I am not a virgin and I want to make up for it somehow. Could you ever forgive your girlfriend for having had sex with another guy in the past? I feel terrible. I am open to any and all advice but please don't just tell me there's nothing I can do.
As long as you're in the single digits you're basically a virgin in today's age. You'll be fine.
only thing you can really do is go back with the man that took ita woman is psychologically hardwired to the man that broke her hymen anyways
I would forgive her if she loved me very much
>>83469668Nah, no wayMost guys don't care though, they will throw away their self-respect out of the window for crumbs of pussy
>>83469668I only like non-virgins. Especially if your bodycount is super high or you're a big time slut. Not even being weird here. I want to date a slut.
>>83469668Help me fuck another girl
>>83469668it really doesn't matter outside of incel circles, fembot. most guys understand that people just have relationships, and sometimes your first sticks and sometimes it doesn't. i really wouldn't stress it.
>>83469668Help me kidnap another girl
>>83469807It matters to most men, but normie men cover themselves in several layers of cope to avoid having to face it
>>83469844you're projecting. i'm like half normie and have normie friends and its really not an issue.
>>83469668Of course, I want someone who knows what they want instead of girls who will divorce you a decade later because they didn't know what they wanted.
>>83469869Maybe you just aren't perceiving it as copeFor example >>83469906 is a classic case
>>83469923I mean it's not really a cope anon. Have you taken a girl's virginity before? I've taken like 3 and the first time sucks, and it takes a while for the girl to open up and figure out what she's into and her pace and stuff. It's nice meeting someone and having them know what they're into and like how often they like to fuck and stuff. The virginity purity shit is for virgins and insecure dudes
>>83469965Of course it's a normie chad saying this
>>83469965>dude I'm the first person three girls ever let have sex with them after probably having rejected dozens of guys prior and they'll all remember me for the rest of their lives, it's no big dealI hate sexoids so fucking much
>>83469965Yeah man it's totally not a cope and it totally makes senseIt's much more convenient to outsource your girls sexual experience to the cock carousel and let other men break her in for you instead of having to bother to it yourselfA completely natural way of thinking, not a whiff of cope in it
I personally don't care but anon put yourself in an incels shoes and FF to your age and would you expect yourself to be fine with a girl with a past? I dont think i could
>>83469997>>83469923stop acting like a white girl.>No STDS>No kids>good relationship with her parentsNo problem I have seen absolutely wacky shit in my day from virgins.One dude married a virgin geeky girl with no sexual xp, 8 years later she came out as a genderfluid non-binary lesbian and 4 years ago she turned into an FTM, HE also divorce raped his ass.>Another couple who the dude was much older was married to a virgin he plucked out of highschool,She bounced after 10 years saying that she really didn't get to live life; and got with a dude who was showing cars a month after the fact.>A buddy of mine is married to a virgin from Pennsylvania Dutch country six months after meeting her on christian singles , she basically runs his life and gained 80 lbs on him.
>>83469976>>83469996>>83469997you guys asked for the normie opinion and im giving it lol. my bodycount isnt even crazy, these were all girls i was in long term committed relationships with.
>>83470024If YOU were a virgin would you really be happy with your only partner being a slut off the cock carousel
>>83470033Yeah bro and like I said the normie pov is mostly cope, you didn't bring in anything new
>>83470039you know theres something inbetween virgin and slut right
>>83470046Let's say whatever your body count is
>>83470044lol ok man whatever
>>83470039Truth be told an older girl taught me how to fap in college, let me fuck her and then got me to fuck her friends.
>>83470086>Truth be told an older girl taught me how to fap in collegewut
>>83470086>typical chad college experienceMeanwhile I made it through without even a kiss or date
>>83470024>>Another couple who the dude was much older was married to a virgin he plucked out of highschool,genuinely what did he expect? If he didn't have his life figured out when he was her age why would he think she would? men are so delusional
>>83469686I was only ever intimate with my first boyfriend; it just makes me a little sad knowing I will probably never seem "perfect" to anyone. So many anons talk about wanting a virgin above all else. Thank you for the kind sentiment ^^>>83469688I see what you mean. This is why I was so desperate to make things work with him but it's too late now. Do you think the same thing goes for men, anon?>>83469746Hmmm.. I feel like I would share this attitude (if it mattered to me but it doesn't really!) I'm sleepy and bad with words so I'm not going to try to describe how I feel about that in any more detail ;_; This is a little off-topic, but what do you need to feel loved?>>83469767Hmm. You might not be able to forgive her, but is there anything she could do to make you more comfortable? To even things out?>>83469779Hmm, why do you think that is, anon? >>83469780Would it just be a one time thing? >>83469811Hmm, okay. Noted! Would we set her free eventually?>>83469906Thanks nonny, I see what you mean. This is a unique perspective. >>83470015>>83469976For me it would really depend on the girl, I think. But I'm not a cel. There is something nice about the concept of two people experiencing love and intimacy for the first time and I guess I will never have that.
>>83470394>Hmm, why do you think that is, anon?I like broken girls because I am a broken guy and I can understand them better than healthier girls
>>83469668Just date another non virgin. Why is that so hard?
>>83470265well yeah, that's what people looking for pure virgins on this board don't get. I've seen it happen.>>83470091>>83470099Yeah she taught me how to fap, she asked me to sit in her lap naked too. I wasn't a chad, I was sort of the innocent dude she wanted to corrupt. I think it kind of corrupted my perspective on things, I have never till this day been any girl's public face.
>>83470394>Responds to all the negative answers and ignores the one "it doesn't matter" answerSo this is just a self demoralization thread
>>83469668How tall and good-looking was he?
>>83469668I'm an incel and I'd feel flattered any girl wanted to be with me, but deep down it would always hurt, and I'd wish so badly I could have been your first
>>83469668>you'll always compare the sex to that first guylol so not happening
