i am a fat woman with a fat bf. he says he wants to lose some weight. what are the chances he will stop loving me?
>>83283815So he improves, you don't and you want to know the risk of him leaving. You better start doing more for him otherwise, he might
>>83283815just lose weight with him you lazy fatass piece of shit
>>83283815If you don't also try to lose weight and he manages it? Fairly high.
don't project your psychopathic tendencies onto otherslarper
>>83283825>>83283826he says he doesn't want me to lose weight with him because i become unbearable to be around when i'm on a diet and he doesn't want to deal with that. >>83283823i already do a lot for him to compensate for my looks and he says i'm the best gf he's ever had.
>>83283815just shed some weight anonetteit's healthier for youyou will feel better about it too
>>83283815I am a fat man and I want a fat girlfriend. Seems impossible, how did he pull it off?
>>83283843>on a dietfatties don't know that one can just eat less
>>83283843What do you bring to the table and what does he. Self improvement might be him looking at all facets of his life to improve. Can you improve? Not trying to be an dick,jw. Also it could just be a lame new years excuse.
>>83283843>doesn't want me to lose weight with him because i become unbearable to be aroundhe sounds self-centered, unempathetic af and also sick of you? this is either a larp or you're an idiot dating an avoidant narcissist
>>83283843>he doesn't want you to try because you turn into a total bitch for having even a slight calorie deficitYeah he's gonna dump you when he loses weight.
>>83283815Just drop weight you fucking land whale
>>83283815I am afraid I might have to worry about the same one day My bf for instance is also fat and I have put on a bit of weight lately
>>83283849>>83283859>>83283870>>83283888i have rampant binge eating disorder and bipolar and have to literally go the ana/mia route to lose any weight and it's just not mentally sustainable for me. he also says he likes my body the way it is right now too but idk. >>83283856we've both been extreme yo-yo dieters in the past and i thought we were both finally comfy being fat together but now he's talking about wanting to lose weight and i'm being supportive but ngl i'm scared to lose him after.>>83283867>Can you improve?honestly the fact that i'm alive and holding down a job is a miracle right now so i'm not sure how much more self improvement i can do right now. i shower him with affection and gifts and spend a lot of quality time with him. he is the best boyfriend i've ever had and takes good care of me. >>83283909idk i;m gonna try but i'm really worried going on a diet is gonna be the straw that breaks the camel's back for my fragile mental state rn and he's gonna break up with me and it'll all have been for nothing
>>83283930>brucecampbelllaughing.gif
>you don't understand... if i don't have this icecream moccha latte and dunkin it'll be the straw that breaks the camel's back for my fragile mental state... it'll all have been for nothing... there's nothing i can do
>>83283930I'd continue doing what your doing. Be supportive and obedient. I don't see you having any major issues. He might fall off the wagon, you be there waiting with open arms. Also, if you don't want to worry about losing him, make sure ever sexual desired is filled. What's your height/weight?
>>83284019I just watched something about those... 144 grams of sugar and around 1000 calories. Holy fuck
ok fine ill do it i will start fasting again starting tomorrow because i cant risk losing him but i will also do my best to not let my emotions get the best of me and make me miserable to be around i dont become a bitch i just cry all the time and am sad and schizo and he hates seeing me put myself through that but i dont believe him anyway when he says he likes my body because he said his type was skinny girls when we first met anyway and i know that never really changes so i was just being delusional to think he actually liked my body the way it is right now and i shouldve never let him convince me to stop purging so i could still be thin for him right now and i love him so much i dont want to lose him i cant lose him we are about to start our lives together i will just be normal normal normal normal
>>83284029we are long distance currently so i cant do anything physical and im insecure about sending him pics so i dont send as many as i should but we do phone sex a lot and when we do visit each other i fulfill all his sexual desires and i am currently 5 feet and 180 lbs so a landwhale buut not like irredeemable i guess idk everyones right im just going to stop eating i have to stop eating or he will atop loving me he probably already resents me
>>83284092>fastingfirst "on a diet", now this. stop being retarded. this is setting yourself up to fail. you have a level of caloric maintenance. go under it, and your weight will decrease to what your new intake can maintain. decide not to be miserable for no reason, and just eat less. some foods are more filling compared to their caloric value, some less. that's useful to consider. or be as fat sad and hysterical as you want i guess, it's nothing to me.
>>83284127i know you mean well but i know all of this and have tried it many times but i am too mentally ill to do it the healthy way im pretty sure im kind of autistic and have AFRID which fucks my relationship with food even more and i cant have any food in my house because i just binge on it so the only way for me to do it is to just not eat lmao ive done it before im just very manic and crazy when i do but at least i will be skinny and lovable
>>83283815you should be fine as long as you don't make him mad when another woman is being nicer to him
>>83284092>fine ill do it i will start fasting againlosing weight too fast causes cellulite and loose skin afaik and will be easier to bounce back intoliterally just count your bmr and go on a regular calorie deficit where you don't have to feel starved. even if you absolutely can't stop yourself from snacking and binge eating just pick healthier options with fewer calories
>>83284109Oh. Thought you were living together. Have you ever been physical? Whats the distance? Do you ever plan to move in together?
>>83284157>i cant have any food in my house because i just binge on itthen pick better food to have around. you only get fat snacking on sugar and junk
you're just projecting your own desire to monkeybranch and cheat on him, which you can't do because you're a morbidly obese hog
>>83283815Just date a fat fetishist to avoid this problem
