down by many men before.To expect a partner to act parental despite that fact disgusts me on a spiritual level.
>>83277590You don't want a partner, you want father replacement you dumb bitch. You subhuman foids will call old men pedophiles for dating 18 year olds while you yourself never mentally mature beyond the age of 12 so every man would be a pedophile for dating a womanchild foid. Kys.
>>83278481I'm a virgin actually famalam But does it matter? I always thought being a virgin makes you more desirable but I think "hotness" matters far more to men. There have been very slutty girls on r9k who literally post pussy and tits into threads but they are super hot so men still want to wife them.
>>83278574>But does it matter?Yeah it does matter, dumbfuck. The kind of guy that goes awooga for some attention whore bimbo isn't the same guy who likes the father-daughter dynamic in a relationship. Shouldn't that be obvious? Word of advice, lacking theory of mind is also very unattractive for guys that want this dynamic you seek.
>>83278679>Word of advice, lacking theory of mind is also very unattractive for guys that want this dynamic you seek.Meh, you sound like a faggot.
>>83277644How tall is tall compared to him thoughbeit
>>83278706I'm 177 cm and he's 180 so we rlly don't feel like "daddy" and "cute girl" but he doesn't seem to mind
>>83277590This is what I want if there is a big height difference then even better I love small girls.
>>83278682Struck a nerve there, huh? Just remember that if the only reason you want this dynamic is because you're an incompetent dullard, you will never find someone who will care for you and satisfy your need for a father figure.All you will get is guys that exploit and drop your retarded ass in a heartbeat when someone more interesting comes around.
>>83278791You talk and argue in a girly way. Not a stoic, unbothered masculine way. That's why I don't care what you have to say because you are not who I would gravitate towards.
>>83278574There are a lot of dudes who do not simp for bimbos and whores but you treat them as if they do anyway
>>83278798>you don't talk like my idealistic version of a father figure on this chinese basket-weaving forumReality is often disappointing, kid.
>>83277590This is my wife 100%. She acts very spoiled. Being as we already have 2 kids, it makes me feel like she's the 3rd. It's nice at times, but shit, it can be very mentally draining. When she's feeling cuddley, it's cute.
>>83279065>it can be very mentally drainingThis would be my big concern dating someone like this. It cannot be full-time, especially once you have kids.
>>83277590I want an adult woman to be an incestuous father figure to but I don't want to date her. Dating family is fucking weird. Just stick to sex.
>>83277644What's tall?
>>83279092I replied here >>83278734 and yes I think 5'10 177cm is tall it's taller than almost all women worldwide
>>83278760I'm 6' and my wife is 5' 3". Not bad, but I used to date this chick that was 4' 8". While it didn't work, holy fuck it was hot. I could pick her up with so much ease. Only down side, she gained so much weight after she had kids.
>>83279097Gotcha, yah the whole father figure/child dynamic might be a bit tough. I saw someone say it earlier, petplay might be your best bet. IMO, with that height, (depending on your body type) exhibitionist might be fun. Short skirts feel even shorter
>>83279114I am 6'2 and had a e-gf who was 4'9 and I would have married her. Small women are simply the cutest I don't like tall women that much unless they are very feminine.
>>83277590I dont get why this is supposed to be bad.Can some explain?If femanon wants to be treated like that and is fine with being in the proper place that women belong to, then why is that bad?The happiest women I know are the wifes of the people at church who submit to their husbands and have lots of children.They just look happy all the time, and the man decides where they are going to go and they support them.Before I saw that I used to think that male female relationships are so broken that nothing could ever fix them at this point.But what OP wants is very close to that, which is actually good and sane.
>>83279073I get pulled in every direction. It is very exhausting. With that being said, the dynamic can be fun on the side that I hold all the cards. She'll add sex into her pleas for certain stuff. Perfect example, "I'll get on my knees for you later this evening if you get this for me" while holding a something she doesn't wanna send her allowance on (she's a stay-at-home, so I give her an allowance when I get paid). I mostly give her that so she'll wear what I want, when I want. Thongs/gstrings 24/7 and lastly manicure her pubic region (I buy her the best razors, moisturizers, antibump serum, ect. I like her to be soft to the touch)
>>83279179>4'9 girlfriendi just can't get over their shitty short genes being passed on to sons
>>83279179I am 6ft4 at some point all people are just small. But yes I would like to have a small cute gf as well. I can probably lift her even if she is tall because I can almost squat my own bodyweight. But that does not mean it wouldnt be nice if she is really easy to pick up and light.Thats nice and cute
>>83279186A lot of men are disgusted by that and want a mommy.
>>83279204But then those men are just mentally ill.Why should their opinion matter?
>>83279179I agree, with the exception that any women who actually listens to what I say is a win in my books. I'll take someone taller even, but I want to be the one who dresses them however I want and do whatever I want.
>>83277590Repressed incestuous feelings for your dad.Take your meds
>>83279199Nobody really cares about that and I certainly don't small girls should be loved and should have lots of cute small children.>>83279201Yeah but having like 40 cm height difference is so much hoter. I simply like feminine women and they tend to be more feminine when they are smaller.
>>83279204Not disgusted here, but they'd definitely get looked over by a man that's take charge. I just want my wife to follow my lead. She's gotten much better/ happier since then. She doesn't argue much now days. You better believe though, if I'm wrong, I have to own it.
>>83277590I'm kinda like this but also half-way dominant. I want to be tucked in, head pats, treated with care mostly and sometimes restrained/ruffled BUT also have some dominance. I like to control things, decide what we eat, what we do and so on. So I guess like a dominant kid with a sweet caretaker?
>>83279235I definitely care I don't want a cursed manlet bloodline lmao
>>83279239I like the dynamic of mostly letting the sub do whatever but sometimes exerting full control. I don't know what that's called. Apathetic?
>>83279218I like sub women as well and it can be fun that way but I tend to like a more equal relationship in day to day things where we support each other and act as friends who love each other.>>83279241Then have children with a tall women more cute small ones for me.
>>83279239I can agree with this, irregardless of her height. Headpats, nah. I love to rub the back of her head like when she's on her knees for me.
>>83278679Anon, what ARE you looking for in a partner? Assuming you like this dynamic
>>83279239Are you also short and good at banter/teasing? This is very important.
>>83277644That's cute give SHORT GUYS A CHANCE!
>>83279239Thats the actual worst because you are undermining your man and constantly pushing him. And once you win the only reward is that you lose respect.The only option with a girl like that is this:Either you break her - and you are not legally allowed to do whats necessary for this.Or you abandon her.Or your relationship will either turn into a never ending hell, or it will fall apart.Those are the only options.
>>83277590strangely so i wouldn't have a problem with this dynamic going both ways, i'd like to treat my gf as a little girl and i'd also like to be the little boy of my gf
>>83279274I'm actually in a relationship with a sweet man for a long, long time with this exact dynamic. He proposed marriage but I don't want some government bond, for me it's spiritual. I think you need to touch grass if you think in extremes.
>>83279255>>83279267>>83279272Note that all of these are just fetishizing the bratty aspect of this.Its not entertaining how a real relationship would play out because that is so absurd or awful
>>83279291I'm bratty and smug and my relationship is extremely loving and healthy. You are still projecting.
>>83279263That's definitely our out of the bedroom relationship. I'm chilling on our bed while she homeschools our youngest.>>83279239Described our relationship fairly well. In a bit, she doesn't know it yet, I'm gonna take them out for some coffee and a quick snack. I'll dress her how I want and she'll be happy as can be. Then later tonight, she'll be my sub and play that part.
>>83277590Isn't this wat its supposed to be like? Idk wat im missing here. Who wouldn't wanna be a nice stay at home while the husband does all of the wage slavery? Also I wouldn't mind a father figure. Mines a useless nigger who beat me and drank
>>83279287Probably you dont even know the living hell you have brought upon him. There are many such cases of men who get into these kinds of relationships and believe the illusion.Nothing you said even in the slightest bit contradicts it, nor does it even relativize it.I have seen this happen quite often. It is sad beyond all else.
>>8327929118 years later, our relationship is stronger than ever.
>>83279291>Note that all of these are just fetishizing the bratty aspect of thisI'm the first person you responded to and no that's not what I'm doing. I don't really care for the bratty part. I like when the sub is the one picking what to do, initiating things, etc most of the time and I only take control in rare instances or after the sub initiates. It's way better for me like that. Unfortunately most girls want the reverse.
>>83279316What are you even talking about? Just because YOU don't like it means all men suffer if they enter this dynamic? You can absolutely not like brats and that's fine, but why are you projecting so hard?As long as there is loyalty, love, ideally low body count or virginity, who cares.
>>83279303>>83277590seconded. it sounds great? why wouldnt want a wife staying at home taking care of things you can dote on after a hard days work
>>83279328> I like when the sub is the one picking what to do, initiating things, etc most of the time and I only take control in rare instances or after the sub initiates. It's way better for me like that.Nice to see this isn't super uncommon!
>>83279333Oh no its not about brats. Its about being controlling.If a woman is just pretending to be bratty that would be one thing.The thing is pretending to be a sub and then however not letting the man make any decisions and thereby undermining him with a hot/cold type of approach.Its like: yes I am a sub, but I am also a feminist and need to earn more money then you and decided where we go.Like, no.
>>83279347>yes I am a sub, but I am also a feminist and need to earn more money then you and decided where we goThat's exactly the kind of girl I want
>>83279347>The thing is pretending to be a sub and then however not letting the man make any decisions Why is this a problem if both sides enjoy this? Some people love control, others don't care. I like to plan our day, when we eat, where we go and so on. He doesn't care about it so he lets me do it. At the same time, he is sexually assertive and takes control physically.You personally might hate this but you can't just say this dynamic is doomed to fail. It is not and I am living proof.
>>83279366See, you have said the thing:He doesnt care about it. If he doesnt care about it and lets you do it. Then its one thing.You seem like you are submissive to your man but just like to keep order with the things that he lets you do.Thats a completely different thing from walking all over him so that he is not in charge.
>>83279273sauce of that story?
>>83277590i doubt anybody here has actually given a shit about your tame ass fantasy. this just seems like you're a femoid with unresolved attachment issues making this dumb thread for masochistic validation
Bro ew wtf
>>83279239sometimes submissive, sometimes autonomous?You seeing anyone rn?
