>want to have a daughter>dont want her to turn into a whorehow do i instill her with self respect?can any foids chime in
>>83445159i don't think any family purposefully instills the no self-respect thing into their daughters, that's just outside influence and you can't do anything about it other than maybe controlling the environment she's in (school, etc) but that's not always a guarantee. you could just make her grow up fat and ugly so that she's a pariah and she gets bullied by boys instead of getting pursued by them. of course that would make her get a series of mental illnesses and social issues that will be very difficult to get rid of but at least she won't be a whore and she'll at least have that to rely on. (totally not talking about personal experience ofc)
>>83445217based on my time on reddit, its usually the fat and ugly ones that do go sleeping around to compensate for an insecurity on being desired and lusted for
Former camwhore here with almost 40 bodiesMy dad never gave a single fuck about me. I'm his bio daughter and my parents are childhood sweethearts he just doesn't care me. Try giving a fuck about her and actually giving her boy advice and maybe she will stand a chance Still have no clue what my dad's problem is my running theory is that he's just fucking stupid
>>83445517make her grow up fat and ugly and lose weight before she's actually old enough to sleep around, that will make her more humble
>>83445637Nah growing up big and othered as early as preschool sets her on the whore track. You have to make sure she is normal weight so he can be normal baseline
>>83445159i have more self respect than most but it only took my entire childhood derailing and ending up browsing this website at 10 as my only form of male influence, i couldve gone the complete other way and sought it out irl tho. theres no guarantee or any preventative measures
>>83445159I grew up in a strict religious household where my parents didnt allow me to date go outside past 3pm have sleep overs hang out with friends in school . Basically socially isolated me and now Im a khhv never had a relationship and I prefer staying at home rather than going out. Essentially keep her locked in the house and shell become anti social and be too depressed to be a whore
>>83445517This is really true as a female. Usually the ugly girls are the ones who are total whores because they'll take any attention they receive . They think having a high body count means they are attractive.
>>83445528Is it possible he never wanted a daughter. Also why didn't you get family therapy
I think being a soi dad is probably the best way. Being interested in her, participate in her life. spending time doing things she wants, cultivate her curiousity, support hobbies, discipline through reason with calmness and compassion. Don't excessively chide, admonish or shame her for not fitting into your idealised perception of what a daughter should be, or for following things you don't necessarily agree with or like yourself. Allow her to learn what she values herself. Essentially parent to reinforce a secure attachment style where she isn't questioning your love, isn't pining for affection, understands the rationale of why risky behaviour is dangerous and leads to bad outcomes, and isn't going to be desperate to seek all the things you withhold from her from groomers or predators who will offer them in exchange for sex etc.
>>83446245this and teach her about pair bonding at some point and also be smart and an autist so she inherits these thingsyou need to teach her actual critical thinking skills so she can think logically and not just emotionally
>>83445935Therapy doesn't work you leaking bloody asshole nigger
>>83446731it can, its just for people who basically cant express their emotions without the help of a third party, so a lot of normalfagsbut family therapy only works if the people going actually want to improve
>>83446731Actually therapy doesn't work for ppl who have narcissistic personality disorder
>>83446731isnt therapy effectively just self-introspection but with someone else intead of yourself?
>>83445528Can I buy a show? Do you still have your account?
>>83445159You love her anon. You love her and show here how men are supposed to treat women. Give her high standereds and teach her to never settle.As horrible as it sounds. Teach her men "beneath" her are not worth her love, but only kindness. If that makes sense