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be me f18 with a m18 boyfriend
date for 5 months
he loses interest in me perhaps because we never have engaged in sexual activity waiting for marriage
dont want to break up with him i have no friends and no one
every conversation is
me hows your day
me good when can i see you
him i dunno
feel neglected and play league all day what should i do
hes not even busy he leaves me on delivered for hours and spends his days counting calories and meal prepping it would be painful if i broke up with him because his my frist boyfriend but i dont want to feel like a burden anymore and i never want to make him forget me thinking about slashing my wrists in front of him but then hell think im crazy any better solutions?
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dont browse 4chan were pedophiles that will give you a fetish for transgender dicks
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>>83461375
cute. where are you from? would you date an older guy and move in with me immediately? we can play league and rage at our monkey teammates
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>>83461375
league sucks ass. go play osrs like a real man
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>>83461375
>and spends his days counting calories and meal prepping
Hes gay and ur a fucking idiot
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>>83461389
ivw been on 4chan for years still a nonhomosexual foid
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>>83461425
i dont think so i can feel him get hard every time we hug and its unsettling
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>>83461429
plz don't call yourself a foid, nona :/
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>>83461438
Are you mannish?
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>>83461419
im from florida but i donr want to be the next bianca devins il die by myself
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>>83461446
i think im a woman i was born like that
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>>83461459
>think im a woman i was born like that
Feel free to post a link to your pics
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>>83461479
i dont do porn i think that bad
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>>83461375
what are your kinks? do you shave? would you do anal? would you swallow cum and piss? how often would u wanna fuck? how quick do u cum?
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>>83461453
>the next bianca devins
what a bpd retarded whore cheating comfag who deserved to beheaded?
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>>83461375
date me instead. are u from est?
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>>83461558
i have bpd domt wanma be beheaded cartel execution style ill killmyself on nature peacfully
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>>83461582
ya i am from that location i think
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>>83461538
do you want to have a scat party
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>>83461607
if i dropped my discord will u add me and then message and vc me
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>>83461660
i am a loyal person i am not a unfaithful member of earth
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>>83461686
if u break up with him and date me instead its not being unfaithful its just choosing someone else, unless you think youll be with him forever
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>>83461697
i didnt break up with him yet i dont have the balls to
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>>83461375
seems like he is not aligned to your goals with him wanting sex and not caring about you my advice is break up because you can't make him care and the chance he leaves after sex is huge

out of curiosity if you want to kys whats the point of staying a virgin until marriage? sounds more like a cry for attention instead of a real threat because all self harm women are promiscuous since they don't give a shit about their own life
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>>83461716
oh i dont wanna kill myself i just wanna make sure he never forgets me i mean i do plan on killing myself if i dont have my ideal life in a couple years but its not like im actively suicidal he just calls me ungrateful and treats me poorly and i wanna show him how that effects people in a way that makes sense talking doesnt seem to work so why dont i make him see it i mean i already cut myself on the regularrr but thats cus its just a bad habit
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>>83461711
im 28. break up with him and date me instead, i need some 18 yr ol pussy
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>>83461375
I would hate it too if I was dating someone who asked me for a government contract just to have some physical intimacy, I would feel like she cares more about government bureaucracy than me
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>>83461375
god i wish i had a needy attention starved gf to spend every moment i can talking to
why tf did i get old
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>>83461778
actually its more about the commitment that we would be with eachother for life no matter what instead of pumping and dumping me
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>>83461782
i wishh people like that exist bit youbwoild get tired if me after a monthhh
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>>83461790
And what does that have anything to do with a government contract? A paper doesn't mean shit and people break their contracts all the time
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>>83461840
yea but aleast you get punished for breaking ur promise
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>>83461809
it happens the other way around to me
i get too attached
then they get over it or something and end it
i tried adding a bunch of ppl but no one fits the bill for my kinda weird
limerence is rough
post discord and lets see how long we last
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>>83461375
You don't have to fuck just cause you feel like it. You're 18. Not every relationship is for life
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>>83461919
i wanna hurry up and find my companion for life and get it over with
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>>83461919
i jist wanna find someone who loves me and get it over with
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>>83461933
Yeah, you want to force it. Divorce exists. Don't we all wish we could just open the door, walk to where the perfect wives and husband store and buy a perfect wife or husband who'll fulfill all our needs. >>83461943
Sure you do. Do you expect it to fall from the sky?
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>>83461954
where else would i find someone who loves i dont leave my room
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>>83461966
The boy you're dating isn't the only boy that exists. You feel like you have to fuck him because you feel like he is pulling away because the two of you haven't fucked. You want to rush and force a life long marriage on him because you want to get it over with and think a little bit of pussy will make him stay. Every woman has a pussy, every man has a dick. Not every piece of sex is mind blowing and incredible.
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>>83461739
if he doesn't care at worst he will feel guilty for a few months and then move on
it won't affect him or make you unforgettable
>>83461890
nta but i made a new discord wanna try talking?
discord is trawac

also don't let people here gaslight you into not waiting for marriage anymore we should strive to find someone who love us until death
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>>83461984
i guess but i dont know i want to sympathy farm so maybe hell love me the way that he used too
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>>83461375
lmao thats such a cute edit
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>>83462016
YES I LOVE WINSTON
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>>83461375
Up the cute factor and be more affectionate. He's probably withdrawing becausehes feels like he isn't getting anything out of it. There's a lot of things you can do for him besides just sexo.
>meal prep
Here's an example, you could cook for him. Doesn't have to be every day or anything, just occasionally.

The key here is that if you start upping the things you do for him, you should also see him start doing the same in return. If he doesn't after a decent period of time its actually over and you should just break up.
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>>83461851
So that's what you want for him in the future? That's what motivates you? Punishment of the one you supposedly love? And by government, all impersonal, not even done by yourself?
No wonder the guy would rather keep his distance
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>>83462037
i have beeen every morning i send him cute tiktoks and instagram reels i write like love letters and drawings and give them to him i used to buy little trinkets and say this reminded me to him and wear like qt outfits call him little nicknames and he would just be cold and quiet and when i talked about it with him he never changes and i think we should break up but i just cant
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>>83462037
he only eats low calorie protein meals weighed out real starvemaxxing so he wont eat what i make
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>>83462037
>There's a lot of things you can do for him besides just sexo
There's only one thing you can do for him that he can't do by himself and that's creating a baby. Everything else he can probably do it by himself. But you're going to probably leave him and then get pregnant from another guy a few months after like any other foid while the dude cries about how he fumbled his only relationship in one or two decades
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>>83462040
if you dont love me anymore why would i want the best for you
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>>83462076
i dont plan on dating anyone again until after i get my associates reallyy my life doesnt revolve around dating its just painful too let go of someone who used to love you
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>>83462090
>its just painful too let go of someone who used to love you
disgusting foids say this kind of shit and then just abort your baby then break up with you then call the police on you
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>>83462134
see thw things about that is that i would never be in thag position im just a sensitive young lady
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>>83462143
thats what the girl that did that to me used to say too, and i feel like a retard for believing her
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>>83462157
what happened to you guys
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>>83462075
Its possible to make meals that hit the right macros and taste good actually. Literally just ask him what his daily kcal and protein intake stats are.
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>>83462172
i dont think he would trust it hes weird about his food and doesnt wana waste calories i mean i kinda get it he only wats two servings of buckwheat and like cream of wheat with frozen fruit its weird
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>>83462184
Have you tried voicing any of your concerns to him? Nobody is a mindreader.
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>>83462198
ya many times howevernof irl i cant really articulate what i wanna say properly and not break down in tears i did it once and he just felt bad for me but i did tell him over text and he said hell try his best
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>>83462210
Hate to be the bearer of bad news but it looks like its pretty joever for you.
Just on the off chance have you asked him why he's pulling away at all? I did something similar a while ago unfortunately just cause I was very depressed and didn't want to be a burden to those around me, but ended up ruining a relationship.
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>>83462222
i did i asked him why he was being so distant and he told me his growing as a person and he doesnt have time to talk to me all the time but nothing changed to the point that he has less time he just dont wanna talk to me but i still wanna do something i just want things ro go back the way they were
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>>83462163
I loved her, she loved other guys, I wanted to have babies with her, she also wanted babies not with me, so she would always use abortive drugs, or birth control pills or we would use condoms, and she also break up with me like every X months, and I always tried to do my best to get back with her... Also she was always talking to me about her other love boys and her affairs and stuff, anyway at some point she just told me over message that it was over and then she got a legion of lawyers to try to get me in jail... Also around that time someone tried to kill me but I'm not even sure if I'm just being paranoid about her or just a coincidence.
So, all I wanted was to have a happy family with her but it's been 13 years and now I'm close to being too old to have healthy kids and no girl ever talks to me because im no longer young, or beautiful or rich, and there's no environment to even meet people.
Tldr:
I fucking ruined my life, and now it feels almost impossible to achieve my life goal of having a family
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>>83462240
Yeah it sounds pretty over
Is this an e-relationship/ldr by chance?
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>>83462261
what are you gonna so for the rest of your life
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>>83462267
no its irl what do i even do noww i was thinking i go over to his house and when were cuddling i turn around and say you dont love me anymore and say you dont plan dates you dont text me you find me boring and i just cant take it anymore but i think that would be kinda awkward cus he has to drive me home
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>>83462279
Not sure... Maybe keep being a NEET until funds run out and then become a homeless and then get killed by some psychopath burning with gasoline homeless guys while they are asleep... For some people maybe life doesn't get much better than that
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>>83462367
you should take a bunch of loads out and live as a king in some third world country
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>>83462370
I live as a jobless peasant in a third world country and nobody would ever loan me anything because a default would be obvious and there's no collateral to go for after I default
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>>83462380
start a onlyfans
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>>83462387
Maybe 2 people in the whole world would be interested in paying like 2 bucks for watching my small penis
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>>83461375
Being a conversative trad Christian gf is so lame, you guys seem like dorks now.

>no no i must be married and have everything perfect to have sex!

go you but man you can do all that without the ideal of marriage and still love your partner the same
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>>83461375
>any better solutions?
Grow a spine
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>>83461438
If you are unsettled by his erections, it's never gonna work out. You need to love him and love his sexuality



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