Guys, I am so weak. I am tired of being weak. How do I become strong? Mentally. I wanna do the things that are in my head and translate them. But I give up so easily like a little bitch. I'm afraid of change but change is necessary. I've already caused so much damage due to cowardice. To myself and others.
>>83281887Well if you're tired of being weak, get strong anon. write your problems down in a detailed manner. What exactly makes you weak. Take your time with it. And then ask yourself, what do i need to do to solve this problem?Do it like you would a math problem. Write the problem down and simplify it. And when you have simplified the problem, solve it. Be merciful, the road to heaven feels like hell. And it's easy to fall back to old habits because its hard. But I tell myself that its hard at first, then it becomes a habit, and then it becomes easy!We are all on that journey to improve. Stay put soldier. Good luck
>>83281887think of something insanely fun you'd wanna do then think of the best way you'd wanna do it then hype yourself up and begin doing it and never give up (unless you lost your original reason to do it but even so you can always craft up another reason)
>>83281887Get treated for ADHD if you haven't already. People who find it difficult to change or improve despite their willingness to due to are often unknowingly plagued with ADHD.
>>83281951oh and also do lots of research.this is basically what i'm doing
>>83281948i don't know. i'm not op, but i do this. but thought does not lead to action, necessarily. we all know all the things we should do, and how they're done, and why they should be done, but that doesn't make us do them. that's the issue with mental weakness.
>>83281967Then you need to surround yourself with what you should do. Its hard to not learn when you go to school, unless you deliberately sabotage the learning. Its hard to not workout when you go to the gym, you will at least do something. Just show up every single time. Make your surroundings accommodate and push you towards change, and i assure you, change will be far easier. Befriend people who will encourage you, go to places that remind you, consume media that motivates you.
