When I grew up and moved out on my own, I realized that pretty much everything I hated as a kid, I actually only hated the way my mom would make me do it and how she'd act while I was doing it. >Waking up early>Homework>Cleaning>Practicing the piano>Eating dinnerI have no problem with any of these while I'm living alone but it's like my mom would go out of my way to make them as miserable as possible when I was a kid.
>>83464250Women hate the sight of a man relaxing and enjoying himself. It makes them physically distressed. This extends to mothers and their male children, particularly older ones. It's not really her fault. Women are just generally incapable of overcoming their biological programming, which is why all women seem to be the same underneath no matter how "quirky" they seem.
>>83464250My mom is so good to me that I'm never gonna move out. I got a job and now she still wakes me up with breakfast in bed every day just like it was in my school days. And when I come home from work, there's warm lunch on the table. No nagging, no bullshit and she even pays most of the bills allowing me to save most of my wages and become rich. At weekends she brings me breakfast in bed at 11am so I get 9-10h of sleep. And I'll inherit everything when she passes away so I'll never become some mortgage debt cuck like almost everyone else.
>>83464260You're doing it right, anon. The only reason to move is if your parents are assholes or if you want to get married.
>>83464268>if your parents are assholesHonestly, even if she was terrible to live with and did nothing for me, I'd still not move out. 30yrs of debt slavery and giving back twice what you took (inflation not included) is a massive scam. I'd literally rather live inside a $2000 second-hand car than get scammed by a bank like that.>want to get marriedNever saw the point in marriage and never will. In my country you don't even get tax benefits, you just get vulnerability to divorce rape if you're financially wealthy like me. No surprise that every dude I know didn't want to get married and only did it because their gfs wanted to.
>>83464250It's probably just you. Mothers aren't known for being abusive to their children, especially their sons. You're imagining things.
>>83464332She wasn't abusive, just annoying and controlling
>>83464332You sound like you circumcised your infant son three times.
>>83464250>>Practicing the pianoHmm. You know, if nobody is making you do it, you're not practicing anymore. You're playing.
>>83464250Doing homework with someone over your shoulder is always stressful.
>>83464250I had parents like this and they wonder why I'm so "independent". My brother on the other had turned out to be the exact layabout they thought I was going to become since he was excessively coddled. Now he's folding hard under less than 10% of the pressure I was subjected to since he's actually on track to fucking up his life.
>>83464250Being told to do something makes me hate doing it.
>>83464607Yeah, I think it's not worth holding a grudge over, then...
>>83467382>muh grudgeThe only reason people bitch about this is because they want to escape accountability for their fuckups. Basically they want to browbeat the person they know they wronged into forgiving them so they can fuck them over again, but even worse the next time since they effectively forcibly disarmed him.
>>83464259>Women hate the sight of a man relaxing and enjoying himself>Women are just generally incapable of overcoming their biological programmingHow is that related to their biology tho
