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I don't want to e-date/LDR. As to real life, normalfags reasonably don't approach me due to my appearance and personality. I have three female friends irl and none of them have male friends so no one can introduce me to anyone.

>>83465690
>Why don't fembots have a bf?
Fat, unkempt and black

>>83465690
i never had a dad or any male figures in my life, i didnt talk to boys at school and i have low self esteem and anxiety so when a guy expresses interest in me i feel like im going to inevitably disappoint him so i run away and avoid him. just happened with a coworker of mine

>>83465739
Why not use Tinder?
>>83465753
All of those are fixable
>>83465786
What does not having male figures in your life have to do with disappointing men?

>>83465810
no, the low self esteem has to do with feeling like im going to disappoint them. the lack of male figures has to do with why its more so aimed at men, theyre unfamiliar.

>>83465810
>black
>fixable
How?

As for the others, I'm depressed so I don't have much motivation to do that at the moment

>>83465835
Men are hard to disappoint. We want to feel loved and we don't want to be cheated on. That's about it. As long as you attempt to be nice and pay even a little attention to the average man you'll be fine.
>>83465846
Not dating racists fixes the black part. Fat and unkempt are unfortunate but diet and exercise will help with the depression as well as the fat issue. Hard to get started on that while you're depressed though.

>>83465810
I have tried dating apps in the past, it felt really wrong. I know a majority of people on XYZ dating apps are there for hook ups or whatever, no matter what filters you have. A guy on Tinder isn't going to be a virgin that takes me seriously, I assure you.
>inb4 erm foids get 10000000 of likes
I don't know of they are bots or real because that section is blurred out. I don't think it's worth spending $20 a week on a pump-and-dump app. I have never met or heard of a serious couple meeting each other on these kinds of apps. I guess I am a bit unreasonable, sure, but it just feels unnatural. Appearances aren't the main thing I care about, I care about being compatible and I am not compatible with Brad looking for body count #45

>>83465870
I know nothing about dating apps. If you want a virgin guy you're going to have a hard time, I assume they don't approach women randomly. Saying no to LDRs is going to make it even harder, not like you can use r9k as a dating service at that point.

>>83465690
intimacy makes me uncomfortable and i dont like discomfort so i avoid it entirely

>>83465955
>don't approach women randomly
Yeah I figured. I don't expect anything to happen while I'm walking down the street, but I have joined social clubs at my college and had male classmates, which seems to be where most normies find their significant others, didn't. I approached guys before, even in public places and within my looksmatch, got shot down. I feel like it isn't in the cards for me.
>Saying no to LDRs is going to make it even harder, not like you can use r9k as a dating service at that point.
Yeah, I am aware of that. I even dated a guy from here before but he lived overseas and it didn't seem possible for either of us to move. I have a small glimmer of hope maybe someone happens to live near me but has yet to be the case. I have considered /soc/ but seems to have the same problems as most dating apps AND I don't meet the requirements of the men that DO live near me. At this point, if it's this difficult for me, I accept being alone lol.

>>83465690
I live too remotely for any bf, not even robots

>>83465990
Is being alone not uncomfortable?
>>83466072
What about an LDR with someone in the same country as you? That opens your dating pool up and it's not too difficult to plan visits like that. /soc/ is full of very weird people, I don't think you'll have any luck there even if you do meet their requirements.
>>83466092
You on the moon or something?

>>83466109
>moon

May as well be, one of the most remote places on earth

>>83466130
The moon isn't on earth silly. Are you in a desert, an ocean, a mountain, or a tundra? Why can't you e-date? I'm so interested in this now. Do you like being so remote? I always wanted to live in a bubble separated from reality but obviously that's not possible. How did you end up living where you do?

>>83466109
>What about an LDR with someone in the same country as you? That opens your dating pool up and it's not too difficult to plan visits like that.
I've tried that with a guy who lived in the US, communication was still difficult and it seemed like visiting me within five years was impossible for him. Granted, he lived really far from me. I might consider someone who lives in a similar region as me but I still haven't seen that happen. I get insecure really easily and I want to go on dates and experience a real life boyfriend like normalfags, not Discord roleplay. I don't know if I can develop that sort of patience. I never thought I was being unreasonable, just a normal boyfriend I met in real life normally, and that has never happened. FML.
> /soc/ is full of very weird people, I don't think you'll have any luck there even if you do meet their requirements.
Yeah, they kind of freak me out, most of them seem to be looking for some kind of sex slave.

>>83466144
An island in the ocean thousands of miles away from anything. Why e-date if it will never lead to anything real? I was born here, I enjoy my life here but it sucks being completely isolated from the real world

>>83466177
That's kind of crazy if he couldn't travel to you in the US within 5 years. Even if you were on different coasts, that's a pretty short flight and doesn't really cost that much. It's not unreasonable to want a normal boyfriend in real life, meeting people is just hard.
>looking for some kind of sex slave
The guys all want sex slaves and the girls all want money or are running a blackmail operation. It's a horrible board.
>>83466189
Is it an island country or are you just marooned with a satellite connection? Are there no men there? E-dating is enough for some people or who knows maybe your bf would import you or export himself to you. I was hoping you'd be on a research station or something that would be so cool.

>>83466227
>doesn't really cost that much
I live in a big city in the east coast, he lived in small town down south. He was quite poor, depressed and had a shitty family. He was my online friend for six years before dating so I knew him well, him flying over wasn't happening and I was getting impatient.
>It's not unreasonable to want a normal boyfriend in real life, meeting people is just hard.
Yeah, thanks for being understanding at least. I have a lot of odds stacked against me in general so I really have accept being alone and hopefully quit going on this board soon.

>>83466262
>He was my online friend for six years before dating
Six years is forever in online friend time, too bad it didn't work out.
>I really have accept being alone and hopefully quit going on this board soon
You should quit the board. It's a toxic place and just demoralizes people. Accepting that you're alone is good, but don't give up meeting someone. Things can just happen without anyone trying. You might bump into someone one day and end up on a date. As long as you stay open to it happening you've still got a chance.

>>83466299
>too bad it didn't work out
We are not even friends anymore for separate, unrelated reasons. Really sucks and I still feel bad whenever I remember him. He had problems but was a good guy overall.
>Accepting that you're alone is good, but don't give up meeting someone. Things can just happen without anyone trying.
Thank you, genuinely. I feel a lot better honestly. I have to accept it will happen by pure chance at this point lol.
>You should quit the board. It's a toxic place and just demoralizes people.
I earnestly wish the same for you as well. You sound like a good person.

>>83466227
It's an overseas island territory of a country. There's few people overall here but the men I've met are all just interested in life here and not the rest of the world. I'm fine living here but I'm interested in what's going on elsewhere, entertainment and stuff like that. Also I doubt any guy from anywhere normal would tolerate or be able to handle living in a place like this

>>83466392
Thank you for saying that about me. You seem like a decent person too, I'm sure you'll meet someone nice one day and you'll both be very happy together.
>>83466453
Have you considered moving to the mainland?

>>83466635
I've thought about it but I enjoy my life here, apart from the loneliness

>>83466686
How is island life? It seems comfy to me from what little I've seen in movies and such.