I got in a big fight with my father and we haven't talked to each other in 2 days already even though we live in the same place.I know I'm supposed to feel bad but I feel so peaceful and unbothered now, sucks that christmas is coming soon and I have to get along with him.Can I get an armchair psychologist diagnosis? Am I a narcissist or something?
>>83279553When I was like 11 years old I lived with my mother and we had a fight at the time and I said I was going to stop talking with her even though we lived together and it went for way over a month. I only started talking with her again because my grandma implored me because mom would cry around the house the whole day, but I didn't feel anything. She was a terrible human being at the time and I just felt like taking a huge weight off my back. I kinda do this kinda of stuff for a few weeks with father from time to time when fucks up with me, but he comes after me after a while I start talking with him again just fine. We don't live together though. My sister is way more brutal, she spent 11 years without talking with father after a fight.
what did you fight about, and is it a severe thing? and can it not be forgiven, because forgiveness is better than to remain in conflict. and you are dependent on your father so i suggest you sort that out. tell him you're sorry and let's find mutual understanding