I almost had sex with a girl last thursday. We were in bed naked together just before the sex she told me she was on her period. I fingered her just to make double sure, but I didn't want to seem to eager and tried to play it cool so I didn't force the issue. We literally just slept together naked. Next evening she texted asking me how work was, I responded, she didn't respond again until the next morning, I responded again, and ... nothing since. That was a whole week ago today. Radio silence. I don't usually ever double text and it's always worked well for me. But I really like this girl and want to see her again. I just want to tell her I love her, I want to marry her, and want to have a family with her. I know not to do that, but WHAT DO!? Should I just break and text her? Should I keep waiting for her to text me? What if she never texts? What if she's waiting for me to text her? It's Christmas week, maybe she's with her family? I don't think I should do anything today. We've never wished each other any happy holidays, a Merry Christmas might come off as lame and desperate. It's driving me crazy. I'm thinking WWCD? He would have 5 other girls lined up begging for him to come over, I don't have that. But maybe he would casually text and ask to meet up again? Help me robots! I'm fucking losing it!
Dude you realize you laid in bed naked with her. She wanted you BAD! It's clear that what's missing here is your lack of iniciation. But the good news is:there is still hope!First of all; If you are like 14, dude, there are other options out there, don't stress about it that much.is not that serious.But if you are old and If what you're saying is true and you want to have kids with her (don't tell her that yet btw. Unless she want kids too)You have to spill all your pent up emotions. Usually, the advice is to hide weakness away from women, but if you own your shame, it's a sign of maturity.You have to be honest with her that you are nervous with your sexuality, you feel like you are unprepared and you need her to be pacient with you. She definetly likes and wants you.You have to explain the reason why you are so autistic. Maybe you were molested? Raised in a very religious house hold? Your mom hates men? Whatever reason, you must spill it all out because you trust her. And you see a future with her.Reveal this in a long text because it's probably the way you can be more relaxed about it.Ask her if she still sees you as a respectable man (use words you would use, like "nice guy" or "do you think I'm pathetic" or "do you still like me?")And you have to be strong to recive her answer.It could be an 'eew' or an 'aaaw'But there's no other way out of this situation. You have to spill the beans, because you will need a fantastic lie to get out of this situation, while honesty is the key to a strong relatonship
>>83483124That's pretty gay bro, I don't the girl OP likes wants a gay man
