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Have you ever ghosted a foid? If yes, why? What's the story?
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>>83487609
Are you her? If so, heres why: You weren't true.
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a few once i learned they weren't into me sexually so i didn't see the point of maintaining the friendship
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>>83487616
What letter does her name start with?
You mean she was too good to be true?
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>>83487625
They told you? Or did they ignore all advances?
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>>83487609
I don't have the energy to deal with romantic interest from a girl. If I start noticing flirting, I disappear. simple as.
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>What's the story?
She triggered my avoidant attachment, it's always the same
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>>83487648
kek yeah
I can try to make excuses, but at the end of the day it's just this
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>>83487648
Is it different from disinterest?
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>>83487635
no im just p good on picking up on it
ive chased girls who have rejected me before because they still have shown signs of considering it which works 11/10 times but i know when a girl is just flat out not into me so i just dip to save us both the drama
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>>83487609
>Have you ever ghosted a foid?
yes, multiple foids from /r9k/ and /soc/
>why? What's the story?
all of them had boyfriends or very close male friends, and none of them were virgin.
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>>83487609
my grandma is an foid
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no i message her every hour until she either replies or i have a neurotic breakdown and leave a massive wall of text explaining why i think she's a bad person for playing weird social games and then remove her and hope she will re-add me and apologize
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>>83487609
several

ghosted one earlier this year, because she was a morbidly obese retarded pig. had a crashout over me making a joking about the jews, while we were playing overwatch. she was also surprisingly asian too.

blocked her and she was mad seething.

a few months later, I blocked another for showing signs of BPD, the then-foid had an interest in getting tattoos, dyed hair, piercings etc.
grossed me out too much, so I ghosted her over time while upgrading to another nonvirgin, non BPD girl.

current gf was a nonvirgin when I met her, also non-bpd, and she hates kikes too.

women will play gay little mind games with you, and try to keep you hanging by a thread all the time for their attention. their entire world collapses, when you instantly replace them and ignore them.

this is rather commonly the case, even with niche microceleb foids online too. I've seen so many niche e-famous foids go through several bfs in a single year, have a mental breakdown in private revealing their true self. where they admit how much of a terrible disgusting person they are, going through guys like tissue paper within the span of 6 months jej.

the foids off this board are probably more worthy, of being ghosted compared to the normie ones at least.

I've met some real creatures here within the past several years.
like unironic obese pigs, engaging in hypergamy, multiple bodies, all claimed to have BPD, average to below average looking, cheating on their bfs with younger guys or they have kids even. like, LOL gross.

its funny watching foids gigaseethe once you ghost them for being cunts, before they could do it to you.

a general rule of thumb when talking to foids, is you should always avoid nonvirgin girls, pickmes, girls who easily date other people, women who have multiple male friends, dyed hair etc.

don't kid yourself twice, the majority of women are trash. but that doesn't mean you should hate them, they just simply exist.
it's a meh situation at the end of the day.
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The funny part about men is they always come crawling back. No sweeter feeling than when a men "ghosts" as a breakup then slinks back with an apology. Wasn't so fun by yourself huh? Too bad not replying
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>>83488244
*meant to say gf was a virgin when I met her
i barely had any sleep, don't blame me bruh!
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>>83487609
Have never had a foid friend but I regularly treat foids outside my family as invisible unless I have to interact with them as part of my job.
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>>83487609
Yeah, I have. Um, I was on an online dating app and I kinda lost my enthusiasm. That's it, that's the story.
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>>83487609
yeah around 2017 or so I ghosted a black fembot
she was nice but seemed a bit too into me and it sort of freaked me out and then I started to imagine what it would be like to start a family with her and I noped the fuck out
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A few
>fat/black
>doesn't reply as often as I want
>ethot server owner
>shit tastes
>already in some sort of situationship and wasn't clear about it
Each one of those gave me the ick
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>>83488301
>black fembot
yo, stop
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>>83487609
>add woman from soc in my area
>profile pic is a woman in lingerie showing her cleavage
>she says hi
>ignores her
I don't want to talk to a slut
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>>83488372
Men just be putting themselves in these situations to finally have a chance to "reject". You know every woman on /soc/ is there for just one thing you aren't retarded... are you
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>>83488385
I'm an outlier on r9k, and I was trying to find an outlier on soc. Interpret that however you like.
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>>83488411
Male delusion is a hell of a drug
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>>83487609
>Have you ever ghosted a foid? If yes, why? What's the story?
She was 11 who told me of her hooking up with randoms. She always wanted to hook up with me and I said no. Shes a 32 yr old now single mother and wants a relationship with me, basically to be the father figure for her kids and fuck her. Nope.
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>>83487609
No, I'm not an asshole. But I have not engaged with a couple and they got the hint I wasn't interested
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>>83487609
Yes becsuse I didn't know what to say to her. You see, I have the tism.
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She moved away. We were friends only. Didn't want to eat up her time with the hours of conversation we'd have, so just stopped talking to her. She'd probably answer immediately if I sent her a text
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>>83488614
>Male delusion is a hell of a drug
Ok
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I'm a foid and I got ghosted by two men i was deeply attached to, one was a 23 year old british man I met in a private fren discord server and another I met from soc two years ago. I was too obsessive and clingy so they blocked me and never talked to me again.

(Yes I'm that infamous Latina r9k user)

One never browsed 4chan b4 so I know he didn't hate me because of the 4chan hate I receive. It was just because I was too obsessive and intrusive towards them.

The only times I got ghosted by men was when I deeply cared about them and did want them in my life forever so I guess the right action is to not care
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>>83487949
when you realize your grandma is AN FOID
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>>83488743
sub 5 grannycel tries rizzing up her chadlite grandson.

little did she know, her grandson is stone cold.
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Yeah, I ghosted an eleven-year "friendship" of mine because it was obvious she didn't value me or my company. I went from being the one person who would always pick up at 2 AM to being somebody she'll never see or hear from again.
We had a falling-out years prior and made up afterward, but I guess she must have traumadumped to all her other friends, because they never stopped thinking of me as scum. So naturally they get to attend her wedding but not me. It's supposed to be a joyous day, too, and we don't want me ruining that for them, it'd be uncomfortable to have me around, and besides, it's her hubby's big day, too. Gotcha. Guess he apparently doesn't like me, either, which is fucking news to me. Believe me, I don't intend to rain on anyone's parade.
I suppose it'd be easy to assume that maybe I just really overinflated how much she cared. But there are only 24 hours in a day. So if we're spending 6 hours on the phone together every other day, hanging up only to charge the phone or eat, and then calling each other again to talk until sunrise 3-4 times a week, what time did she even have to chat with them? I dunno.
In any case, it's over. I hope my friendship was every bit as cheap and replaceable as she thinks it was.
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>>83488843
Sounds like she was just waiting for you to realize it was over yourself because she was scared of your spergout
Alternatively some toxic normalfag groups thrive on having a whipping boy so you were disliked but also a functional part of the group
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>>83488866
>spergout
There was none. There wasn't even a read message. Just silence. I congratulated her sincerely and then just never answered the phone for her again and left her on delivered. Coming up on year 2 of it.
>Alternatively some toxic normalfag groups thrive on having a whipping boy so you were disliked but also a functional part of the group
Could be. I really do think that she slandered the fuck out of me to them and that's why it'd be awkward to have us in the same room together. But "the group" wasn't even a thing anymore. She was the only one I kept talking to from "the group."
Why so desperate to get ahold of someone if they're earnestly disliked, though? Good riddance, right? Why the phone calls and the texts back to back at midnight?
I dunno, dude. I sincerely regret every second of it wasted, though. All of that should have been given to someone else. Anyone else. It would have been better to spend it playing fucking PUBG or some shit.
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>>83488843
your biggest mistake was talking to a girl who was already dating someone.

even if you don't have feelings for her, that single point of failure (being her hubby/friends). would always remains a possibility for you.

one slightest event of dead air between you guys, and you will be systematically removed from her life by proxy from the other people in her life. manipulation plays a huge factor into this.

the fact that you guys used to religiously stay on call everyday for several hours, is also a HUGE red flag in itself. you're obviously not the only person she's done this with.
calling with a female friend until sunrise, is something you do when you're young and naive; and your best friend is a female with borderline personality disorder.

it's an utter waste of time man, at least you're aware about that.
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>>83487609
yes all of them except one

i get off on turning women on, but the horniest ones are too annoying, and the normal ones cant ever make it more than a week before trying to weedle in commitment talk, at which point I'll either ghost or start asking why they're worth a relationship, which usually causes their own ghosting, insecurity, lashing out etc

entitlement is disgusting to me, and virtually all women attractive enough to make my pee pee budge have it
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>>83488972
>one slightest event of dead air between you guys, and you will be systematically removed from her life by proxy from the other people in her life. manipulation plays a huge factor into this.
Holy shit, you actually put this behavior into words.
>it's an utter waste of time man, at least you're aware about that.
Any zoomer or gen alpha dude I warn about this is STILL gonna waste their breath like I did.
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>>83488843
>So if we're spending 6 hours on the phone together every other day, hanging up only to charge the phone or eat, and then calling each other again to talk until sunrise 3-4 times
..was she doing this when she had a boyfriend?
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>>83488990
Its basically the Patrice O'Neal joke played out irl. The average woman today perceives herself as a series of valuable holes when dating men, and is absolutely confounded when asked to provide value without them.
Its mens fault because the coomers will always grant validation and attention to even the most horrendous slampigs, but women should pretty clearly understand that they will never be as interesting, funny, or relatable as some random neckbeard you met on a game.
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>>83487609
i ghosted one in 10th grade, i was watching a sick sylvestor stalone movie, the one where he bombs car and places, somehow one of my female classmate got my number, and kept texting me asking me about my friend, even though she already had his number, she kept asking me inane shit.
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>>83489033
Yeah. And yeah, it would drive me nuts if I had a girlfriend and she did that with another guy. I know. Believe me, my dumb ass knew it was weird, too.
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>>83487609
I love ghosting women from dating apps because they treat men as disposable so now I do too.

When will bitches realize they are the reason why men hate them
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>>83489190
based, i was a fat ugly retard through most of my early years and now, as a buff, handsome retard it's like the entire appeal of a woman vanishes the moment she falls for you. Younger me was working so hard for the attention and validation of people that have worse personalities than middle school boys.
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>>83489280
I bet you are still ugly
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>>83487609
YEAH A BUNCH OF THEM
USUALLY I JUST FORGET TO TALK TO THEM AND THEY NEVER SEND ANYTHING SO I JUST FORGET ABOUT THEM AND LIFE GOES ON
THAT'S IT REALLY
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>>83489190
when will moids realise they are the reason we hate them
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>>83490073
women cant find contentment in life, they arent wired for it
who cares if they're upset with you? meaningless drop in the pool of their miserable psyches
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>>83487609
Sort of ghosted a couple who were talking to me on Discord, we had only chatted once or twice before though. Nothing major, one was too mentally ill (outright schizo with a history of violence) and I ended up going for another, another one was a smoker and that's too gross. Always ghost smokers, I regret the only time I didn't.
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>>83487609
I have ghosted some. One was pushing to trade pics within the first few messages and didn't like that I said to wait. Too aggro for me, ghosted her. One was sending multiple emails (back in the stone age) in succession if I didn't respond fast enough, which would be ok if we knew each other better but this was right off the bat and something about her personality seemed really hard to deal with. Felt bad ghosting her because she seemed like she really needed a friend but I'm not masochistic enough for that.
I don't usually ghost though. Only happens if they're really pushing hard when I tell them to back off. I've stuck around for some real insane shit.
>t. bpd girl enjoyer
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Yeah. They were a weird they/them who unironically pumped my ass with a dildo after I plapped them. I acted like we were a thing, considering that I let them stretch my asshole out, and they freaked out said we weren't serious like that and that I needed to learn boundaries. I dropped them, they spent the next few weeks panic spamming my contacts but I knew it was never going to work out because of their bizarre behavior.
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>>83489153
TRvke i witnessed that
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>>83487673
It's more like bone-chilling fear
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Yes, I'm a serial ghoster I'm in my early 30s. Over the course of years, since when I was like 18, I've been flirting and sexting with hundreds of women and girls that I've met on various dating apps/chat apps/social media, including the underage ones (15yo is an age of consent in my country). I've been in what some might call an "e-relationship" with some of them, although I never saw them as one. I ghosted every single one of them. I never was in a real ("physical") relationship.

Nobody irl knows about it, everybody (my family and the few good friends I have) see me as a kind, although shy and introverted person. They have no idea what kind of monster I am.
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>>83490116
Wow, she lost a golden anon. You deserve better than someone who toys with you like that (not in the literal sense).
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>>83487609
We met off this board but she raped me so I ended up ghosting her
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>>83490595
Yeah I was down for pretty much anything since I'm bisexual. They were pretty cool and we resonated with each other really well. It was a pretty big disappointment.
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yeah. my one fckn itis ghosted + blocked me. i am too powerful for ts worlds.
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>>83487609
yes, i ghosted her for a while because i didn't know how act; i had mixed feelings about her. she realized i ghosted her because i changed my name, found out, and i was very upset i did that. i felt bad because she was nice but troubled girl. glad she got off the internet and realized she could fix her life. if i could go back, i wouldn't have done what i did and been honest (which i do now). she even offered me to stay at her place in her state.
>inb4 anons call me retarded
she was overweight/obese, i wasn't interested very much sexually. maybe i could have abused her, but i wasn't interested in that either because i am not evil. talked to her because we shared music interests. i'm a retard
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>>83490930
i was using a different account to bypass account restrictions, but i never added her on my new account. i even interacted with her for a while under the new one without telling her it was me. she was very upset, understandably. why i did it? idk, i'm a sperg
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>>83488250
noticing that the majority of men are desperate is not a flex or a reflection on you
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>>83487609
A few actually. Story? There isn't much of a story...
>They start behaving shitty
>Tell them to stop
>They crash out
>Ghost
or
>Clearly thinks I am something I am not
>Mentions some virtue signalling shit that disgusts me and gives me the ick
>Stop replying

There isn't any story.
Guys aren't like girls.
When we ghost it's cause you are gonna start problems and we want out.
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>>83491053
That image is basically how Resident evil 4 ended, yeah. Leon is the biggest chad in game history.
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yes. idk why i just get tired of talking
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>>83487609
Of course not. I've never ghosted a woman, because I've never talked to one to begin with.
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>>83487609
>>why?
she was ugly, hideous and disgusting to look at.
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Yeah when I took off my blinders and realized I was just being used as an emotional tampon.
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>>83491470
so um, not even your own mother?



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