How damning is it if the only girl I've managed to (e)date had BPD?Should I take that as a sign that no mentally healthy woman would like me?
>>83468484BPD girls are the only ones crazy enough to look past my glaring faults (there are many) and e-date me. You're just like me OP, damned to only ever edate. BPD girls are so nice though. Count yourself lucky. I need a bpd egf.
>>83468507>BPD girls are so nice thoughShe was until she left for no reason
>>83468484>Should I take that as a sign that no mentally healthy woman would like me?Almost certainly since you post here
>>83468512Gotta roll with the punches my man. A caged bird never sings you know. When they have to leave, that's it. Just enjoy that you got to spend those moments with them.
>>83468484>(e)datedoesn't count
>>83469055So is it a sign or not?
>>83468484Dating BPD is the best. Except when they leave then it's very sad.
>>83469487When they leave you can move on to another BPD that's fun
>>83468484>BPDdoesn't count
>>83469489I'd rather be with one. It's too exhaustive to keep on having to pick up a new BPD everytime.
>>83469512Well hell, me'n'you both buddy but BPDs are like the wind you can't catch them you just gotta enjoy them while they last.
>>83469534There has to be a way
>>83469619The only reliable way that I've observed is to alternate abuse and affection in the right pattern to keep them wrapped around your finger. It's despicable and I've never done it, but I've seen it happen to enough girls to know it works
>>83469633Never seen it work for more than 5 years.
>>83468484i figure they're actually harder to get and keep so you're on a good way imo keep improving and get some cool hobbies and listen to more music they love that
>>83469676I know of at least one instant of it working for 20 years. There is the whole DBT option, get them treated and whatever but then the BPD traits recede. That is the healthiest thing to do.
