If the girl you were with cheats on and you with someone uglier than you, is it really that bad in that situation?Like don't get me wrong, I think if I was humiliated by someone better looking than me and they made a huge deal about it, it would definitely bother me a lot more, it's not like I wouldn't want to kill or do some extreme measure against the person who cheated on me and the person who humiliated me, hell i'd probably make some elaborate plan to chop their feet, and hands off, and blind them, but it could always be worse right?
>>83466728that means your personality is so bad, your appearance doesn't make up for ityeah it would be awful
>it's not bad to raise another man's child, if he is uglier than me
>>83466728you must have loved your whore gf really hard for you to ask something this retarded. Just walk away anon.
>>83466728This never happens in reality. Girls only cheat up
>>83466743Personality? You realize how prevalent grooming is nowadays? Most women are easily manipulated retards if you don't lock them down and control them. So unless you mean to say, a good personality is locking a girl down and controlling them, that's a bit of a stretch.
>>83466762Depends what you mean by dating up, I have seen girls cheat for money and status against their better looking boyfriends.
>>83466798They can cheat for practical reasons, but they never cheat for variety or just feelings, like men do
>>83466755You're a pussy if you don't do the all I was gonna do method desu
>>83466755this, but I saw it before my eyes.simp are just that, simps, a woman can step on then and they will still think about her.OF would be nothing without simps, some men just need a simple caressing in their cheeks, a kiss, or simply a girl running her hand on their greasy hairs and they fall in 'love'for these 'men' losing that girl is like losing their mom lol.now that shit don't happen with women, why? women when they get what they want they breakup or cheat, say converting chad to simp or bad boy to good boy, women carry that 'i can change him' mentality.I know reddit and reddit yes, but go on spiritualism subreddit, how many chadonly bitches there are there, they are not sad because they lost a partner, they are sad because they don't have a man to show off.a man can live forever in his home with say his pretty stacya woman can not live forever inside their home with chad, why? she NEEDS to show him off or her body to others.this is why men can be simps, we are naturally caring than women and we don't think about $$ as much.
>>83466728Honestly that would make it worse.>cheats on me with a 6'15 foot long dick celebrity athleteWhat am I going to say about this? If I had a shot with the female equivalent, some kind of supermodel actress or whatever, I'd go for it in a heartbeat. I can't seethe about human nature at this high of a level.>cheats on me with an ugly bastard, shorter than me and shrimp dickI am lost and confused, might rope, my entire worldview is fucked up forever now
>>83466817>never cheat for feelings, only practicalityI would respect women if this were true, in reality most female cheating is them getting "swept off their feet" by chad in a "whirlwind romance" fling (pump and dump) or just gradually falling in love with their boss at work (exposure and authority)
>>83466883Why? If a girl cheats on you with someone better looking than you, that means she didn't love you inherently for who you are, you were only a stepping stone, but if a girl cheats on you with someone uglier, or like objectively inferior, yeah it would hurt but, I don't see how it'd hurt more.If anything it would bring about more thoughts like>What the fuck?>Why?Etc, like how could you even feel a sense of inferiority from this, if anything it'd just be a clown world moment.
>>83466891is it autistic for me to ask you how you know so much and such specific terms? Can't be experience alone since alot of people with plenty of relationships cant describe shit.
>>83466891>in reality most female cheating is them getting "swept off their feet" by chad in a "whirlwind romance" fling (pump and dump)Looks>gradually falling in love with their boss at work (exposure and authority)Status and wealthMen cheat on their attractive, successful wives with broke and ugly girls that make them feel special. Women would never do that
>>83466949>complete utter dellusion
>>83466728The only way this could happen is if shes golddigging some ugly bastard, so shes just a slut, if not that shes just severely mentally ill, not reson of humiliation, its impossible for a foid pick an ugly over her better looking bf without some underlining reason, theres no better personality meme, you can never be humiliated because you can never be inferior than someone with worse looks.
>>83466992>if not that shes just severely mentally illThis does genuinely happen, seen it personally, tragic shit.
>>83466949>Women would never do thatI have seen it happen, but as with what >>83466992 said, it's with severely mentally ill women who were convinced their boyfriend/husband really didn't love them, pretty sure they had BPD.
yea, my girlfriend leaving me for a fat ugly bastard is worse than if she left me for chad, it's proof that the problem with me isn't lookswhatever cuck reasoning you have to feel better about it is your business but I'm here to tell how MEN think
>>83467124Why would you immediately assume the problem is with yourself?
>>83466728>cheats on and you with someone uglier than youThat's actually much worse. If he was attractive then at least it could be just superficial lust. If he's ugly then it's more likely that she actually has some kind of emotional attachment to him.
>>83467124this>chadi'm aware i'm not the biggest chad alive, there are guys who are taller and better looking, more game or whatever. not getting cheated on with chad is mostly about luck>ugly bastardit's just fucking over no matter what, totally could not have expected this
>>83467146Firstly, i'm surprised that sentence was original, secondly, most people here hate themselves, of course they'd immediately assume it was their fault, even in cases where it genuinely might not be.
>>83466728She doesn't love you but you cuck your own feelings out even in hypotheticals so you overthink this shit here with some westroon rationality crapola
>>83467183Can you repeat that in English?
>>83467146Because hes a retarded cuck.
>>83466728I'd only ever forgive the girl I am with if she cheated with a little girl.
>>83467609>its only okay if she's a gay pedophileCare to explain the justification?
>>83467543Seems to be a lot of those in this thread, do they not know how common it is for women to cheat? Blaming it on yourself is retarded as fuck.
>>83467645Yeah obviously. I knew her cheating was a possibility. However, I assumed it would be with someone credibly "better" than me ("Chad" - taller, hotter, the usual) which would be logical and typical. I am therefore not very shaken by this outcome, which on some level I anticipated or at least understood the risk of. However, if she cheats with an ugly bastard, the only way this fits into my model is if the apparent ugly bastard is in fact better than me. This means I must just be very wrong about myself and I'm more gutter tier than previously thought possible. At that point, I have to recalibrate and ask exactly what is wrong with me that THAT fucking guy is an upgrade.
>>83467718You seem like one of those low self-esteem guys that put up with their almost cheating girlfriends being sluts with otehr men because he's afraid of being called insecure by others.
I have another question, guys or even girls who kill their partner who cheats on them, do you guys think that's justified? Also what about the person they cheated on with? Should they be killed? I was thinking if they know they're sleeping with someone in a relationship, and that said person knows what they're doing is wrong, then yeah they should probably be killed, but if not, probably not.
>>83468287>killing thema totally primal emotional reaction, the only thing that should be punishable by death is a woman bearing another man's kid since that's the only point of fidelity at all
Isn't it just common knowledge women are scum now? What a glorious era.
>>83468287I think it can happen for only two possible reasons, theyre low iq and too emotional, or their life is literally ruined and they have nothing to lose, the second one happening with long marriages and great loss of assets to homeless level or raising children resulted of early cheating that is not theirs for decades.
>>83468398>>83468463Vigilante justice is only really done because laws aren't in place to serve justice properly, pretty sure throughout most of civilized history, the punishment for infidelity was death, was it not? And when it wasn't death, it was often some sort of life ruining punishment, like exile from the nation, lifetime of imprisoment/slavery, etc.
>>83468707yeah, because they didnt have dna paternity tests
>>83468784Life is short, dedicating your life to someone whether they had your kids or not, and having them betray you and ruining your relationship with them, wasted potentially years of your life, even if it was just 1 or 2 years they should be killed.
>>83468784Kek offtopic but they made dna tests illegal in france
>>83468858i guess i don't see in what way your life was "wasted" if there are no kids involved, you were fucking her and still living the rest of your life, progressing your career, etc right. so just get a new bitch and move on
Experienced it before. We're still together, 20 yrs later, 17yrs after the affair.More or less it did fuck with me for a bit, but it was the ex that she cheated on with me. Questions?
>>83468964How have you been punishing her for this the last 17 years? Beating her, just cheating yourself, something else?
>>83466728why are penis size and low inhibition always left out of this equation? maybe the guy is a sexpest with a massive cock?
>>83468982>>83468982>How have you been punishing her for this the last 17 years? Beating her, just cheating yourself, something else?Sexually, I have made her more perverted than ever. She's definitely made up for it over the years. Right now, she's next to me with crotchless panties and her nipples pierced with black hearts that say "Fuck Me"You tell me? Any ideas?
