Is it actually possible to get rid of a bad fetish? I did nofap for several weeks and it was working but then I saw something that reminded me of the fetish and I relapsed hard.
>>83353603idk if the fetish is that bad there's probably something wrong with you. Which fetish is it?
>>83353683bro is obviously a pedo otherwise he'd have said what it was
>>83353603i have a fetish and i fucking hate it, it is possible, but you can't do nofap, you need to literally rewire your brain, jerk off to something else, a lot, so much, i really need to do this as well
>>83353603Stop doing stimulants or anything that could get you horny, I met a guy here who literally jerked off to CP while on meth
>>83353789>i have a fetishjust one?
>>83354075well i have dozens, but i have one that has really taken a hold of my gooning habits and it's the most despicable one out all the ones i have, the rest are pretty normal
>>83353603If it's ackshually a fetish then it will follow you for life. If you are able to get rid of it with nofap it wasn't a fetish to begin with.
>>83354122jews probably brainwashed him with porn, like they did with me
>>83354122>it will follow you for lifetime to kms then
>>83353603Theoretically. But it's not gonna be easy, I struggle with one myself and it only gets worse the older I get.
>>83354148That's what happens to most people who think they have fetishes. They just masturbate to porn too much. Fetishes are srs bsns, mental disorder tier somethings you can't get out of your mind. There's a mexican restaurant named Lolis and every time I pass one I can't help but imagine being served the forbidden nectar in there and get hard.
mine is puking
>>83354122>If you are able to get rid of it with nofapwell clearly I wasn't able to
I don't have all that much advice I could give you but you should know you're not the only one dealing with fetishes you wish you didn't have. The fact that you recognize them as a problem and haven't fully embraced them with open arms means you're already on the right path when it comes to mitigating theseI don't know if I'll ever get rid of these fetishes but the very least I can do is work to minimize how much I entertain them. Be it giantess, vore, futanari, femboys, furry and feral pokemon, monster girls. I've been attracted to vore since I was at least 4. I've tried reflecting on how I got this fetish and I cannot recall any specific event. I theorize I may have seen Men in Black 2's opening scene; either that or I was somehow born with itIt didn't help that my cousin had me play doctor with her at 6 and asked me to go down on her. I've long recognized that my sexuality is fucked but I owe it to myself to mend it the best I can
>>83353603If ur older than 25 then your brain won't produce new healthy neural pathways. If ur younger then just get disciplined enough to never engage with it again.
>>83354507That's actually a myth, neuroplasticity never actually fades.
>>83354507Neuroplasticity decreases with age but still remains, even into your sunset years
>>83353603if you find the root cause maybe idk.Whats the fetish have you ever done it or just fantasized,if its just fantasy you should try it actually and see if you really like it.
>>83353603>Is it actually possible to get rid of a bad fetishYes, absolutely. If you remove yourself from the trigger - which is that particular brand of porn - and get your sexual release elsewhere, you can reset your internal sexual reward system. You can easily get to the point where you are just fapping to your imagination, although that still carries the risk of imagining your fetish. I believe there is a more involved method of deprogramming yourself drom unwanted sexual desires, but I unfortunately don't know the details. It was studied decades ago back before the gay community lobbies against gay conversion therapy. Look into that research if you want to know more.
>>83354380I don't know where you got this idea, but it's complete bullshit. Fetishes are learned, not ingrained. We have weird fetishes these days - like anal or furrydom or whatever - because of porn.>There's a mexican restaurant named LolisThe concept of "lolis" literally comes from online porn. There is no way to develop that fetish organically.
>>83354156Don't. That guy is a retard. Fetishes are learned and they can be unlearned. It's just your subconscious associating ejaculation and the ensuing endorphin rush with particular images and ideas, basic Pavlovian conditioning. You can Pavlov yourself into something else or just remove yourself from the conditioning for a long enough time period.
>>83354482>It didn't help that my cousin had me play doctor with her at 6 and asked me to go down on herEarly life sexual abuse very commonly leads to unwanted fetishes. I recommend doing some self-relfection and trying to heal that trauma with support from people around you. I'm sorry you went through that, brother, and I hope you can find peace.
>>83354482man this relates
>>83355055I've long accepted that she's probably just as much as a victim in all of this as I am. She was not that far from my age and was far too young to want any of that at the time. Either she was molested, watched something that she shouldn't have, or was born this way; all cases are sad. I hope she is faring better with her sexuality than I am>>83355058Sometimes what makes us feel better is knowing that others know what you're going through
>>83354538>>83354547Sorry I didn't peer-review.
They shill nofap so hard because it makes it worse. If I'm just fapping normally then I'm just looking at stuff I like. If I haven't cum for like a week then I get horny about way more.
i have a few fetishes i don't like being a lover of. but at the end of the day, i fucking love jerking off. moreso than the few times i've fucked. sounds crazy but i'm just like that.
>>83355527Nofap helps when you have the discipline for it, but yeah. In my experience, going for long periods of time without relief just amplifies my horniness and brings out the worst fetishes I have, like getting fucked in the ass
>>83355527Who in your mind benefits from "shilling nofap?" Porn promotion makes sense because it makes people slaves to their basest urges and conditions them to be into degenerate shit like scat faggotry, or furries, shit that cannot result in children or is actively detrimental to your health. Who would be promoting nofap and why?The truth is that nofap works, but you have to have discipline and ideally you have be a curious person who looks into the history of the movement. Nofap used to be callled semen retention and it involves more than just not masturbating.
If it is a rape fetish that's normal, don't feel ashamed of that
>>83355513u should be sorry honestly
the way i understand the situation is that i need a partner, a muse, a lover
>>83355513I mean, you should generally not be spreading r*ddit-tier pop-sci trivia as if it's proven fact. It's not good for anyone.
>>83353603Just cut off your dick
>>83356796sorry again i just got too excited
>>83357214I forgive you buddy
>>83354992What if the gay man has romantic feelings towards other men?>asking for a friend
>>83357481Homosexuality can also be induced or exacerbated by porn. It's actually been studied. Which of course means it can be reversed by reverse engineering that Pavlovian conditioning. If that is something you want to do, of course. There is a reason certain people are spamming tranny and gay porn on /gif/ and /b/, and it's not to spread happiness and joy.
>>83353603I'm a believer that no fetish is 'bad' as long certain types don't cross over into real life. Considering you're not telling us what it is I assume your fetish is in that group. Thoughtcrimes are retarded and don't exist, just jerk off and don't act on it
>>83357830A fetish isn't a thoughtcrime. It manifests in reality when you seek out porn or sexual gratification with another person, which people inevitably do. People don't just sit around thinking "damn furries are so hot" and then doing nothing about it. They seek a release for that channel of sexual energy. There have literally been stories of people dying because they had a murder fetish or an asphyxiation fetish. So clearly it can be harmful. And that's not the mention the health risks of scat or anal or choking, and probably other fetishes as well.
>>83353603Kinda, you need to gradually ween off of it and then deny every time you are tempted by it. When you relapse you keep it to one goon sesh and no more. And keep it private.
>>83353603Not so far as I'm aware, but it's entirely possible to not let it control your life, which is the important thing.
>>83353603I like feetI'm not fixing it
