If I insist that the only way I'll ever lose my virginity to my future bf is if I tie him up completely and ride the shit out of him. Is that too bizarre, or acceptable? I'll be too scared to do it otherwise.
>>83486623I would be ok with it, too bad you're a man
make sure hes been on nofap for a couple weeks first and has a huge load saved up for you. sperm has hormones and chemicals in it that help relax you and make you feel good so extract as much as you can
>>83486726As someone who just went 2 weeks without cumming this is true it felt great to finally coom
>>83486726That sounds cute. Teasing him throughout the day. Rewarding him with cuddles during the night, reminding him that our day is getting closer and closer. Giving him gentle kisses throughout his body through his shirt, and watching him shake from them from the stimulation deprivation. Sounds adorable! I'll definitely do this <3
>>83486756my ex used to tease me for 2 weeks before allowing me to cum, god I miss her
>>83486623Experienced basically the same thing with a fembot off here, ironically enough
>>83486623That's hot. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who would enjoy that.
make sure to choke him too btw
>>83486814I would ask him if he likes it first, but definitely if he does. I'd also ask him for any other favorite fantasies he has so I can include them in our first time too. Except manhandling me, cause only I'll get to roughhouse him like that :9
>>83486864an older girl didn't ask me first and i learned getting beaten during sex is a fetish i didn't know i had
>>83486899hmm..well then I'll do it with enthusiasm, but save it for after our first time. I think he deserves to have that one be more tender lovin' before we add extra onto it. Get each other used to our bodies.
>>83486916have fun anon most guys deep down love a dominant girl who dotes on them
>>83486935I'm curious anon--what physical aesthetics should I go for to attract a relationship like this? I'm a tomboy, which is how I'm comfortable being, but that's not really been working out for me. Goth seems like the stereotypical choice, but perhaps that's just a pop culture thing. What do you think? Genuine question. I don't want to die alone out of fearing and hiding my body.
>>83486756While waiting for the actual sex, you should make him go down on you reglarly.
>>83486975honestly keep the tomboy aesthetic but simultaneously doll yourself up with a little bit of foundation/blush and simple eyelinerI knew a girl who pulled off that look and she would make me occasionally freeze up with how cute she was just smiling at me or hanging out with her. idk how to explain it properly but accentuating your facial features with makeup while still having the slight masculine look of tomboys will land you a bf i guarantee. Plus its like 1/10th the effort of going goth so if it doesn't workout for whatever reason you basically wasted no time or energy comparatively
>>83486975Every man is different, personally I really like bangs and a haircut like pic rel.If he's attracted to you and you are assertive then you will change his mind and become his ideal even if he's never liked girls like you.What about the man? What are you looking for? I am a tall skelly and I dream of a woman taking the lead, teasing and controling me, and passionately deflowering me.
Make sure to tie up his hips so he can't thrust into you at all and is completely at the mercy of your riding and your pace, this will drive him crazy
We like that. Being tied up and aggressively ridden is more than acceptable. My dick twitched a little thinking about it. I think a man would have to be insane not to see the appeal.As far as losing your virginity goes, obviously do whatever's comfortable for you and don't feel pressured to achieve a specific outcome. If you like riding a dildo and you're already good at it, it's a pretty easy transition to just use your boyfriend's dick as the dildo. But if you're legit doing the riding itself for the first time, maybe as few variables as possible. Women legitimately have to work themselves up to it sometimes. (You can just have one knee up and rest the other, by the way. You don't have to squat on the dick or twerk on it. You can, of course. That's the GOOD shit. But you can just do what doesn't tire you out.) I do think that if you're legit too scared to put his dick in you unless he's restrained you should probably work on that, but hey, whatever. Cowgirl dick-riding your tied-up boyfriend is probably a pretty benign and honestly a perfectly healthy manifestation of whatever hangup you have. But yeah, I think it's more than acceptable for most guys and I don't think it's really that bizarre, either. It just sounds nice.
