Why do girls always quit talking to me after 1 month!? We can hug i can pick those 2 up and carry them i can braid their hair but every single girl quit talking to me after one month. Maybe I shouldnt have been homeschooled and grew so different..
>>83438793I can't speak for other girls, but based on the guys I've talked to that I've now stopped talking to, it's because I couldn't consistently talk to them. Guys I've talked to don't message everyday or want to talk everyday, so I'd sort of forget to talk to them, until they message me first, then I'd respond in seconds and I'd be reminded of them. But if they went too long, or didn't ever message me again I'd forget to talk to them. This happens with me with everyone, not just men. I need to be constantly reminded of stuff, because "out of sight, out of mind". I'm trying to get better about it though
>>83438848You must run a pretty busy life. Whenever I add someone online I'm practically awaiting their every message. But I am super needy I guess.
>>83438848>This happens with me with everyonenever happens to me because i actually care about things
>>83438869Yeah I'm pretty busy, only free time I have is between 7-8 till when I go to bed. If I talk to the person every day, I will wait for them to message, but if they message like once a week, It'll be completely out of mind. >>83438874I care as well, I just have mental problems and I have a terrible memory
>>83438793same reason she replaces her bags and shoes - because you're disposable goods. there are tens of swinging dicks out there for her to chose from.
Because your dick is small
You forgor to write "pic unrelated"
>meet them>awkward beginning>but it leads into long conversationjavascript:;>sharing our lives, feelings on both this and that>arguing about abstract things>now airing and working through very personal issues>relationships>share weirdly private stuff without thinking about it>it runs to twice the length we thought it would>laughing>making excuses to keep talking>three times the length>finally, one of us is torn away by real life>we share that we really enjoyed it and that we'd like to meet again and keep talking>if coincidence doesn't conspire against us, they flake anyway>never see each other againi don't really know what's wrong with me, nobody's telling me. each big issue i can think of seems like it has a clear counterpoint somewhere in how i'm treated. i can't call it relationships since nothing ever develops, but the let's say dynamics between me and other people never seem to fit at all into how i'd think it should work or how others describe it is like for them. honestly, i'm beginning to find it so exhausting i'd rather not meet and try to engage with people anymore, even though i really like it and i feel like it's rewarding. thanks for reading my blog.>>83438793i don't know why, because i don't understand these things in general, but how does your relationship change during this one month (or more like the last week) other than in progressing to more intimate and physical gestures? i don't buy first post's explanation of this situation because it seems like you'd have gone further than what allows for forgetfulness >>83438848what. we can't really message reminders though, even subtly, that always comes across very poorly no matter what you're like or how you two work together. how awkward. also, man... everyone who says or does anything of any weight or authenticity to me stays on my mind for two months at the very least.
>>83440365>javascript:;where'd that come from? don't think i saw it display in the text box
>>83438848like a chatbot that doesnt initiate, it just respondsi want someone to obsess over but that kinda shit starts to hurt. easier to just get my social interactions from 4cha because everyone is anon.
>>83438793What the fuck is this pic. I think I threw up in my mouth.. my mouth is totally burned by stomach acid.
>>83442148yes. what's the point when you know that none of what makes it good to you is reciprocated.
>>83440365You don't have to message reminders, you just need to message often instead of once a week. It'll be fine if it's every other day, but like I've said, I have mental problems and I'm probably a retard, because if something isn't constantly in my life, I'll forget about it. It's not on purpose. >anything of any weight or authenticity to me stays on my mind for two months at the very least.If it's something important, or something I saw that I really liked, I'll remember it. I still think about nice things that have been said to me multiple multiple years ago, but talking to people isn't something I'm used to, and I'm not sure how to have friends or keep relationships. And this is why I don't date, because I'm not sure how well I can stay focused on a relationship when all I think about is certain shit and I completely forget about people around me, or even just anything in the world around me.>>83442148I know it's bad, I'm working on it. It's not like I can flip a switch and just change. I don't know what causes it. It's why I avoid any relationships now
>>83442478>reminderyeah i probably used the wrong word. i mean that attempting to reinitiate talks that the other party let fizzle out feels very terrible regardless of what you might have to say and even if you know the other person is a bit scattered and probably didn't mean to drop it. like you're having to appeal to them and remind them that, hey, i'm here too, oh please engage with me. and if they did mean to drop it, you just committed suicide. well, i might now be bitterly fretting only about my own insecurity, idk. yeah, sorry, nevermind maybe.>nice thingsoh yeah. i'm fairly certain i can recall every single genuine compliment i've ever received, given a minute or two. most smiles too probably. it's not really something i could say in real life without sounding incredibly creepy but it's how it is, it sticks and it's difficult not to go back to.
>>83442597If someone messages me, I'll respond back until they stop replying or one of us has to go to bed. In the past I've always tried to be the last to respond in every conversation, so that it didn't seem like I was leaving them on read. And everytime conversations have stopped in the past, it was because I was the last one to message and I had thought they'd now be the first to message me. Since I thought since they stopped talking, they'd message me again when they wanted to talk or when they had time. I can definitely see what you mean though, so no need to say sorry or anything like that, and it's because of those exact thoughts and reasons, that until I think I'm in a better headspace, I've been avoiding having friends a lot. >it's not really something i could say in real life without sounding incredibly creepyI don't think it sounds creepy desu. Very often I still think back to all of the friends I've had in the past, and even back to thinking about friends who stopped talking to me, just because I miss them. I think back all the time to when people hold doors open for me, when people have helped me, and even just joking around with people back when I was in school.
>>83442664my bad if i sounded too accusatory. i think i do that a lot. i wrote a reply but realized i wasn't adding anything, so i'll just say good luck and i get it, instead
>>83442760You didn't sound that way, it's alright. I didn't get offended or upset at anything you said, so no big deal
>>83438848you're not a women pajeet
>>83442170You've never seen a fish head in the context of food before? I don't get it.
>>83442664>If someone messages me, I'll respond back until they stop replying or one of us has to go to bed. In the past I've always tried to be the last to respond in every conversation, so that it didn't seem like I was leaving them on read.damn this is exactly how I message people. I can practically keep a conversation going forever. Sadly though I think I've pushed a lot of people away doing this, because I don't think they're ready for it and it feels smothering to them. If we started messaging each other we'd go on until one of us died probably. I take a lot of pride in my messaging etiquette honestly.
