edating is legitimately one of the worst things you can do to your mindI've accumulated all of the jadedness, resentment, frustration, and insecurity that irl dating causes, and I still haven't even held a girl's hand. I haven't even received a fucking nude dude, I've just vced and gotten some selfies. So seeing a chick's face and hearing her voice, which is the FUCKING BASELINE of irl interaction. Like what the fuck am I even doing here, bending over backwards to get the same thing I could get from talking to a barista at starbucks>but the women here are heckin based they like anime and say niggerit's not worth it man. Just stick to your hobbies. Even if edating could get you laid, it still wouldn't be worth the psychological damage it does, AND IT WON'T EVEN GET YOU LAID. You will just waste your time and come out the other said an even angrier virgin to any incels considering edating, do not fucking do it. It's literally just all of the downsides of dating with none of the upsides
kek we told you bud go to your nearest night club you'll have better luck with some drunk latina than with your dinergoth egf
>>83442312i edated in the past and lowkey got traumatized from it but i want to do it again because i miss being in love
>>83442322yep, you guys were right. I thought I was different, that I was going to be some kind of echadnews flash to any guys here that think they're going to slay on soc for some reason, if you've made it to r9k, you do not have slayer genesgo do something productive with your time. Don't become some bpd ewhore's attention dispenser for the month
i think this and then go back to messaging women online months later because i dont know what else to do. i dont know where to go irl and im scared of being weird or coming off as a sexpest. online feels safe but im getting older and i cant keep this up forever. its almost cosmically ironic considering i used to make fun of edaters on roblox when i was 13, and here i am in my late 20s and trying to edate women online. its fucking pathetic the person iv become
>>83442422iktf broI miss feeling cared about and desired, having someone to dependably talk to and do stuff with every dayToo much of a recluse to meet anyone IRL, so online is my only optionSadly it's hard as hell to even find girls to talk to online these days
how tf are there so many of you people all of a sudden
>tfw i suffered more for my bpd e-girlfriend at 18 than with actual gfs as an adultit's funny how life works maybe because i was younger and EVERYTHING hurt more? but like i didn't do half the reminiscing for chicks that were relationships vs my first e-gf
I havent e dated but I flirted with some twinks onlineIt was honestly fun and it was nice to practice talking to peopleI think it gave me better interpersonal skills so I can have actual conversations
I e-dated a girl with BPD that almost killed me. They prey on autistic boys.I would probably try again with a girl that doesn't have BPD, if not for the fact that I'm now so damaged that I wouldn't consider dating anyone ever.
>>83442510>I e-dated a girl with BPD that almost killed me.I forgot to write "and". She didn't literally try to murder me.
>>83442312I didn't mean to, I was just feeling silly and added someone one night and it lasted for months and hurt real bad. I didn't talk to anyone for 14 years now I am way lonelier. I have been trying but I don't think I will ever find anyone like that time.
>>83442312>edatingcringe, sucks>irl dating and echeatingkino
>>83442312>but the women here are heckin based they like anime and say niggerI just can't do it dude. 4chan is all I know. I don't get along with anyone not from here. I've tried IRL women, I've tried dating sites, I even tried chatting with girls on fucking reddit. I have to act fake and gay with all these people. They ALL end thinking I'm fucking weird and ghost me if I actually speak my mind and thats even before I start blasting Ns.
>>83442605I feel you dude. I really do. I fucking LOVE bpd women with tranime profile pictures that say nigger 100 times a day. Seriously, they're the only people that make me feel alive. But they will slowly drain the life out of you. They're like heroin. It's legitimately better to be alone>I have to act fake and gay with all these peopleI feel you man. I have no real advice to offer, but I feel you>>83442422I feel you. I broke a 9 month no 4chan streak in august, and now I'm back here again, fucking up my sleep schedule talking to egirls>and here i am in my late 20sI'm in my early 20s. As a veteran edater, do you have any advice for us youngins?>>83442440>Too much of a recluse to meet anyone IRL, so online is my only option>Sadly it's hard as hell to even find girls to talk to online these daysseriously. I'm too young to have experienced this first hand (zoomer), but according to my millennial homies, it wasn't too hard to find weird nerdy girls to talk to back in the 2000s and early 2010s. Now all you get is insane bpd attention whores that will drain and discard you like a 9 volt battery>>83442465>but like i didn't do half the reminiscing for chicks that were relationships vs my first e-gfthe worst part for me is that I can actually feel myself becoming numb. I'm losing that puppydog energy that inexperienced young guys have, and I can feel it getting replaced by the energy of a jaded divorcee. And I still haven't even held a girl's hand. Fucking unreal
>>83442747>it wasn't too hard to find weird nerdy girls to talk to back in the 2000s and early 2010sThey were kind of fake nerds but yeah that was a thing and you could talk to them. Typically they'd friendzone actual nerds and end up with weird scene guys who smoked. Is it not like that anymore these days?
>>83442812>Typically they'd friendzone actual nerds and end up with weird scene guys who smoked. Is it not like that anymore these days?okay never mind then it's the exact same now lol
