I only have his LinkedIn, i tried to catch him at several train stations based on his posts but didn't get anything yet so i think about sending him a message on LinkedIn but he's terminally normie, he will probably freak out if he see a message from a guy he don't know saying him he's schizophrenic, is obsessed about him and want to meet up to understand why. What should i send ?
>>83278864Communicate in aromas punctuated with morse coding.
>>83278864Stop stalking them, you freak.
>>83278889I don't plan to do anything weird, I just want to talk to him and it's the only way
>>83278913You might not realize it because you're severely mentally ill, but stalking someone and initiating contact is doing something weird, just leave them alone.
>>83278919I just spend so much time fantasying about our friendship, i feel that we are made to be friend and i am scared of dying before i had a chance to know the real him seeing him, is it really bad ? I don't even know anymore everything feels unreal rn
>>83278864May I ask how did u even beging to stalk this person?
>>83278947>i feel that we are made to be friendThis is a fantasy in your head, you're projecting it past the real person that they are.>is it really bad ?As someone who has been on the receiving end, yes, yes it is. Go to therapy before you do something stupid. You're already violating their boundaries and justifying it with fictions like "but I just KNOW we would like each other!"
>>83278864I don't think there is a way to not come off as crazy in this scenario. For one, coming across him "randomly" in public to talk to him might work. However, you will not get the level of conversation from him that you desire without coming off as pushy, or unhinged. Which will make you more frantic, and obsessed. On top of that it will be clear to him with any semblance of intelligence that you are not waiting to take a train, or truly there for a reason other than to catch him in public. Which is alarming. So if you do plan on catching him that way you better plan to take the train he is, with a good alibi/reason in the back of your mind to do so. That way it looks more organic, and take it the same time he does consistently. Slowly building up your relation with him with tidbits of small talk that lead up to more meaningful conversations.If you seek him out further than the train ride. He will start to understandibly suspect something is off. Why is he seeing you so frequently? On top of your desire to speak to him? He will suspect something is up. Admitting to your delusions will put him off, and scare/upset him. More than likely. You may want to just blend into the background and observe him for awhile with no contact. Make yourself seem like a normal passenger, or bystander. Gather information on him in silence, then wait for opportunities for organic small talk to arise. To gauge how he would react.The key to success on this is self-control, and patience. You need to control your desure to know, and couple it with persistance, and patience. Don't rush things.
>>83278947Don't worry anon, you just want friends, there is nothing wrong about that.
>>83278964we were in the same class three years ago but we never talked so he probably don't remember me, i just spend the three years thinking about him every day and recently had a dream with him it felt so real i started to do research about the place he works to try to find in public transport
>>83278973what did the person who stalked you made that made you uncomfortable ? it's a genuine question, if it hurt them maybe i should find an another way. For the therapy i don't know, most of psychologist don't want to take me because they say they can't help
>>83278864GIWTWM I wish I was appealing enough to mentally ill stalkers, preferably in my age group and not fat
>>83279012>what did the person who stalked you made that made you uncomfortable ?Stalking in the first place and creating a deceitful situation to get me to talk to them. This is really fucked up behavior. You've mentioned that you've looked at this person's social media, right? Why don't you just send them a friend request, say you've read their posts, noticed common interests and request to chat to see if you can hit it off?
>>83279020Being stalked isn't actually fun. People who stalk others aren't good to interact with.
>>83279026I don't want to be deceitful, i though that if i eet him at the train station i tell him that i knew he would pass by and that i wished we could be friend, it would probably scare him but if he tell me to just stop i would
>>83278864OP are you a male or a female, why cant you just call him?
>>83279060Male, i just have his linkedin i don't know if it's a good place to send him a message
>>83278864Im extremely mentally ill so I would probably be flattered if a female stalker contacted me. But only if she's decent looking
>>83279077He probably would not be checking it, most people forget about their linkedin>>83279088Same its my dream
>>83279020Yeah this guy >>83279029 is right. And 99% of stalkers are unattractive weirdos not sexy, mysterious men or women.
>>83279029>>83279177>humblebragI'd trust a dedicated loving stalker with my life >And 99% of stalkers are unattractive weirdos not sexythis is just an admission that it only has to do with looks much like anything else and otherwise it would be idealfor an unattractive person it wouldn't be attractive no matter the context. i just want someone I'm mildly attracted to to stalk me
