why do autists and bpdemons get together so often?
>>83486364I need another bpd gf
>>83486364Its like having a male pet.
>>83486364Girls with BPD will often "date down" because of their fear of abandonment. They go for autists because they want to emotionally abuse them.
>>83486457Is it really dating down if I find male pets adorable?
Because these are the only two demographics actually willing to e-date lol
>>83486364I love bpd girls and I wish I had a bpd gf again. I really enjoy taking care of them emotionally. I have no money or job or youth or personality or skills or looks or anything so it will never happen but a boy can dream, right?
>>83486457>their fear of abandonmentI gave her literally everything she wanted and said I wanted to marry her but she still broke up with me, and not even for something I did. I don't get it, man.
>>83486901>said I wanted to marry her but she still broke up with meI'm a bpd girl and did exactly this to a cute pet boy too. He told me in retrospect that the marriage thing scares him because he has an avoidant attachment. The roles are reversed in that its a bpd female/autist male, but maybe similar can apply. I'm gonna try to learn to save my sappy marriage fantasies for at least a year into the relationship from now on geg
>>83486364I like their directness in communication as well as their passionate rambles about their special interest, very adorable. They seem to do the most reflecting when it comes to social interactions, which I need. So their pattern learning actually has a better grasp on my BPD'ness than any neurotypical would. They point out quirks I have which makes me feel noticed. They also seem to have a decent baseline when it comes to providing a safe environment/have some experiences of their own on what it's like to have a meltdown.Only "bad" thing is you gotta brief them in advance on what to do (but this you just kinda need to do anyway when you have BPD) and sometimes their directness becomes a double edged sword and feels more like it is criticising me.
>>83486364Because they are the only women who give autists a chance. I wonder why.
>>83486901Same shit here, though I'm not sure if it was BPD, or anxious avoidant shit. She just lost interest a year into the relationship. Even said there's nothing I did wrong, we even enjoyed each other's company, and she even liked cuddling with me.It's annoying because I can handle mentally unwell women emotionally. I have a lot of patience, and I was very kind to my ex and tried to work out issues with her together. But you can't work on shit if they just go silent and build distance and won't be honest when you try to talk with them.>>83486364For a woman to not be a normie, she has to be severely mentally Ill. Also, BPDemons will try ot show interest in your hobbies so you like them.Which is very desirable as a guy who wants a relationship based on more than physical attraction.
>>83486901>I gave her literally everything she wanted and said I wanted to marry her but she still broke up with me, and not even for something I did. I don't get it, man.Think of a little girl with a brand new doll, she loves the doll and plays with it every day. Then after a few months shes bored of the doll, however the doll is alive and climbs out of the toybox to come play. She doesn't like the doll anymore, its annoying, she wants a new doll.
I was an avoidant adult loser, never had a gf so I was extremely easy. Apparently her last bf was a loser that she paid for and gave rides living in his mother's house too. Anyway the bad stuff was more than the good stuff but I'd still give a lot for another nice night together.>>83486901You don't really play into it much, it's just whatever version of you she has in her head
>>83486995>She doesn't like the doll anymore, its annoying, she wants a new doll.I would think that if not for the fact she still checks on the doll to see if it's okay every day, while also refusing to play with it.
>>83487063>I would think that if not for the fact she still checks on the doll to see if it's okay every day, while also refusing to play with it.Once she has the new doll(monkeybranch) she won't care about the old doll
>>83486364The commonality between autists and bpdemons is le childhood trauma and subclinical psychopathic traits. Unrelated and unnecessary tangent: I'm pretty sure I have bpd and I want to fuck and emotionally connect with a bpd woman.
>>83487099I'm sure that'll happen eventually. But for about two months she's been paralyzed with guilt over not playing with the doll but for some reason, won't just play with it.
where do i find bpd women? i don't mind being emotionally or physically abused
>>83487299soc has a lot of them
>>83487299Why, this very board.
>>83486364>why do autists and bpdemons get together so often? Autists are inherently socially inept to a degree, whereas bpdemons are very adept socially. Basically, women with bpd think of autists as an easy mark to control or extract what they want from them, as a form of control over the relationship. bpdemons fear forming real relationships and fear sudden breakups and abandonment, so they try to steer every aspect of the relationship. Autists, in return, are typically very trusting and view the lovebombing by bpdemons as a truly loving act.>>83486457Somewhat true. It's more about control. >>83486965BPD women and autists also share a lot in common, emotionally and mentally. However, BPD women will always be seen as a viper in the grass.
STOP POINTING THIS OUTIT'S MEANT TO BE KEPT SECRETFUCKING IDIOTS
>>83486364>man incapable of setting boundaries >woman incapable of respecting boundaries Its a match made in hell. It only ever works out of the borderline is getting tk that point where they know they are aging out of the dating market and face that grim realization that they need to finally settle down or face life long spinsterism. That's literally the only thing that will finally restrain their whore tendencies enough to stop cheating. And because most autistic men are themselves older virgins with very minimal dating prospects they will settle for these used goods broken women.
>>83486364>tfw no femanon gf to devote my spare time to guess ill just keep watching shows until my holidays end.
>>83486364They're both the "undesirables" for their retrospective genders.
isnt "bpd" just jealousy?
>>83487378Autistic boys must know the danger they could face. It's not fair that they can have their hearts broken so easily.
>>83486901Stop being a fucking simp. You will never understand women and women will never care to understand you.
>>83487299Retard, lol. Stop giving these bitches attention, they don't deserve it.
>>83487378I made a similar observation about this trend wayyyyyy back. Glad to see I'm being vindicated here.
>>83487542I was going to say you probably shouldn't get your understanding of mental disorders from here. But then I realized, this board would probably have more first hand experience than anyone, kek.
Learn to sense them. They perfectly cultivate pity or obsession for themselves. They will figure you out before you figure them out. Do not eat the poison berries.
Where is my destiny-assigned bpdemon soul mate...
if you believe picrel is a nice character and someone you'd want to appear in your life, you will learn.
>>83487708I would fall even for manga misaki if she cuddled me daily and shoved my head between her boobs and petted it
>>83487746manga Misaki was TOO crazy. i know it was a different author or whatever, but it's like he really wanted to ram home what a horrible girl she is.light novel and anime did it better. she's sympathetic, but also: run the fuck away, Satou.
>>83487765I can fix her, and I don't deserve any better
>BPD ex had a complete breakdown, lost all her self-esteem, and thinks no one should be in her life>plead that I don't wait for her and move on>wait for her anyway because I still love her and there's basically no chance of someone else coming into my life
>>83486364I think you can probably understand the true nature of this dynamic if understand why BPD women dont go for me.I am an odd combination because I have many of the traits of autists, but also lack many of them.I am like an eccentric artist doing what I want. My job is being self employed and doing really hard and creative things, its really fun.Also I am very religious and very right wing, I know the Bible very well and go to church and live by it all. Also I am like a deep existentialist thinker, I have a blog about takes on culture and philosophy from a Christian perspective.I am also very intense, I am very perceptive and can see through people. Also I am hyperintellectual and like analyzing things and details and subtle nuances that most people miss or are indifferent towards. When I am talking with girls it seems like I get along really well with schizophrenics, but really bad with BPD.Shizophrenic girls are usually really sweet and hopelessly lost in their things. And they tend to have a creative streak related to tiny little things that they manage to perverse in spite of the darkness that crouches in on them.I find them precious in this way, sadly a schizophrenic girl is something I just cant do because it has such a massive impact on life. But I really like writing with them.BPD, are always really gross and look at me and mental meltdown. I find it unnerving, like a flickering light with an unstable wire, its unnerving. Where as schizophrenics are a dimm light that looks really beautiful.Physically I am very high, like I am 6ft4, have a pretty face and am in shape. Like, when I added a girl from here it derailed the conversation once when I sent her a pic, because she started constantly complimenting me on my looks and obsessing in real stupid ways.
Need a bpd foid to abuse me for one hour then apologize and milk my cock in the next
>>83488534>Need a bpd foid to abuse me for one hour then apologize and milk my cock in the nextYou do realize thats the ick to them? You're better off paying man hating lesbians to kick you in the balls. All this fantasy only exists within your mind.
Because autists are easy to abuse. BPDs are manageable until you find out they're cheating on your with a dozen other dudes because only 1 is never enough.
>>83488551>1 is never enoughits more like a manifestation of internal panic
I hate these women so much
>>83486364ill be here waiting for my autismo bf to find me! ihihi
>>83488596>ill be here waiting for my autismo bf to find me! ihihihewwo! :3
>>83488596Tell us about yourself, and would you date autistic uncs in their 30s?
>>83486364Because we're their favorite prey.
>>83486364Nice psyop. Autists don't get anyone
>>83488596Mr. Mime eating on the floor cracks me up the most. You'd think he'd get to eat on the table.
Im so unbelievably horny right now fuck I need to jerk off
>>83488621i can entertain you for a little while xd but then it will be really bad after, and youre going to hate me and cry and im going to leave you>>83488623i could, but I like them younger... around 21 or something. if theyre in their 30s, its more likely id be looking for a psychopath. dont get me wrong, im sure we could be lovely together. its just a matter of preference >>83488712>Mr. Mimeyeh the maid
https://youtube.com/shorts/mMRdIBNt58E?si=eKnzCcGyrmvPgFpLThis short is what it feels like to get an autistic bf while traumatized with bpd
>>83486474Literally this. When I told my coworkers that my now ex lived a state over, they acted like I was weird as fuck Side note, I regret letting my autism mask slip around my coworkers because women are fucking brutal annoying gossiping cunts. I don't like that that look down on me now even though half the women up at my job are on the spectrum too, I hate how shitty women are and how oblivious they act
>>83486933It's shit like this that really reminds me that women are the progenitors of original sin, pure evil for no reason
>>83488737nooo don't leave mee, I'll write you letters and stream games that you like, be 24/7 on call, you'd be my everything QnQ> but I like them younger... around 21 or somethingI'm 21yo turning 22 in june
I dated a BPD girl a long time ago who was my soulmate in every way except for the fucking BPD. It was tragic. I know I'm autistic and I'm easily manipulated and I'm stupid but idk why I kept forgiving her for everything.I recently reconnected with her thinking that she had gotten better but I'm a fool. I'm not even thinking with my cock, because yeah she's the most sexually compatible firecracker I've ever been with, but I really enjoyed her very being but all she does is split and block me every couple of days and call me abusive.Why can't things just be better
>>83488763tempting~ are you from eu and can speedrun dark souls 0 death
>>83488815> can speedrun dark souls 0 deathIN FACT, last year I started practicing it for some weeks but left that for my studies, I should keep trying and practicing desu> are you from eusadly I'm not TwT
>>83486364Because we met on Xbox and after a month of us talking and playing she asked if I had a girlfriend and I said no, she goes you have one now. I was instantly hooked and honestly she is very dominant and takes charge on everything. I try my best to understand her but those mood swings or whatever is so confusing to me. One minute it is great the next she is yelling at me and bullying me. I dont think I will ever understand that but I know it is due to the BPD stuff but I do my best and it is never enough it seems. Oh well.
I am autistic why does no one love me
>>83489106Lacking key personality traits. Try being more of an abuser chad.
>>83486998Did you leave her or did she leave you?
>>83487244She wants the doll to choose to play with her and not tale no for an answer, because that shows the doll really likes playing with her and isn't just trying to pretend to like her. No this doesn't make sense, and it doesn't have to.
>>83487373>Basically, women with bpd think of autists as an easy mark to control or extract what they want from them, as a form of control over the relationship. bpdemons fear forming real relationships and fear sudden breakups and abandonment, so they try to steer every aspect of the relationship.You know what, I think you're on to something. I am mostly likely autistic (undiagnosed), but virtually all the women I have dated were moody and unhinged in a way. However, I'm at least above average iq (e.g. I work in stem, have no bastard kids, never been to jail/prison), so that makes me almost immune to emotional manipulation. My relationships have never lasted more than a few months. One woman outright told me that she was "intimidated" by my intelligence. This is why I only want gay autists now; normies can't be trusted
>>83489143She left, though she wouldn't admit it
I'm a BPD man with an autistic wife and I find it very reassuring that she seems more scared of losing me than I am of losing her. I am going to love her forever even if I have to put a lot of effort into wrangling my impulses.
>>83488577I hate them but they're the ones I feel more intensely for and the ones that seem to want me the most. Ends badly every single time. I'm bricked
I would love for a bpd girl to cheat on me
This just another prime example why you can't trust women.
>>83489106You're not autistic enough, but also not normalfag enough, rough.
>>83486364it's a synergistic pairing. being attractive is an obvious pre-requisite for it to be successful.>avoidant attachment man who was initially obsessed>anxious attachment ex whore that's obsessive but then wants to drop him or treats him like shit if she gets any power over himthe autist will quickly understand no amount of appeasement will be enough and doing things for her in a readily available, reliable manner makes her lose respect for him other than dicking her down. if she ever gets out of line he can tell her to fuck off over her behavior and she will guaranteed come back in 2 weeks. the reversed roles (the man being anxious attachment and the girl avoidant) does not work due to cheating and the guy giving up. the autist's information based form of communication reassures the girl in comparison to a normal guy's "vibes" related speaking, and otherwise is pretty comfortable listening to her ramble about some non-specific, objectively useless scuffle that happened during her day. sexually the autist really, really really would want to eat her pussy and she probably won't enjoy it all that much but she'd appreciate the sentiment.most of these relationships fail when the autist feels too strongly about her such that she then loses interest, and then thinks he can win her back by "being better". the autist should have significant boundaries in order for it to work, otherwise the girl's disorder will win over his order.
>>83486364Autistic men don't get any so they're the only ones willing to put up with BPD bullshit. Normie men just fuck them and run away when the crazy shit starts.
>>83491779>most of these relationships fail when the autist feels too strongly about her such that she then loses interestTrue as hell
>>83491779>the autist's information based form of communication reassures the girl in comparison to a normal guy's "vibes" related speakingMy bippidy ex actually hated this about me and frequently complained about my lack of emotion. I think it was clear she wished she could have a normie instead of my autistic ass, but her personality is very offputting to them.
>>83491850It's the little goal of hers in the relationship, just getting you to notice things rather than being neutral about them. I suppose you're right in the sense that you speaking should be an intermission state for her rambling and if done too often it'd be too male-brained of a topic for her, ultimately boiling down to "what do you mean you just moved on like that". She projecting what she wants you to be over who you are is probably the best wingman you'll have, so getting her to yap is the way to go. But the other way around is usually where the issues are; I think the lack of active listening is the main point of contention. If she rambles for too long without an emotional response it would make her insecure thinking she's boring you, or she'd get pissed off thinking you don't care. Saying a slur of some kind to denote indignation if she's telling a story you ought to get pissed off at or rephrasing her 20 minute babble into the efficient and precise wording of a few sentences would come off as you "getting it" as well. She ultimately would just want to feel heard.
>>83486364does this actually happen irl? seems like it only happens in anime or on discord. e-dating isn't real dating btw.
>>83486901BPD women always do this. Something snaps in their brains and they suddenly don't like you anymore, even if you didn't do anything. I thought it wouldn't happen to me, but it did after 5 years together. No one is immune to their bullshit. The experience has left me deeply resentful.
>>83492134I'm an autist dating a bpd girl IRL. She has it managed in therapy + meds but occasionally it comes out in noticeable ways. But when she gets upset I just kind of don't react because I don't get angry about much, so it calms her down.She says that now that we've been dating she will recommend autistic guys to her other bpd friends lmao
>>83492271Every time she flips out on you, she's grinding you down mentally. You might think it isn't affecting you, but it is. After several years, the difference will be noticeable as she's trained your brain to not only take her abuse, but get used to her and become symbiotic/hypersensitive to her emotional state. And WHEN (not if) she decides that you're boring now, someone else has caught her attention so she's going to leave you on an impulse, you're going to suffer immensely as your brain doesn't know what to do.Leave now before you suffer.
>>83489106probsbly because you're an obese balding 30 year old man and not a cute anime girl with blue hair
>>83492271only reasonable comment in this thread
>>83487542No, the core of BPD is having an unstable fractured identity and dual fear of abandonment and engulfment
They're great if you don't mind sharing her pussy with a bunch of other dudes.
I need a bpd gf to peg my bussy
>>83492301It's not flipping out on me. She just gets upset about work or anxious about her social life or whatever. She flipped out on me exactly once while she was drunk a year and a half ago. I have zero tolerance for yelling so I broke up with her on the spot. She apologized a lot and we got back together a few days after and I told her if it happens again we're done and will never communicate again. Zero yelling since then.
>>83492134I can buy it. BPDs are control freaks and there's no one easier to control than severely social deficient men who've never felt the touch of a woman.
>>83488915>she is very dominant and takes charge on everythingBased
they ruins guys lives. ive seen multiple guys ruined this way. you're just romantising bpd because youre that lonely thats insane man. fucking hell.
>>83492301yep. psychiatrists online literally discuss how to distance themselves from BPD patients because of how miserable and toxic they are to deal with. they said you better have a thick skin because BPD patients always go directly for the throat (ie your weaknesses.)
>>83493205>BPD patients always go directly for the throat (ie your weaknesses.)I thought it was really funny when my ex literally cycled through every possible manipulation tactic in rapid succession trying to find one that works. It was like she was trying to bruteforce a password.
>>83493219yeah they do that. they try to find a combination to exploit your flaws to then claim a situation is your fault. actually disgusting human beings. psychiatrists literally need therapy after talking to BPD patients.
>>83492944I can't. The law of attraction still applies, and I was rejected by a nose-ring SSRI-taking BPD girl because I was an ugly autist.
>>83493385Well, obviously looks still matter. But maybe you have a point, probably shouldn't take this conjecture as gospel. But hey, ar least you dodged a bullet on the BPD whore.
i thought the title said "autists and pokemons" at firsti will be pronouncing bpdemon like pokemon in the future (in my head ofc) buh-PEE-de- mon
>>83493520>But hey, ar least you dodged a bullet on the BPD whore.I'm so desperate for a gf I'd take anything at this point. She can freak out and kill me in my sleep for all I care, just give me a gf already god I'm fucking 25 now.
i need a cute loyal virgin autistic to imprint on forever :3
>>83493542You don't, trust me. They are pure evil.
i have to keep these naive autism boys safe from BPD girls. they have no clue the hell that awaits them. it is like looking at meth and saying "geee wiz, i bet smoking meth feels so good." and it does... but it will destroy your life.
>>83493559I am that but won't date an untreated BPD.>>83493624Meth can actually be used responsibly to great effect if you don't do it to get high.
>>83493542Honestly, I'm kinda in a similar boat. Getting rejected by a girl I was crushing on for two years really ruined me and made me more hyper-concerned about never being in a relationship.
>>83493559Don't fall for this trap. She'd just discard you after she gets bored in like 6 months.
>>83493624Me too. After being hurt so badly myself I need to make it my life's work.
>>83493658liar liar liar. if my cute autistic loyal virgin is perfect for me then why would i ever leave them
>>83493559Honestly I probably wouldn't mind giving a BPD girl a shot so long as she recognized what she was and tried to get better.I did fuck up and lose my virginity though.
How did you guys get over your BPD demons?Mine got fat so it's like she died to me
>>83493559>>83493704If you only pegged him and never used his penis he'd technically be a virgin forever.
>>83493743Her boring lack of knowledge about anything and irritating personality made me want to be rid of her. I don't miss her but I still have some recovery left from the mental anguish she put me through, it still bothers me on occasion.
>>83493798Mine was dumb as a rock. I had to spell everything out to her or she'd get confused. The funniest part is that she seriously thought she was smart.She even pretended she could do advanced math when the truth was that she couldn't even do basic algebra.
lads i must say. who cares if we never have a gf. there is so much to enjoy in life. beautiful views like nature feel super real. delicious foods. your thoughts online shared with fwens who get u. the smell of rain, mist, or drink water when ur v thirsty. feeling super awake with zero fatigue. finding a series you're into thats amazing. the rare book that feels like youve discovered a forgotten tomb of knowledge. comfy bed for sleeping in. yes fwens, life is good.
>>83493829Hah, funny, mine was actually smart but very ignorant and completely uninterested in the world around her. She only cared about dumb kiddy shit but she clearly had the potential to get shit done.
>>83493704Because relationships are work and there's no perfect couple. So once your idealization phase ends you will spiral into doubts about your partner and start fearing being abandoned. And instead of trying to work on it or communicating it you will take the cowards way out and leave. Chasing the next honeymoon fantasy.
>>83493840Here's how I view it: Imagine if you got a car, computer or whatever else that's missing a part, but still runs okay regardless. It's nice that you can still extract results regardless, but whenever the problems from the missing part arises you'd probably think "Man, that kinda sucks" and have your mood soured for a bit.
>>83491779Bumping just for this gem of a post
bpdemons can unironially go to hell, i genuinely would rather burn my own limbs off with acid than ever interact with a person with bpd in any sort of capacity, nasty abusive manipulative fucks who only seem to think of themselves and their victimhood. they will only accept what you say about them if it is in a neutral/positive light, i genuinely fucking hate them, if i learn somebody im talking to has it i tend to cut them off right away, its just not something i can deal with and I do not know how other people can deal with it.
>>83494479This entire thread has been pretty nice honestly.
>>83486364As a BPD enjoyer I can safely say that autistic people can be charming when they aren't in that insecure powertrip mode. Sadly most autists are deeply insecure assholes who just want to punch down on you the second they see you are truly week and vulnerable.Maybe if you didn't call us evil while doing evil shit we'd be nicer to you but the reality is that most of you are just as dangerous, unstable, and evil as we are, if not moreso.
>>83494692if you want a classic example of what borderline personality disorder looks in a person, then this is a perfect exampleno personal accountability and self victimising, other people are always much worse compared to you so why should your actions be pointed out? why should you be held accountable when other people are worse?
>>83487378No it should be out in the open you vile BPD bitch cunt. Made me suicidal for months.Go fuck yourself.
>>83494692>most autists are deeply insecure assholes who just want to punch down on you the second they see you are truly week and vulnerableThat's not an autistic thing, it's a human thing.
>>83494734if you want a classic example of what autism spectrum looks like in a person, then this is a perfect exampleno personal accountability and a failure to understand or accept they did anything wrong to provoke someone else. a need to be the biggest victim in the room, with a high likelihood to lash out when they are told something they dislike. The other person is clearly worse than you and you're disabled so why should your actions be pointed out? why should you be held accountable when you don't even fully understand what you're doing wrong(even though you usually do)?
>>83494782admittedly autists have incredibly poor self control and jump on the chance to be morally superior to someone if they see the chance. I know it happens to them a lot but damn it gets old being treated like you're an inferior monster by someone who who you try to treat like an equal despite an inferiority they can't help because they were born with it.
>>83494870>autists have incredibly poor self controlIn the sense of stimming and focusing too much on their interests, not related to>jump on the chance to be morally superior to someoneThis is a normalfag/humanity thing. Most people do this.
>>83494888In my experience autistic people are way more prone to this than the average insecure dipshit and take it way farther than the average neurotypical. it's just what I've witnessed, take it or leave it.
>>83494784bpdemon can only deflect what i say because im right, everybody knows your kind for what you are and no amount of deflecting onto the flaws of autistic retards wont change that fact, im not denying that autistic people cant be insufferable, they are, i live with a bunch of autistic people who constantly talk down to me (with/without intention) but atleast you can tell them that the way they are talking or what they're doing is wrong without them blowing up on you, or without assuming responsibility onto you, atleast they have accountability for themselves and the people around them if they're high functioning enough, atleast they can discuss things calmly without threats of emotional blackmailnot only that but autistic people were born autistic, there is a reason for their rigidity when it comes to their behaviour, their brains were formed that way in womb development, nobody says dont hold autistics accountable, nobody has ever said that unless they're a neglectful parent, they should be held accountable if they are lashing out or hurting people or taking the chance to be morally superior, i hate it and i tend to point it out at their detriment. however, you werent born borderline, you were made borderline by an unstable enviroment and parenting and instead of taking responsibility for your disorder you lash out at everybody else as a result of it, you deflect onto everybody elses flaws, you seek out everybody elses validation. its not on the same level, it is comparable but not to the same length at all.
>>83494925Autists can be a bit annoying, but it doesn't come close to the abuse BPDs routinely do.
>>83488750NEVER show your powerlevel. Keep your distance, Keep your mask on at all times.
>>83495010I'm not deflecting, I'm comparing. You fail to realize it's a 'two sides of the same coin' situation. As someone with BPD, I go out of my way to be self aware, and reflect upon my actions, and I know that the general oppinion is that bpd people don't do that, but trust me, when you think of the 'average' bpdemon, you're thinking of maybe 10% of us. In my personal experience, I've been the one to cut off my autistic friends/partners due to their increasingly shitty behavior.Autistic/aspergers people tend to very much have a crab bucket mentality going on. They also lack accountability for their actions. Like I've watched grown ass men in their 20s and 30s who still live at home scream at their parents for the most mundane and unjustified of reasons and later complain to me about how much they suck but I just agree with them because I know they need it only to later have them judge me for something I did that wasn't the most acceptable thing.Don't give me that "we were born that way. Most BPD people got raped/molested/beaten/abandoned/constantly verbally abused/made to feel worthless as a child. We are literally shaped by childhood torture. For us, acting the way we do, was once a matter of literal life or death for a lot of us. Autistic people are just little kids who can/refuse to grow up.Dating an autist is painful, because they very much want to be the one in charge and lack the emotional intelligence to properly lead. They want their dick sucked on and want you to snuggle with them on demand but they do nothing to actually nurture you emotionally and when we start showing signs of stress they either stop responding to our texts or tell us we're being mellow dramatic and add to our discomfort.Why would we bother trying for you? half of us end up turning on autists because you're just like the parents who made us this way, selfish pieces of shit.
>>83494692For those looking for BPD gfs, enjoy a lifetime of posts like this. Backhanded compliments,constant projection, an overinflated sense of martyrdom, offloading responsibility, and near-endless justifications for their misdeeds.
Something I've noticed is that no one runs PR for other mental disorders in quite the same way as BPD, because it's never just about being sympathetic or understanding to people that suffer from it. There's always some kind of blame going on or an insistence that they're simply better people for one reason or another.Yes, it's a stigmatised disorder, but a key part of it is pervasive relationship instability. That people have overwhelmingly bad experiences with people afflicted by it should be obvious. No one tries to do this spin for ASPD or NPD.
>>83495223enjoy dying alone then because no other woman will date you and even bpd girls are starting to go for bpd guys over you
>>83495225people vouch for other mental illnesses all the time
>>83486965how do i find a bpdemoness, also ppl say im basically oreki from hyouka, is that a good thing?
>>83486364Why is nobody mentioning that it's very common for people with BPD to have autism too
>>83495273>no other woman will date you and even bpd girls are starting to go for bpd guys over youVery BPD thing to say.
>>83495290I have literally never seen someone do this for ASPD or NPD, or to anywhere near the same extent for cluster A or C disorders.
They don't actually though. Autistic people, that is, people with actual diagnosed autism, are involuntarily voluntarily celibate. Someone who is voluntarily celibate will still want to have relationships with other people. Diagnosed autistics do not have this want whatsoever, people are annoying, the less they interact with others, the better.
>Full blown arguments with bpdemons have begunYep, this thread's kino.
>>83495273Not over, at the same time, you're all a bunch of nasty cheating whores
>>83495377I'm not bpd, I just like fucking with toxic incels and be the devils advocate.>>83495382schitzos and autists are mollycoddled as fuck despite being highly dangerous. Which group do you think goes on the most ideologically driven mass shootings and yet insists propaganda doesn't work on them?
>>83495529Exactly. This is why we should have all autistics euthanized.
>>83495493I've been dating someone with bpd for the last year and we get ugly at times but at the end of the day we're both incredibly loyal to each other and both have an oral fixation so things are going really good. Sorry incel, it is in fact "over" as you say.
>>83495569Sure whore, everyone knows you all lie non stop
>>83495438What's the prize chud's rolling for?
>>83495529>I'm not bpdAre you sure? It's classic BPD to get triggered by criticism and respond with personal attacks aimed at insecurities.If that's something you commonly enjoy doing, you may want to get tested.
>>83495636He bet equal amounts on red and black.
>>83495533Fine, but BPDs have to join the culling pit alongside them.
>>83487373Yeah, my autistic friends have a weird tendency to give me trust entirely. I feel bad for them when I've clearly lied multiple times, but they're literal gems of good.
>>83494925Autists are really pretentious. They won't forgive, rarely have empathy.
I would fall for her all over again.
>>83486965I have found them to be extremely descriptive, it feels like they make a lot of shit up
>>83487776>>83487765>>83487746>>83487708Anons, I never watched this, should I?
>>83488577It's so easy to find them I don't get how they're so fucking common, the most materialistic people ever
>>83493743I knew someone with one who showed no interest in his autistic interests and only in dumb mundane social bs
>>83495663how are you this insecure? you call it trolling but it's blatant insecurity
>>83496064yes, and get ready to cry.
>>83496155See, you're doing it right now.
>>83496064I'd go as far to say you're mandated to watch it, even.
>>83495438I'm diagnosed and also a NEET, basically my entire life revolves around trying to find a Misaki on the internet at this point. I literally do not care about anything except finding love. A lot of the stereotypes about autists being emotionless aren't very true desu. Even the empathy thing; most autists have plenty of emotional empathy (what most think of when they hear the term "empathy"), they just struggle to understand what to empathise over in the heat of the moment sometimes. It's a communication issue, not a numbed emotions issue. When dating an autist, you just need to be direct and forthcoming with them.
>>83496410>they just struggle to understand what to empathise over in the heat of the moment sometimesEven this statement sounds too deprecating in my book.Many people mistakenly expect empathy to involve validation of their feelings.I wouldn't consider it a personal failing of the autist not to performatively engage in that.
>>83486456>Oh yeah oh yeah take that bitch take my massive 2 inch neopenis you fucking slut
>>83496471K,b,c orginally
Looking through this thread is it bad I see a little bit of my own relationship in here? Neither of us are diagnosed, nor do I think we actually have autism/bpd, but still it feels many of the interactions here are familiar. Though our social lives seem reversed, since although I'm sometimes a bit awkward I enjoy connecting with people, while she's charismatic but struggles to hold a long form conversation and connect with most people aside from me, so in turn I'm very social in contrast to me not getting social queues often (which she does complain about).This mostly worries me since I know she loves me, and I love her, but it's rough to know that I frequently annoy her heavily and she does lash out on me verbally. It's quite disheartening to know that the person you care for the most considers you a nuisance often. But then 10 minutes later she looks at me with such a spark in her eye, it's beautiful. Luckily she is working on it actively which I'm glad to hear and see.Still, I am sometimes worried how this could have long term effects since I do want to spend my life with her, but I don't want half our days to be her being mad at me for something insignificant which I did (for example eating food weirdly...)There isn't real a concrete point of this ramble, but I felt like it's good to let it out and hear people's opinions if anyone has any (or advice as well).
>>83496519>is it bad I see a little bit of my own relationship in here?Yes, extremely so.
>>83496519>I don't want half our days to be her being mad at me for something insignificant which I did.Women are way more conformist than men on average, so any behaviour by a partner that could be seen as odd or unusual by others will feel like a personal slight to them.She's not mad because of the things you do by themselves, but because she feels you are being careless with the way she will be perceived for being with someone who does those things.I don't know if this is something that can be corrected, it might just be too hard-wired.
>>83496574That sounds about right honestly, especially since she is conformist to a worrying degree, even compared to other women I know. To the point she will feel deeply guilty about anything she does that can cause some random person any sort of inconvenience, such as simply asking for help.The fact I hate conforming in general does not help here lolFor now she's getting used a bit to my intrusions away from the norm and I'm trying to not do some things which annoy her and I can easily not do.
I am dying on the inside knowing that she outright refuses to speak to me since breaking up with me two months ago while remaining in contact with someone who has done things that actually justify no contact.She couldn't name a single thing I did wrong, she just left a message saying she was leaving while I was asleep and then blocked me.I haven't even begun to process what happened.
The issue seems to be that it's to easy for her to escape an e-relationship in a moment of weakness. If I ever find my bpdemon I shall marry her and start living toghether ASAP so escaping is not an option
>>83496297i wasn't even the same anon. you're just insecure lol
>>83496670That's the issue. the autist wants logical closure. The BPD won't hive that to him since it was purely emotional fancy. He will be confused unresolved forever.
>>83496758Often, the autist will hallucinate reasons for why something wasn't done. It's interesting to gaslight autists. Their brains are funny.
>>83496750The fact that both replies aren't even responses to anything I said makes me think they're from the same person. It doesn't matter though, lashing out at people online for petty reasons is still BPD behaviour, whether you like it or not.
>>83496820Lashing out at other people for no reason in general is BPD behavior
Autists = stupid peopleBPD = abusive people
>>83486364my two gfs had bpd and i'm diagnosed with autism. two reasons: one, they approached me and flirted in a way that was obvious enough for me to understand. two, i don't care about most of their bpd traits because i don't even see them. if she's rude or overly emotional for whatever reason, i don't feel angry or annoyed about it because i logically understand why they act the way they do. both told me i was the best bf they ever had
>>83496774It's honestly really fucking evil, why is it fun to toy with another real human being? Like, I'm sorry you got fucked with as a kid, but why is it everyone's problem. I had a horrible getting childhood and I go out of my way to try to make people happier, not sadder, because I never want anyone to feel as sad as I do
>>83497652Because I have no one I can trust in real life and I never had the wealth to develop hobbies and my life circumstances made it more fun to have fun messing with people I develop close relations with, I don't like maintaining relationships for over three years because everyone who I did have relationships with for that long made mine worse, I don't think it's evil, it's funny and it's experimental. What's evil is believing you as inherently superior over others.
>>83497710Have you ever considered that maybe you have no one in you life because of the way you are? I typed out this nice long response but it didn't go through so whatever, but you can develop hobbies that don't involve hurting people. I get the sociopathic part, because yeah I have to fake everything because I don't feel much of anything for people, but there's one tiny part of me that does actually still care. I'll be your friend if anything else, but I'm not letting you be a dick towards people anymore
>>83497633One autist I knew thought he got stalked by a girl until he realized that women were interested in him
Crazy what some of you will put up with just for some pussy, lol.
>>83492428>>83493758>peggingMost astroturfed fetish, aside from rimming.
>>83486364idk, but this pairing really is a thing. I'm 34 and I only ever had one relationship in my entire life, like 14 years ago, and it lasted about a year. Only girl that ever seemed genuinely into me, in my entire goddamn autistic life.I only realized she was a BPDemon after the fact; when she finally broke up with me, her exact words were "You didn't hit me enough" (to be clear I never hit her even one time so idk why she used "enough", but those were the exact works and I'm autistic so they stick with me).Also she had big time daddy issues, loved gore/murder (had a bigger gore folder than I did), and absolutely despised other women (every time we got drunk she would just rant at me, literally for several minutes straight sometimes, about how women were all whores and they deserved to be treated like trash).All the signs were there I guess. But she'd buy us weed and we'd get high and watch the rape scene at the end of Cannibal Holocaust while I sucked her big goth tiddies. Man I miss her.
>>83492441Lol, she's an internal BPDemon. She will have an argument with her mom, blame you for her emotional state, and ghost you. It's not about shouting. It's about emotions and blame.
>>83493118I can understand it to an extent. Even though there's numerous testimonials about how awful BPD women are, it also sounds like the most intense stuff when it comes to intimacy. So it's unsurprising you get a lot of dudes who think they just have to weather out the storm for the sunshine and rainbows to emerge.
>>83499055>nooo don't make my butthole feel good
>>83499568Rimming isn't that bad but pegging is objectively retarded
>>83499568Go back to whatever hellscape you came from.
pegging is meh but assertive horny girls getting on top and teaching their second half is very hot
I knew two this board Im m 25 and autistic wood a girl go for me then? I not had a relationship before
I find these threads somewhat comforting, even though my own situation is quite different from most. I just want friendship, there's no sexual interest and in some ways I act more like a bpd girl than her. That contributes to how devastating the sudden vanishing act without a word is to me, after we had been getting closer and everything felt like it was going well. I guess it's good to know that there's others going through something like that, which provides a sort-of explanation for something that seems completely random and out of the blue.
>>83486364i am autisticwhere is my BPDemon?
>>83500287Up your butt
>>83486364I'm over 30 and have the type of autism that not even a bpdemon would want to put up with. Truthfully I'm pretty quiet, boring and worthless to everyone. Not all that intelligent either. If they don't realize it within the first 5 minutes, they will eventually.
>>83486364BPDemons should all be lined up against a wall and shot.I'll never go near any of them ever again.
>>83486364normies immediately recognize and shun both, so each other is all they've got. it's like scrawny men dating hamplanets.
>>83487063It's called breadcrumbing you. Give you just enough attention stop you from properly moving on so it has a handy backup when their new favourite toy lets them down because of the unrealistic standards they hold everyone to.
>>83499772When I was like 14, the tomboy girl I had a crush on got on top of me on her bed during a wrestling game, in literally this exact position (but with clothes). Didn't want to make things awkward by making a move (which I did later anyway, but I digress). In hindsight that was probably the right call though, she came out as a lesbian a few years later.Finding straight + dominant women is hard, bros. They're all so submissive and all they want is to be slapped around, raped, and sometimes murdered... it's so boring.
>>83492168This so much. Never again. Lesson well learned.
>>83494692Lmao, perfect case of a BPDemon deflecting and playing the victim.It's always someone else's fault right? You piece of garbage.
>>83492134I mean I skype e-dated a girl for years and then we moved in together and banged a lot so I'm not really sure how it differs from dating, unless you mean purely e-dating where it never becomes IRL.
>>83500931Why did you break up anon
>>83500942BPDemon reasons, I'm >>83499057 (where I say "about a year" I was only counting IRL)
>>83501027As a woman I 100% know what was wrong with her no amount of loving would've saved her. She has terminal nlogitis caused by trauma.
>>83487765im literally LN satoubut i tried joining isis when i was 14 instead of jacking off to cp>>83487708she is my angel fuck youthere arent any real women like misakinobody gaf about men with issuesbpdwhores are something else
>>83501140Manga Misaki literaly has borderline personality disorderI still love her so she is MINE
>>83501070It's okay I'm not hung up on it anymore, just weighing in on thread topic.For what it's worth, her nlogitis is probably the only reason I ever had an opportunity to lose my virginity to begin with, so I can't be too resentful.
>>83494734exactly, ive almost never seen a BPD person take accountability. they could run someone over and it would still be the victims fault.
So any bpd fembots want someone to latch on to?
>>83501351Not that guy, but the part that sucks the most is, they'll do the most evil shit but you're the bad guy for not defending yourself.It's fucking mad. Never again.
>>83495222>Autistic people are just little kids who can/refuse to grow up.What a condescending attitude towards what is effectively a crippling neurological disorder. Would you like it if someone said that BPD is effectively just people who are assholes who have a diagnosis to excuse their shitty actions? Go google what the diagnosis actually is.
>>83501690You're wasting your keystrokes, their kind only cares about themselves. They don't care about the hurt they cause others.
>>83501360I doubt it brother. Tho, I guess you could try /soc/. Definitely going to be mostly trannies, however.
>>83502104/soc/ bpdemons are very different from the /r9k/ ones. I'm not looking for a few weeks of high intensity sexting followed by everything getting lit on fire, I want a normal-ish long-ish term thing with someone extremely volatile who will appreciate me staying calm while they freak out.
>>83502125Interesting. Though, I guess it makes sense given /soc/ is the designated attention whore board.
>>83486364I'm an autistic girl, and my old best friend who would touch me weirdly probably had bpd, she'd get mad at me for trying to have other friends, and I'd start crying when she was mad at me because I thought she was gonna stop being my friend. I thought I loved her, but she just kind of made me dependant on her
>>83486364I deliberatedly shield myself against those fiends. I might have low self esteem, but I also have enough pride to not be a doormat
>>83486364as an autist who has blown the back out of multiple BPDemons I feel like I am the only divinely ordained truth involving this topic.The BPDemon is unstable and aggressive. She lashes out at you because you are safe to her thinking you wont abandon her in her fits and flurries.I don't take anything she says or does personally or seriously. They have lost their absolute shit where a normy would get really upset, offended, or feel cornered.I never cared, she would run her mouth call me a bitch a faggot or piece of shit a loser etc. whenever she was upset about anything but me. She would threaten to leave me or go be with someone else.I just sort of ignored it, because its obvious she is crazy. I would also rape her mostly. Anytime I wanted pussy I just took it, never asked, never cared about her opinions or thoughts about it. It felt like something I was owed for her retarded behavior. Ive been doing this for about 10 years now. Two long term relationships about 5-ish years each with BPDemons, and a ton more short relationships.The relationships always ended because they broke at some point. They want that fighting back and forth to feel validated and all I did is ignore their crazy and then sexually abuse them as payment. They float off to another guy who gets triggered by their antics. Then another crazy girl, usually a friend of theirs, takes their spot almost immediately. So it feels like I am still in the same relationship, and she just changed her appearance lol.The best part is the one time I basically raped a BPDemon, she called the cops and they literally gave zero fucks because she was being insane. After that she was defeated and I realized that if they are unstable and I just remain calm and relaxed pointing out her being crazy, I essentially own them until they walk out the door.
>>83496410You got misdiagnosed. Autistics experience extreme amounts of agonizing psychosomatic pain when interacting with other people.
>>83502967>as an autistOnly believable part
>>83486986you have to be VERY sexually aggressive with BPD women. If you aren't that is their #1 reason for leaving you. They need that extreme possessive sexual aggression that is caveman tier dominating so they dont question your interest or find another guy who is more aggressive.
>>83488750autistic girls are mega redpillingit just cranks up all their female traits to 150percent and they dont even bother wearing the mask of politeness or niceness.
>>83492301this isnt always truebeing a true autist your shell is so thick some crazy emotional bitch cant scratch it, especially since you can just fuck her brains out like a piece of useless meat, which they are, and you can EASILY replace her.
>>83494692this is a real BPDemon hereautistics dont power trip because they dont understand power anyways, they simply are as they are. they only have a specific obsessionwhat you are seeing as a bpdemon is someone giving you honest and constructive criticism your BPDemon takes as being overbearing and insecure or painful.
This entire thread has severe cancer. People armchair diagnosing random abusers as BPD, generalising a whole mental disorder as abusive, manipulative and better off dead based off on 1 bad experience with some foid they picked up on /soc/,people calling autists immature babies.No one is listening or wants to listen anyway, everyone just believes the other is out to get them like the paranoid shitcels they are. >I just want to save my fellow autists the trauma!!If you avoid an entire group of people due to dogshit hearsay of dysfunctional subhumans, maybe grow a brain and think for yourselfOr idk lol choose to be smart enough to avoid being manipulated? :^) Just like women should stop choosing abusechads lolI just wanna marry my autismo sperg nerd stop shittalking my cute ship ;-; uwu
>>83503119Being manipulative is a very recurring trait in BPD. It doesn't have to be that way if they treat it, but most don't.
>>83503119Autistic people don't end up in relationships because they simply do not have the mental fortitude to socialize more than the bare minimum required by society. I don't know why you think otherwise.
>>83503016nah, bpdemons NEED you to be sexual abusive because they ALL have sexual trauma that they want to relive. thats part of why they are BPDemons in the first place.the always leave you or cheat on you if you dont fulfill this. if you do it, then nothing else will really matter because you give them those trauma chemicals they have taught themselves to find to be healthy.you should try it sometime, unless you arent quite attractive enough to get their attention in the first place. im a blue eyed blonde haired white guy, so I admit I am severely advantaged compared to most of the brownies that are on 4chan.
>>83503119youve been with at least 10 girls you know what BPD looks like and acts like.BPD isnt some crazy nuanced condition that requires decades of analysis to diagnose. BPD is blatant, obvious, and in your face if youve seen or experienced it even one time.This is like saying a pedophile is a very nuanced and difficult diagnosis.While the guy is in front of you saying man i cant wait to rape kids but only the youngest ones yum yum yum!
>>83503138It's not in the diagnostic criteria for BPD and besides that anyone can be manipulative. Just because you don't (seek to) understand what is distressing to the BPD person doesn't automatically make it manipulative.I agree that therapy helps with building communication skills for BPD people to express themselves in a more palateable and emotionally regulated way as well as distress tolerance so they don't rely on things getting solved immediately in the way they need it. BPD itself doesn't make someone manipulative (or abusive) it's the person behind it that is shit.
>>83503192>It's not in the diagnostic criteria for BPDPattern of unstable relationships and fear of abandonment. Literally everyone who has met someone with BPD is familiar with the constant guilt tripping and nagging as they try to wear your defenses.
>>83503182Maybe stop choosing shitty abusive people then if they're so easy to spot. I've also been abused for decades by someone with BPD but my conclusion is that she is just in general a really shitty human being.Regardless I'm not trying to invalidate the shitty experiences and I do not mean to be unempathetic but it is just simply not true that a disorder automatically makes someone evil.
>>83503192>doesn't automatically make it manipulativeDoes it really matter if the end result is the same?Mine would threaten suicide or self-harm to get me to behave in a certain way. Regardless of what caused her to do that, it was still incredibly manipulative.
>>83503211You assume malice behind reactions that are simply the nervous system acting up and needing reassurance and validation. If a baby cries because it is hungry and hasn't learned how to communicate more effectively yet, is that also considered manipulative? Or is it just the best the baby can do? Yes, I am equating BPD to a baby because that is essentially what it is, lack of emotional regulation skills and bad communication. Not rarely caused by trauma.BPD needs to get treated, no doubt. But again it is not inherently evil or manipulative. It is a set of maladptive coping skills.
>>83503217>it is just simply not true that a disorder automatically makes someone evilASPD literally does
>>83503267That is indeed incredibly fucked but again not something every BPD person does per default. It's good you got out of that relationship. I am not denying that this behaviour is manipulative, I am denying that this behaviour is included with BPD as diagnosis
>>83503280I don't know enough about ASPD to agree or disagree, could beMy bad for not specifying that I was talking about BPD
>>83503217im not the one saying they are shitty abusive peoplei like fucking with BPDemons friendo. normal girls are incredibly boring and BPDemons fuck like Slaaneshi demons.you dont need to get defensive, everyone here is not a monolith, we all have different opinions.yes bpdemons can be abusive and controlling. and bpdemons primarily are women.and lots of women are bpdemons.this is all axiomatically true.>>83503192we both know diagnostic material for mental conditions in most cases is bullshit and guesswork at best.I even work in the field and most of these diagnosis are absolute bullshit and retarded just for big pharma and insurance reasons.i hate having to diagnose someone as having a depressive disorder because they are sad a year after their mom commits suicide. its fucking retarded.
>>83503341>I even work in the field and most of these diagnosis are absolute bullshit and retarded just for big pharma and insurance reasons.Personality disorders mostly don't get treated with meds, and most psychiatric drugs have cheap generics available.
>>83503341Fair then, I have nothing to add to this.Based and true take about the DSM.
>>83503358the point isnt the price the point is it is profitable to make the whole psychiatric system purposefully NOT WORK to milk people for money. yes im aware personality disorders, in some cases arent treated with drugs, but that is only a portion of the income. the others comes from insurance for treatment plans, non drug therapies, and many other things.the ultimate problem is the profit is in not fixing the problems, which is why any branch of psychology tends to be absolute bullshit and not scientific in any way.the whole reason i work in this field is it took two years to get my own independent status and make roughly 60-100 an hour depending on the clients, while working my own hours as I see fit.it is a cash cow but its the opposite of effective and helpful.
>>83503376yeah you can always tell how retarded someone is in any psych related field by their take on the DSMthe more they think its bullshit the better they are the more they think its gospel the more of a retard they are
>>83503643>it is profitable to make the whole psychiatric system purposefully NOT WORK to milk people for moneyYou've got Marxist personality disorder, I'm afraid it's untreatable. If there's a treatment that works, there's incentive to sell it because it attracts patients and beats the competition. The very fact that countless small labs selling cheap generics exist refutes the big pharma narrative.
>>83503731this is blatantly false, there is no incentive in curing a condition and nobody wants to cure anything that is profitable in the long run because they like to work together.i am the opposite of a marxist, I am a totalitarian dictator who would line up all the lefties and communist fags along a wall, kill them, then put their women in breeding camps. I would then purge all inferior cultures from earth, I would not want to try to induct them into my order or help them. the world is built for my kind to conquer.i am sorry you are a cuck who doesnt actually work in the field itself so you dont understand how it works. the entire DSM is built and structured around maximizing profit while trying to catch as many people in diagnostic nets as possible.Treatments are also intentionally built to not cure or solve the problem, this is why women therapists are favored over male therapists in hiring practices.this is why the majority of licensed and self-running practices are ran by men who have significantly higher rates of success.youre just a fucking retarded cucked brownie loser. suicide is your best option HAHA.
>>83503731if this is true youd have to logically explain why ADHD is a catch-all diagnosis with no cure. Otherwise you don't know what you are talking about.
>>83503775The DSM is just for insurance billing and quickly communicating information about a patient. No mental disorder is "real" they're just collections of symptoms caused by unique underlying issues with the processing stacks.
>>83503800tell me you dont work in the field and dont have your own practicewithout telling me you dont work in the field and dont have your own practice
>>83503819Right, but neither do you. The DSM is more political than scientific. You don't know what you're talking about it and it's painfully obvious even to a layman such as myself.
>>83503119All you listed is what makes this thread so great. It was GURANTEED to generate asshurt and bitter experiences from people. And boy, does it deliver.
>>83504026250 replies, truly the gift that keeps on giving
>>83503280Isn't ASPD mainly indifference and impulsivity? I don't think that makes someone evil.
>>83504281Antisocial personality requires you to act... anti socially. Conduct disorder, etc. Criminal history. Disregard for the rights and autonomy of other people. It's not just indifference and impulsivity. They aren't evil, but they're not good people either.
bpdemons intentionally target people with souls(neurodivergents) for loosh and trauma
do autism boys go down on a girl or eat ass? thats the question.
>>83504689I'd eat ass until my tongue exploded
bpd girls are the only ones that ever approached me. i don't have the social cognition to approach anyone, so they're all i have
>>83486456autist men are easy as fuck to manipulate because they are often pussy starved. this is the devils playground for a bpd whore, who yearns for control like a narcissist would.
>>83504692what if the girl previously made u cry.
knew a bpd girl. she managed to make multiple guys commit suicide over her and i was almost one of them.
>>83504764I would still eat her pussy or ass it would probably make me feel better. Why is she making me cry tho?
How do I stop missing her? Knowing that she was abusive doesn't help.
>>83504789stop focusing on the good parts and focus on the bad parts. realize that the bad parts far outweigh the good parts, normalize the fact that there should only be good parts to a relationship and little to no bad parts
I'm on the spectrum and one of these almost ruined my life. She did irreparable damage. I didn't take it seriously at first because I didn't realize just how bad these demons actually are. I now have a criminal record, my credit score got cut in half, and I can't get a job in my old field anymore. She posts here.
>>83504834The bad part was that she left out of nowhere one day and threatened to hurt herself if I went looking. The good parts were everything else.It's basically impossible to weigh up like that.
>>83495222>Autistic/aspergers people tend to very much have a crab bucket mentality going onNo, normalfags do. Where did you even come up with this? This is a defining characteristic of normalfags who want to crush others for no reason other than they get some sadistic kick out of it and they're all bitter about their station in life and want to tear others down as a result--something autists barely think about by comparison.
>>83504859damn anon, what happened here? story?
>>83504877she betrayed you and threatened your mental health. she's a monster and that single bad part FAR outweighs any good you two had, no matter how big you think it is. what she did is unforgivable, it's abhorrent. it's not normal to leave and threaten suicide, bad people do shit like this, and she's a bad person. period. in fact, all the good parts have vanished. they don't stay after someone betrays you like this. if you don't let go of the good parts, you're opening the door for even worse bad parts to enter your life in the future.
I just realized I replied to a BPD whore after skimming the thread. No wonder those posts are so deranged. They belong in camps. Seriously, I'd rather be around feral niggers than BPD women.
>>83495222>As someone with BPDyou didn't need to specify that, your entire post is gaslighting
>>83504914It might be too much to type out and I don't want to post too much personally identifiable information, and I also don't want to relive the trauma by thinking about it. Basically she was a false accuser with a track record of it and I ignored that obvious red flag and believed all of her lies. These people are irredeemable. A gas chamber would be too good for her. The worst part is that she's not even hot. She's just a below average, demonic whore. Knowing that she will die alone is one of the few thoughts that brings me joy. Hopefully her next boyfriend kills her. I wear a small body cam I got on AliExpress everywhere now.
>>83504953damn thats insane.
>>83504958All it takes is one call to the police and some fake crying. That's literally it. Then the thin blue line superheroes will come take you away even if you got the whole thing on video because you're a stuttering autist and she's a damsel in distress. Fuck police, too.
I want a bright and sunny white gf but I'm a ricecel autist. What do?
>>83504953Same thing happened to me. I think they go after us because we're easy targets. It all makes sense when you realize they get off on the highs and lows. They don't want to be happy.
>>83504996thats so scary. sorry that happened to you anon. i hope u can recover and find happiness.
If you're a blonde BPD white girl hmu. I'll make you daddy's little fucktoy =)
>>83502975I check pretty much every box, I'm one of the most obviously autistic people you'll ever meet. So much so that when I was in a public space when I was younger, a doctor literally came straight up to my parents and asked if I was autistic because of how apparent it was. Sensory issues (sound and smell namely, hate loud noises and strong scents), many hyperfixations/"special interests", always speaking too quietly, stimming, the fact that I mask my stimming around others (only told my mother that I do it after 22 years of life on this earth), always avoiding eye contact, feel very drained if constantly put in social settings to the point where I'm unsure if I can even function in society, etc. For me though personal 1 on 1 interactions feel a lot different than being around 20 people at once. It's that kind of socialisation that fucks with me the most, with trusted people I can be pretty talkative on the other hand.
I'm Autistic and also probably have BPD and I have had nothing but bad experiences with people with BPD, especially women. Genuinely some of the worst people I've ever met had the condition. If that makes me a hypocrite, so be it. I'd much rather date a fellow autistic or someone with ADHD.
BPD's have geuine attachment to their boytoys, right? It seems to me they at least feel strong emotions for whoever they're with, but self-sabotage because of their mood swings. This unironically seems like a step above something like a typical marriage where it's just about beta buxxing
>>83505425I think it's more that they have an attachment to the fantasy of you. They have an idealized version of you in their head that will make their life magically better.When things start requiring effort, and they realize you aren't perfect, they dip.It's like female brain x100
>>83503775>I work in the field>kill yourself for having a different opinion>it's all ineffective bsdamn you're the living proof dude.
>>83503835Agree, sounds like he's lying to me.
>>83504915Exactly, all the good parts weren't real in the first place, it all meant nothing to her.
I went from the happiest I've ever been to a suicide risk in the span of a few minutes, and I've only been getting worse as time goes on.It's insane to be that humans are even capable of doing this to each other. How can you spend months getting close to someone only to abandon them in an instant?
It's disturbing that I relate so well to here
>>83505453>It's like female brain x100Does this mean BPDemons are peak women?
>>83486364Passive male/Projective femaleStop being a passive male and projective females won't notice you at all.
>>83504689Being grossed out by eating pussy is a 100% normie/DJ Khaled type of trait. There is nothing that engages my autistic neurons more than the idea of being buried face-first in the sloppiest pussy imaginable.In fact, if I was being executed by the state, and I had the ultimate choice of execution method, it would be being literally smothered to death by pussy.>>83504764Then I'm gonna surprise bite her cunt a few times, as punishment.
>>83506879Yeah, which is also why it seems nice with them at the beginning, and then you end up hating all women at the end kek.Performatice, unstable, irrational, and dependent.
>>83506879>Does this mean BPDemons are peak women?If they were peak then they'd actually be able to manipulate me into falling in love. I want a cute girl or BPDemon to try and take my free will desu
>>83504689Yes, autistic boys aren't allowed to use their peepee so they have to learn to derive pleasure from giving oral.
call me a schizo but i think the majority of bpd girls are misdiagnosed sociopaths
>>83504689I would eat you out until my tongue looked like a raisin but I dont want to eat the poopoo
>>83488513Your way of using language and description of yourself leads me to believe that you are on the schizophrenia spectrum.
>>83488784Sex is the BPDemons number 1 weapon and it works every time to lure men in. She isnt good at sex for no reason autists, she's had a lot of practice before you came along. And one thing they all learn is that male thinking equates sex with love.No you dont really love her or her shit personality. I ou love the way she occasionally makes your pecker feel good. Because someone who actually loves you doesn't cheat on you, or insult you for no good reason, or throw temper tantrums at you, or make unreasonable demands of you, or hurt you because they were having a bad day.
>>83507219>Yes, autistic boys aren't allowed to use their peepee so they have to learn to derive pleasure from giving oral.I'm not into the whole cringe BDSM thing, but giving oral to a girl I like just naturally seems like the hottest thing the world to me.I could do it for hours on end without getting tired of it. I basically don't think I could be satisfied in a relationship where I don't get to do it all the time.Wild to me that there are men who feel differently.
>>83486364the b in bpd stands for baddie thats why kek
>>83495010A noble attempt but sadly a wasted effort. If BPDemons were capable of self reflection and accountability they wouldn't be mentally ill. They cant take accountability because it is simply too painful for their ego. If they had to admit that the long history of things they have done and the self sabotage and hurt they have caused other people was even partially their fault they would crumble under the combined weight of their sins.
>>83497633And yet neither worked out in the end because when all is said and done it doesn't matter if you treat them like shit or like a princess because they always without fail end up sabotaging themselves.
>>83486364non-autists can detect bpd and avoid it
I miss my girlfriend...
I want to kidnap a BPDemon and fuck her brains out until she's slavishly devoted and obsessed with me.
>>83507951That's because you're autistic and innately know your natural role without having to be performative about it.
You will never get between an autist's and BPDemon's love. They're fated for one another.
>>83508454She likely doesn't miss you man. Don't give her any more of your energy.
>>83505005Get a ton of plastic surgery and become a K-pop star.
>>83509185>They're fated for one another.amen, I love them so much
Where did you ASD kings find your BPD queens anyway?Only BPD gf I've ever had, I met through a mutual FB friend like a decade ago. I added her and tried flirting but she seemed bored (because I'm an autist trying to flirt, duh) so I gave up. Fast forward a few months and I randomly got drunk one day (which I seldom do) and just decided to message her, saying I thought she was really cute and that I spanked it to her profile picture. I didn't really expect something so crude and cringey to work, but it did... she basically threw herself at me from that moment. Best and worst year of my life.(I picked the picrel middle path btw... no political rambling from me, just unprompted TED talks about the history of tank design!)
>>83510392You prob just have to get lucky. I think some girls advertise themselves as BPD, but not as commonly as other mental illnesses.
>>83510392/soc/, and I regret it bigly. Dating her felt like what an Asian elephant goes through during the Phajaan.
>>83510392funny that i was tempted to go down both the right and left paths, but ended up going down straight the middle. it doesn't feel like you lose when you nerdmaxx
>>83511235Fuck. Sounds like you have a story to tell.
>>83510392One of the general threads here.
>>83511207>PhajaanRegret looking this up, what the fuck? Also, how far did you get with your BPD? Was it just e-dating? Did you guys meet in person?
Not dating but I had a BPD girl bother me for around a year (which she also got her friends to as well), all because I didn't want to talk to her anymore.
How do you guys find your bpdemons? I'm autistic and they never seem to go for me, even on soc, let alone IRL. Is it because I've learned to mask it? Does ADHD change the dynamic? Is it NPD?
>>83512802Have you tried making yourself look submissive and breedable?
>>83512802All the bpdemons I've known recently found me here. They replied to me, or I to them (not knowing they were a bpdemon), and then they just latched on for inscrutable reasons. When I go looking for one I never find any. Even IRL it was always them deciding they liked me and just grabbing me. I love them dearly and I wish it was easier to find them or keep them around.
Question for the robots still yearning for a BPD after either having or reading about previous bad experiences, what keeps you interested or from getting burned out from these women? All the issues and mental instability aside, it seems like all relationships with a BPD plays out the same; intense affection that's followed up by tantrums and abuse. There's really no endgame with any of these girls.
>>83513515None of that stuff bothers me. It's actually easier for me to deal with the freak outs and instability than normal day to day interactions.
>>83513515>what keeps you interested or from getting burned out from these women?The truth is she trained me too well. Two months later I'm still pining for her after she left. She was a good owner before she did...
>>83513564>ownerBeing a sub for a bpd girl is some next level masochism
>>83513515If it wasn't for the cute BPDemon with fat pierced goth girl tiddies that gave me a chance to touch pussy for a few months, way back years ago, I'd be dying a virgin for sure. For a lot of us it really is that simple. At this point I would literally flip that No Country For Old Men Coin, if one side of it was "touch pussy again ever".
>>83513515The intense affection and sudden closeness is too good
>>83513558Not even how temporary or fragile the relationship is? I dunno, commitment seems to not be a word in the dictionary of these gals.
Just need this question answered because I'm ashamed to say I am considering the BPDemon route. Probably a stupid question but is EVERY single one ran through/former whore or current whore? If so I am not interested.
>>83513807NTA but commitment is dead in the US at this point so no reason to even factor it in. I'm looking at this as "might as well get something fun out of this endeavor"Really I just want to experience intimacy and sex, I'm already pushing 30 man and my life situation is not looking like it will get better lol.
>>83513807I don't mind that part. I'm used to it. When they want to leave, they can. If they decide to stay, that's ok too. I'm not a normal person and a lot of things that are wrong with me just happen to make bpd people very tolerable to me.
>>83513845Kinda same, I think I'm used to people having insane behavior and outbursts that it won't phase me much. If anything I'm broken enough that I could find some enjoyment in the push/pullOr maybe not, maybe I'm full of shit
>>83513866I think the hard part for most people is the instability of the relationship. Going from "I love you forever" to "I hate you die" gives whiplash. When it's bad, it's really bad. A lot of personal attacks, really vicious stuff. They sometimes make their problems your problem and expect you to solve it. If you're good with that, then yeah you might enjoy it. They're not all like that by the way, most of them are very reasonable. The bad days can be very bad though and the ones that don't try to reign themselves in, make no effort with treatment, they can be very bad all the time. Nonstop attacks, self harm, suicide threats, in and out of the hospital, infidelity, breaking up with you then coming back just to repeat the process. It gets old fast for most people.
>>83513903Probably avoid mentioning little if any personal details and for me my line is infidelity, cheat and I'm gone.Is this something to mention to them or just something you do when it happens?
>>83513810>but is EVERY single one ran through/former whore or current whore?>If so I am not interested OHHHHHHH BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOYYou're not going to like the answer to this one
>>83513932Lmaoooo I figured but still wanted to ask just in case. Wanted to think maybe there are some that aren't whores for whatever reason.So there really are no options for aspies
>>83513919Avoiding personal details makes connecting difficult and they're going to notice that aren't sharing information about your life. Infidelity isn't a planned thing. They get extremely upset and cheat on you because they think you deserve it or they think you're leaving (or think they want you to leave). If you tell them infidelity is your red line, they'll probably agree and say that they would never cheat because in that moment of course they would never cheat. But the moment passes and now they're angry or scared and cheating suddenly makes a lot of sense, so they do it. That's kind of the worst case scenario though. Like I said, most of them are very reasonable and in control of themselves. It's the worst off ones that cause all the bpdemon stories.
>>83513948Are there ways to single out the "good ones"? Or is it all just a crap shoot? I say I wouldn't want to say too much about myself because then it can be used against me and that's a precaution I have to take for various reasons I don't want to bore you with.
>>83513823You know what? Fair; I understand that sentiment to some degree. I also don't have see some grander purpose in my life, relationships included, and just live for simple pleasures, pretty much. Still, BPDs sound annoying on paper, but maybe I would fold if I happened to come across one willing to show me affection.
>>83513956I've already had one throw themselves at me after something with their former fiance, was into it until she posted about fucking a stranger and I noped out.Still, pretty fascinating seeing how they will literally throw themselves at people to even bordering on sexual harassment. I will thank her for at the very least giving me a crumb of validation, if only the infidelity or potential for it wasn't there lol.
>>83513954>Are there ways to single out the "good ones"?Yeah but I can't explain it well. I can usually tell within an hour of talking to one how stable they are. The more magnified they seem the less stable they are, probably. If they're instantly saying things like "you're exactly what I need" or "I could love someone like you" or sending nudes/initiating sex right off the bat, they're probably not stable. Fresh self harm means unstable, old self harm doesn't mean much. If they straight up tell you that they're going to hurt you, trust them. If you get a bad vibe, trust it.
>>83513810>is EVERY single one ran through/former whore or current whore?it kind of depends on your threshold for whore. if it's like 100+ actual sexual partners then not necessarily, there are some who just go through a series of ill-fated relationships and don't rack up a super high bodycount. but stuff like whoring herself out online regularly for attention? yeah they all do that. there's also the ones that end up as trans-men or claim to be asexual, etc., so those may also not fit the usual whore stereotype>>83513903>Going from "I love you forever" to "I hate you die" gives whiplash. When it's bad, it's really bad. A lot of personal attacks, really vicious stuff. I think I could deal with toxicity, but getting ignored for months out of the blue for no reason (just quiet bpd things) is something I can't handle. >>83513954>Are there ways to single out the "good ones"?They're only the good ones because they're good at pretending to be the good ones.
>>83514019>getting ignored for months out of the blue for no reasonThe only time that's ever happened to me we had an agreement in place beforehand that it was fine for either of us to do that
>>83514019>I think I could deal with toxicity, but getting ignored for months out of the blue for no reason (just quiet bpd things) is something I can't handle.Yeah the silence would have me really anxious, it's just a bunch of "I don't know" happening
>>83504953>Basically she was a false accuseroh shit, these are always the craziestknowing they can't be truly happy or fulfilled is a good takeaway. they live tortured existences which is why they must torture others.
>>83503034Very true, if you double think, dont.Just go for it and be the pervert ypu never dared to be.Best partner i ever had as an autist.No need to doubt, just be.
