Apparently I got a "draining" personalitymakes sense why i got no friendsi'll kms then
>>83437603>be more generous towards others?>erm no thanks I will simply kill myself :^)Odd choice but it's yours
>>83437622what do you mean by being "more generous"yet more vague advice that doesn't mean anything
DRAIINNN GANGGGGG
>>83437641Instead of being draining, be the opposite of draining, which is being generous.
>>83437661you think i am being "draining" intentionally?
>>83437687No, but if you try to be the opposite on purpose, surely that will have some positive effect. At least you would have tried, which does count.
Just stop giving a fuck at this point dude. Nothing matters anymore.
>>83437732Nothing really mattress
>>83437603stop letting ppl gaslight you with stuff like "'draining"" or "boring." they simply want to insult you and make you feel bad. Nothing else to it.
yeah, you are draining. these are all annoying bitch answers that make the vibe unpleasant and make you tedious and unpleasant to engage with.
>>83437687Your refusal to take accountability, learn, and improve is intentional, yes.
>>83437603>Apparently I got a "draining" personalityNah you're just a whiny bitch
>>83437723i have tried, didn't work. It may have had the opposite effect actually>>83437732I wish I could not give a fuck>>83437744so everyone is gaslighting me?>>83437763wdym>>83437766it's noti try to be the best i canif it's not enough then what else can I do?>>83437777i don't whine
>>83437803>i have tried, didn't work. It may have had the opposite effect actually>i try to be the best i canWhat have you tried?
>>83437819I ask about people's days, i try to be there for themi try to empathizebut i still fail at everything
>>83437803>so everyone is gaslighting me?yes if they're women or claiming to be.
>>83437603After my only friend killed himself three years ago, a year ago I tried to be friends with my younger brother's friends but he said it felt like a chore to be with me. Wtf man
>>83437840If you don't have any ulterior motives, then it doesn't sound like that's your fault. What do you do for fun?
>>83437803>i try to be the best i canThat's not specific. What have you tried speifically? Here's a specific example of something that makes dealing with you painful:>wdymThis is your response to someone who has provided specific feedback. The meaning of the post is by no means unclear, but you request additional effort from that poster without putting any effort of your own into the conversation. You don't even signal what part of that anon's message you need clarification on, it's not clear whether you understand any of it at all.You constantly demand effort from others without being willing to put in any effort yourself. That's draining to deal with.
>>83437840>I ask about people's daysThis is draining. Especially if you're doing it to strangers.
>>83437860some people are just meant to be alone igi don't want to live like that>>83437867I play instruments mostly. Sometimes I draw. Most of my hobbies came from other people though>>83437886>That's not specific. What have you tried speifically?I tried being there for peopleI tried being funnyI tried being empatheticI tried being curious about peopleall of these were genuine because i wanted to get closer with these people and thus I wanted what's best for them>This is your response to someone who has provided specific feedback.your feedback was vague thoughwhat's an "annoying bitch answer"?what makes it an "annoying bitch answer"etc>You constantly demand effort from others without being willing to put in any effort yourself. That's draining to deal with.i put in a lot of effort, arguably more than other people do>>83437897i don't ask strangers that, no.
>>83437603I wish you could drain my balls with your personality.
>>83437960>I tried <vague thing>You're just ragebaiting, aren't you?
>>83437661"draining" means annoying, and there is nothing more annoying (therefore draining) than a desperate people pleaser
>>83437603make sure to nake other people watch. prove em right
>>83437960>i don't want to live like thatI also don't, but I don't trust them anymore. I'm not some fag or anything, I hate women too, but I don't think male friendships are worth it anymore. Although I doubt I'll be getting a female friend anytime soon, not that I want to, they'd judge me. I'll keep dreaming for my lesbian virgin bff
>>83437960>I play instruments mostly. Sometimes I draw.I'm sure you can find someone who appreciates that.
>>83437603>Apparently I got a "draining" personalityCOOL WHY DON'T YOU "DRAIN" MY BALLZ BITCH
>>83438050i could go into more detailwhat do you want to know?>>83438095>lesbian bffdidn't you get one already?>>83438377doubt it
>>83437603doing shit like this is why you are draining, dumb faggot
>>83440010>doing shit like this is why you are draining, dumb faggotdoing what
>>83437603>Apparently I got a "draining" personalityDRAIN GANG
>>83439997>i could go into more detail>but I'm not going to, please put more effort into this conversation that I'm not contributing anything of substance to
>>83440022>wahhhh I have no friends!!!! :ccccccc>abooooboooobooooo I should just kill myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!stop doing that
I need help but I'm only going to describe my problem in the most vague terms possible and if you don't solve it for me you're a bad person
>>83440124nigger i don't know what you want to know>>83440142maybe i hate being alone?>>83440185i don't think it's solvable so i never asked for you to solve it for mestop assuming things you don't know
>>83437603>"draining" personalityIf moid, into the trashIf foid, hello nurse!
>>83440203>I hate being alone>but I would never ever ever put any effort into being tolerable to interact with
>>83440253stop being vague
>>83440203I don't know what information you have that would be relevant or interesting. Tell me everything you know.
>>83440271>this is my vaguepost thread, only I can be vague
>>83440282NIGGER I AM NOT BEING VAGUEFUCK YOU ASSHOLE>>83440274>Tell me everything you knowlike i said i tried being funny but i sucked at it. I don't understand humour at all and the best i can do is copy what others doi tried being there for people but no one trusts me to do that for some reasoni tried to be empathetic for people which i can do, but i am way to retarded to come up with ways to comfort themi also try to be curious about peoplei ask about their day, i show interest in their hobbies etc
>>83437603OP have you thought about just going to the character menu and changing your stats? Maybe you can take a few points out of neuroticism and put it into charisma or something? Its not too late dezu
>>83440348>i tried all that stuffi'm on the same boat, idk wheter i'm autistic or i have depression
