>>83474978
>puts ideas into my head
Stop, anon. Just, just stop.

>>83475023
b-but what if she does come back and texts me saying she still loves me very much and she's sorry for disappearing?

if she comes back I'll forgive her instantly I don't care that she didn't say anything to me for 8 months, I still love her very much

>>83475029
>b-but what if she does come back and texts me saying she still loves me
You'll be thinking that all the way to the grave.

>>83475116
no I'm almost over her I swear, I don't know why I started thinking about her again.

>>83475134
>no I'm almost over her I swear
You'll never really get over it. But you'll have to just look somewhere else.

>>83475183
well I am interested in a cute girl I met, well I don't know if met is the right word but she works at a seven eleven I go to from time to time, I really want to talk to her but I have no idea how am I supposed to talk to one beyond the usual good evening, thanks etc.
I want to know her name and get to know her. when I saw her I forgot about my ex for a month but now I'm thinking about her again, I hate my mind

>>83475244
> I really want to talk to her but I have no idea how am I supposed to talk to one beyond the usual good evening, thanks etc.
Just start off with small talk. Compliment her or ask her about her job. It's not that hard.

>>83475263
hmm I really like her hair, should I give her a compliment about that? I mean she's really cute in general but I'm guessing I can't start by saying that right?

>>83475277
>I really like her hair, should I give her a compliment about that?
Yes. Just casually mention it, and make eye contact at all times while you're saying it. As soon as it feels insincere you already blew it.

>>83475297
well it's kinda hard to make eye contact, she's always looking down, that's probably a bad sign isn't it?

>>83475342
>that's probably a bad sign isn't it?
Yeah that's not good. If a girl likes you she'd want to look at you. All the girls that liked me stared me down to the point of it being creepy.
Does she look down when you show up or does she always look down?

>>83475370
she seems to be always looking down, she looks kinda shy

I feel you OP, I lost my closest friend because I was a dumbass and destroyed 3 years in less than 5 minutes.
You don't really get over it, I have an article I read that if you plug into an LLM can help you realize and accept to help try and move on

>>83475415
>she looks kinda shy
Ok, that's better. Just try to get her attention. But casually, not in a needy or weird way. Can you act like a normie, anon?

>>83474978
She led me on. But she was the perfect woman, and I no longer find other women attractive.

>>83475446
an LLM? what is that?
>>83475453
she walks with her hands clasped together in front of her chest.
uh yeah I can pretend to be a normie kinda.

>>83475481
for a while I also didn't find other women attractive but I am getting over that, I still think about her from time to time and it hurts thinking about her

>>83475491
>uh yeah I can pretend to be a normie kinda.
Good. Then it should be easy, try to make her look up. Stay casual and compliment her and try to get her to talk. If she doesn't respond to you in any positive way you just move on.

>>83475514
I'm not. Women give so little fucks about others.

>>83475529
you got any suggestions for small talk? I don't think I've ever tried doing small talk with someone I actually like
>>83475548
women can be so cruel sometimes

>>83475582
>you got any suggestions for small talk?
Talk about her job, just talk about if it's any good or if she sees anything weird on the job. Stuff like that. She works at a seven eleven, right? Mention something about the product you're buying. Really anything.

>>83475610
hmm ok that gives me a few ideas actually, thanks anon.
I did notice she drinks monster maybe I could say something about that

>>83475626
>she drinks monster
There you go. Tell her it rots her teeth or something and that Pepsi is better. But that's me not you. Do whatever you want, anon. Thank me later.

>>83475658
I drink monster too actually, not very often though

>>83475713
>I drink monster too
That's fine, then you have something in common. There's exchange to be had there. Does she ever respond to anything you do or is she merely doing her job?

>>83475739
well I've only really seen her 3 times I haven't really had the balls to try anything yet, I was close to say something last time but a coworker started talking to her

>>83475803
>well I've only really seen her 3 times
Try it, anon. You have nothing to lose and only something to gain. If you screw up, nobody cares.

>>83475822
you're right, I have nothing to lose, I'll say something next time I see her, thanks for all the advice anon

>>83475835
Good luck. And don't be an autist, just stay chill and you'll be fine.

>>83475860
yeah I'll try to keep my autism in check when I talk to her

>>83474978
she did for me wtf

>>83475955
anon please don't give me hope!!!

>>83475989
actually she came back 2 days ago, I feel so happy everytime I spend time with her

>>83476052
did she tell you why she ghosted you?

>>83476102
She was literally almost dying and had to get medical help or she would die. Didn't know before after when she had recovered.

>>83476113
hmm I do remember my gf telling me her sister was in the hospital and things were difficult at the moment....no no please don't give me hope anon she's gone she hates me she doesn't think about me anymore

>>83476139
>she's gone she hates me she doesn't think about me anymore
I thought the same anon but she was back after time where I just walked around not knowing what was going on

>>83476161
how long was she gone? it's been 8 months for me

>>83476174
>how long was she gone?
She was gone for 4 months

>>83476189
well there we go, she wasn't gone for as long like my gf did, it's over for me, but I'm happy for you anon

>>83476209
Did she say anything before she left? What happened before she left?

>>83476267
between us nothing, she just one day stopped messaging me then texted me again saying that her sister was in the hospital and that they had to get some stuff from her house and that it was not a good time for her, she texted me like 3 or 4 more times before going completely silent. I mean 4 months later a friend got into my head and unfriended her but regret it almost immediately and I've been sending her friend requests every now and then, don't know if she hasn't seen them or she has seen them and she's ignoring me

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>>83476338
Yeah I am sorry to hear bro. You might be cooked.

>>83476359
was me unfriending her a mistake?

It hurts even when someone I talked to once doesn't reply, they said they would chat again. I am afraid when I can't think of anything to message someone they will feel hurt and leave, but I also think maybe I'm just cringe and they won't care. I don't think I am cut out for this, I should just stay alone the way I was.

>>83476414
yeah I never know what to say when someone is sad either