I cannot for the life of understand the point of life after 30. Even 25-30 is a stretch. Youth is everything. Being young, attractive, flirty, spontaneous. That is life. Everything else is just waiting for death.
>>83433958I literally cried after turning 20 because that's when I knew the clock was ticking. I'd do anything to be 13 again.
Defeatist cope. I hated being a kid. I couldn't afford anything myself or do anything due to being underage. Now I'm 23 and I can do whatever the fuck I want as long as I got the money for it.
>>83433958It's because you're supposed to be married with kids on the way by then but society is atomised and fucked up so that doesn't happen anymore. All that happens is that you get older with nothing to show for it.
>>83433958Life is peak between ages 30 and 39, as long as you aren't ugly and can keep fit
>>83434026>>83434069Definitely agree. If you have something worth it, 30s can be peak. Looking forward to next year
>>83434026I have no interest in domestic family life. Seems boring
>>83434350Nah. It's definitely not boring. Tiring yes. Kids are off of school for the next few weeks so this was my evening. >Don't have to worry about dinner, kids are getting food from the restaurant my oldest works at. Just have us to worry about. >Wife wants Thai food truck around the corner. (Picrel)>Pull up to house, she walks out in mini skirt and my hoodie>Go by 711 afterwards to get drinks>Eat dinner with my wife>Watch mha with my daughter>Chilling in bed now waiting to take a shower and get ready for work tomorrow morning. Waiting for Sunday evening. Kids know to stay in their rooms
>>83434350We are living in the rat utopia experiment on a massive scaleYou're depressed bro. Most of us are. We weren't made for what we do now, "society" has outgrown us and we exist to generate revenueIt might not seem as boring if you weren't depressed man, even if that wasn't your thing, something would seem worth itIt's not a problem that can be fixed with medication either, it's situational for modern men. It's not a chemical imbalance, this shit just sucks and it's all fucked up.
If you're a non creative, you might as well just put a bullet in your head.Consumers live to consume, if that's you that's the point of living.
>>83433958Maybe look into alternative hedonistic pleasures such as power and knowledge.
>>83434773Nothing compared to the attention of cute femoids
>>83433979It was always an illusion. A comfortable one, but an illusion
>>83433958I'm turning 30 in June. I have a decent paying job. I have a nice car. I have friends who go out of their way to invite me to parties and go out with them. Yet I still am here.
>>8343395834 here, feels like its over. I watched a film last night from like 2018 and realised that feels like a million years ago and I wouldn't recognise 2018 me.
>>83433958I disagree and part of life is just moving past that feeling. It's a vestige of a world that no longer exists. One that led to lots of pain and suffering. Which is why we don't live in it. I think boomers, as much as we hate them, are people who decided to stop growing up at around age 18-22 and then saw as abundance and liberalism meant you didn't have to give up your dreans to keep the family farn afloat. At which point they had too many responsibilities to go back. They've been making that our problem ever since.>>83434400Anons you don't need marriage for this. You can get drunk, order food, watch anime with an underaged girl without doing any of that. It's called discord bro ;). In all seriousness though; why do parents always come at you like used car salesman? I'm not against the idea of having kids but posts like these just kinda inspire a visceral reaction. Like why is bro going to work on a Saturday? How is he young enough to use 4chan but old enough to have a child of working age? My personal guess is: had a kid early and as a result works in a societally undervalued job. Which God bless him if he does. But to me personally, I'd rather give whatever kids I may have a charmed life, and if I can't provide that I prefer to die alone (as we all ultimately do) than to have my legacy be more mentally ill stock for the meat grinder. Which is not how it should be. You should be able to fix cars for a living and not have that impact a child's future. But it 100% does.
>>83433958i throatfucked and rammed a girl that looked exactly like this. she also sucked me down to the base of my cok 7.5" btw
>>83433958Consider pic related except instead of cats it's you and some lady on Ozempic
I can intellectually agree with this, but not spirituallybecause the majority of my childhood and adolescence was complete garbage. Bad mentally ill narcissistic parents who parentified. I never even got to really be a child. I always felt old. The only good times I can truly remember were fleeting times as a teenager when I went skateboarding with friends or smoked weed/ did drugs at their house. Other than that my life has been a total nightmare since I remember being conscious. I remember being 4 and looking at my parents thinking "these people are fucking idiots"
>be me>36>delusional as fuck>little to no friends >last gf was at 18>still hold out hope >still think we can be friends again >still somehow think im going to "grow up" >gonna get my driving test and get a car/gf etc>things are going to be much better >going to get invited to parties make new friends etc>going to do exciting shit and things ive always wanted>never do any of it
>>83433958>have kids>lose literally all spontaneity overnightlolat least my life has some tangible meaning now ig
>>83436826>I remember being 4 and looking at my parents thinking "these people are fucking idiots"Same, and them telling me "you'll understand when you're older." Bitch, I'm in my 30s and what I understand is that if I have the opportunity to sacrifice my body by throwing it into the gears of the machines of oppression, I should take it because nothing fucking matters.
>>83433958You're always waiting for death.
>>83436866Im the same way. I have no clue why I remain hopeful deep down. As if anyone this age experiences anything like that
>>83433958I'm 31 and get mistaken for being 21-24. I also don't feel my age at all. I have the same stamina, reflexes, hairline and overall fitness I had at 21. I even fap the same amount of times per day. The only thing that sucks is that I now have a job but at least I have money I could only dream of at 21.Age is just a number, anon. I know people who are 3-6yrs younger than me who are literal boomers. Balding, chubby/fat and they talk about going home from work and taking a nap while I go home and play fast-paced vidya.>Being young, attractive, flirty, spontaneous.I was never flirty. I don't even know what to do when women show interest in me sometimes.
>>83434000And what do you d0?
>>83433958>"It's high school all over again"Some folks reminisce, some folks are still stuck thereCase in point, (You), OP, are in the latter group
>>83434961Those kinds of women usually date tall big dudes, who look like Peter Steele, and are in their mid 30s.
>>83433958I am turning 19 in 4 months. I'm becoming an adult and I have nothing to prove for it, nor do I want to even begin to try since I have no one to love me/be intimate with
>>8343395824-28 were the best years of my life, and 29 looks to be the best ever... so far.
>>83437545I am seriously considering leg lengthening surgery as a 5'10 male
>>83437574Nigga do something before its too late you fucking idiot
> Being young, attractive, flirty, spontaneousAs if you were that way in your youthBruh
>>83437574>I'm becoming an adultYou are already an adult on an adult website.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1tj2zJ2Wvg&t=207s
>>83434400This sounds boring as fuck anon
>>83433958Cant relate, I have been indoors staring at screens since I was ~8 so my life is basically the same as it has always been
>>83433958The easiest way to have meaning in life is having kids. People increasingly don't want kids and increasingly have no meaning in life.
>>83433958Theres never been a point to life anon. Ya getting old sucks but it's either deal with it or die faggot. Get over it already.
>>83436826>I remember being 4 and looking at my parents thinking "these people are fucking idiots"same
>>83439115Do you not see how this just kicks the can down the road? You want kids presumably because you want to give someone a good life, but their conditions for a good life are creating another person who could live a good life. No one ends up getting that "good life". Its just an endless cycle of false hope
>>83433958I tried to kms when I was about to reach 20 (in order to avoid it, because I hadn't learned how to live a good life) but did a half assed attempt and failed. Told myself I was going to have to live now, whatever happens next. That was 5+ years agoThere's a song called 'Turd' by krill that sums up the feeling pretty well. That whole ep is good. Krill is a great band But yea, it does feel like waiting for death. I'm just here for the ride. Or maybe we soon develop the technology to remain biologically young forever, who knows. AGI could even mean no one has to work ever again. The AI boom brought with it the ultimate, comfiest copes as of yet. Opinions on my ramblings?
>>83433958you didn't try
>>83433958The point of life after 30 is raising the next generation of youth. If you don't have your own family by that point, then yeah, life is pretty pointless.
>>83440790I didn't experience my own youth yet.