I married my wife in 2013 when we were both 23 years old; we'd been dating since our senior year of high school in 2007. We have four kids born 2015, 2017, 2020, and 2022.I had an affair during 2020 and for several months was considering leaving her. She knew this and I went back and forth multiple times. In March 2021 I came to my senses and ended all contact with the other woman. I have never cheated, and will never cheat, again.I was very close with her family prior to the affair. Now there's a... kind of distance. Like they don't trust me as much. They're cordial and polite and are absolutely not cold, but there used to be a warmth that's no longer there.Is there any hope of recovering from this and returning to the closeness we once had? My wife seems to have fully put the whole incident behind her and trusts me again seemingly as much as she did before 2020 and our relationship is stronger than ever, but her family... I don't know. Maybe this is the new forever normal. I hope not. I'm hoping that maybe it was just recent enough that things aren't fully healed, but that they will get there with time.PS. These new CAPTCHAs are really pissing me off. I can do them but not three in 15 seconds
>>83436923>I had an affair>I have never cheatedAre you a woman or something? Fucking retard.
>>83436934I meant that I haven't cheated since the affair ended and won't again.
The viscosity of water is different than that of blood. Breaking oaths is generally looked down upon so it won't be easy.
>>83437004Yeah I messed up really badly and ultimately it probably hurt me even more than it did her.
>>83436923You're a disgusting piece of shit, you cheated on your wife and you want closeness?>>83437128And being such a fucking martyr about it, you have no clue of how your wife feels.Not to mention you're discussing marital problems on 4chan attaching a picture of an anime schoolgirl, you have NO hope.Her family doesn't like you because they love your wife, and you are an active harm to her. It's very ungrateful for you to want her family to like you again, if you really felt guilty about cheating you'd admit that this is a punishment you MUST suffer, or do you really just expect to get away with it???
>>83436923>it's another "muh wife" threadDie.
>>83437163fuck you anon, he's gotten over ithe is venting and that is allowedhe wants to changeif he doesn't change that will be his own consequences to deal withso be it
Are there really people who think the new captchas are hard?
>>83437274OP hereThey're actually pretty easy now that I know I don't have to rush. I thought the "Get Captcha" countdown was a 15 second time limit.
>>83436923You just gotta give it time. Continue to play your part and all will eventually be alright. I have the exact same background, except she cheated in the beginning.
>>83436923You are a waste of air and NEED to kill yourself
>>83437526>You are a waste of air and NEED to kill yourselfPlease explain.
>>83437274They're kind of annoying. They remind me of those stupid "IQ test" questions
>>83436923No, you've proven yourself as selfish and untrustworthy. They're only there for the sake of the kids. At least you've finally learnt that actions have consequences lol.
