everyone treats it like a looks checklistdon't you want to talk about shit without it blowing up and have shared interests/actives?you never see "tfw no gf to do lawn care with" posts
>>83470356Womens connection is:>No Ick>Ick
>>83470356I've been posting for a while about >tfw no artistic/creative gf
>>83470396based 'tistic gf enjoyer
>>83470356because without physical chemistry, you end up with a deadbedroom relationship. except worse because they love you, but can't desire you. you don't recover from that sort of thing easily.
>>83470403Yea, i am in this situation and it has been worse than anything in my entire life for my self-esteem
>>83470403if you ignore connection you end up in a relationship where you hate each other, from gradual resentment, anytime you're not having sex.physical attraction grows with connection so long as there's even an inkling to begin with anyways.
>>83470356Because we are in a time when you can get divorced and left with almost nothing for absolutely no reason. With this consideration, extra effort has to be taken to determine the quality of a woman.
>>83470416i went through it for a year and it was enough to make me swear off all connection for years. i only stepped back into it after completely changing my body, energy, and mind. if being wanted or desired is something you need, leave asap. love without desire is poison for the soul.>>83470423a balance is necessary and the majority land in the gray, but i would say most average men heavily lean towards being loved but not desired in their relationships. basing and starting a relationship in desire isn't an option for them
>>83470356Women in 2025 care about looks and nothing else
>>83470356Well, I feel a connection with the 1 or 2 friends I have, but that's different from having a gf/wife. I don't really see the profit in a relationship like >>83470403 describes. So it's worthless if my romantic partner likes me as a person, but they dont desire me.
>>83470403I'm honestly not that attracted to my wife and had better chemistry with various flings in the past. I get it up for her twice a week cause I know it makes her happy though. She's the one I married because she cares about me more than anything in the world. I am hardwired to be an asshole wannabe Chad, but she melted my heart with pure devotion. That's why it's important for women to be chaste. Love comes from a man's protective instinct kicking in when he sees how much she needs his affection. Women can lock down any guy if they hold onto that innocence instead of throwing it away on multiple sex partners before they're 25. The pair bonding meme is sadly a one-sided street. The female is the one who makes it happen.
