>>83445176
It probably doesn't help, but behind closed doors some of those couples are actually miserable. Or at least one partner is miserable. Abuse happens all the time and women are excellent at emotional abuse so it's a two way street

>>83445176
>tfw you have to sit in the darkness and watch people be happy with their lovers while you have absolutely no one
Who is forcing you to subject yourself to videos of happy couples? Dude, go for a walk or something, or spend some time in nature.

>>83445176
I go through a couple phases when I watch a loving couple, at first I'm smiling because it feels good to see love and happiness, but then my smile fades as I'm reminded that those experiences are something I won't experience in my entire life.
I wouldn't go so far as to say that it's like this everyday, that it's a constant reminder from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to bed, most of the time you have to seek it out.
Are you seeking it out, OP?

>>83445207
Have you ever taken an IQ test, retard?

>HUUGHH GO FOR A WALK!
>HUUUGHHH NATURE!
Cut this normie shit already. I've heard these "retorts" countless times and they meant the same amount each time. NOTHING. Actual textbook definition red herrings.
You think life's all sunshine and rainbows? Who the fuck do you think I am? Do you think I'm fucking stupid?

>>83445226
>Have you ever taken an IQ test, retard?
I don't have to prove anything to you, anon. You have plenty of things to be grateful for. If you want a relationship, then start becoming a person who is worth dating. Period.

>>83445251
>the things I have to be grateful for:
>nagging parents who still think I want anything to do with them
>burn scars and hideous skin grafts
>a social order that constantly pushes me down and tells me I'm worthless
Not a lot.
Anyways, blow it out your ass.

>>83445176
I wanted to sympathise with you but you're a tripfag and deserve every second of it

>>83445274
>Not a lot.
>Anyways, blow it out your ass.
Bitterness. You have plenty of things to be grateful for. You just can't see it because you are so clouded by unforgiveness, bitterness and hatred.

>>83445274
Wow, it's good that your outward appearance reflects the nastiness inside, usually people are humbled by their disfigurement instead of letting it turn their insides black.

>>83445299
>>83445313
holy fuck bruh
>you have so much to be grateful for, like your horrible skin grafts and burn scars, what about your social group?

>aw man you're so bitter, maybe you should be humble and nice instead of angry

guy probably has had a horrible life and has heard all this shit before. this high and mighty shit is fucking pissing me off too man holy shit

>>83445381
>guy probably has had a horrible life and has heard all this shit before. this high and mighty shit is fucking pissing me off too man holy shit
High and mighty? There are literal people in Africa who are living amongst tribes living in squalor who keep a grateful attitude. Yet, we have OP, who is being bitter, when I'm sure if he were to humble himself and really look around him, he would see so much to be grateful for.

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>>83445176
watching you say

>>83445393
ok high and mighty isnt the right thing to say but still, this nigga has probably dealt with horrible shit his whole life, and has had life changing injuries due to a fire im asuming that has made him hate himself, and you're going "just be humble bro, you have so much going for you in your life"

>>83445413
I'm simply trying to show OP that there is still many things to be grateful for, despite whatever issues he may have. He can choose to not forgive people and remain bitter, but he is only hurting himself by doing so. It isn't wise to do that.

I can understand that he doesn't like his burn scars, and skin grafts, but there are plenty of people out there who have far worse disfigurement who remain grateful. If he put less emphasis on his physical appearance, and actually focused on what he can change, then he would be a lot less bitter about his situation.

>>83445444
i mean yeah i guess he has it better then some people, but that's another thing that pisses me off. People going "you should be grateful you don't have it as bad as BLANK" fucking pisses me off, you downplay his experiences and struggles and say he should be happy since he has it SOOOOOO good compared to someone else. It's the same as me saying you shouldn't feel bad or complain about anything since you don't have it as bad as OP

>>83445512
What good will complaining do for you though? What will moaning and complaining about your issues do for you that is good? Better to accept what we can't change or control and move on and focus on what we can change- like a messed up bitter attitude.

>>83445523
I don't believe doing that normie christfaggot shit will get me any closer to getting a girlfriend let alone a wife, shitstain.

Demoralization campaign. Ignore

>>83445534
>I don't believe doing that normie christfaggot shit will get me any closer to getting a girlfriend let alone a wife, shitstain.
Do you know that getting a girlfriend isn't going to fix the bitterness you feel? Do you know that? Fix yourself before you expect to land a girlfriend who is decent and faithful.

>>83445523
thats the thing you dont just accept shit and move on immediately, OP is going through the stages of whatever and dealing with this shit, he might not accept his circumstance for years and you shouldn't expect him too, if you where dealt with disfigurement, burn scars, and skin grafts i wouldn't expect you to move on and accept it for years.

>>83445548
You don't know what bitterness is. Anyways.
Why do you think I'm experiencing emotions like these? Hint. It's the same reason why I'm on this fucking forum in the first place.

>U don't have a lover because u have a bad outlook on life!
It's the opposite, actually. Do you know what cause and effect is?

>>83445555
>You don't know what bitterness is
That is a lie. I used to hold lots of bitterness and hatred in my heart against people and myself. It wasn't until I truly chose to forgive others and myself did I finally get freedom from it. That gave me a peace of mind, and, a good sense of compassion for others, even if they live far greater lives than I do.
>Why do you think I'm experiencing emotions like these?
Brother, you are conversing with someone who literally has disfigurement as well. My nose is very crooked, my nostrils are different sizes than each other and I have a literal dent in my skull. I chose to accept it, and move on with my life, instead of just ruminating on it over and over again. When it comes down to a base human level, we all as human-beings go through the same things to a certain extent. We all feel sorrow, pain, happiness, anxiety and a myriad of other things. I am literally an ugly dude, but my value isn't based upon my looks, and your value shouldn't be based on your looks either. We're all going to die someday, but, when we die, the people who knew you will remember you more for the character you had, the values you stood upon and the memories you shared.

Choose to forgive, anon, and accept what you can't change.

>>83445578
a crooked nose and skull dent vs serious burns all over someones body and horribly applied skin grafts.....

yeah shit is the exact same, you have the chance of living a normal life, op probably isnt going to be able to do that

>>83445583
>a crooked nose and skull dent vs serious burns all over someones body and horribly applied skin grafts.....
I don't know how serious this man's burns or skin grafts are. But, I do know that there is hope for him.
>you have the chance of living a normal life
>op probably isnt going to be able to do that
He does have the chance for a good life. It may not be as "normal" as others may have it, but, he still has hope for a good life.

>>83445594
when I hear "burn scars and hideous skin grafts" my thought is horrible third degree full body burns, the type that remove your nose and shit.

if that is the case he will not be treated equally, he will not have a chance at a normal life. Every where he goes he will be treated like a monster and a freak.

>>83445606
>Every where he goes he will be treated like a monster and a freak
That isn't true. There are decent people in this world.