I dont get the incels with this mindset of "No woman will ever love me" but when they meet a fat/ugly/etc. woman then they reject them. And then still act like no woman wants themTheres literally a whole subset of women who will take any guy, literally any guy. Ive sworn off dating because theres a big chance I may have BPD and I dont want to ruin any guys life (Cause I heard BPD girls do that even when they dont realize it) but theres many BPDemons, hambeasts, and general uggos who are so desperate they will let the most scrawny short acne ridden dork beat them repeatedly.Like I feel like a lot of incels nowadays (not all) just come from a place of being picky.
>>83281314No women will ever love me because they all despise guys who wanna be pegged
>>83281314I would be fine with a bpd girl if she would be in therapy. But I am not not fat or ugly. I have normal weight and look average so I want a girl like that as well what is wrong with that? I don't need a stacey just a nerdy girl.
>>83281314If women aren't pretty, they basically are worthless. It didn't used to be that way, women used to have personalities to compensate if they weren't hot, but that is gone now.So keep that in mind.Women don't have hobbiesWomen don't have interestsWomen aren't nurturingWomen aren't good listenersAnd if a women isn't pretty, not even other women want to put up with her cause she is basically worthless
>>83281314i would be happy with an ugly foid, a disabled foid, a retarded foid but not with an obese one.... i cant do it, i dont want to plapjak.
>>83281314>when they meet a fat/ugly/etc. woman then they reject themnever happenedanyway i'm not fat or ugly, why should i want a fat and ugly woman? i dont expect women to like fat and ugly men either
>>83281314Lemme guess, OP will never reply.
>>83281352>If women aren't prettyr9k 'incels' exposing themselves as stacysexual as usual. Stop posting this retarded image
>>83281314Can't speak for all men but I never had a chance to be picky or reject someone because nobody showed interest. Frankly I think you are talking out of your ass because it's pretty clear women are the ones who are picky. Men are desperate to get anything. Go outside and you will never see guy in relationship not being better looking or better in almost every way than the female he is dating.
>>83281314Well these women should give me their disc then
>>83281314>Theres literally a whole subset of women who will take any guy, literally any guyNo there isn't, it's very easy to be unlovable. If you throw tantrums over nothing like incels do, most people will rightfully avoid you
>>83281314Where are those mythical women? Because in reality women always talk about having a "type" and when I ask them what their "type" is they always reply with physical characteristics. They always go on and on about having standards etc. Women obviously have all the power when it comes to dating. They're the selectors who choose the man they want. Men have to constantly compete with other men. Women just have to exist.
>>83281314I dont even mind a woman being chubby, but I take care of my body so I dont see why it is unreasonable to at least want someone that is not morbidly obese
>>83281326Nah, man, Im very sure you could find someone on like Facebook who still posts shit like picrel
>>83281436that ain't love this is just her wanting money
>>83281314>settle for someone you are not sexually attracted toNo, I'm not at all desperate. I know yoh stupid sluts all like the same type of man but looks are subjective for men. There are women I think are ugly that other men think are goddesses.
>>83281350Imo you just cant be all "Omg no woman wants me" cause factually there are women who do you just dont want them. The way you feel about women theres several women who feel that way about you.I dunno just makes no sense to me.>>83281352The women Im talking about do usually have personalities since theyve spent all their time self isolating due to insecurity and lack of attention from men. So now they have a bunch of autistic interests and are more sympathetic/empathetic since they see themselves as below everyone.>>83281356What I said still applies then. Again its this ouroborus of guy angry that no girl wants him but rejects the girl whos angry that no guy wants her.>>83281381I was actually considering that but this got more replies than I thought so now I must I guess.>>83281390This seems to be the kicker so lemme askWould you date a fat chick?If the answers no then post still stands.>>83281423Its not unreasonable. I just lose sympathy cause you could fix your problem but youre just choosing not to because the solution isnt "good enough". To me its like if someone claimed to be dying of thirst but when you offer them some pond water theyre like "Ew thats pond water". To me it shows youre clearly not actually dying of thirst.All in all it reminds me of those fake femcels who claim no man wants them when really they just criticize every male trait as evil. Except to a significantly less extreme extent cause fuck those girls lol.
>>83281445I was being lighthearted with picrel. I just wanted to find the cheesiest dominatrix MySpace sticker I could find. Jokes aside Im pretty sure you could find some mentally neurotic girl who wants to peg you.Though shed probably have to be mentally neurotic if thats something youre cool with.>>83281448Again. I just dont feel bad then. Sorry.I like lots of different types of men. My favorite are probably nerdy guys with acne. Muscles are ugly to me but looks arent everything so I dont care if a guy has them.
>>83281628>Its not unreasonable. I just lose sympathy cause you could fix your problem but youre just choosing not to because the solution isnt "good enough". To me its like if someone claimed to be dying of thirst but when you offer them some pond water theyre like "Ew thats pond water". To me it shows youre clearly not actually dying of thirst.>All in all it reminds me of those fake femcels who claim no man wants them when really they just criticize every male trait as evil. Except to a significantly less extreme extent cause fuck those girls lol.I never really claimed to be an incel desu. I could probably get sex with a woman if I wanted, but I dont care enough about it to date or pursue them. The thought of having to spend significant time and money with someone else is very off-putting. I'll probably just hire a prostitute at some point if I ever want it bad enough.
>>83281628Bitch please, sems the retarded wannabe lolcow is obese and even she has no trouble finding simps on this hellhole. You have no idea how horrific the competition between men is just to get crumbs of leftover pussy.
>>83281656>I just wanted to find the cheesiest dominatrix MySpace sticker I could findAnd you found the worst one>Though shed probably have to be mentally neurotic if thats something youre cool with.Then we could be neurotic together
>>83281352>women dont have hobbies or interests wow so moids have gone from saying women only have dumb hobbies and interests to saying we dont have any at all. ig the knitting and rollerskating classes ive taken the last 4 years have just been a figment of my imagination
>>83281628>Would you date a fat chick?Would a fat chick date me?
>>83281662Thats reasonable actually. Dating is exhausting nowadays. And expensive. Especially in todays economy.>>83281684>has no trouble finding simpsCool. They are tru incel then and not who Im talking about.>>83281685>and you found the worst oneIt has to be bad to be cheesy.>Then we could be neurotic togetherYou could. Thats sweet anon :) I wish you the best sincerely
>>83281733I know a few ya.>>83281698>moidskys.
>>83281739>Thats reasonable actually. Dating is exhausting nowadays. And expensive. Especially in todays economy.Yea, my last job I regularly worked 12 hours a day for 6 days straight. The last thing I wanted to do on my day off was try to meet someone from a dating app and dance like a monkey to eventually get sex after months of doing it. Idk how normalfags do it.
>>83281772For me I cant date cause like I said. Im crazy. I cant take care of myselfHow tf will I ever take care of a boyfriend?
>>83281739>You couldTho it would be better to ask how would you envision a girl who is 'mentally neurotic' as you've described it, maybe you mean something different than i think of
>>83281795I meant like just a bit unstable and weird. Probably had a bad childhood. Breaks stuff in arguments and then immediately sobs and promises to pay for it before she realizes shes broke. Calls your b.o boysmell.
>>83281820That's kinda expected unless it's some full blown cluster b disorder that is unmanaged
>>83281784>How tf will I ever take care of a boyfriendwhy would you need to?
>>83281784let your bf take care of you sweety
>>83281314You've come to realize that not all incels are a monolith. Neither are all women. Incels are incels for different reasons. You have mentally ill people, schizos, ugly people, people with low confidence, and people with issues.
>>83281826It might be. I guess what Im getting at is that you may be in for a wild ride if you do find that girl.>>83281852Men need to be taken care of like women. They need to be taken care of emotionally and physically. And Im bad at both.
>>83281891>Men need to be taken care of like women. They need to be taken care of emotionally and physically. And Im bad at both.As long as you can have sex, you're fine
>>83281906I think its more than that. They need hugs and gifts and verbal validation. Thats love and stuff.
>>83282153ngl I wouldnt really care about much of that but maybe im just weird
>>83282173I think rather broken. Everyone needs a hug and loving words. Maybe you feel this way because you havent gotten many.Im surprised this view isnt more popular amongst women though. If I got a man Id spoil him daily. Me not getting one is part of that technically. Cause I know Id just hurt him in the end with how unstable I am.
>>83281314you are just typing random words because those women don't exist and nobody ever adds me. I will take almost any girl if she is from nj/philly/nyc. my disc tag is moidler
>>83282210>I think rather brokenMaybe, I just never really placed much value on gifts and kind words. I mean obviously I dont want someone who is just going to be hateful, but I also dont want someone who is clingy and always trying to play therapist.
>>83281314>Ive sworn off dating because theres a big chance I may have BPD and I dont want to ruin any guys life (Cause I heard BPD girls do that even when they dont realize it)Thank you for your service.
>>83281326You can find tons of those on reddit and twitter.
>>83281314I guess you're kind of right in that I would have a hard time being attracted to my looksmatch, but she wouldn't want me either so it's a moot point
>>83281314>I don't get some incelsYou don't get any incels, femcel. lololol
go on a diet you fat bitch
>>83282236Thats fair ya. Sometimes it can feel overbearing and somewhat invasive despite the relationship.>>83282252Id rather NOT be thanked. It just reminds me that Im in this situation and that I can never find love because of a disorder I never asked for and it makes me want to kms. Having an imaginary boyfriend is the only way I cope really.>>83282311Both parties would be being overly stubborn imo.
>>83281698Misogynists just ignore things that are obviously hobbies. I know many women who have learned foreign languages in order to travel. Of the men I know who take their hobbies seriously, none of them have achieved something as impressive as C2 proficiency in a foreign language unless they started as a kid (e.g. in piano or chess).
>>83281314Sigh why can't God just give me and boyfriend and girlfriend like Penelope and Odysseus. I wish I could get in-between those two
>>83281314>Ive sworn off dating because theres a big chance I may have BPDJust treat it so you don't ruin your life and that of other people.
>>83281314Do you know what incel means? InvoluntaryIf you have even a single woman approach you and you reject her you stop being INCEL and become VOLCEL
>>83283139BPD is treatable but never curable. Ill never have a relationship no matter how much work I do.I dont care if I ruin my life its already pretty darn ruined.
>>83283470How old are you really? You seem really young
>>83283502Twenty years old, lol.
>>83283636yea, you're pretty young. have you worked at all or gone to college? ive known women that thought just like you and got over it once they got a job or went to college
>>83283636Hag by fembot standards
>>83283646I go to college. Im starting working.
>>83281314there are a genre of guys who make being unlikable their personality. theyll casually drop how theyve never dated/kissed/grazed a girl in conversations where it isnt relevant, theyll openly share how theyre in a bunch of erp discords and how they nolife X game because its the only place they feel any sense of community or friendship, etc. this behavior is so abhorrent that even loser bpd fatties find it repulsive. the funniest part is that even if said guy gets lucky and finds some uber desperate girl who wants him, he'll STILL keep up the nobody loves me act until he gets left alone, and CONTINUES said act afterward as if hed never found a girl at all. i know a couple of guys like this and its just sad.all that being said i got roped into a bpdemon relationship because im a weak SoB who ignored the warning signs. now im the definition of avoidant and would rather play "dig for your brain stem through your eye socket" than meaningfully associate with another potential partner again. besides my learned distaste, i also realize that anyone who i liked enough to date would be put through the ringer, and thats something id prefer to avoid for their sake and my own.
>dude just lower your standards, date the fat/ugly girlsI already lowered my standards to a 6.5/10, any lower and I might kill myself. I will never date a fat girl.
>>83281314When I was overweight (most of my life), they at least pretended to be interested in me only to reveal later that they weren't at all. Now that I'm in shape, they don't even talk to/look at me.
>>83281314BPDemons can destroy lives but I'd take a shot if she seems to have it under control. Hogs are another story. I wouldn't ever date a fatty. It's so easy to not be fat, just eat less. It's insane you can handle that simple thing.
>>83281314Unfortunately even the most disgusting of uggos are Black Only. As a white man, I have no chance and will just slowly kill myself with morbid obesity
>>83281314I haven't seen any girl like that in all my life.
>>83284204>>83284181Again. Just cant feel bad for you m8. You brought this entirely on yourself. Live with it ig.Also 6.5/10 is not low LMAO. You must feel like such a victim volcel anon.>>83284212I dont see many mixed race couples where Im from personally.>>83284352If your just looking in person you wont find them cause most people wont break out into tears about how lonely they are in public. Are you searching online? Theres whole twitter accounts girls have just to post about how lonely they are and how close they are to killing themself. Some even advertise themselves as manipulatable
>>83281314>when they meet a fat/ugly/etc. woman then they reject themNever happened. I have been rejected by obese unemployed single moms because i was too ugly/didnt make enough thoughNever had a women by interested in me in my entire life.>inb4 bro lose weight.Im not fat (about 70kg for 186) and have a stable job.>many BPDemons, hambeasts, and general uggos who are so desperateTheyre not. Any of these are being flooded by suitors and men >inb4 theyre just looking to hookupKek no most of these are looking for long term engagement and marriage.
>>83281628>self isolating due to insecurity and lack of attention from attractive and wealthy menFixed. Any woman gets attention from men. They just dont want it necause chances are most of those guys are only average
If you really get down to it, "incel" is an nonsense term because any dude can just pay for sex with some STD ridden hooker. But if you seriously have to resort to people who don't take care of themselves (ie fats and all those other people you've listed) just to be in a relationship you'll end up despising later down the line, what's the point?
>>83281314>beat them repeatedly.thats my dream but unironically and also lots of love bombing and being super nice and aftercare and conditioning her to be my good girl afterwardsand ideally with a pretty asian girl OOHHHHH you're getting me hot and bothered
>>83281628>but youre just choosing not to because the solution isnt "good enough"Sounds like you don't actually find it reasonable then, kek. You just don't like the fact that people expect their efforts to be met with an equal return. If a guy pays in full for a house, but gets handed a pest-infested shack, of course he's going to complain.
>>83281314>Theres literally a whole subset of women who will take any guy, literally any guy. Where are those magical women then? Because irl they dont exist
>>83281314Nobody will ever love me because I am something that can't be loved. There is no ambition or drive. I am a nothing person, and I cannot change that. I've never had anybody support me outside of my family, and my family uses me to the point that there is no chance I can escape. It's probably for the best, I don't want to give these people grandchildren. This whole family is a pit nobody can crawl out of because it's just constant ladder-kicking. By the time I escape it will be when they are all dead, and I will be too old to be starting a family. I will die poor and miserable, which are more problematic than just being a forever alone.I will probably live long enough to see things collapse at least, anything after that is a mystery. Nobody is prepared, so all you can really do is accept things for what they are.
>>83281314To be considered BPD you must experience 5 or more of the following:1. Fear of abandonment2. Unstable or changing relationships3. Unstable self-image; struggles with identity or sense of self4. Impulsive or self-damaging behaviors (e.g., excessive spending, unsafe sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).5. Suicidal behavior or self-injury6. Varied or random mood swings7. Constant feelings of worthlessness or sadness8. Problems with anger, including frequent loss of temper or physical fights9. Stress-related paranoia or loss of contact with reality
>>83284823>But this never happened to meThen youre not who Im talking about.>>83284838You added the whole attractive wealthy men part. Completely twisting the meaning of my sentence. Either listen or dont. I really dont care either way.>>83284847>Resort to people who dont take care of themselvesIf your an incel you dont take care of yourself most likely. And again. If youd despise the relationship then your volcel and have high expectations imo.>>83284855Theres no way your getting that with some conventionally attractive Asian girl your not paying a hefty chunk of change.>>83284878Its reasonable as in its a normal thing for humans to do. Humans do things against their best interest all the time because they believe that in the short term itll benefit them. (Such as rejecting someone cause your out of their league not realizing that everyone else is out of yours and youre not going to get much better)>You just dont like the fact that people expect their efforts to be met with equal returnIf your an incel you cant "expect" anything. Again if your thinking like this you are NOT at the point of incel. You are a volcel saving his virginity for when he finishes setting up his perfect (or close enough) fairytale ending. Incels know such a thing doesnt exist.
>>83281314>Theres literally a whole subset of women who will take any guyFoids always talk about this mythical subset of women, where are they??? I have never seen them.>Ive sworn off dating"Guys trust me there is a subset of women who would be willing to date you, no I am not one of them but they exist trust me anon"Same thread every timeIf I cannot find this elusive subset of women on 4chan, the location where the bottom of the barrel congregate, where am I supposed to find them???
>>83285968Then admit incels exist>when they meet a fat/ugly/etc. woman then they reject themThis litteraly never happens.As i said every women has plenty of options. Most men have none.
>>83285968Also>subset of women who will take any guy, literally any guy. These dont exist. Any women has plenty of options as i said
>>83281314Yes, I *would* reject a fat ugly woman, but they don't want me either.
>>83281314>but when they meetinkwells don't meet anyone thoughbeit.
