why don't YOU just meet a weird cute femanon on here and fall in love with her anon?
>>83479385I would if I could but none of them are weird enough for me
>>83479385probably cuz they're all racist, or i don't know, e girls just don't like me for some reason, never have. except for one but she friendzoned me hard. and it was more of a proship from back in the day
I wouldn't mind that I don't think. But for legitimate reasons they probably wouldn't really want me.I dunno. Man can dream, I suppose
I did and then she broke my heart (and her own) for no reason.
I did but she didn't like me all that much after a few months of lovebombing meJust saved the nudes and left
>>83479396oh really? do tell. how long did you guys talk for? did you ever meet irl?
>>83479385I found one during covid but my psychotic ass pushed her away. Haven't found anyone quite like her since. I mean I haven't really tried as much as i should but i just don't feel like it. I can't bring myself to do anything about my loneliness.
>>83479385I tried it and I found out she was dating something else the entire time and just pretending to be a complete loser with no friends or relationship experience(like me) and lovebombing me and pretending we'd meet up and be together forever for fun I guess. This taught me that women ain't shit especially the kind that come here.
>>83479398>Just saved the nudes and leftSounds like a win
>>83479385I did but she left me.Been trying to find one I get along with ever since.I'm just a failed normie looking for love bro.
>>83479385I'm a NEET who refuses to change. Also my luck I'd get with the same girl that ran through everyone else in this thread already.
>>83479401>oh really? do tell.There isn't really that much to tell. We were madly in love with each other, then she got laid off at work, blocked me (and other people) as a fucked up way of coping, and she now feels way too much shame to come back, despite knowing I would welcome her with open arms.>how long did you guys talk for?About six months.>did you ever meet irl?No, but she was going to visit for Thanksgiving or Christmas this year. We were weeks away from it.
>>83479403Oh and she never sent nudes because she "wasn't ready" but she was getting fucked by her bf every night FUCK THIS BITCH AND FUCK YOU OP FOR REMINDING ME OF HER ON CHRISTMAS
>>83479385The impression I get from girls that go on 4chan is that they are mostly shallow unempathetic pick-mes with mental issues. I'm sure there are some nice ones out there
>>83479431omg anon thats awful, how did you find out she had a bf the whole time?
I am a bad choice for foids
>>83479385I tried but she betrayed me and abandoned me because she had a bf.
>>83479443A friend dug up her twitter and let me know that she posted pictures with her bf on it. I didn't even bother calling her out on it, just blocked her immediately. I doubt she even cared, this was probably all just entertainment for her. It's been eight years now and I haven't tried once to find a gf since then. It felt like losing my soul mate even though she clearly never was that.
Idk what everyones obsession with receiving nudes is. If a girl tried to send me nudes without knowing me longer than like 8 months I'd dump her whore ass. Normal people should not be posting their nude bodies on the fucking internet """privately""" or not.
>>83479385I m from post Soviet country so american or European egirls are useless for me.
>>83479403This one hits close home. Bitch couldn't even meet me in the same city because of "depression" and "heartbreak"(we both were experiencing one at the same time) but straight up flew to another country on Valentine's day to meet some twink
>>83479385because all femanons are here for a reason, as are the anons. Normal people dont have time to be on 4chan. They're out, living their lives, enjoying a level of happiness they did not work for nor truly deserve, yet have anyway, while we're stuck here. To be nothing more than God's cruelest joke. Well I'm not laughing
>>83479474lool how did we all date the same people. Not the same city but couldn't meet me halfway to meet, come to find out she's driving all over the state, went 6 hours to go to one party. A week after I left/she was finished with me she's two states over.
She's either fat, a slut and/or whore, or is riddled with tats/piercings.
She's seeing other dudes I don't even know why she added me desu we don't share any interests other than reading
>>83479385I already did!!! and you know what happened? she ghosted me after 3 months of talking with her 24/7 and I still haven't recovered from that, never again will I date a femanon from here, you can all thank her
>>83479385If they were good people, they wouldn't be on r9k in the first place.
>>83479385Same reason I don't just meet a weird woman irl and fall in love. Odds of meeting someone you mesh well with, who won't just ditch you after they've had their fun, and who lives in the area are just too small.
It's very depressing to see that the femanon left in every story ITT.
>>83479818a woman's heart is a cruel thing
>>83479385there are no femanons that like 2hu so i gotta JERK OFF
>>83479385id fall in love with a robot but you are all too ugly and boring
She could either be a tranny or very very fat or very very very ugly
>>83479385>why don't you just invite an androphobic hellspawn crypto dyke into your life bro, like come on dude
>>83479441Thats about right.The exception is when a girl is so seriously mentally ill that its even worse than that
how do I find my spinster/menhera companion? I hate using discord and the circlejerks it creates
>>83479936Don't bother. Everyone has indicted it ends in heartbreak.
>>83480089I am sure it will be different for us, I will conquer her heart and she'll become obsessed with me and travel the world to meet me and stay forever
>>83480148nta but my gf used to say she was obsessed with me and couldn't stop thinking about me then she ghosted me one day, not even a good bye, heh is that how you treat the people you love? what a fucking cunt.
>>83479385where are these "femanons"?
>>83480212That's why e-dating is so shitty, it's too easy to leave and so people are not invested, I'd like to meet and date in real life, start living toghether, join our lifes completely, then there's no escape from our love
>>83480230I was actually invested but yeah I was just being retard for thinking someone like her could actually love me.at least if it was irl I could've stalked her a bit, maybe, I'm too much of a pussy for that though
>>83480239anon you are not angry enough, for such betrayal double suicide would be an appropriate answer
>>83480230My gf was really into me and then just lost interest, like half a year later. This shit happens IRL too. Women are spoiled for choice and don't know what they want.
>>83480253there must be a way for love to last for years...
>>83479385Because I'm seriously unattractive and it's not that hard to find a guy similarly weird to me but who isn't so crazy or ugly.
>>83480251yeah..I'm won't lie, sometimes I think about finding out where she lives and um do some bad stuff to her but all I know is her first name, no NO what am I sayin, I could never hurt her, I love her too much, please get these awful thoughts out of my mind
>>83479441I never understood how pick me (ie: she at least pretends to like what you like) is a bad thing.
>>83480281Maybe she's still obsessed but feels unworthy and ashamed and guilty and is waiting for you to forgive her and make the first move? >I could never hurt her, I love her too much, please get these awful thoughts out of my mindYeah killing your soul mate is evil, rather kidnap and marry her
>>83480297I fucked up I fucked up really bad, a friend got in my head and basically convinced me of unfriending her, I was still waiting and sending her texts here and there but I listened to her (my friend) like a retard and unfriended her, I keep sending her friend requests but she either hasn't seen them or she's ignoring me, I mean she made that discord account just to talk to me maybe she has another one? or maybe she doesn't have internet access? I really doubt it, it's over, she probably wasn't going to come back anyway, god I miss her why am I still thinking about her? I thought I had moved on already
>>83480267Maybe become gay and fall in love with your best friend or something. I just don't think women are socialized to put in the effort that real love requires. They just want to chase the honeymoon high.
I did.Lost my virginity and lived with her across the country for two years, as I bled through all my savings when she kept getting fired from jobs.She ended up getting arrested for DB and assaultOverall not worth it, wouldn't recommend
>>83480319oh yeah, we met on valentine's day this year, usually don't give a shit about valentine's day but man this next valentine's day is gonna suck, I might even commit suicide, go ahead and laugh at me I don't care
>>83480319>>83480343Anon you're clearly still in love, you won't be able to move on until you exhaust all opportunities of getting back with her so use all your stalker skills to find out her socials and surname and where he lives and make one last effort to reconnect and then when she gives you the final 'no' you can move on (or kys)>>83480321there are happy couples living and loving toghether for 50+ years
>>83480364ok say I find out her surname, her socials and her phone number, wouldn't she be extremely creeped out by that?
>>83480390Depends how you approach her and whether she still loves you. If you do your best and she's creeped out and rejects you then you can move on. But there's a small chance she reciprocates and says she's been waiting for you and still loves you...
>>83480405ANON NOOOOOOOOOODon't remind me of this shit makes me sadI wanna cry now
>>83480405I want to but god this is too creepy
>>83480450Always have been anon just go for it
>>83479385I want one, can I have one? I am probably too weird for one though.And she is probably not weird enough for me.I am oddly well adjusted in society. But relationships it somehow never works out.
>>83480442>>83480450Stop caring about being creepy or weird or rejected and your chances of finding love will increase by a lot
>>83479385>He thinks loser women like loser men.Nobody hates autistic men more than autistic women. Normalfags will at least leave you alone if you don't bother them and don't really think about autists because they don't get it. Autistic foids spend all day raging about autistic men and believe that we're as morally depraved as Chad.
women are heartless creatures
I don't think a foid on here can handle being love bombed
>>83479385because i want to fall in love with a maleanon
>>83479441>shallow unempathetic pick-mes with mental issuesThis is my type
>>83479385I am one of the lucky few who actually didHowever, I do feel like most people here are not ready for the regular emotional labor, time, care, and effort relationships requireas soon as they are in one they'd be dreaming about the freedom of being single again.
>>83479385Yeah I met her on here back in 2013 and I took a bus across the country to see her. Mind you I was a very tall malnourished skelly back then. She on the other hand was average height and a bit bigger than me. That did not bother me. We were both mentally ill with her being abused by her family and feeding her garbage all the time and bullying. I was bullied by family who is all women and I was the only boy. They constantly bullied me along with school girls too. That is another long story. After 6 months we met and it was nice at first and during my two week stay she changed on me became abusive. She would bully me out of me nowhere and get on top of me and smack and bite me. She would say how weak I am and she deserves to control and use me. It honestly made me think of when I was bullied at home and school and it would make me panic and afraid. I guess if I was not bullied I could be Into that but I expressed how it made me feel and she laughed and it made it worse.
>>83480267My aspie neetwife and I have been together for over 10 years but we're very well matched and both have a mix of chad/stacy qualities and incredible strangeness that would make other people not want to date us. Sodium and chlorine are a good match even though each is toxic on its own.
>>83480289Women use 'pick-me' in the same way and for the same reason union members use 'scab'
>>83479464Dude the weirdest girls ever are from former soviet countries. Every girl I've talked to thats from east Europe is more shut in than most american girls but maybe its the completely american English proficiency.
>>83480491>Stop caring about being creepy or weird or rejectedThis is good advice but it will hurt.
>>83480267Yes, there is. It's called "she can't do better than you". When you are her "high score" she will tend to stick around. Basically you need to be "a catch" to her friends. The friends part is important, she needs to feel there's a risk of you being poached.Women are awful. Make them cry. It's satisfying and frankly they get off on it.
>>83479385i wish but i'm an unc now and the girls on here are too young
>>83479385I already have a gf and have zero interest in the unemployed, mentally ill, overweight women that post here.
>>83479385All of them are in America so us euros dont get shit on here. Still the weirdest girl i knew irl was a perfect female version of a chud meme but she was already engaged when i first met her. Even then if we were to date we would probably fuck all week, get into fights and threaten to kill eachother, make up and throw rocks at foreigners, and repeat the whole cycle.
>>83481361respectable, age gaps are so gross and i hate them
there's no winning for me if I try to l bro. >open up normally about me and my hobbies, type how I normally type (autistic)>get ghosted >be less open and come off as more nonchalant next time>get ghosted for being inexpressive >hit it off with someone else well for like a week with no other issues>they immediately drop me once they find out I'm black, bi, or short>we get decently far with no problems>they have a dick they did not disclose
>>83481589only reason i don't do it is because girls that young are retarded to me and it would be a waste of time, not out of "nobleness"
>>83481361In my experience most of them are 21-23, yeah that's young but I guess it's ok. I would prefer older like 27-28 at least, but also the one older woman I met was extremely cold and judgmental bordering cruel. I still wish I could have gotten to know her better though.
>>83481675>they have a dick they did not disclosegiwtwmalso but why is that a problem if you're bi? seems like a win. Anyway I have learned not to mention any attraction to any other person, or mentioning any previous relationship. if they ask be as vague as possible.
>>83481589Age gaps are based and natural
>>83481863even though I do like that shit, I much more appreciate honesty from the get go rather than being intentionally lead on or straight up lied to about it. some people I met have even used AI to change their images, it's almost insulting to me that they'd think I'd fall for it.
I'd love to, if we shared common interests and world views and we're compatibleSome of my best relationships came from online dating, I'm sure there's some great cute femanons here but I think most of them are a little too shy to actually reach out or are too negative and doomer pilled to actually try and reach out
>>83479385i did. :>it took a while to get there though (like 1.5 years or more) but at least we made pretty good friends before we fell for each otheri'm definitely incredibly happy with this, manenever thought it was going to happen but here we are, life is crazy
>>83481675>They have a dick they didn't disclose Oh no, my steak is too juicy my lobster is too buttery
>>83479385I did and she abandoned me multiple times
i want to get cute cosplay lewds from a femanon
>>83481365>Unemployed >Mentally ill>Overweight That's literally my type anon, but all I get is normie skinny women who are boring IRL
>>83479429>We were madly in love>We
>>83480982>Sodium and chlorine are a good match even though each is toxic on its own.yo this is hopefuel of the highest caliberthank you for posting this, anoni wish you and your wife the very best life has to offer you, keep on being greatmerry christmas :>>>83481023this picture hits HARD lemme tell yaliterally me all the fucking time, except i love being cringe too
>>83481895>naturalnothing about internet relationships is natural
>>83479385I don't go here that much. Also I'm not desperate, best I can do is kind of give someone some time when I'm bored and hope I feel something, but I likely wouldn't fall for her. I am not really opposed per se either though, if it did happen.
>>83482163Then age gap internet relationships are no less natural than same age internet relationships.
>>83482136Unless you're her, I don't want to hear it.Other people told me just how much she would gush over me to them.
>>83479385I did she's perpetually depressed just like I like
>>83482142>thank you for posting this, anon>i wish you and your wife the very best life has to offer you, keep on being great>merry christmas :>You're welcome anon, merry christmas and thanks for your well-wishes!
>>83482136Sometimes it's obvious. When my wife and I were dating early on, sometimes we'd be like>I love you>I love you too>(her) I love you more>(me) yes, you doOr>(her) you're my favorite person>(me) same, I'm my favorite person too.
>>83479385all the weird cute femanons are dating abusechads and i'm unfortunately not abusive
>>83483074god i hate abusechads, they abuse women and i hate that because i love women
>>83479385Because>foids don't post on here>i hate all foids that aren't fictional/imaginary>i could never love or care about a real foid because they are worthless whore trash who exist to make life worse for real humans (men)
>>834793851-Women like this don't exist2-If they do, they don't post on this board3-If they do, they won't like me
>>83483651>they abuse womenthey are shitty women if they're choosing abusechad. They're made for each other and you shouldn't feel sorry for them because they wouldn't feel sorry for you
>>83479385They don't want me. I get ghosted or blown off every time I have a nice conversation with one and reach out to talk offsite. Girls who're outcasts, losers or loners get to pick from the very best amongst guys who are, so it seems they just pick any guy who'll give them plenty of cash or give them the tingles they want. They don't seem to care as much about companionship.>>83480289>I don't understand why lying about who you are is badI don't want someone to fake who they are just to get close to me. Why would you want to pretend to be someone else or to like things you don't like to get close to someone? The person they will like isn't you, it's a mask you put up and when they see how you really feel they'll be upset. For girls, it's because girls are really fucking petty and find all sorts of ways to tear each other down.
>>83479385Because there are none.
>>83479385because Rule #29, dipshit.
>tfw the most intense love I've ever experienced in my life was a 6-month LDR with a batshit insane russian /k/fag femanonthis was years ago and while I am completely over her I genuinely don't think anything will come close. didn't even have those feelings for the girl I ended up losing my virginity to
>>83484390you just gotta get creative, i met my wife on a discord server i joined through here, not technically "just here" but if it weren't for here both of us being on this board then we wouldn't be married, granted i am extremely lucky but it does happen, don't lose all hope just yet fellas
>>83479385Because I'm very in love with my current gf. I'm sorry
>>83479385my social skills suck, I lack confidence, and it's likely to be long distance and not worth dealing with anywayI still fantasize about aspie femanon gf tho
>>83479385i would rather be sodomized by adam lanzas ghost than fall in love with somebody that lives 10k kilometers away from me
>>83486135Earth is only 6km long you doofus
>>83486135Yeah, just tunnel through the Earth and be smart like >>83486140 . Dummy.
>>83483074>i'm unfortunately not abusiveIt's a skill not an inborn trait